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Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by missimelda01(f): 3:43pm On Feb 08, 2020
There's a post currently on the front page about a man who cheated on his wife and infected her with STI, and to think some men are defending the husband is so disgusting. Please why does it have to be this way? I'm young and unmarried but what I see, read and hear these days makes it impossible to believe that there are decent and goldly men out there.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by MoonandStar: 3:54pm On Feb 08, 2020
Majority of them just choose to reasons with their dicks and they won't stop raising bastard children as theirs not until their brains is use for its default purpose. Also very soon they won't have anything to offer us anymore aside dicks because we are getting more educated and richer so to hell with alpha males and their egos.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by budaatum: 3:58pm On Feb 08, 2020
MoonandStar:
Majority of them just choose to reasons with their dick and they won't stop raising bastard children as theirs not until their brains is use for it default purpose. Also very soon they won't have anything to offer us anymore aside dicks because we are getting more educated and richer so to hell with alpha males and egos
That's why we must understand the following, so they don't cause us death with their priqs.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by missimelda01(f): 3:59pm On Feb 08, 2020
Honestly
MoonandStar:
Majority of them just choose to reasons with their dick and they won't stop raising bastard children as theirs not until their brains is use for it default purpose. Also very soon they won't have anything to offer us anymore aside dicks because we are getting more educated and richer so to hell with alpha males and egos
Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Amujale(m): 4:06pm On Feb 08, 2020
There are people in our country that are in a healthy relationship, and try their best to stay away fron these type of counterproductive activities.

Divert the energy that we spend on undeclared relationships, flinging and one night stands, and instead affect your love ones with much more love.

There's a strong indication that suggest couples gets so relaxed with one another that they pick up each others qualities.

Whether you want to call it a pseudoscience, maybe it is, but there is no denying the fact that couple take on each others attributes to the extent that they end up resembling one another.

Now, i dont know how that would be possible without some sense of security. A unique sense of trust. Giving such a couple the right to say:

"My patrner will never cheat on me."

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by popsy2(m): 4:15pm On Feb 08, 2020
ok

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by MoonandStar: 4:15pm On Feb 08, 2020
budaatum:
That's why we must understand the following, so they don't cause us death with their priqs.

We shall not die but live to fulfil God purpose. I can boldly see the reasons there are many lesbians. These guys are becoming more stupid on daily basis by depriving joy in their egos, shouting 'in my house' upandan like nuisance.


Amujale:
There are people in our that are honest and trustworthy.

There's a strong indication that suggest couples gets so relaxed with one another that they pick up eath others qualities.

Whether you want to call it a psedu-science, maybe it is, but there is no denying the fact that couple take on each others attributes to the extent that they end up resembling one another.

Now, i dont know how that would be possible without some sense of security. A unique sense of trust. Giving such a couple the right to say:

"My patrner will never cheat on me."

He should but I won't have choice than to kill him with my success, him and all his side chicks put together won't be able to touch my shoes.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Vyolet(f): 4:15pm On Feb 08, 2020
You don't need to be afraid girl, trust me there are still good men, those that won't cheat, abuse you nor disrespect you, they are good-looking, they hold the family setting in high esteem and above all, they are not stingy.

To the men that feel its their right to cheat, those ones have things wrong with their brains.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Amujale(m): 4:17pm On Feb 08, 2020
Rights is the victim of a concept known as the "trgdy of the commons".

Meaning that everyone has the Rights to anything, and yet, everyone has the Rights for anything in conjunctions with common law.

It isnt against the law to cheat on my better half, yet it isnt against the law for someone to slap themselves in the face either.

Right's are closely connected to responsibility which is closely connected to the "trgdy of the commons".

It all depends on one's priorities, the younger ones are the future leaders of tommorow and they will need a stable home. That is a good reason not to cheat on one's partner.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by yanabasee(m): 4:24pm On Feb 08, 2020
Not all men..... I've never cheated on any of my relationships. Instead, I got cheated on. And the last one will always blame me for her mistakes.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by missimelda01(f): 4:40pm On Feb 08, 2020
Spot on sir.
Amujale:
There are people in our country that are in a healthy relationship, and try their best to stay away fron these type of counterproductive activities.

