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Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Happyguy201: 7:35am On Jan 27, 2020 |
[quote author=Banty6 post=86141693] Mr Perfect � [/quote your a stupid parent. |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by tstx(m): 7:35am On Jan 27, 2020 |
You can try, but you can't stop it
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Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by farady(m): 7:36am On Jan 27, 2020 |
You must realise your son has gone far tey! tey!! Take him out and have a heart to heart talk with him. You've got to connect with him very fast, be sincere, open, be frank and advise him on the consequences of not getting his priorities in life right. Tell him he is free to have friends, God fearing friends whether male or female and be free to invite them home sometimes. However, engaging in sex is no no. Tell him as a child of God, that is fornication...... Talk to him with love, get him to open up. Subsequently get him to break off from that relationship and any other. Draw him close, go other together more often and pray for him always. God will see you through. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Banty6: 7:36am On Jan 27, 2020 |
kurupt1: I’m supposed to write him letters when i go abroad? 4 Likes |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Banty6: 7:37am On Jan 27, 2020 |
[quote author=Happyguy201 post=86141726][/quote] Okay.. Happy now? |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by ProtectMyMoney: 7:39am On Jan 27, 2020 |
[te] Invite the Mia over to the house that way you get to meet your son's friend and give them some ground rules. Encourage openness aswell. Your son should be able to tell you anything. |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by YoungLionken(m): 7:39am On Jan 27, 2020 |
It's even a "son"and you're acting very worried, you should thank your stars that, the reverse is not the case here;i.e. You're not the parent of the girl who's probably in same age bracket with your son. Or your son isn't into gang,drugs ish. Myself as an example, I was already an elder in the cult I was in,while in sec school. I spent most of my outside school during school hours even when my parents were very strict. Thank God I realized myself quickly (not because of the strictness of my parents). Open communication is the key. Don't act like our parents,who thought we could be upright through severe beatings and punishments. Most of the miscreants;women of easy virtues,armed robbers,thugs, kidnappers, hooligans,etc in our society today,had/have better parents than us,when it comes to strictness and coercion,but the difference between us, when you compare with the aforementioned(as children to our parents, before and now) is clear. Talk things through with your son(the era of military system of training a child is gone). He needs orientation and enlightenment. No be by gragra (it's not by might). Selah!.. 4 Likes |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by MilesLamar(m): 7:39am On Jan 27, 2020 |
Ahhh, that's a sad one , looks like the Aunty is running down your company thru your son. Sorry ma 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by ignis: 7:46am On Jan 27, 2020 |
Like father like son |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by doremi123(f): 7:54am On Jan 27, 2020 |
At least your son is not gay 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by palmshots: 7:56am On Jan 27, 2020 |
Your Son understands the Game early.... Lol You shud be happy.... Just talk to him so he shudnt get carried away Btw! Do you guys live in Nigeria? |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by telkevog(m): 8:08am On Jan 27, 2020 |
Maybe he is replicating what you did to your parents 1 Like |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by NeoWanZaeed(m): 8:11am On Jan 27, 2020 |
That girl is probably olosho.. collecting money from your kid 1 Like |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by cruzydal(m): 8:12am On Jan 27, 2020 |
I can read a whole lot of rubbish comments here 16 he is very ready for a relationship, at 14 I already had a girlfriend .its not big deal , it’s just to caution him and Channel his mind to the right path ,also tell him to invite the girl maybe for lunch , eat with the both of them ask her questions and know the kind of person she is |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by uboma(m): 8:25am On Jan 27, 2020 |
kurupt1: Does one need a smart phone to send and receive SMS? Did you really read what the op posted at all? 1 Like |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Nobody: 8:26am On Jan 27, 2020 |
yenereal:I appreciate your comment even though am not the op. You will make a good parent. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Nobody: 8:26am On Jan 27, 2020 |
Tiffbuxas:Nice one too. 1 Like |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by OurBestWriter: 8:29am On Jan 27, 2020 |
