Hello there, pls i dont understand what is happening to me , discovered i was pregnant on saturday after ivf. I had serious cramps so i was admitted
The cramps have reduced drastically but something happened yesterday i was standing just noticed like tap runninig from my vjay , used tissue to wipe ,it was blood, after wipping twice the bleeding stopped
Kept the tissue called the doc immediately. When he saw it , he did scan for me , saw two sacks , one was big , the other small.
He gave me some drugs ,i slept off . they was nothing all through the day until night again o
The blood just came without cramps then stopped


It has happened again this afternoon , pls whats happening

Mummy4life1:
I dey enjoy my HMO money biko.

But sincerely speaking, I think all pregnant and nursing mothers should try and get HMO. It reduce stress and it save the family from extra cost.

Madam, my one year HMO saved me from spending extra cost on the following list below:

1)Fibroid operation with 5days admission including drugs(it would have cost me 350k)
2)Cerclage procedure with 3days admission(it would have cost me 300k)
3)5days bed rest with drugs and injection(100k)
4)Antenatal care which include my routine drugs and cyclogest from week2 to week 28(it would have cost me 200k). In fact, I've done series of scan and test without spending any money from my personal pocket.

HMO is good oooooo

Hope you’re feeling better mama? I wish I saw this message months ago. Ignorance is not good o. So I was thinking that if I used my HMO or DH’s, that I won’t be properly attended to or that the hospital might be stingy with certain necessities. So I have been paying for everything when I had 2 HMOs to pick from.

It was earlier this week I went to register for antenatal in a different hospital using DH’s HMO and I was properly attended to.

Please does anybody know about Bluecross hospital, Ogba, Ikeja? Has anyone birthed there?

So sorry for your loss Ma'am! God will comfort you very soon and this time, you will carry till full term and birth your baby alive..*bighugs*

shadow88:
Good afternoon mothers,I joined this group some years back even before marriage. I sincerely needs encouragement and advice
I got pregnant May last year due in january,I had contractions last week Wednesday at 39weeks on getting to the hospital I was told my baby died in my womb on Monday,I was induced then delivered the baby on Thursday(stillbirth)due to cord accident
I want to know if scan detect cord around babies in case of second pregnancy and even scared of trying again
Thank so much mothers
promise to register if God answers my prayers again because I am still grieving and the doctor advised I start trying immediately after a month

AmazingGod:


Hello ma'am,which of the insurance scheme are you registered under?

I am currently using Hygiea HMO. I was using Anchor HMO before.

Pweetiebabe:
Inside life, no wonder u no go home , no wahala enjoy urself till den evict u

Yes oooo Madam.

Awesomemama:


Wow
That's almost a whooping 1m naira
You've really saved a lot
The importance of HMO cannot be overemphasised my sister

Yes oooo Madam.

Graced2018:
Hello Mummies esp. #TeamMarch

1. Can someone please share a first hand review of First Consultant Hospital, Obalende? I have been using it for Ante-Natal and no issues so far, but i am still undecided about birthing there. I had a cerclage installed there and treatment have been ok so far.

2. Does anyone know what it cost too? VB & CS?

3. Who has Ms. Zaynie's contact? Kindly share pls

Can March arrive any sooner or I am the only one tired of waiting?

Thank you in anticipation for your response.

I'm right here mama.

Send me a whatsapp message on 080twofour74015nine

Hello mamas

Please I am miserable. This is an anonymous account. I’m 8 months along and the stretch Marks on my stomach are so bad, they are all over my stomach and they are very very black. I’ve been applying cream since I found out I was pregnant but the stretch marks seem to be getting worse and worse everyday. I didn’t have one mark on my body before pregnancy I’m now depressed. Every time I look in the mirror I look at how fat I’ve become, my stomach will never be the same. I have dealt with low self esteem all my life but now it’s just become 10 times worse. I don’t want to sacrifice my self esteem and mental stability all because I’m having a child, I’m so miserable. I’m too ashamed to take a picture. If the stretch marks were manageable I wouldn’t care, but my stomach is full of them. God why is this happening to me? What can I do about this, please I just need words of encouragement. Pleaseeeee.

shadow88:
Good afternoon mothers,I joined this group some years back even before marriage. I sincerely needs encouragement and advice
I got pregnant May last year due in january,I had contractions last week Wednesday at 39weeks on getting to the hospital I was told my baby died in my womb on Monday,I was induced then delivered the baby on Thursday(stillbirth)due to cord accident
I want to know if scan detect cord around babies in case of second pregnancy and even scared of trying again
Thank so much mothers
promise to register if God answers my prayers again because I am still grieving and the doctor advised I start trying immediately after a month

Very sorry for your lost ma'am. I don't understand ooooo? You mean they don't check your baby and you don't do vitals any time you go for antenatal? In my own hospital now, they check our babies through scan during antenatal appointment without extra pay.

