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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by healthserve(m): 7:58am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Palehair: Criticize when needed. We need to stop being combative about how we interpret information. The Nigerian combative psyche is the toxicity in itself it's the mould that interprets what gets feed into the mind. As you can see my energy has been calm all along. Me combative criticisms and pent-up energetic arguments ke, I've passed that bus stop 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by BRATISLAVA: 7:59am On Jan 30, 2020 |
luminouz: That's wonderful. In the population of the entire world you are the first one. Congratulations. Everyone else is assertive too, if that's what alpha male means. |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by BRATISLAVA: 8:02am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Jman06: Very true. Problem is that now everyone is redpilled. They are robots. People can't be people again otherwise they are called weak and beta. Power is not by oppressing others with your selfish agenda. Unfortunately, that is what modern men think it is. Narcissism is all that it is. 1 Like |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Palehair: 8:03am On Jan 30, 2020 |
healthserve:I did criticize when needed |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by BRATISLAVA: 8:05am On Jan 30, 2020 |
TonyeBarcanista: Why not accept that people have different temperaments? The idea that all men must be assertive and dominant is silly, because there are women born like that as well. Let people live their lives. If their relationships don't work out, they will find a way to live. This one size fits all for men is redundant. The thing you call an alpha male is simply a male choleric/extrovert narcissist psycho. There are females like that, too. So why make it a thing about gender superiority when it is just a natural tendency? Red pills have used testosterone to destroy male intellect. You people spend all day trying to manipulate things to your goals by putting on attitudes. You should see shrinks. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Omar09(m): 8:15am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Louisboy22: My definition of a real man is a man who knows the things in his control and those out of his control. He knows how to use those things in his control and made peace with those out of his control. Cc Martinez39s |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by OnyesomJ(m): 8:17am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Does it Help a Common Man Just Asking!! ![]() |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by tafabaloo(m): 8:21am On Jan 30, 2020 |
TonyeBarcanista: This guy you re back ! |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Rammycares(f): 8:22am On Jan 30, 2020 |
bukatyne:"well said " |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:23am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Samofamo:It depends on what makes you attractive to them. Is it your wealth? looks? status in the society? Or is it your classy personality? It depends bros |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:27am On Jan 30, 2020 |
DharnielDee:Samson never had opinion of his. He bowed to Delilah's manipulation 1 Like |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:32am On Jan 30, 2020 |
perez100:This is so wrong! Alpha males are perfect gentlemen but Beta Males are Mr Nice Guys. Being a dictator or terrorist doesn't necessarily mean one is an Alpha male. Granted that Alpha males are powerful but only deploy when necessary. Also, Alpha males make the best leaders because they lead with conviction and not for validation... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Omar09(m): 8:32am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Palehair: That is what we have been teaching. Most men for the fear of losing their girlfriend does not do things that will better their life. Always wanna please someone and that is not the definition of a man you want to visualize in your head. Like what was written, it didn't say do these or do that to be an alpha, instead it said put yourself first and your happiness before emotion or anyone.. These teachings are to make us men to go back to our original terrain which is "logic" and leave the emotional terrain for those it was built for. You can't perform in an environment you have not acquainted with before. Anyway all these are written and no one is forced to live by it. The more people don't live by it, the more we are positioned to getting what we want out of life without having issues. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Mkayfrenzy(m): 8:39am On Jan 30, 2020 |
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Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:43am On Jan 30, 2020 |
kodix:It is a fact that Beta males are puppets to their partners while Alpha males are leaders in their relationship. Puppets are like cowards, they have no opinion, they kill their own desires and standards, they always chase peace that they never get. Most sadly, they are never taken serious by their partners and other people in their lives because they are yes-men. As such, they are always disrespected and are UNAPPEALING to those they seek their validation from. But Alpha males? Irrespective of your opinion about them, they are true to themselves, are respected (even when People disagree with their opinion) and are never taken for granted. Their partners and those around them take them very serious and highly appealing. |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:48am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Palehair:Alpha male is a class of men that live to their convictions, perfect gentlemen that seek to build real connection rather than "Mr Nice Guys" that simply patronise those around them simply because of they need their validation. Alpha malerism doesn't set any standard or rules, it is simply, BE YOURSELF AND LIVE ACCORDING TO YOUR CONVICTION - Isn't that what the society needs? The society is filled with fake men that are puppets and is the reason behind platoria of collapsed relationship |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Omar09(m): 8:51am On Jan 30, 2020 |
