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Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Psalme91: 3:52am On Feb 18, 2020 |
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this . Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please 118 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by lifemate89: 4:00am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91:you are the cause of you giving birth to baby girls, it's your husband. My dear, cry not,the Lord is in control...my elder sister was in the same shoe with you,she gave birth to four baby girls...just last week,she gave birth to a baby boy...Just be prayerful okay 245 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Psalme91: 4:07am On Feb 18, 2020 |
lifemate89: thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy 86 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by ikh777: 4:14am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: Aunty Aunty Auntyyyyyyyyyy, WHY WILL A HIGHLY FAVORED WOMAN LIKE YOU BE CRYING AT THIS TIME... pls consider your health o. Wipe your tears.... PICK A PEN AND PAPER AND START WRITING ALL THAT GOD HAS DONE FOR YOU SINCE BEFORE YOU MARRIED. SIT AND THINK DEEP ABOUT ALL HE HAS DONE.... Major things o, then after writing about 20 of them. bring out your phone and play some praise songs and just move your body a little and say THANK YOU JESUS FOR NO EVIL CAN BEFALL ME AND MY HOME. Praise God and you wil see that things will start changing gradually. Do not allow the devil make you cry, YOUR HUSBAND IS JUST SCARED, TIRED AND FRUSTRATED... especially because of the heavy cash involved... pls give God praise. Your atmosphere will change and God's mercy will speak for you 487 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Psalme91: 4:23am On Feb 18, 2020 |
ikh777: Thank you very much for the words of encouragement. This has a lot of good information in it , that I need to read, re-read, and seriously think about. I appreciate your thoughts. 118 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by James289(f): 4:30am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Technically, the man decides the sex of the baby... not the woman. You can only contribute an X since you are XX and the man's sperm contributed either an X or a Y - thus deciding the sex. So, he wasn't able to give himself what he wanted, lol - no reason for you to feel guilty. 462 Likes 25 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by lifemate89: 4:31am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91:Sorry about the typo,hope you understood what I meant to write... "you are not the cause of you giving birth to baby girls, it's your husband. My dear, cry not,the Lord is in control...my elder sister was in the same shoe with you,she gave birth to four baby girls...just last week,she gave birth to a baby boy...Just be prayerful okay" ..........I know of a woman that her 7th child is a male child, other ones were females.just put everything in God's hand. 45 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:35am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: MISTAKE #1 being in pain instead of being filled with joy with the idea of getting an healthy child MISTAKE #2 blaming yourselves for something that you have no control of MISTAKE #3 every smart intelligent adult knows that the sex of a child is determined by the MAN's Sperm... FINAL MISTAKE putting your family's happiness upon something as flimsy as having a boy child will be your downfall.... you better get your priorities straight! the god you are praising is giving you healthy children and instead of rejoicing and calling it a blessing, you have the audacity to write the above.... audio religious people! 312 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by healthserve(m): 4:37am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: Eeyah. Now this is where I Emeritus senior professor come in Now, your body system determines the gender of an infant, much more than just the sperm of a man alone. I'm sure you've heard of X and Y chromosome and how these chromosomes affects or better put influences the gender of a baby. Now listen, if you want to give rpegnanacy another attempt with the hope of having a boy. Three to Five months before your pregnancy, go on heavy steady daily dose of " Heavy Proteins ", i.e Soyabean foods, Beans. Yoghurt. Milk. I wonder why our doctors don't share this information with pre-pregnancy women. Heavy proteins causes a woman's body system to influence it to fertilise male cells by over 80% than the body would naturally do. So by ingesting lots of proteins, you're preparing your body to be fertilised with male cells, hence, a male child. Find GNLD Protein shake and take lots of it months before you decided. This is one of the best heavy proteins I can recommend for this need. It costs between 25,000 and 34,000, but trust me, it's super power Do this. Pray fervently " before " the do and spice your protein intake with plenty vegetables and you'll increase your chances of having a boy by 80%. Do not forget the place of fervent prayers. This is Africa If you decide to make an attempt after following this information,please even if it's three years time remember to quote my mention of how this information gave you the expected results. 97 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Psalme91: 4:56am On Feb 18, 2020 |
you guys are right i should not worry about something which is not in my control.Thank you very very much for your support and kind words 35 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by shortgun(m): 5:12am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91:Madam I know you will be feeling very unhappy right now but u need to be strong. People dont understand how this life works including your husband. God is solely responsible for determining if you will have a girl or a boy. Let me tell you about my uncle. My uncle and his wife who was pregnant for the 1st time went to the hospital and after checking her the doctors told them that everything is ok but it seems they will be having a baby girl. A doctor asked my Uncle how he feels knowing that his 1st child will be a baby girl. My Uncle told the Doctor that he is very happy with the baby girl, he told the doctor that it's only God that have the power to give children and he is very happy with the girl God have given to him and his wife. The Doctor said he's surprised by his response cos he knows that men from the same part of the country as my uncle will always prefer a Male child as their first born. My uncle and his wife started buying baby girl clothes,and girls stuff waiting for their baby girl to arrive. When the baby finally came, it was a baby boy. The doctors couldn't believe it, my uncle and his wife couldn't believe, they already have chosen a name for their baby girl they had to start cracking their heads for another name for the boy. Madam, I have seen people like ur husband who thinks they or their wives have the power to determine the sex of baby gets disappointed severely including doctors. It's only God who determines the gender of a baby its clearly out of the hands of any man. One female child will even grow up to become successful n useful to their parents and society more than 7 male children. Tell ur husband to come back home and accept his the blessing that God have put in his hands with Joy. 122 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Winneygirl(f): 5:32am On Feb 18, 2020 |