For instance, it was during the scan they discovered that I was having contraction without me even aware at all and I was admitted. They have checked my baby heartbeat more than 8times today. Still on bed rest sha....

Ma'am, I hope the doctors in that hospital are professional?

My own advice is that make good research about the hospital before using them and we also need to put our self and baby in prayer. Don't worry ma'am, God will give you double blessings of your trouble.

Hildagirl:
Hello mamas

Please I am miserable. This is an anonymous account. I’m 8 months along and the stretch Marks on my stomach are so bad, they are all over my stomach and they are very very black. I’ve been applying cream since I found out I was pregnant but the stretch marks seem to be getting worse and worse everyday. I didn’t have one mark on my body before pregnancy I’m now depressed. Every time I look in the mirror I look at how fat I’ve become, my stomach will never be the same. I have dealt with low self esteem all my life but now it’s just become 10 times worse. I don’t want to sacrifice my self esteem and mental stability all because I’m having a child, I’m so miserable. I’m too ashamed to take a picture. If the stretch marks were manageable I wouldn’t care, but my stomach is full of them. God why is this happening to me? What can I do about this, please I just need words of encouragement. Pleaseeeee.

Sowi sis...I actually don't know what to say to u but I believe when ur baby arrive u will forget abt all d mark cos it would have clear a bit....Sometimes we mothers sacrifice alot for our babies and since its In dis stomach and if u don't have plans of wearing crop tops in near future then u can manage it by looking for a way to clear it.

And about low self esteem...Just know u re beautifully and wonderfully made, u are unique in your own way, carry urself with and don't give any being the chance to look down on u

Pweetiebabe:
Thanks jawe my able Cappo, with all d plenty ghost patient I left d clinic before 11am, I was given fansidar and paracetamol and feeling much better now after using it and resting, I get this lack of proper rest is wot's affecting me

It is well, please try and rest well. Very important

ganibae:
Hello there, pls i dont understand what is happening to me , discovered i was pregnant on saturday after ivf. I had serious cramps so i was admitted
The cramps have reduced drastically but something happened yesterday i was standing just noticed like tap runninig from my vjay , used tissue to wipe ,it was blood, after wipping twice the bleeding stopped
Kept the tissue called the doc immediately. When he saw it , he did scan for me , saw two sacks , one was big , the other small.
He gave me some drugs ,i slept off . they was nothing all through the day until night again o
The blood just came without cramps then stopped


It has happened again this afternoon , pls whats happening

Ma'am, it always like that for most IVF pregnancy. I also did IVF too

The problem is that some of the embryo that was transferred might not implant so, what you need now is bed rest, gestone injection and cyclogest(Insert through anus since you're still bleeding) but discuss the drugs with your doctor before using it.

Mine own blood came out as if they pour water on my legs with clots.

Your babies are still there but avoid any activities including house work and please start speaking to your babies now and avoid hot food, take enough water.

My friend that did IVF and gave birth to triplet in December 2019 experience the same too and she successfully gave birth to 2girls and 1boy. I've a lot of friends that we are attending antenatal together now, most of us experience it and we are heavy pregnant now. Infact both we and our babies are going fine.

Hildagirl:
Hello mamas

Please I am miserable. This is an anonymous account. I’m 8 months along and the stretch Marks on my stomach are so bad, they are all over my stomach and they are very very black. I’ve been applying cream since I found out I was pregnant but the stretch marks seem to be getting worse and worse everyday. I didn’t have one mark on my body before pregnancy I’m now depressed. Every time I look in the mirror I look at how fat I’ve become, my stomach will never be the same. I have dealt with low self esteem all my life but now it’s just become 10 times worse. I don’t want to sacrifice my self esteem and mental stability all because I’m having a child, I’m so miserable. I’m too ashamed to take a picture. If the stretch marks were manageable I wouldn’t care, but my stomach is full of them. God why is this happening to me? What can I do about this, please I just need words of encouragement. Pleaseeeee.

Ma'am haaaaaa . If you that is very close is complaining ma'am. So, what you want us coming at back to do oooooo.