Divert the energy that we spend on undeclared relationships, flinging and one night stands, and instead affect your love ones with much more love.

There's a strong indication that suggest couples gets so relaxed with one another that they pick up eath others qualities.

Whether you want to call it a psedu-science, maybe it is, but there is no denying the fact that couple take on each others attributes to the extent that they end up resembling one another.

Now, i dont know how that would be possible without some sense of security. A unique sense of trust. Giving such a couple the right to say:

"My patrner will never cheat on me."

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by missimelda01(f): 4:43pm On Feb 08, 2020
It's sad what you went through, but I have a big problem with the way men especially say it with pride that it's their right to cheat. No doubt people make mistakes but it's crazy when they try to defend it.
yanabasee:
Not all men..... I've never cheated on any of my relationships. Instead, I got cheated on. And the last one will always blame me for her mistakes.
Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by yanabasee(m): 4:46pm On Feb 08, 2020
missimelda01:
It's sad what you went through, but I have a big problem with the way men especially say it with pride that it's their right to cheat. No doubt people make mistakes but it's crazy when they try to defend it.



Those are men with little or no regards for other people's feelings.

Real men, will never act without consideration...

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Liliyann(f): 4:49pm On Feb 08, 2020
Coz of the society we live in....A man will cheat and the only thing people will tell the wife is to pray!! Pray for what? Or maybe she is not doing sth right, some idiot will even go as far as telling her to dress sexy, pamper the man and start giving him scissors style undecided

A cheat is always a cheat that's why it is good to have sth doing, or marry well sef because its an insult to you as a woman to marry a poor man and be managing garri with him while he goes out to eat Fried rice/chicken and spend lavishly on someone else!!

Funny enough, most men think they are the only one that knows how to cheat not knowing that women are good at hiding things!!!

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by missimelda01(f): 5:06pm On Feb 08, 2020
Scissors style got me grin
I wish that could solve anything sigh.
Liliyann:
Coz of the society we live in....A man will cheat and the only thing people will tell the wife is to pray!! Pray for what? Or maybe she is not doing sth right, some idiot will even go as far as telling her to dress sexy, pamper the man and start giving him scissors style undecided

A cheat is always a cheat that's why it is good to have sth doing, or marry well sef because its an insult to you as a woman to marry a poor man and be managing garri with him while he goes out to eat Fried rice/chicken and spend lavishly on someone else!!

Funny enough, most men think they are the only one that knows how to cheat not knowing that women are good at hiding things!!!
Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by missimelda01(f): 5:40pm On Feb 08, 2020
In other words, responsible men don't cheat.
Amujale:
Rights is the victim of a concept known as the "trgdy of the commons".

Meaning that everyone has the Rights to anything, and yet, everyone has the Rights for anything in conjunctions with common law.

It isnt against the law to cheat on my better half, yet it isnt against the law for someone to slap themselves in the face either.

Right's are closely connected to responsibility which is closely connected to the "trgdy of the commons".

It all depends on one's priorities, the younger ones are the future leaders of tommorow and they will need a stable home. That is a goid reason not to cheat on one's partner.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Amujale(m): 5:41pm On Feb 08, 2020
missimelda01:
In other words, responsible men don't cheat.

Precisely, reponsible men dont cheat.

They keep their rights to use for things far more important and productive than cheating.

The right to show all their love and dedication towards making a healthy home, an enviroment where the young ones may flourish and fulfil their's and our expectations.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Mykel51(m): 5:55pm On Feb 08, 2020
missimelda01:
There's a post currently on the front page about a man who cheated on his wife and infected her with STI, and to think some men are defending the husband is so disgusting. Please why does it have to be this way? I'm young and unmarried but what I see, read and hear these days makes it impossible to believe that there are decent and goldly men out there.