healthserve: They are threatened by this alpha male thingy because it is against their form of lively hood. Imagine a world where there are no men to control, manipulate and all what not. How will they get to look exotic when they are not. How will they get to make their hair. @Palehair listen, this "alpha male" isn't only for relationships. You need to see men being rode on just to maintain a friendship that isn't yielding. On the part of the relationship, don't you get irritated when you are talking with a man and you ask him his favorite color and he tells you blue and then he asks you yours and you tell him pink and next thing you hear is, I like pink too? Or you don't eat fish, and you both goes to a restaurant to eat and you order a meat and you know he very much likes fish and he doesn't order his own fish instead he orders meat? I need your answers to these questions @Palehair. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:55am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Palehair:An Alpha male in toxic relationship take action to address the toxicity with aim of putting a stop of the toxicity or a stop to the relationship if it warrants that. He is not afraid to let go of any relationship that threatens his sanity. He is not afraid of facing conflict in relationship if that will lead to addressing the issue. Alpha males enjoy their relationship as they ensure they eliminate any threat to peace. They live fulfilled lives without regrets But Beta males in relationship are weak and afraid of addressing their partners toxicity. They are passive that they don't take action because they don't want the society or anyone to blame them for their action. Beta males sulk it up! They are usually afraid of conflict and are always seeking "peace" without addressing the source of the toxicity. Beta males are pretenders that live life of pains and regret! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by healthserve(m): 8:57am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Omar09: Well said. Some men won't understand till they fall victims and we read their sob tales online |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by healthserve(m): 8:59am On Jan 30, 2020 |
TonyeBarcanista: Beta males are under the control of their emotions and are slaves to their emotions. A beta is an ostrich that buries his head turning his attention away from obvious issues that needs to be challenged. Alpha acknowledges his reality and is decisive with his actions. I don't like it is I don't like it. Beta will be like for your sake continuously till he meets his room like Samson Alphas aren't afriad of losing even a friendship and would rather walk away than let a toxic relationship ruin his peace of mind Alpha knows how to end what he doesn't like. Knows how to say no. Isn't a slave to what he wants and cna walk away from even what he wants without been destroyed emotionally. Alpha is stable emotionally decisively and internally. Beta has no choice. When his buttons are pushed,he keeps adjusting and adjusting and adjusting like his life depends on pleasing his master Alpha is king. Alpha is male People will always help Beta to make decisions since Beta males can't think for themselves and are slaves to opinions of others. Betas are slaves to their emotions. No emotional fortitude one bit. Push them here and there and they'll go without protesting even if it's to their ruin. They are dying to please because they want the validation and affirmation of others. Alphas are mentally free and don't care about the validation or invalidation of their stance when issues arises. Alpha know how to take no for an answer Cc Ubunja Harddon Martinez39 Ericsmith JohnnySpute 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:03am On Jan 30, 2020 |
BRATISLAVA:In this case, the young man will not let down his standard to accommodate such woman. So, he seeks alternative or stand alone. That's why he is a MAN. But a Beta male will lower his standard to accommodate such woman and become a puppet to her simply because he doesn't want to offend her. 1 Like |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:04am On Jan 30, 2020 |
healthserve:End of Discussion! |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Omar09(m): 9:06am On Jan 30, 2020 |
healthserve: They feel it's romantic giving up their own happiness for someone else's. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by healthserve(m): 9:06am On Jan 30, 2020 |
TonyeBarcanista: ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by healthserve(m): 9:08am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Omar09: Gbam. We haven't still finished mourning our last beta brother Samson that died thousands of years ago. Let's hope and pray men learn and master the act of self emotional management and control before they enter relationships otherwise their eyes go see pepper if they flal into the hands of the wrong/manipulative woman. The psychopath |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TheRedpillguy: 9:11am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Get Rich. The rest Is BS |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by healthserve(m): 9:13am On Jan 30, 2020 |
TheRedpillguy: They are men who their ladies Lord over even with their wealth. Being red pulled and alpha is more about self mastery which also helps making better financial decisions |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:13am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Omar09: ![]() Or you don't eat fish, and you both goes to a restaurant to eat and you order a meat and you know he very much likes fish and he doesn't order his own fish instead he orders meat? I need your answers to these questions @Palehair.It is okay if he likes meat as well... But very gross if he didn't like meat but ordered it just to patronise his woman. 1 Like |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:15am On Jan 30, 2020 |
healthserve:Will look out for opportunities. Your feedback is appreciated |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Omar09(m): 9:19am On Jan 30, 2020 |
TonyeBarcanista: “Tell me about it!” is a an expression that doesn't literally mean you should tell the implied person about whatever topic. It's is used when someone is concurring to your opinion. And the answer to such should either be a silent or a “yeah”. No offense. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by healthserve(m): 9:22am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Abeta has no life of his own but lives the life of his controller. Snap out of those strings because no one won't have your best interest at heart much more than yourselves men. |
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