From your post, I could deduce you're the typical African strict dad. Well, i commend you for that. However, that attitude worked many years ago, not today. You gotta let go! In today's world, you have to be a COOL dad. Your son is 16 years and there is nothing wrong with him having a girlfriend. Unless he is been taken advantage of by an older person. What you should do is get him some condoms and talk sex with him. Be a friend to your son, not just a dad. Your son can only communicate freely if he doesn't fear you. Fear doesn't do shits in bringing up a child. I know many folks who used that strategy and they are in a pitiable situation today. Be flexible man... If you choose to handle this issue via the typical African man way, you will only be accelerating the issue. Shalom! Banty6 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Thablownmindset: 8:41am On Jan 27, 2020 |
SangoOlukosoOba: haba am sure even yourself once troubled your parents |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Banty6: 8:43am On Jan 27, 2020 |
OurBestWriter: Thanks alot man 1 Like |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Banty6: 8:44am On Jan 27, 2020 |
cruzydal: Thanks alot my friend 1 Like |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Banty6: 8:44am On Jan 27, 2020 |
palmshots: Yes we live in Nigeria.. Lagos |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Nobody: 8:45am On Jan 27, 2020 |
I wouldn't say your son isn't of age for girlfriends and xhit, besides he uses an iPhone already.. my actual problem is that the said gf seems to be using him for money, sounds like she even have a kid. you gotta talk to him about that and the rest posters said, do about it gently. Days of strictness to one's kid are gone |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Banty6: 8:46am On Jan 27, 2020 |
YoungLionken: Thanks alot my friend 1 Like |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Kobicove(m): 8:52am On Jan 27, 2020 |
ziegurf: Please report him |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Nobody: 9:08am On Jan 27, 2020 |
While you have set out to do what’s exactly in your mind! There’s little influence one can exert over this matter. However; bear in mind that parents child communication is one aspects of parenting you mustn’t ignore. Do not spare the rod and spoil the child, Yuu also don’t want to drive the child away far from yuu with the rod! See, it’s imperative you begin to talk to him about his sexuality, trust me, he can’t get it anywhere better other than from Yuu his father. He’s your responsibility Yo! Don’t mess this up. Sex Education is one good movie to watch! |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 9:14am On Jan 27, 2020 |
I see nothing wrong with what he is doing. I started having sex at the age of 11 in 2010 and since then I have been enjoying it. Infact the lady that bleeped me was about 8 years older than me. Last year alone I had sex with about 25 different ladies. Just let the young dude enjoy himself. Life is too short abeg. |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by henrybomb(m): 9:20am On Jan 27, 2020 |
Forget those rubbish and shallow comments here For a teenager it is normal they want to explore and find out different things but if Mia is way older than he is then it is a problem. I think you have a conversation with him not scolding actually so that he will be more open to you. Tell him you would like to meet Mia and notice his reaction or probably scare him that you will speak to her by yourself. I think he finds it more easy to communicate with her and share almost everything thoughts with her... Just communicate with him properly |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by MZrapper(f): 9:27am On Jan 27, 2020 |
Mymynd4u: By your comment one can figure out your age. Anyway, the little boy being in a relationship should b the least of your problems. The bigger issue is the fact that he's being milked dry, how could the girl he's in a relationship with be dropping money at home? She is part of the bread winners and her source of finance is obviously this young chap. But you won't see this since the only thing people of your age think about is sex. |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Omoboricash(m): 9:38am On Jan 27, 2020 |
You have given distance with ur son. When I was growing up, my mum used to give me some advice that are still useful today. You need to talk to him heart to heart. Let him see danger in what's doing. When I was in secondary school my mum used to tell me, the moment u impregnate a girl, ur schooling stop. He's in theaters age bracket of having girl friend. You might just highlight some pros and cons of having affair at tender age. You should also see the girl in question, advice her and let her see reason why the sex should stop with ur son. Beaten up ur son may not solve the problem butt complicate the issues. |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Internet247(m): 9:40am On Jan 27, 2020 |
na talk go resolve the matter las las !! |
Re: I Went Through My Son’s Phone (see Screenshots) by Nobody: 9:49am On Jan 27, 2020 |
Low self esteem boy |
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