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Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by grandstar(m): 4:32pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
SifonAbasi: I'm glad you realize your marriage is sacrosanct and I'm proud of you. Your ex motives aren't pure. He's out either to have you or hurt you. Why is he so obsessed? Is he shy? Does he have difficulties getting ladies? Was he abused as a child? Was he abandoned? You will need to be firm but very tactful. I think you should try and "expose" him. Open to your husband about everything. Perhaps, your husband issulking about part of your past your ex might have told him. Let your husband know that that was in the past. That's in the past, sorry and all and most importantly, you should both move on. Perhaps reach an arrangement with your husband to set a trap your ex. Send him a whatsapp message flattering him about his dressing one day and keep flirting with him until he initiates an adulterous relationship. If he does not initiate it, you then go ahead and ask him out. Three things can either happen: 1. He may fall for it and fix a rendezvous 2. He may inform your husband. He might do that to punish you. That's why I said your husband should be in the know. That will also expose his real intentions. 3. He will say he isnt interested and that you should be faithful to your husband. From either of the 3 responses, you should know what to do. The only wahala is no. 3 answer 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 5:47pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
bukatyne: I really really like them I dunno why I even saw that I had followed her last thread where her husband made a boss move that knocked me and many people over Her husband is the type of man I could fall for -very confident, sure character (real man) And, not everybody would revisit sex with their ex. Well, I read on Hope I don’t come back to eat my words |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Liftedhands: I absolutely hate your thinking (and that of your quotee) Very paranoid and uni-directional One can say you have chosen to not have love, no? Poison ke? Yikes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
helpee: Dear “God” Stop the judging They are all consenting adults and will not be hurting anyone else with their party So what gives!? (Supposing that your one -track thinking was the case) |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Liftedhands(f): 7:12pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
merahki:If you are the ex better have some sense and give the lady privacy. She's now a married woman!!! Move on and stop being a pest.
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Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by helpee(m): 7:33pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
merahki:I guess you are the husband with the way you are running hecter skelter over the thread . So some perverts came seeking for advice on a public forum and I rightly gave my own impression and you find fault with my observation. If they didn't bring their perversion to online forum, I won't contribute in the first place . Which kind husband will know someone is requesting for sex from his wife and then go ahead to promise paying for the wedding of the guy for a job well done. Which job....for fuccckng his wife well or what? And he met same guy with the former oloso wife( at least she confessed using sex to pay for money which is a classical description of oloso) in his own house on many occasions and the mumu husband is still smiling. Either he is a mumu or he set up CCTV in that house waiting to unleash his wife nudes on the internet very soon. Anything short of that, they are all perverts. So what is my own in all these? 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 10:36pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
AuroraB: I know right? “My ex my ex” as if they are all loaded with the devil’s blood Some people out grow their exes or are outgrown by them, some people move on from exes, some exes are better friends than lovers...they are not all evil spawn who must be thrown away. They even throw away their sims, Chim! I think poverty or ignorance and “religious faith” or all make people to become overly obsessed with fantastic superstitious stuff (ex- witch/wizard hunting included) If parting is amicable, there is no reason why people can’t be friends with their ex/exes, without disrespecting their partners. I live this way This life that is very finite, we want to load it with infinite wahala |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
TheMubaraqS: This oft quoted saying does not make any sense at all. What exactly do you mean by this Sir? It usually leaves me very embarrassed on the poster or speaker’s behalf |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 10:48pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
jaxxy: Finally (after 8 pages ) Someone else has my opinion I could hug you! |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by jaxxy(m): 10:56pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
merahki: So many people online are breeding hate without clear or certain reason. Also in their hypocritical perfect eyes people are not capable of changing for good. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
CyberWolf: I agree with the “anyhow talker” I read that other thread- cheered the husband’s boss way of handling the issue and didn’t condone what the ex did But, there was a tiny clause where the ex explained that he didn’t believe his “babe” had gotten married and it makes sense! The engagement was short! After which he promised to stay away from her body. And as far as I know, he has Meanwhile an evil person can change, no? The husband wants a friendship with the ex The ex has not made any advances towards our dear poster Why the cruxification? I am glad I feel differently about this The person you quoted made me feel I am not an alien(and if I am? at least, I am not the only one. Two is a company and all that) Cheers |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 11:02pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
SifonAbasi: Amen! And now I have good closure! I guessed right, your ex is not chasing you I don’t care what you do eventually, but I like your husband and your exes’ friendship (if it is not sexual o. Like having two men who care about the woman enough to stay friends.) But I am weird Don’t do him o (it would spoil the story in my head! ) Why don’t you want him around? Do you still have feelings for him? What are you afraid of? Please don’t say “not comfortable with him around” Make it clear for me please And answer this? Have you noticed any kinky sexual behaviour in any one of them? Might you be scared of this? Just answer as well as you can if you would? I am trying to understand why you are “not comfortable with dis” Thank you |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
jaxxy: Same here! |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by loshybab(m): 12:17am On Feb 04, 2020 |
desiregold:Dear, you just told us how tough you could be,you never can tell how tough your hubby would,coz he might just be a step ahead of you in all aspects of madness and shege |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 12:40am On Feb 04, 2020 |
cococandy: Boys move on faster than girls. They heal faster unlike girls that can stay 2years after a breakup without healing |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by cococandy(f): 12:56am On Feb 04, 2020 |
Plead:lol 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by tk4rd: 10:50am On Feb 04, 2020 |
SifonAbasi:Madam, you mean that your husband knows the whole story? And that the only reason your ex is back is just for him to have sex with you?? Or, you just told your husband that the guy used to be your boyfriend, and that he is now as ex? |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by lilyheaven: 12:05pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
That ex is looking for something, once he grabs it , he will laugh at you behind. My opinion is , since you have told him to come around when your hubby is around, next time he comes around, lock your door, pretend you are not at home. If he calls you on phone, tell him to call your husband and inform him, in- fact let your husband be the one that will always inform you about his coming. You have to gather mind ,before he sets you up. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by elantraceey(f): 5:35am On Feb 05, 2020 |
Your husband is too lenient o , just went through your previous story, please tell your husband you're not comfortable having him around at all and he should be the one to stop him from visiting not you . That your ex self, he likes trouble pass fight. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Azurevermillion: 10:13am On May 21, 2020 |
HacheNoire:I fear you oo |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by Youngpo413: 2:04pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
elantraceey:something is not right. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by StAmbrose1(m): 8:31pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
activelyA:How true is this? And how to know a true prophet? I once heard so many tales of situations like this. And I had a different thought. |
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