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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Femsyn(m): 12:11pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: Singles, marry enlightened men, and discuss these issues before marriage. This is beyond ignorance. Its plain wickedness. Your husband and his family should do their worst. 17 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by travelland(f): 12:39pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
This is what you stand to gain if you train them well, show your in laws this photo and make sure you use your husband's money to invest in their education 13 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by frozen70(f): 12:39pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: You better relax and take care of your pregnancy so that you can deliver in good health Baby boy or girl child is determined by a man chromosomes Some people living happily without a child is anxiously looking for a girl child to call their own If your man wants to cheat or become unhappy, pls think about yourself Men are not worth the tension you are creating because of him He can as well do with out you Just hold yourself 2 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by jagaban002(m): 12:47pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
You are not God what if you give birth to an inbecile male , I won’t mention names but I know a billionaire that have 3 female kids and show them off and can’t show is male kid because is something is not proud of , be happy God give u 100% balanced kid Nd d ones u will hide inside the house . Your husband just need orientation and all that matter most is d kids that will make u proud not the one that will ruin ur names and I have two beautiful daughters that I show off anyday anytime . God plan is the best and I wish u safe delivery 6 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by freecocoahubby(m): 12:48pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
LIVINGICON: What useless lineage? Are we in the 18th century or what. So, you'll sink into depression if you have a girl child right? Agbaya! Btw, your last statement is highly laughable! So boys automatically guarantee happiness right? Go ask my uncle who has four sons - all of whom their mother turned against him after spending millions raising and sending them abroad. Likewise I know others with daughters who are living in peace and contentment. Be careful how you talk before God punish you there. 18 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 12:51pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
freecocoahubby: Keep living in a Fool's paradise. I don talk finish 7 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by freecocoahubby(m): 12:53pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
LIVINGICON: Like I said, Nigeria is full of backward apes... and you must be one of them 17 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by OlawaleBammie: 12:56pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
baby124: They have started, as if its not female child u wil find at every oloshoic centers across cities.. Madam Psalme91 u wil b ok wen u realise that its God dat is determining everything in this life irrespective of ur prayers, will, prospects, zeal, dedication, and all.. Laslas wen cant choose for God as ur prayer, cry, dedication, zeal cant change His plan, He's the masterplanner. And for ur husband, dont worry, he wil come bak home after he must have gba kamu. 2 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by freecocoahubby(m): 1:00pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: And you kept opening your legs to be impregnated by their son in a pathetic attempt to prove them wrong right? You could've stopped at two but now you've got a house filled with 4-5 innocent children who will grow up knowing they are not valued because they are girls. I know you are upset right now but shame on you, your silly husband and his useless family members. 16 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by ednut1(m): 1:50pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
since you and your husband have chosen to be stupid. you will suffer the consequences. 5 children in this hard economy 3 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by ednut1(m): 1:54pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
snipesdam:so they should have more kids even as they cant take care of the current ones 3 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by chival(f): 2:36pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
ikh777:OP follow this advice please. Remember some don't even have any children at all. Be grateful. Your husband will come round. |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Liposure: 3:31pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Diiiamoond:seriously, 9 girls. u are blessed |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by UjuJoan2: 3:53pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: Oh, I didn't see this. Four girls already? Well, I understand how you must feel depressed at the idea of having another girl. But look at it this way, you are healthy, your children are healthy . . that's all that really matters. Your husband will come around, and if he doesn't . . well, you need to love your child and pray for long life to raise them. 1 Like |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by UjuJoan2: 3:54pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Diiiamoond: What a terrible thing to say about your own brother! 6 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by olabrinks(f): 4:24pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
