Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet , just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pained , I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this . Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

It's not your fault, it's not your husband's fault either.
If he is an enlightened person, he will come back around... allow him feel what he needs to feel.

healthserve:



Obianuju you don't counsel the broken hearted with hard words o. I don tell you my own.

How you dey

Why will she be broken hearted because she has girls? I just can't relate.

I dey jare.

Top tips for conceiving a boy; Remember there are no guarantees

Time sex to coincide with the day of ovulation (no earlier than 24 hours before you are about to ovulate).

Deep penetrative sex is preferable.

It helps if the woman reaches orgasm.
Have an energy drink, a cup of coffee or some chocolate before having sex it helps propel the Y sperm.

If you want a boy then avoid having sex:

Earlier than 24 hours before you are about to ovulate.

After 12 hours since you ovulated
To increase a father’s sperm count, he should not ejaculate for 4-5 days before ovulation, which according to Shettles will increase the chances of having a boy.

What is the difference between the boy and girl sperm?

Y or boy sperm:
Swim faster and are able to get to the egg more quickly than the X (female) sperm.
Tend to be smaller.
Are less resilient and less hardy, i.e. they are just more fragile than the X sperm.
Do not live for as long as the female sperm; they have a shorter life expectancy and die off much earlier.
Are more resistant to alkaline, i.e. higher pH, environments. At different times of a woman’s menstrual cycle, the pH of her vagina varies. Y sperm cannot tolerate the acidic environment of the vagina as well as the X sperm do.
X or female sperm:
Do not swim as fast as Y sperm; they are generally slower moving and less mobile.
Are bigger than Y sperm.
Have a longer life span, and are capable of fertilising an egg for a longer period, than Y sperm.
Prefer a lower vaginal pH (acidic) environment.

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet , just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pained , I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this . Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

This is one hell of stupi.dity in men which I hate. They seem to leave what they can control and worry themselves with what they can't control. Tell me is having a baby boy in man's control? Too bad he is killing himself for nothing.

snipesdam:
Top tips for conceiving a boy; Remember there are no guarantees

Time sex to coincide with the day of ovulation (no earlier than 24 hours before you are about to ovulate).

Deep penetrative sex is preferable.

It helps if the woman reaches orgasm.
Have an energy drink, a cup of coffee or some chocolate before having sex it helps propel the Y sperm.

If you want a boy then avoid having sex:

Earlier than 24 hours before you are about to ovulate.

After 12 hours since you ovulated
To increase a father’s sperm count, he should not ejaculate for 4-5 days before ovulation, which according to Shettles will increase the chances of having a boy.

@Psalme91 read this.

You both need help.

Omar09:


@Psalme91 read this.

I know this because a customer came to my office 4yrs ago before I got married and advised two women regarding this baby boy issue. Guess what it worked. That year they both delivered baby boys. Also my colleague whom has two girls delivered a baby boy last year after I told her that same thing the woman told those women.

Also I myself after I got married tried it and my wife gave birth to a baby boy last May.

So my text is for those whom want to listen. Do your part and God will crown your efforts.

UjuJoan2:


Why will she be broken hearted because she has girls? I just can't relate.

I dey jare.

She's in a phase. He get out of it with the experiences and words of wisdom she learns through the phase. But presently she's still in the phase trying to make sense of everything

You and your hubby are ingrate. Millions of people are crying for fruit of the womb be it girl or boy, you are crying for baby boy. I guess you're from eastern part of the country. My dear,train your daughters well and see how your old age become fruitful. I have two girls and I'm pleased with them.
It wasn't ur fault neither ur hubby. That what God design for you. A girl child take good care of parent in the old age than the male child. I'm talking from experience.
Would parent of Ngozi Nwella, Aminat Muhammad, Diezeni Maduekwe, madam Awosika, Mrs Alakija and other prominent Nigeria women not be proud of them ?
Train them to the highest level of education and watch how they become who is who in the country.

I am so irritated right now! Not because you’re having a girl meanwhile you and your husband are being ungrateful but because two adults are bringing in a FIFTH child! Into this world despite having financial issues!

