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Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Logan95: 4:30pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
FrLukas: She's taking carzepin and it's managed 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by MISTAICEY02288(m): 4:41pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Logan95: Oh okay then. It's good you have apologized to her for your wrong as i earlier said. Like I also said, stop beating yourself up about this. If she truly wanna make things work, she'll create time to talk and sort things out with you. But still on still, always keep in mind to go into relationship with ya head alongside your heart. Enough said! And as for her seizures, does it happen often? Is it epilepsy or what and how has she been managing it... Seizures is a serious health problem ooo and i actually feel for her... 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Logan95: 4:59pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
MISTAICEY02288: Thanks man. Her seizures is triggered by stress, emotions and fear. It's sometimes worse during her period. It happens often and it's usually mild like leg and hand shaking and total disconnection from the real world for like 2 to 5 mins. The major seizures happen like once in 4 to 6 months, she loses consciousness totally and it's an emergency she's usually hospitalized but this happens when she misses her medication. She has depression tendencies so I always praise and flatter her because the condition makes her avoid people and she loses her self esteem. I'm happy you understand seizures, the guys up there that suggests she's faking it.... It's ridiculous. With her she never fakes it and she crys anytime she regains consciousness. I'm usually send less with girls but my girls own is very delicate. 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Taywon: 5:02pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Op u are not smart enough..... Just a conversation and u jumped into conclusion... I tire 4 u ooo.... Even if u catch a 9ja babe red handed she go nearly deny... U wey suppose play along.... Now u don almost lose the pot and the stew.... My ex cheated, she neva realise i knew till date.... Na small small i use discharge her.... Reduced the calls, form busy... Nobody tell am say its over.... If i see her tomorrow i fit still chop her stew... Wisdom is d principal thing.... For the record no Girl is honest, they are all Opportunist... Once she find someone with comparative advantage she leaves 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Logan95: Ok. But you should stop stressing that babe. The likelihood that she'll cheat on you is low. A girl with epilepsy ordinarily wouldn't want her situation public knowledge, so hopping from bed to bed is not likely. Seek her out and have a heart to heart with her. Let her know your insecurities as per infidelity. She sounds like a good woman. Try and make it work...and rest your suspicions in the grave of trust. 39 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Truth is she's considering other options ahbi she has been considering other options what you did was just the final touch do remember that you once had nothing with her too before you guys started a relationship it takes as little as a sad song or mood or love song to ignite feelings and thoughts for just a guy my advice to you is that you woo her back once again just like the first time you guys met if it doesn't work then only God can save you 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by MISTAICEY02288(m): 5:34pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Logan95: Hmmm that sucks! Well i would say you should keep doing what you do to help her.. You have to help her build her confidence and not to feel less of herself because of the condition. I totally understand that feeling. Buh keep letting her know that her condition doesn't make her less of a human and she shouldn't always feel terrible about it and that she'll be fine. She should also get some medication that helps for it too. I suggest she visit a Pharmacist for complaint. It's well... 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Bola146:must you girls compete with men? we are on another level guided by different rules 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by chigoizie7(m): 5:46pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
She is really scared. All that happened wasn’t because of the trust issues. She is only scared that you blew something that has no significance out of proportion. In her mind, you are only finding a flimsy excuse to break up with her because you can not stay with her based on her conditions. I know that wasn’t what you were thinking. But trust me, from the onset of that relationship, she already had it at the back of her mind that you will leave her , not because she is not a good person or beautiful enough to date , but because of her conditions, she already prepared her mind towards that and when you did what you did, she only saw it as an indicator. Brother, if you really want to be with her, go and get her. A friends younger brother was having same issues, but after a medical trip to India last year, it has stopped, this guys case is not responsive to drugs. Then my younger sister too, she do have seizures too. But she is married with three kids, the husband knew about it but it never stopped him from marrying her, and she got married at 22. Once I am back, I am arranging for her to go to India and get it sorted out. So bro, if you really love this girl, please go back and win her back. 54 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Catabolism(m): 5:46pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
What I want to Say? |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by MedicH: 5:47pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Bola146: Yea we know that. We also know who will lie and cheat because of money for hair. Don't quote me oo i just come back from work i never eat. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by MedicH: 5:49pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Taywon: Basic 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Logan95: 6:09pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
chigoizie7: Very encouraging. I want to see her win regardless. I can relate to the first paragraph because when we started she kept it away from me until it happened on night and I was sacred and almost rushing her to the hospital. She just took her drug and said it will stop. I later became over careful with her and she hated it and said I should treat her like a normal human being, that I seem scared of being with her and many guys have left. I will try to get her back because she appreciates my support when the communication was good. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by heskeyw(m): 7:00pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
;DAt the op, that girl is a jewel. Get her back. No mind all these alpha males ooo. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by chigoizie7(m): 7:18pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Logan95: Please do. Thank you so much. Since you really love her. Treat her like a normal human being that she is. Assure her that you do not want to leave, but make sure that you are truly not gonna leave, make sure that you truly love her. Treat her like a normal human, do not pity her, she needs her self confidence and self esteem intact, and you assuring her that she is normal is the only way she will get that. But if you keep treating her like she is an invalid, then she will start doubting herself. If you want to Bleep her, Bleep her well, with no pity. Offer to help her with her medications. Make sure she stick to the prescription. Since she stays with you, make it a point of duty that she eats well, make breakfast and dinner compulsory for her. With that, you can always hand her her medications after every meal. It does not kill. You can google it brother. It is not also contagious. Make her feel like a normal human. Go to her house, tell her that you ain’t leaving until she comes back to your house. When both of you are together, you can both conquer the world. Treat her nice and she will cherish you for the rest of her life, she will respect you and make sure you will lack nothing as long as she can help. But do not rub it on her face either. Do not tell her that you are helping her. Always make it seem like you are helping yourself and both her. Let her know that once she is happy, that you are happy, that whatever you are doing to make her happy is for your own happiness . But if you do not love her that much. Please let her go now. Stress is one of the things that triggers it. 42 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Logan95: 7:21pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
