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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by crackkhaus: 7:04am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91:It's not your fault, it's not your husband's fault either. If he is an enlightened person, he will come back around... allow him feel what he needs to feel. 3 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by UjuJoan2: 7:10am On Feb 18, 2020 |
healthserve: Why will she be broken hearted because she has girls? I just can't relate. I dey jare. 5 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by snipesdam(m): 7:12am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Top tips for conceiving a boy; Remember there are no guarantees Time sex to coincide with the day of ovulation (no earlier than 24 hours before you are about to ovulate). Deep penetrative sex is preferable. It helps if the woman reaches orgasm. Have an energy drink, a cup of coffee or some chocolate before having sex it helps propel the Y sperm. If you want a boy then avoid having sex: Earlier than 24 hours before you are about to ovulate. After 12 hours since you ovulated To increase a father’s sperm count, he should not ejaculate for 4-5 days before ovulation, which according to Shettles will increase the chances of having a boy. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by snipesdam(m): 7:13am On Feb 18, 2020 |
What is the difference between the boy and girl sperm? Y or boy sperm: Swim faster and are able to get to the egg more quickly than the X (female) sperm. Tend to be smaller. Are less resilient and less hardy, i.e. they are just more fragile than the X sperm. Do not live for as long as the female sperm; they have a shorter life expectancy and die off much earlier. Are more resistant to alkaline, i.e. higher pH, environments. At different times of a woman’s menstrual cycle, the pH of her vagina varies. Y sperm cannot tolerate the acidic environment of the vagina as well as the X sperm do. X or female sperm: Do not swim as fast as Y sperm; they are generally slower moving and less mobile. Are bigger than Y sperm. Have a longer life span, and are capable of fertilising an egg for a longer period, than Y sperm. Prefer a lower vaginal pH (acidic) environment. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Omar09(m): 7:13am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: This is one hell of stupi.dity in men which I hate. They seem to leave what they can control and worry themselves with what they can't control. Tell me is having a baby boy in man's control? Too bad he is killing himself for nothing. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Omar09(m): 7:15am On Feb 18, 2020 |
snipesdam: @Psalme91 read this. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by ozonechrome: 7:16am On Feb 18, 2020 |
You both need help. 18 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by snipesdam(m): 7:23am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Omar09: I know this because a customer came to my office 4yrs ago before I got married and advised two women regarding this baby boy issue. Guess what it worked. That year they both delivered baby boys. Also my colleague whom has two girls delivered a baby boy last year after I told her that same thing the woman told those women. Also I myself after I got married tried it and my wife gave birth to a baby boy last May. So my text is for those whom want to listen. Do your part and God will crown your efforts. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by healthserve(m): 7:26am On Feb 18, 2020 |
UjuJoan2: She's in a phase. He get out of it with the experiences and words of wisdom she learns through the phase. But presently she's still in the phase trying to make sense of everything |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Omoboricash(m): 7:36am On Feb 18, 2020 |
You and your hubby are ingrate. Millions of people are crying for fruit of the womb be it girl or boy, you are crying for baby boy. I guess you're from eastern part of the country. My dear,train your daughters well and see how your old age become fruitful. I have two girls and I'm pleased with them. It wasn't ur fault neither ur hubby. That what God design for you. A girl child take good care of parent in the old age than the male child. I'm talking from experience. Would parent of Ngozi Nwella, Aminat Muhammad, Diezeni Maduekwe, madam Awosika, Mrs Alakija and other prominent Nigeria women not be proud of them ? Train them to the highest level of education and watch how they become who is who in the country. 17 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Mstick: 7:42am On Feb 18, 2020 |
I am so irritated right now! Not because you’re having a girl meanwhile you and your husband are being ungrateful but because two adults are bringing in a FIFTH child! Into this world despite having financial issues! Psalme91: 14 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by UjuJoan2: 7:48am On Feb 18, 2020 |
healthserve: Okay ooh. I hope she finds sense. 1 Like |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 7:52am On Feb 18, 2020 |
A child is a child. It doesn't matter whether it is a male or female. Scientifically, he decides the sex of your baby, not you. The most important thing is for the baby to be born 'Hale and hearty'. Imagine if God blesses you with a male child that has 'Downing Syndrome' or that is Autistic. Will he kill the child or throw him away? He should be glad. Some people can't even take-in or give birth. You can. It's a blessing on its own. 6 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Gloriagee(f): 7:56am On Feb 18, 2020 |
7th child in this economy. Y'all give me a break please lifemate89: 5 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by crackkhaus: 8:05am On Feb 18, 2020 |
justnock:What exactly does this mean? Like he can just consciously decide which chromosome to contribute, or which sperm cell will fertilize the egg? 7 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 8:18am On Feb 18, 2020 |
crackkhaus: If you ask me, na who I go ask? |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by crackkhaus: 8:28am On Feb 18, 2020 |
justnock:Lol |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Vyolet(f): 8:39am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: Give him time, he will come around. Stop feeling bad, it is not your fault. Every child is a Blessing no matter the gender. If only my aunt could have one to call hers, she wouldn't bother if it's a male or a female. 4 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by cococandy(f): 8:52am On Feb 18, 2020 |
