had to create a new account to table out my troubles.
I’m married with two kids and a step son. The summary of my problem is DOMESTIC VIOLENCE/ABUSE.
Even after giving him more chances to chance, he beat me up few days ago and still blamed me for his actions.
I wanted to leave but he informed our pastor and he begged me to manage my home. That there’s no better person outside. He’s not even addressing the violence issues.
I really want to leave but I’m a full house wife and I depend on him financially cause I’m an SSCE holder.
There’s no help whatsoever from my parents. I’m confused cause he’s processing a Canadian visa for us which would take twelve weeks to complete.
Should I just count my blessings and loss and move on now, or wait until we get to Canada?

There's nothing more despicable than domestic violence. And nothing to me is worth staying with an abusive partner, not even a visa to canada.
Not only are you putting yourself in danger, but your children also.
As for the fact that you're just a SSCE cert holder and you can't afford to take care of your children without his support, the only advice i can give you is to start planning ahead. If you have some relatives, drop your kids with them.
Work on your degree. And get yourself a decent job.

Or go to canada and get him arrested for domestic violence but then again if you can't take care of your kids, expect them gone. Child welfare is top notch there.

Does he have anyone he respects or looks up to that you can talk to, to help you advice him?

You want to wait till you get to canada?
Waiting to read this headline.
Man murdered his wife for absconding after getting to Canada

maybe ur mouth is d problem he say one n u say two so when u see him coming put water in ur mouth don't swollen

Tonyfx:
Does he have anyone he respects or looks up to that you can talk to, to help you advice him?

We’ve done all that.
They are even tired of all our shits

Keypazwad:

We’ve done all that.
They are even tired of all our shits

I'm not an advocate of dissolution of marriage but the truth is everyone has different levels of tolerance and in this case, you're the one wearing the shoes so only you have the deciding power. But all I can say is that everyone deserves peace and happiness in life.