Mothers should be given special awards because they try a lot when it comes to child bearing, nursing, taking care of their homes and official work at the same time.

angeltolly:


It is well, please try and rest well. Very important

Yes mummy I will definitely rest o, infact am patiently waiting make schools vacate God knows I no dey resume again

shadow88:
Good afternoon mothers,I joined this group some years back even before marriage. I sincerely needs encouragement and advice
I got pregnant May last year due in january,I had contractions last week Wednesday at 39weeks on getting to the hospital I was told my baby died in my womb on Monday,I was induced then delivered the baby on Thursday(stillbirth)due to cord accident
I want to know if scan detect cord around babies in case of second pregnancy and even scared of trying again
Thank so much mothers
promise to register if God answers my prayers again because I am still grieving and the doctor advised I start trying immediately after a month

So sorry to hear this mama. I pray that God visits you once again sooner than you expect. This time, you will carry to term and bring forth your baby alive and kicking... Amen

Mzleemah:
it's good to hear from you teamie, where have you been?

thanks Cappo. I haven't been consistent on naira land for sometimes, but I am back now.

Most hospitals don't have scan facility let alone using it during antenantal. They usually refer you to where you will do the scan.

Mummy4life1:
Very sorry for your lost ma'am. I don't understand ooooo? You mean they don't check your baby and you don't do vitals any time you go for antenatal? In my own hospital now, they check our babies through scan during antenatal appointment without extra pay.

For instance, it was during the scan they discovered that I was having contraction without me even aware at all and I was admitted. They have checked my baby heartbeat more than 8times today. Still on bed rest sha....

Ma'am, I hope the doctors in that hospital are professional?

My own advice is that make good research about the hospital before using them and we also need to put our self and baby in prayer. Don't worry ma'am, God will give you double blessings of your trouble.

Thanks so much good mothers though I registered in general hospital and how it happened God knows but the reason why I am scared is because people said since its cord accident it's likely to happen again
The best thing for me as advised is to use both private and general after then I shouldn't wait for 39weeks and that I should go for cs straight
I really appreciate your words of encouragement and prayers

Good evening mamas... hope you're all doing well and carrying well?

Pls I have a little issue, I've been having a kind of vagina infection of which I'm suspecting yeast or its caused by our water. Our water is not that clean, sometimes when we fetch it we wait for the brown substance to settle down before making use of it.

I'm 32weeks gone and the thing is so intense now, that even when I use pure water sachet to wash up after peeing the discharge is still not normal. I noticed it at the beginning of my pregnancy and I just waved it off that itll be normal later but I'm scared now that it might affect my baby.

I went to the hospital and told my doctor during my antenatal visit, he told me to run an OGTT test, an early morning test(fasting sugar) to know but the amount they are asking for is so high, 16k for the test, haba... I just felt I can just buy mycoten and use instead of spending that amount.

My question is, is mycoten insertion safe for a pregnant woman woman?

Mummy4life1:
Very sorry for your lost ma'am. I don't understand ooooo? You mean they don't check your baby and you don't do vitals any time you go for antenatal? In my own hospital now, they check our babies through scan during antenatal appointment without extra pay.

For instance, it was during the scan they discovered that I was having contraction without me even aware at all and I was admitted. They have checked my baby heartbeat more than 8times today. Still on bed rest sha....

Ma'am, I hope the doctors in that hospital are professional?

My own advice is that make good research about the hospital before using them and we also need to put our self and baby in prayer. Don't worry ma'am, God will give you double blessings of your trouble.

Madam right now she does not need this. All she needs is consolation, later the advise can come in. I realised your already consoled her and that is good.

Anyone who has lost a baby at at late stage will understand this.

@shadow88 so sorry for what happened, the lord will give you peace and visit you soon. Amen

estilo:
Most hospitals don't have scan facility let alone using it during antenantal. They usually refer you to where you will do the scan.

Ma'am I was surprise ooooo, that very bad then. God will save us from naija hospital without standard. I really appreciate all the ma'am that recommend my hospital to me. I do see my baby during my antenatal.

Blackfinegirl:


Madam right now she does not need this. All she needs is consolation, later the advise can come in. I realised your already consoled her and that is good.

Anyone who has lost a baby at at late stage will understand this.

@shadow88 so sorry for what happened, the lord will give you peace and visit you soon. Amen

Madam you're right but sometimes good information goes long way. I lost my first pregnancy because of lack of knowledge and the hospital was not good at all. After my incident, I was told that babies die a lot in that hospital even including mothers. Because loosing baby@37weeks is very painful. That is why good information is very powerful.

I would have lost my second pregnancy too but information given to me here really help. Are you aware that am on hospital bed?I learnt it here that when you discovered something unusual, the person should rush to the hospital immediately that it what saved my baby this week ooooo.

Mummy4life1:
I dey enjoy my HMO money biko.