You already have way too many children. STOP! 22 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by AfroKnight: 9:19am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Tell him to google how the sex of a foetus is determined. It is largely beyond his control and certainly not in the hands of the mother. An educated man should not be unhappy to have girls. This is 2020. 7 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Coldie(m): 9:31am On Feb 18, 2020 |
It can be corrected. But it would require lots of condoms and a good doctor. Every time ur husband has sex the sperm from the condom should be given to a doctor to check if its male or female. If its female discard but if its male it should be used on u. To produce a male child 3 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by rain21(f): 10:01am On Feb 18, 2020 |
My dear, you should have used Billings method to determine the sex of your baby.some used it and it worked for them. Don't want to sound too religious,but there's a prayer book for conception and sex selection, can't remember the name tho but I think it has soft copy too.talk to God let him grant you your heart desires.from your mouth to God's ears For the meantime please no more kids.train the ones you have already.honestly speaking,you should have stopped at 4 or 3 even. If he desperately needs a son,then he should have gathered money and look into going for IVF (sex selection method) 4 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by jeff1607(m): 10:11am On Feb 18, 2020 |
healthserve: you said it all but missed out on motility of y chromosome compared to x plus making sure she copulates with her partner when she is ovulating to increase her chances as the Y got speed but lacks endurance compared to the X, a child is precious regardless the gender especially when it's a healthy baby and safe delivery . 2 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Mizwisdom(f): 10:14am On Feb 18, 2020 |
When I mentioned this yesterday Pocohontas thought I'm being tribalistic. I spent a few days watching African magic Igbo recently and the primary theme of every movie I watched was having a male child . I don't know why Igbos are always fascinated by male offsprings yet they make money off female dowries and expenses, still the same female kids will take care of younger male siblings financially and set them up if they are in a position to do so while the boys inherit everything . Good luck madam, I can't feel sorry for you because there's nothing to be sorry about, take care PS: I hope this isn't another fictional story by mods, yea it happens but there's no need to create a new moniker to post this. Why are there so many new monikers with different stories 15 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DesChyko: 10:25am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Well.. He is the donor of the X's that made the girls. He is also in possession of the Y's that would make the boys. Please let him embrace his handwork. 3 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 10:38am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Omoboricash:op should be grateful she has children. |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by giftfromGod(f): 10:45am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Which would you prefer, to be looking unto God since you got married for the fruits of the womb or rejoice your home is surrendered with lovely kids irrespective of the sex? Think about it and then decide which is better. Post as yours annonys me . Sister appreciate God and stop been ungrateful. To see that your husband , I don't know what to say . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by lifemate89: 11:00am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Gloriagee:That's what happens when a man is hell bent on wanting a male child... 1 Like |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Femsyn(m): 11:08am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Sometimes, I wish i could blame God for giving some people children. While some people have stayed years even without a miscarriage, someone is here crying for having 5 children. Couples are out there hoping for at least a positive pregnancy test. Even if the baby doesn't term, all they want to know is their ability to conceive children. No advice for you. I'm not happy with ingrates. You people make girl children feel unwanted, whereas, in practical terms, the girl child has proven more useful than 10 sons. Check your families. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Amanee(f): 11:39am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Mstick: Gbam I wish I could like this comment a million times, I'm just so disgusted by the actions of the op and her husband. Gosh! Bringing to the world children you cannot cater for because you're looking for a male child in this 21St century is downright insane! 4 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Psalme91: 11:57am On Feb 18, 2020 |
please forgive me for speaking like an ungrateful person, I am not ungrateful to God, I am really grateful to him for blessings me with my daughters, I was frustrated because of my husband behaviour that why I spoke like an ungrateful but I can never be ungrateful to God, my husband families, they treat me badly with all all kinds of bad names, the mother of prostitutes, it really hurts my heart, even my husband supports his mother and his sisters for maltreating me , I know when they will be aware that this baby it’s another a girl, I can imagine how they will be treating me even worse than before. my heart is bleeding a lot. my husband hasn’t returned since yesterday, he doesn’t pick up his phone and he doesn’t want to answer my text, I feel bad, I couldn’t sleep at night, I cried a lot and thinks too much, I’m at work and I can’t even concentrate. I'm really sorry for all the bad things I said out of ignorance , I can never be ungrateful to God. thank you very much 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 11:58am On Feb 18, 2020 |
freecocoahubby: What is ridiculous about it?? You are an African for crying out loud. So tradition and cultural values are still held in high esteem. Fine, a baby, be it a boyor girl is important. But at the same time u can't rule out the fact that a baby boy is very important to continue his father's lineage. Do you think families with all their children as females are really happy? Do you think they never wished to have a baby boy?? Enough of all the hypocritical thinking. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
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