Psalme91:


thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy

healthserve:



She's in a phase. He get out of it with the experiences and words of wisdom she learns through the phase. But presently she's still in the phase trying to make sense of everything

Okay ooh. I hope she finds sense.

A child is a child. It doesn't matter whether it is a male or female. Scientifically, he decides the sex of your baby, not you. The most important thing is for the baby to be born 'Hale and hearty'. Imagine if God blesses you with a male child that has 'Downing Syndrome' or that is Autistic. Will he kill the child or throw him away? He should be glad. Some people can't even take-in or give birth. You can. It's a blessing on its own.

7th child in this economy. Y'all give me a break please

lifemate89:

Sorry about the typo,hope you understood what I meant to write...
"you are not the cause of you giving birth to baby girls, it's your husband.
My dear, cry not,the Lord is in control...my elder sister was in the same shoe with you,she gave birth to four baby girls...just last week,she gave birth to a baby boy...Just be prayerful okay"

..........I know of a woman that her 7th child is a male child, other ones were females.just put everything in God's hand.

justnock:
A child is a child. It doesn't matter whether it is a male or female. Scientifically, he decides the sex of your baby, not you. The most important thing is for the baby to be born 'Hale and hearty'. Imagine if God blesses you with a male child that has 'Downing Syndrome' or that is Autistic. Will he kill the child or throw him away? He should be glad. Some people can't even take-in or give birth. You can. It's a blessing on its own.

What exactly does this mean?

Like he can just consciously decide which chromosome to contribute, or which sperm cell will fertilize the egg?

crackkhaus:

What exactly does this mean?

Like he can just consciously decide which chromosome to contribute, or which sperm cell will fertilize the egg?

If you ask me, na who I go ask?

justnock:


If you ask me, na who I go ask?

Lol

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet , just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pained , I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this . Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

Give him time, he will come around. Stop feeling bad, it is not your fault. Every child is a Blessing no matter the gender.

If only my aunt could have one to call hers, she wouldn't bother if it's a male or a female.

You already have way too many children. STOP!

Tell him to google how the sex of a foetus is determined. It is largely beyond his control and certainly not in the hands of the mother. An educated man should not be unhappy to have girls.

This is 2020.

It can be corrected. But it would require lots of condoms and a good doctor.

Every time ur husband has sex the sperm from the condom should be given to a doctor to check if its male or female. If its female discard but if its male it should be used on u. To produce a male child

My dear, you should have used Billings method to determine the sex of your baby.some used it and it worked for them.
Don't want to sound too religious,but there's a prayer book for conception and sex selection, can't remember the name tho but I think it has soft copy too.talk to God let him grant you your heart desires.from your mouth to God's ears

For the meantime please no more kids.train the ones you have already.honestly speaking,you should have stopped at 4 or 3 even. If he desperately needs a son,then he should have gathered money and look into going for IVF (sex selection method)

healthserve:




Eeyah.

Now this is where I Emeritus senior professor come in

Now, your body system determines the gender of an infant, much more than just the sperm of a man alone. I'm sure you've heard of X and Y chromosome and how these chromosomes affects or better put influences the gender of a baby.

Now listen, if you want to give rpegnanacy another attempt with the hope of having a boy. Three to Five months before your pregnancy, go on heavy steady daily dose of " Heavy Proteins ", i.e Soyabean foods, Beans. Yoghurt. Milk. I wonder why our doctors don't share this information with pre-pregnancy women.

Heavy proteins causes a woman's body system to influence it to fertilise male cells by over 80% than the body would naturally do. So by ingesting lots of proteins, you're preparing your body to be fertilised with male cells, hence, a male child. Find GNLD Protein shake and take lots of it months before you decided. This is one of the best heavy proteins I can recommend for this need. It costs between 25,000 and 34,000, but trust me, it's super power


Do this. Pray fervently " before " the do and spice your protein intake with plenty vegetables and you'll increase your chances of having a boy by 80%. Do not forget the place of fervent prayers. This is Africa

If you decide to make an attempt after following this information,please even if it's three years time remember to quote my mention of how this information gave you the expected results.

you said it all but missed out on motility of y chromosome compared to x plus making sure she copulates with her partner when she is ovulating to increase her chances as the Y got speed but lacks endurance compared to the X, a child is precious regardless the gender especially when it's a healthy baby and safe delivery .