chigoizie7: Thanks man. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Bola146(f): 9:28pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
MedicH: good, we also know who will thief or do Yahoo because of weed . Don't quote me oo, I need to sleep 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Bola146(f): 9:29pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Lostz: Are you sure 1 Like |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Martinez39s(m): 9:34pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Davash222:Correct guy. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Belafonte(m): 10:06pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Logan95, a woman who is open to attention from admirers, gives them her contact details and constantly communicates with them is a woman with a very high cheating potential, just saying. Make of that what you will 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 10:06pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Logan95:Hmmmmm You are a man, the Real Man. You know when I opened the thread and read some comments my heark was broken and moved to tears, then I asked "are these posts really made by humans?" I couldn't imagine the level of cruelty displayed by some mentally disturbed individuals who were so daft enough to assume she faked her siezures.Does red pills take people's reasonings too? . At some point I intended to advice/suggest you let the poor lady be and face your fellow Alfa idi.ots holding their stupid meetings on this thread. But seeing your response to the sensible comments here I believe there's hope. Sir, your girl is going through a lot right now. The best you can give to her is peace of mind. Go to her, apologize and convince her that you made a mistake. Tell her you are sorry for not giving her a chance to explain herself but don't apologise for suspecting her wrongly ( she might think you are doing this out of pity i.e her condition) Let her know what you passed through with your ex, and your fear of it happening again. In fact tell her how scared you are to pass through it again or you losing her. This will restore some esteem that she's important to someone. If she insist on space, don't feel bad about it.Some things need time to build back but let her realize that it's her decision and not yours. The future of the relationship depends on her. Let her decide. But please Brother, if you ever overcome this situation, never accuse your woman just because you want to put her on her toes. It's very wrong to emotionally instigate people for no reason. Very callous thing to do to a fellow human. Very callous! 28 Likes |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Philomathhh(m): 10:14pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
I ended stuff with my boyfriend sometimes in April last year. At that point, things weren’t pretty alright between us, but I was ready to compromise for him ‘cause I couldn’t just do without him. I reconnected with him long after with the hope of being in his life even if we don’t get to tag what’s going on between us as “love”. But along the line, I realized that we were still feeling hurt from the initial break-up, and we couldn’t just move on, yet, we didn’t wanna get back together. After realizing this, I stopped responding to his messages and blocked him on social media. It was a tough decision to make, but I know it’s for the best. I haven’t heard from him for months, and realizing that hurts me a lot. A day doesn’t go by when I don’t think of him. Even if we don’t get to be together, I still want to be involved in his life, but then, I figured it’s not the best decision for the both of us. I have met few amazing guys after him, and as much as I don’t wanna compare them to him, I find it hard not to do so. Right now, he’s still the most smartest, honest and cutest man I have ever come across. I wish things were other way round for the both of us. I hope some day, when we are fully ready, we get back together and marry off immediately, and I hope he remains the “him” that I knew him to be. 4 Likes |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Love dey catch you but if that girl die of seizure in your apartment, na then you go know the difference between love and Iberibeism. A girl with such medical condition should not sleep over at your place unless she is your wife. This is the only advice I will give and as for your story, rewrite it when you're mature enough to keep a relationship. 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by ultimate77(m): 10:37pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Bola146:See them!! Is this all you've got in your quivers? Why not just use your brain effectively? Must you show us how pained you are? Girl, don't kill yourself on what isn't worth it. 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by ultimate77(m): 10:41pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
excessmon:From where in Nigeria did you draw your sample and conclusion? Respond to this and I'll tell you something. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by ultimate77(m): 10:44pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
keryj:But its a faceless forum. So pet him deal with whatever we say here. We are all imagining this scene and the story, @OP is the only one who knows the reality except if he has someone else who does on this platform too. That will make them two. Again I say "he writes and we imagine" shikena 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by ultimate77(m): 10:46pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Tallesty1:Every Nigga to his opinion. Since the ones he has met were never honest. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Davash222(m): 10:48pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Logan95:She came to your house looking unkempt?? Tiwa savage was looking like a sister in the Lord when she was granting interview against Tee billz. She was even crying. Women are naturally manipulative. Don’t love a woman out of pity. 15 Likes |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by excessmon(m): 10:56pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Fron the rubbish I read from them daily ultimate77: |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 12:08am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Logan95:please take her to a psychiatrist. They deal with epilepsy too, apart from mental illness. It is possible that her epilepsy can cause behavioral changes. Please try your best to help her. She needs medical attention. Don't mind these ignorant men, telling you never to trust her. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 12:14am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Focal seizures. Logan95: |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 12:43am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Logan95:its good you have acknowledged your error. In case of next time considering her situation know her to ask her questions without being confrontational or judgdemental. I pray she forgives you and you both grow strong |
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