There are...at least I can speak for myself.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Greatzeus(m): 6:22pm On Feb 08, 2020
missimelda01:
There's a post currently on the front page about a man who cheated on his wife and infected her with STI, and to think some men are defending the husband is so disgusting. Please why does it have to be this way? I'm young and unmarried but what I see, read and hear these days makes it impossible to believe that there are decent and goldly men out there.
Nairaland is not even up to 2% of Nigeria's cyber space. There are over 100m internet users in Nigeria. Don't use Nairaland to validate the characters of men as cheats.
There are still men and women out there who don't cheat or never cheats on their spouses. Matter of fact,with the high rate of moral atrocities going on now,There are still people getting married as virgins,that's the truth. There will always be exceptions.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by crackkhaus: 6:33pm On Feb 08, 2020
missimelda01:
There's a post currently on the front page about a man who cheated on his wife and infected her with STI, and to think some men are defending the husband is so disgusting. Please why does it have to be this way? I'm young and unmarried but what I see, read and hear these days makes it impossible to believe that there are decent and goldly men out there.
There are still decent and godly men out there, you just have to take a bet that the one you end up with is going to be one of them.

But I can give you a secret to turn the tide in your favor permanently, a way to ensure that a man will never dare cheat on you and throw it in your face...

It's very simple actually, marry him.
By marry him, I mean you should be the one who does everything he is supposed to have done to marry you - the proposal, the ring, the wedding expenses, the groom price, settle his family, pay for the honeymoon, etc..

Once you do the above, that man will have no right on earth to cheat on you EVER, trust me.
And even if he does, no man is going to defend him, I can assure you of that.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by vickydankal(f): 6:34pm On Feb 08, 2020
This mindset is the reason why some men are where they are.
Can you imagine, so you are saying cheating is your right. While the woman is just there sucking up your excesses. Mbanu, it is not good nah

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by missimelda01(f): 8:25pm On Feb 08, 2020
You'd be surprised how many men out there think like this.
vickydankal:
This mindset is the reason why some men are where they are.
Can you imagine, so you are saying cheating is your right. While the woman is just there sucking up your excesses. Mbanu, it is not good nah

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Omar09(m): 8:30pm On Feb 08, 2020
missimelda01:
There's a post currently on the front page about a man who cheated on his wife and infected her with STI, and to think some men are defending the husband is so disgusting. Please why does it have to be this way? I'm young and unmarried but what I see, read and hear these days makes it impossible to believe that there are decent and goldly men out there.

Now read very keenly and carefully. A man can cheat on a woman and still love and take care of her because, when he has sex with another woman who is not his significant other, it's just another hole, nothing emotional about it. And the family gets to move on and be fine. But when a woman cheats on her husband or boyfriend, it's an act of disrespect, belittling the young man. It shows the young man is no longer her choice because she feels she can do better than having him as a boyfriend or husband. Women cheat to get out of a relationship. Whoever she cheats with is the one she truly desires and not her current partner if she cheats on him. But it's different with men. Men will cheat and still love, protect and care for their partner and such family gets to move on like it's nothing. Men sees sex as pleasure where as women see it as commitment. Unless of course such is a love peddler.

Ubunja
Martinez39s
CAPSLOCKED

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Omar09(m): 8:33pm On Feb 08, 2020
MoonandStar:
Majority of them just choose to reasons with their dicks and they won't stop raising bastard children as theirs not until their brains is use for its default purpose. Also very soon they won't have anything to offer us anymore aside dicks because we are getting more educated and richer so to hell with alpha males and their egos.

Be you gay or straight, you cant do without the bolded, whether artificial or real. wink
Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Omar09(m): 8:35pm On Feb 08, 2020
Vyolet:
You don't need to be afraid girl, trust me there are still good men, those that won't cheat, abuse you nor disrespect you, they are good-looking, they hold the family setting in high esteem and above all, they are not stingy.