People saying that she should be grateful because they’re people out there looking for the fruit of the womb. Well I’m sorry, just because you are blessed in a certain area, that doesn’t totally disregard your feelings or emotions. You are very entitled to feel sad about a situation, no matter how many people want to be in your shoes. Everybody has their own individual problems. The rich do cry, yet millions of people want to be in their position. Does this mean they are not entitled to feel sad? As for those saying female children are better than males and blah blah blah. A child is a child and the behaviour and actions simply rely on the upbringing and training of the child. They’re many wayward females as well as males, if you train your child up well, they will never depart from it. It’s just that simple. No need to start spreading lies to make the OP feel better. The problems with Africans is that they don’t train their male children well, they spoil them hence why many believe female children do better in life. It’s all bullocks. To the op, I think your main concern should be getting your tubes tied. You have too many children and clearly you all are struggling financially to take care of them. You are not destined to have a boy, and that is fine. Train your female children well and they will be a source of joy for you and your hubby in old age. Good luck. 16 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Shallypop(f): 4:25pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Take a look at d Kardashian family. The only male in the family is almost useless. 7 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by olabrinks(f): 4:31pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Shallypop:yes. And they’re many useless female children out there. I know you mean well, but stop acting like All Male children grow up to be useless. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by amaham(m): 4:35pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Pls madam, you can save up with your husband and go for invitro fertilisation with sex selection. Instead of doing this trial and error technique. Look for a good fertility clinic to discuss with. 1 Like |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Temple1288(m): 4:58pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Ndi Isi Oji!!! Black people from Black Africa... Very useless and stupid to the core; coupled with the fact that they live in a British Zoo makes it worse! The only race on Earth to be traded and priced like onions. There's this stupidity that lives in the brains of Ndi Isi Oji that makes them think a male child is more important! Tomorrow when the female child turns out to be a corrupt government official AKA Looting Machine or maybe a full-fledged Instagram scammer, the stupid sperm donor will gladly call her MY DAUGHTER! No wonder people are buying bleaching creams just to turn white.... 1 Like |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Malawian(m): 5:00pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
James289:Actually, it is timing that determines the sex of the baby. Having sex after her ovulation day is more likely to result to a son that having sex before her ovulation day. Male sperm are faster but are not resilient like female sperm that are slower but more resilient. It is a race for who will first reach the egg, so make sure the egg is readily available before you start the race. it is called handicapping. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 5:38pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Shallypop: Even their father became a woman. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Shallypop(f): 5:40pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
olabrinks:My son will never be useless IJN. Just trying to encourage the OP dat in any situation, always give thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Gerrard59(m): 5:59pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
ednut1: Na the children go suffer am pass. I sympathise with them. 7 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Lordswazz(m): 6:10pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
People here are bringing up instances of male children turning out wayward like it's not females that are prostituting round the whole Nigeria and writing "Hookup Only" on Badoo and Instamessage. The ones saying she and her husband are ingrates are yet to be completely thankful for eating 3 square meals daily and living in properly sheltered buildings while several millions of people are homeless right in this country. The fact is, complete satisfaction is easier said than done, and no gender has a monopoly of waywardness. Your husband will come around with time; just be patient. In life, things don't always go the way we want them; however, that isn't enough reason to beat ourselves up. He's just letting off steam. He'll calm down. Make una slow down on the children though, as having too many isn't a wise decision. 4 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 6:11pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Diiiamoond:It means say na you useless. Chai 2 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 6:20pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91:Aunty, abeg, after you born this no. 5 close your legs. No look for boy again. Focus on this 5. Pray over them regularly that no evil words uttered against your girls shall ever come to pass. Encourage them to stay focused on their studies. Love them like nobody else. Love them dearly as they are, ‘YOUR WORLD’. You shall overcome las las. God is your strength. 2 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 6:28pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Your hubby has to be content with the children God has given him. There is nothing wrong with having girls. I gave birth to my handsome baby boy three months ago but my husband and I would've been happy if we had had a girl. The sex didn't matter much to us since he is our first baby, we just wanted a happy, healthy baby. But I understand your plight of wanting a boy after having 4 girls. Know that babies are wonderful little humans irrespective of sex. 1 Like |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Ishilove: 6:34pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91:Why are you complaining? My kinsman had 18 girls from 4 women 6 Likes |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Ishilove: 6:36pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
baby124:Who?? |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Ishilove: 6:40pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
amaham:So you didn't read the part where she stated they're having financial challenges?? |
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by toni4691: 7:45pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
I have 6 daughters and a boy . I'm so happy with my daughters. Please continue to pray , God will answer you. |
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