When I mentioned this yesterday Pocohontas thought I'm being tribalistic. I spent a few days watching African magic Igbo recently and the primary theme of every movie I watched was having a male child . I don't know why Igbos are always fascinated by male offsprings yet they make money off female dowries and expenses, still the same female kids will take care of younger male siblings financially and set them up if they are in a position to do so while the boys inherit everything . Good luck madam, I can't feel sorry for you because there's nothing to be sorry about, take care





PS: I hope this isn't another fictional story by mods, yea it happens but there's no need to create a new moniker to post this. Why are there so many new monikers with different stories

Well.. He is the donor of the X's that made the girls. He is also in possession of the Y's that would make the boys.

Please let him embrace his handwork.

Omoboricash:
You and your hubby are ingrate. Millions of people are crying for fruit of the womb be it girl or boy, you are crying for baby boy. I guess you're from eastern part of the country. My dear,train your daughters well and see how your old age become fruitful. I have two girls and I'm pleased with them.
It wasn't ur fault neither ur hubby. That what God design for you. A girl child take good care of parent in the old age than the male child. I'm talking from experience.
Would parent of Ngozi Nwella, Aminat Muhammad, Diezeni Maduekwe, madam Awosika, Mrs Alakija and other prominent Nigeria women not be proud of them ?
Train them to the highest level of education and watch how they become who is who in the country.

op should be grateful she has children.

Which would you prefer, to be looking unto God since you got married for the fruits of the womb or rejoice your home is surrendered with lovely kids irrespective of the sex? Think about it and then decide which is better.
Post as yours annonys me . Sister appreciate God and stop been ungrateful. To see that your husband , I don't know what to say .

Gloriagee:
7th child in this economy. Y'all give me a break please

That's what happens when a man is hell bent on wanting a male child...

Sometimes, I wish i could blame God for giving some people children.

While some people have stayed years even without a miscarriage, someone is here crying for having 5 children.

Couples are out there hoping for at least a positive pregnancy test. Even if the baby doesn't term, all they want to know is their ability to conceive children.

No advice for you. I'm not happy with ingrates.

You people make girl children feel unwanted, whereas, in practical terms, the girl child has proven more useful than 10 sons. Check your families.

Mstick:
I am so irritated right now! Not because you’re having a girl meanwhile you and your husband are being ungrateful but because two adults are bringing in a FIFTH child! Into this world despite having financial issues!

Gbam

I wish I could like this comment a million times, I'm just so disgusted by the actions of the op and her husband. Gosh! Bringing to the world children you cannot cater for because you're looking for a male child in this 21St century is downright insane!

please forgive me for speaking like an ungrateful person, I am not ungrateful to God, I am really grateful to him for blessings me with my daughters, I was frustrated because of my husband behaviour that why I spoke like an ungrateful but I can never be ungrateful to God, my husband families, they treat me badly with all all kinds of bad names, the mother of prostitutes, it really hurts my heart, even my husband supports his mother and his sisters for maltreating me , I know when they will be aware that this baby it’s another a girl, I can imagine how they will be treating me even worse than before. my heart is bleeding a lot. my husband hasn’t returned since yesterday, he doesn’t pick up his phone and he doesn’t want to answer my text, I feel bad, I couldn’t sleep at night, I cried a lot and thinks too much, I’m at work and I can’t even concentrate. I'm really sorry for all the bad things I said out of ignorance , I can never be ungrateful to God. thank you very much

freecocoahubby:
This is absolutely ridiculous!
People still care about the gender of a baby in this day and age? This is why Nigeria will never progress - full of backward apes with silly mindsets

What is ridiculous about it?? You are an African for crying out loud. So tradition and cultural values are still held in high esteem. Fine, a baby, be it a boyor girl is important. But at the same time u can't rule out the fact that a baby boy is very important to continue his father's lineage.

Do you think families with all their children as females are really happy? Do you think they never wished to have a baby boy??

Enough of all the hypocritical thinking.