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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:19pm On Feb 19, 2020
Diiiamoond:
its really upsetting that there are people out there who are so ungrateful for what God has given them, there are some people out there who are desperately trying to have children and then you have this man complaining that hes got girls.
So people dont realise how blessed there are,
Your husband needs more education on the blessings of having girls children. Let this not worry you in the least as it is God who gives, and HE has reasons for giving you daughters.
I was born in a family of 10- 9 girls and a boy (me number cool. Today my mum is happy she has lots of successful girls and the boy is useless.

Lmao! So you're a useless boy? cheesy cheesy grin cheesy Haven't read anything funnier all day!
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by sacx: 11:20pm On Feb 19, 2020
nextstep:


Not possible. The spermatozoa that caused pregnancy is either coded Y or X. (It doesn't come with two, and only one spermatozoa can enter the ovum). Rejecting the chromosome means that the potential child would not exist.

I think someone already gave clarity to this on the first page. Didn't see it before I asked.

The thing is, under certain conditions, the spermatozoa bearing Y chromosome thrives better than the one with X. With quality sperm cells and the correct conditions in the uterus, both couples can actually determine the sex of their child. If either or both are absent, you get an undesired result.
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by wirinet(m): 11:21pm On Feb 19, 2020
James289:
Technically, the man decides the sex of the baby... not the woman. You can only contribute an X since you are XX and the man's sperm contributed either an X or a Y - thus deciding the sex.
So, he wasn't able to give himself what he wanted, lol - no reason for you to feel guilty.
Not exactly correct, except you are insinuating some men carry XX chromosomes in their sperm.. The man donates both XX and XY, it sometimes depends on which is more favoured by the condition of the woman's reproductive organs at the time of conception. Other factors like acidity or alkalinity of the reproductive tracts and timing of sex within the menstrual cycle affects sex of the baby

A woman’s monthly bodily cycle includes alternating pH levels (acidic and alkaline) within her reproductive tract.

The changes in the pH environment within is now thought to affect baby’s gender. Experts say that alkaline in the follicular fluid will favour Y sperm (conceive a boy) while acidic in the follicular fluid gives preference to the X sperm (conceive a girl).
https://www.bountyparents.com.au/expert-advice/gender-selection-influence-sex-baby/

I personally believe sometimes it's hereditary. In some families, giving birth predominantly to one sex runs within the family for generations.
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 11:22pm On Feb 19, 2020
Its the man's sperm that determines the sex of a baby, he is at fault, blame him not you.
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by klamba(m): 11:22pm On Feb 19, 2020
One food no good for body..person need to taste another food na
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Styluscrib(m): 11:24pm On Feb 19, 2020
Never mind, Baby nah baby, Girl or Boy
I share your pains,
But next time always try and calculate your ovulation time and meet then
Again, ask your husband to eat more of carbohydrates prior to that time.
E.g yam and you too more of yam and try fertility foods and less chemical or organic foods then.
Just be focused.
But you might end up having more than triplets if the carbohydrates over potent for pH stability of your system to allow the male sperm chromosomes survived to fertilize faster.
Note. Timing of ovulation day is key to male boy assurance

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Leogreat5: 11:24pm On Feb 19, 2020
Please aunty ,stop worrying yourself. At this point in time turn your worries to God. Put your trust in him..... Funny enough your husband sex cell is responsible for this? The male sex cell (xy) determine the sex of the baby.....Mama please try this next time though under probability,. Mark the day of your ovulation, (15days after menses)..get a calendar, circle the first 3days after the 15th and also circle 3days after the 15th day.....the chances of having a men child increases when mating occur on the day of ovulation upwards ,because the y chromosome moves faster n die off more easily after 24hrs unlike the x chromosome that moves slowly n stays up to 3- 4days..ie xx--female while xy ..male.......##i can still explain more##

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Sufisunni: 11:28pm On Feb 19, 2020
Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please
There is pix a going viral in internet, the family has only girls and all are medical doctors. The pix is attached below. There are families with boys who have got nothing to write home about.

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by LadySarah: 11:29pm On Feb 19, 2020
Leogreat5:
Please aunty ,stop worrying yourself. At this point in time turn your worries to God. Put your trust in him..... Funny enough your husband sex cell is responsible for this? The male sex cell (xy) determine the sex of the baby.....Mama please try this next time though under probability,. Mark the day of your ovulation, (15days after menses)..get a calendar, circle the first 3days after the 15th and also circle 3days after the 15th day.....the chances of having a men child increases when mating occur on the day of ovulation upwards ,because the y chromosome moves faster n die off more easily after 24hrs unlike the x chromosome that moves slowly n stays up to 3- 4days..ie xx--female while xy ..male.......##i can still explain more##

Let her just kill herself for world ppl because of a boy child.
She is pregnant with her fifth and the family is already in a financial mess.

Advice her on family planning and how to go out and make money to take care of the girls.

Gosh!

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Toseenlove: 11:29pm On Feb 19, 2020
Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, Just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I'm in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

More Resources to the Alagberes Siiiiimps association of NG lol. Goodluck with delivery. Meanwhile make una keep breeding like rats and overpopulating the overpopulation lol.

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DexterousOne(m): 11:30pm On Feb 19, 2020
Omoboricash:
You and your hubby are ingrate. Millions of people are crying for fruit of the womb be it girl or boy, you are crying for baby boy. I guess you're from eastern part of the country. My dear,train your daughters well and see how your old age become fruitful. I have two girls and I'm pleased with them.
It wasn't ur fault neither ur hubby. That what God design for you. A girl child take good care of parent in the old age than the male child. I'm talking from experience.
Would parent of Ngozi Nwella, Aminat Muhammad, Diezeni Maduekwe, madam Awosika, Mrs Alakija and other prominent Nigeria women not be proud of them ?
Train them to the highest level of education and watch how they become who is who in the country.