To the men that feel its their right to cheat, those ones have things wrong with their brains.

Hold on girl, you let your imagination fly too high!
Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Omar09(m): 8:40pm On Feb 08, 2020
yanabasee:




Those are men with little or no regards for other people's feelings.

Real men, will never act without consideration...

If it means the man abstaining totally from sex to avoid STDs or him using protection, yes that's a good consideration. No such thing as real men do this or real men do that, don't put yourself in bonds. Do you and be you. It's just simple.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by yanabasee(m): 8:46pm On Feb 08, 2020
Omar09:


If it means the man abstaining totally from sex to avoid STDs or him using protection, yes that's a good consideration. No such thing as real men do this or real men do that, don't put yourself in bonds. Do you and be you. It's just simple.


Real men will always put their emotions aside and think with their brains.. If you cheat on someone, be ready to handle it when you are cheated on.


I don't know how to cheat.... if I do, I will be caught....

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by MoonandStar: 8:54pm On Feb 08, 2020
Omar09:


Be you gay or straight, you cant do without the bolded, whether artificial or real. wink

You shouldn't bother yourself about that.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by CAPSLOCKED: 9:15pm On Feb 08, 2020
Omar09:


Now read very keenly and carefully. A man can cheat on a woman and still love and take care of her because, when he has sex with another woman who is not his significant other, it's just another hole, nothing emotional about it. And the family gets to move on and be fine. But when a woman cheats on her husband or boyfriend, it's an act of disrespect, belittling the young man. It shows the young man is no longer her choice because she feels she can do better than having him as a boyfriend or husband. Women cheat to get out of a relationship. Whoever she cheats with is the one she truly desires and not her current partner if she cheats on him. But it's different with men. Men will cheat and still love, protect and care for their partner and such family gets to move on like it's nothing. Men sees sex as pleasure where as women see it as commitment. Unless of course such is a love peddler.

Ubunja
Martinez39s
CAPSLOCKED

THIS THREAD IS IRRITATING.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Biglittlelois(f): 9:32pm On Feb 08, 2020
crackkhaus:

There are still decent and godly men out there, you just have to take a bet that the one you end up with is going to be one of them.

But I can give you a secret to turn the tide in your favor permanently, a way to ensure that a man will never dare cheat on you and throw it in your face...

It's very simple actually, marry him.
By marry him, I mean you should be the one who does everything he is supposed to have done to marry you - the proposal, the ring, the wedding expenses, the groom price, settle his family, pay for the honeymoon, etc..

Once you do the above, that man will have no right on earth to cheat on you EVER, trust me.
And even if he does, no man is going to defend him, I can assure you of that.

So in other words, the only guarantee for a husband not to cheat is if marriage proposal and groom price was paid right? What about married women whose bride price was paid and still cheats, what say ye to that? It didn't occur to you that cheating is an individual thing? You should read your comments before posting next time.

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by missimelda01(f): 9:43pm On Feb 08, 2020
Before I say anything,are you a male hiding behind a female moniker?
Omar09:


Now read very keenly and carefully. A man can cheat on a woman and still love and take care of her because, when he has sex with another woman who is not his significant other, it's just another hole, nothing emotional about it. And the family gets to move on and be fine. But when a woman cheats on her husband or boyfriend, it's an act of disrespect, belittling the young man. It shows the young man is no longer her choice because she feels she can do better than having him as a boyfriend or husband. Women cheat to get out of a relationship. Whoever she cheats with is the one she truly desires and not her current partner if she cheats on him. But it's different with men. Men will cheat and still love, protect and care for their partner and such family gets to move on like it's nothing. Men sees sex as pleasure where as women see it as commitment. Unless of course such is a love peddler.

Ubunja
Martinez39s
CAPSLOCKED

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Re: Why Do Men Feel Like It's Their Right To Cheat? by Biglittlelois(f): 9:48pm On Feb 08, 2020
Some comments are not worth quoting at all.

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