But sincerely speaking, I think all pregnant and nursing mothers should try and get HMO. It reduce stress and it save the family from extra cost.

Madam, my one year HMO saved me from spending extra cost on the following list below:

1)Fibroid operation with 5days admission including drugs(it would have cost me 350k)
2)Cerclage procedure with 3days admission(it would have cost me 300k)
3)5days bed rest with drugs and injection(100k)
4)Antenatal care which include my routine drugs and cyclogest from week2 to week 28(it would have cost me 200k). In fact, I've done series of scan and test without spending any money from my personal pocket.

HMO is good oooooo

Can i mail you? I am tired of spending huge money on this island for nothing.

shadow88:
Thanks so much good mothers though I registered in general hospital and how it happened God knows but the reason why I am scared is because people said since its cord accident it's likely to happen again
The best thing for me as advised is to use both private and general after then I shouldn't wait for 39weeks and that I should go for cs straight
I really appreciate your words of encouragement and prayers

Very sorry ma'am. You're coming back soon

shadow88:
Good afternoon mothers,I joined this group some years back even before marriage. I sincerely needs encouragement and advice
I got pregnant May last year due in january,I had contractions last week Wednesday at 39weeks on getting to the hospital I was told my baby died in my womb on Monday,I was induced then delivered the baby on Thursday(stillbirth)due to cord accident
I want to know if scan detect cord around babies in case of second pregnancy and even scared of trying again
Thank so much mothers
promise to register if God answers my prayers again because I am still grieving and the doctor advised I start trying immediately after a month

Chai this is really painful...I pray God comfort u..u can still give urself 3 months before trying again

ambient:


Can i mail you? I am tired of spending huge money on this island for nothing.

Yes ma'am. HMO really save my family from extra expense. I can visit hospital anytime or do any test without worrying my self about the cost because HMO will take care of it.

I've spent a lot on medical before now but HMO saved me and my family from extra expense. Infact, my hubby used the same HMO to do operation last month for correction of vain that caused low sperm count(I've forgotten the name jor).The operation, test and drugs would have cost him(250k).

Mummy4life1:
Very sorry ma'am. You're coming back soon

Amen ma

Mummy4life1:
Yes ma'am. HMO really save my family from extra expense. I can visit hospital anytime or do any test without worrying my self about the cost because HMO will take care of it.

I've spent a lot on medical before now but HMO saved me and my family from extra expense. Infact, my hubby used the same HMO to do operation last month for correction of vain that caused low sperm count(I've forgotten the name jor).The operation, test and drugs would have cost him(250k).

sorry to bother you but can u enlighten some of us ( especially first time mums starting a family) about this HMO thing and how to go about it.
thanks alot.

tyhgfrdeswscbhf:


Chai this is really painful...I pray God comfort u..u can still give urself 3 months before trying again

Mummy three months ke,its too much
No tear during the delivery and I am physically okay I just want to be happy again and I don't want the delivery to exceed this year
Thanks so much ma

Mummy4life1:
Ma'am, it always like that for most IVF pregnancy. I also did IVF too

The problem is that some of the embryo that was transferred might not implant so, what you need now is bed rest, gestone injection and cyclogest(Insert through anus since you're still bleeding) but discuss the drugs with your doctor before using it.

Mine own blood came out as if they pour water on my legs with clots.

Your babies are still there but avoid any activities including house work and please start speaking to your babies now and avoid hot food, take enough water.

My friend that did IVF and gave birth to triplet in December 2019 experience the same too and she successfully gave birth to 2girls and 1boy. I've a lot of friends that we are attending antenatal together now, most of us experience it and we are heavy pregnant now. Infact both we and our babies are going fine.

Thanks mam, i use cylogest thru the anus and gesterone injection ,have bn on bed rest since saturday .am just scared of the bleeding that just comes and goes ni o
How long did you experience the bleeding

Ayaoye:
Okay this might seems crazy I know, but is feeling baby movement at 10 weeks possible, this is my second and I can swear I feel like something rolling in my tummy.... This is not gas o, coz I know the feeling. I remember seeing the baby "kicking" (don't know if it was kicking but it was stretching kinda) at 8 weeks during the altrasound

Very possible. Felt mine first at 11 weeks. It was very clear

Mummy4life1:
Ma'am I was surprise ooooo, that very bad then. God will save us from naija hospital without standard. I really appreciate all the ma'am that recommend my hospital to me. I do see my baby during my antenatal.

She just lost her baby,you can at least focus on that aspect for now.talking about your own baby or telling her what she could have done might make her feel more miserable.we are all human beings.it is well