She has to be.

I know my people

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DexterousOne(m): 11:34pm On Feb 19, 2020
GoodFaith:

Mr Tayo had 7 girls-- beautiful girls

Which Mr. Tayo
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DexterousOne(m): 11:36pm On Feb 19, 2020
Munzy14:

You guys keep over flogging this issue of a man determines the sex of the child. Yes we know, the male child is gotten from YX, but I hope u won't be in a haste to forget, the Y sex cell, must swim from point of release all through to it's final destination. If the woman's internal system isn't favourable, It won't make it to the final destination.

X sex cell is the most rugged and survives almost any condition the woman's internal body presents.


OP's case isnt a Big deal, av seen a renowned medical doctor who almost left his wife for giving him 5 female kids, until the 6,7 and 8th turned out to be boys.


The doctor is s stupid man
No polite way of saying it

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by ayanbaba2(m): 11:36pm On Feb 19, 2020
EVILFOREST:
Please are you the BOY...?

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DexterousOne(m): 11:37pm On Feb 19, 2020
Munzy14:

You guys keep over flogging this issue of a man determines the sex of the child. Yes we know, the male child is gotten from YX, but I hope u won't be in a haste to forget, the Y sex cell, must swim from point of release all through to it's final destination. If the woman's internal system isn't favourable, It won't make it to the final destination.

X sex cell is the most rugged and survives almost any condition the woman's internal body presents.


OP's case isnt a Big deal, av seen a renowned medical doctor who almost left his wife for giving him 5 female kids, until the 6,7 and 8th turned out to be boys.


And to add

If the man has health sperm cells
And he shoots more Y than X

He has a good chance of a male child
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by pekisdgee(m): 11:38pm On Feb 19, 2020
Inside life... you still have one more to go lolzz


Psalme91:


thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by 18wheeler: 11:38pm On Feb 19, 2020
Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please
No be him put am dai?
SMH
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Midas01: 11:39pm On Feb 19, 2020
You and your husband don't have sense. Your broken heartedness is a direct result of both your stupidities mixing together.

You just said you wanted this baby which you hoped to be a boy to be your last due to financial issues but in your last statement in the op you said you want God to give you male triplets.


So if it's another female child you're broke but not broke when it comes to having mals triplets? May God deliver una from foolishness.
healthserve:



Obianuju you don't counsel the broken hearted with hard words o. I don tell you my own.

How you dey

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DexterousOne(m): 11:39pm On Feb 19, 2020
sacx:


Is there by any chance in science, that a woman's body rejects the 'Y' chromosome supplied by the man?

Nope.
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by bayumyguy: 11:41pm On Feb 19, 2020
Please be grateful to God cos some people are crying to have just one.

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by dozzybreezy(m): 11:43pm On Feb 19, 2020
Tell your husband not to let the anger of God to decend on him. It is Go we gives children as he wants not man.

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by healthserve(m): 11:43pm On Feb 19, 2020
Midas01:
You and your husband don't have sense. Your broken heartedness is a direct result of both your stupidities mixing together.

You just said you wanted this baby which you hoped to be a boy to be your last due to financial issues but in your last statement in the op you said you want God to give you male triplets.


So if it's another female child you're broke but not broke when it comes to having mals triplets? May God deliver una from foolishness.


No be me b d husband o cheesy
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by ayanbaba2(m): 11:43pm On Feb 19, 2020
five kids for this age?

make you no just suffer the children oooooooo
God is your strength ooo!


I wonder why people place special preference on having a male child , I don't just know!


2kids don do me,
anyone God gave me, that's all!

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by 12345baba(m): 11:43pm On Feb 19, 2020
NAwa o. Me dey here dey pray make I born 3 sharp girls.

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Sterope(f): 11:43pm On Feb 19, 2020
Your daughters don't have a father yet.

I am surprised you don't see the kind of man you married. You may never that boy he wants so desperately. Who do you think they will resent more? A father eho left hime because he was disappointed in their gender or the mother who wished for male children to please her husband because the previous births have been disappointing.

OR

Your husband has not been home because he is in danger.

Psalme91:
you guys are right i should not worry about something which is not in my control.Thank you very very much for your support and kind words

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Sterope(f): 11:46pm On Feb 19, 2020
Nothing is automatic even with faith
tunderoc:
Madam I don't know if this is actually true but then there's no error in trying and having faith ok. A pastor once said There's some verse in Leviticus that states that "laying with your partner somedays after your period will automatically result in having male child. Besides I don't know what our obsession with male child is Sha.
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Liposure: 11:47pm On Feb 19, 2020
My Y chromosome sperm cells 4 sale. offer valid while stock last. Term and condition apply.
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DexterousOne(m): 11:49pm On Feb 19, 2020
LIVINGICON:


Keep living in a Fool's paradise.
I don talk finish

Your daughters carry your gene
Just like your sons.

So your lineage and DNA still Carries on.
Whether Male or female

But then
We see things differently sha
That's the beauty of the world

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DNSPro: 11:49pm On Feb 19, 2020
Psalme91:


thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy
your husband is ignorant. Pure and simple. The man is whom decides the gender of a child and not the woman.

A girl child is human and he should focus on building a solid legacy for them... Female child take good care of their parents in most cases than their male child.

Na ignorance be all these ones

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DexterousOne(m): 11:50pm On Feb 19, 2020
dovenice:
You See life so...when me am even praying to have one, you have four and another one coming and you still crying because you are having same gender again...it is well.

God will answer your prayers soon
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Liposure: 11:51pm On Feb 19, 2020
12345baba:
NAwa o. Me dey here dey pray make I born 3 sharp girls.
baba wetin u want take 3 girls do.

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