I'm sorry that you and your husband are feeling this way. Know that a healthy child is what you should be praying for. Boy or girl. Finances are also not smiling. Please find it in your heart to hand everything over to God and plan your finances to cater for your kids. 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by baby124: 5:34am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Anini, Shina Rambo and Osisikankwu were all male children once. Just be happy you are alive and that your baby is healthy. 83 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Lamanii22(f): 5:35am On Feb 18, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: Legit mistakes lol.... 10 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by thesicilian: 5:41am On Feb 18, 2020 |
You and your husband need to change your mentality about your children. Whether boy or girl, are they not human beings? As long as they are healthy. This silly concept of "I want someone to bear my name", what good has his name done for him? There are female children who are making their parents and countries proud, and same goes for the males. 100 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by freecocoahubby(m): 5:48am On Feb 18, 2020 |
This is absolutely ridiculous! People still care about the gender of a baby in this day and age? This is why Nigeria will never progress - full of backward apes with silly mindsets Just remember, Bobrisky is also a "male child" 175 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by yanabasee(m): 5:58am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Eyah...... He's just worried... E no easy Sha.... But those girls are assets, if well taken care of and turned.... Females take good care of the family more than the guys..... 32 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Diiiamoond: 6:15am On Feb 18, 2020 |
its really upsetting that there are people out there who are so ungrateful for what God has given them, there are some people out there who are desperately trying to have children and then you have this man complaining that hes got girls. So people dont realise how blessed there are, Your husband needs more education on the blessings of having girls children. Let this not worry you in the least as it is God who gives, and HE has reasons for giving you daughters. I was born in a family of 10- 9 girls and a boy (me number . Today my mum is happy she has lots of successful girls and the boy is useless. 83 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 6:21am On Feb 18, 2020 |
FEMALE KIDS are absolutely important but when you lose track of them in training, you are completely finished. When Lost, you Find them on Nairaland and Instagram posting NUDE PICTURES. When Lost, you find them giving all their hard earned properties to one small boy that calls himself, pastor. When Lost, you find them getting pregnant for any Dickson that passes by. When Lost, they drive home no IDEAS. Rather you find them begging online for recharge cards and data. FINALLY, when Lost, they are usually irreparable. I guess that's why your husband is in shambles right now. It takes a lot to infuse sense into FEMALE KIDS. 42 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by femi4: 6:24am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91:Your husband is ignorant, he's the carrier of the y chromosome that's responsible for a male child 26 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 6:25am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Diiiamoond:Please are you the BOY...? 62 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Yustash001(m): 6:27am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Try to be appreciative.... Some couples have done all what is necessary for them to bear a child(whether male or female) yet to avail and you are here complaining about giving birth to girls You'd better change your mentality... 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 6:27am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91:I learnt that there is a PASTOR that alters SEX of BABIES In DELTA.. Precisely, The MILITANT PASTOR in Delta State. Why not patronize him and see what he will make out of it...? Don't come back here crying he has turned your babies into ORANGUTANS... 24 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Sanchez01: 6:32am On Feb 18, 2020 |
EVILFOREST:... Before they will alter the glorious destiny of an innocent baby. This counsel is not only hilarious, everything is wrong with it. 40 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by mamaafrik(m): 6:36am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Yoruba and Ibos sha,we too dey generated heat on trivial issues,well,remember that some dont even have a single baby. Should those ones now kill themselves. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by tunderoc(m): 6:38am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Madam I don't know if this is actually true but then there's no error in trying and having faith ok. A pastor once said There's some verse in Leviticus that states that "laying with your partner somedays after your period will automatically result in having male child. Besides I don't know what our obsession with male child is Sha. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Sanchez01: 6:40am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91:Your husband carries the Y chromosome. Plus, you only interprete what he gives. If he is enlightened, perhaps you both should start reading up on sex positions that allow those fast but short-lived swimmers die before getting to the eggs. The 'outcomes' suggest the positioning of the swimmers are somewhat far from the ovum. By default, late swimmers (X) will slowly but steadily make it as they have greater endurance strength compared to Y. These things aren't really that hard anymore. But then, you should be grateful. I have about four different couples, all friends of mine who have been married for at least two years without a thing yet. I am very sure they will appreciate that which you and your husband reject. 16 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by infogenius(m): 6:40am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: No surprise here as the normal Nigerian Man especially those from a particular region will not be happy. It's not your fault. It's nobody's fault. The giver of children wants it so. Thank God and pray for safe delivery. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by chatinent: 6:44am On Feb 18, 2020 |
I don't understand. Didn't he decisively have the sexual relations? What else should it beget? 3 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by UjuJoan2: 6:50am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: I wonder what is wrong with people. Are baby girls not children? May God forgive you for your ingratitude! 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by healthserve(m): 6:53am On Feb 18, 2020 |
UjuJoan2: Obianuju you don't counsel the broken hearted with hard words o. I don tell you my own. How you dey 14 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Bola146(f): 7:01am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: 5th child . Madam you need a good orientation, some couples are looking for just one if it's male or female and you are there blaming God You need to make yourself happy because you are pregnant, concentrate on those 4 kids oo, they need attention, love and care. A man can go out to get what he wants, you will be the one to take care of kids, please don't let your kids suffer, after you give birth, go for family planning and concentrate on how to make they great in future 53 Likes 2 Shares |
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