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Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Fajoe2020: 8:05am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Same here |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Nobody: 8:47am On Feb 21, 2020 |
biGDhAp:I didn't finish the story, can't finish it or I will risk my grandfather strangling me to death from his grave |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Young03(m): 8:51am On Feb 21, 2020 |
I cover my brain and eyes with the blood if Jesus From your story, You still hoping that your neighbours son bleeps u again God help your wife And person like you will like anal sex 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by EmekusTHEgreat(m): 8:55am On Feb 21, 2020 |
@Dexlomo, it's not in the place of any man to infere judgement on you, God (even with your past) would still gladly accept you if you were to seek him. I hope that you have a wonderful married life but there's something I noticed from your writing, I feel that you are nostalgic of your old life, I can make out lustfulness in your tone of writing, let old things pass away.. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Nobody: 9:24am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Gofwane:... plucking it like you pluck s fruit from a tree would be better |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Lamanii22(f): 9:45am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Palehair: Awwww... I was so touched... I cried... I just wanna give the OP a long hug.. I want him to feel better... 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Palehair: 9:49am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Lamanii22:Same here, I definitely hope he's OK because it's really a struggle. It's like fighting yourself and I commend him for it 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Lamanii22(f): 10:05am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Palehair: Right... I really hope too... I commend him too.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Specyano(m): 10:17am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Thought I was reading a girl story not till the end. So many shit happens in boys only/girls only schools...damn!!! Well so far you decided to share this, it shows you're ready to face the challenges and let go of it, so help u God. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by tunize(m): 10:46am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Speechless. The o.p had options but he choosed his part of being gay because he nvr mentioned thatvhe was forced.can't judge u but pray God to see you tru. he should first go and talk to his pastor and set up a meet up with the wife and pastor so he could as well tell his wife.( u go need ur wife too to fight ur way out). |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by creolehunt: 11:24am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Palehair: Part of me feels you're same person as the OP or you're also gay. That's the only way I can explain you taking over the discourse. If I'm wrong, please accept my apologies. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Palehair: 1:40pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
creolehunt:I have a gay brother so I may not understand what he's going through but at least I can relate with it 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by creolehunt: 1:56pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Palehair: Ok bro 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 8:33pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
EmekusTHEgreat: I don't know what you mean by lustfulness though. One thing I can say is that I cannot completely tell I am done with my old life since I still maintain friendship with my older friends however, with respect to sex, I am out. We still get to talk about it sometimes as a way to encourage one another and also, not to fall into that moment that the brain would demand sex. It is more of a preventive measure. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 8:35pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
IceColdVeins: I am neither and if you have moved on, let the past remain where it is. You don't need to come display some online toxic masculinity if there is nothing you are trying to prove. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 8:39pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Ishilove: I am not out to contest what you feel about my post and if you read it well like you claim, you would get the picture. The essence of the write up is that we should be truthful to who we are as that could help us identify where to get help if need be. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Ishilove: 8:41pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Dexlomo:Okay... I still feel dirty though |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 8:43pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Lamanii22: I have always found them attractive but my early experience made me feel I am incompetent to have anything to do with a woman. My childhood trait of being effeminate doesn't necessarily translate to anything in terms of sexuality. Guess my neighbor's son took advantage of me coupled with some little bullying in elementary school that made me feel I should be a sissy and it was/is okay. It took a long while to walk out but nonetheless, because I am kind of tuned into it psychologically, I keep friends with my older friends who helped me rediscover myself because they went through a similar past and one of the things I have learnt is that discussing it most times, helps one not to crave for it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 8:44pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
PRISTINEMUSCLES: If that is how you see it, I do not have the ability to change your thoughts. For your question, it holds it perfectly well. What next? 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 8:45pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
ValCon888: I would like to decline this question just to help safeguard the name of my school as it got nothing to do with the school and neither was/is it the culture of the school. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 8:49pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Cchuks27: What closet are we referring to here? That sometimes, I think about the past/talk about it with some other married men whom we have formed a support group is a crime, right? For your information, my wife is okay with me being me and we are enjoying each other's company. I could have been wired differently and I choose a new path for myself, what crime have I committed? 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 8:52pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
ifeanyiatuadu: They can keep dwelling in their fantasies but what can I do about that? Many are not homophobes in the real sense they are just trying to tag along as being macho men. They should look deep into their family and if they have any sense of gaydar like they act, they would see it but you know what, we all are a bunch of hypocrites. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by vastolord4(m): 8:54pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
biGDhAp: a septic tank won't hold my puke |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 8:55pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Young03: If you read it with an open mind, you would have noticed that happened long before I got married. Anyways, there is nothing to prove. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 8:56pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Specyano: It was a mixed school but in the hostels, it was single sex based on your house. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Nobody: 8:58pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
vastolord4:lol ... shiit is crazy man |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 8:58pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
tunize: When my dealings were with guys, you could term me gay however, I have moved past that as such, my orientation could have changed. There are a few articles online although the outcomes are ambivalent, it is difficult to put people in a typical basket sexually. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 8:59pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
creolehunt: Any need to apologize to him? You concluded already as led by your feelings so... |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 9:00pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Ishilove: I can't help on how you feel but ... |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Anyahuruagu: 9:07pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Av been abused by my senior in school once in his house, rich boy drove me home and put porn for me in his laptop and immediately my jacuzzi started going up, cos that time i am yet to experience first eruption... was enjoying the feeling until my head started kicking like the Jews Head praying in Wailing Wall and then the eruption came like molten magma and i became so weak and useless, then see brother come behind me begin d comot belt sey em want enter blue sea, i told him i will shout and neighbors will gather here now... Immediately he became sane again and since that time i suffered masturbation till the day NOAH entered the Ark and the Son Set me free from all my worries... Lesson is Watch ur kids company and be closer to your kids... Jesus Christ set me free from deadbeat masturbation.. We all must be very careful before people will inflict a pain we will live with forever.... Be it a habit or character or whatever. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 9:08pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
To all those acting out there, one of the things I learnt particularly about us Nigerians is that there are very many on the DL. Many have multiple girlfriends to cover up, go to gym to get muscular to cover their traits and to attract more guys, and many other things they do. It is all pretense. The earlier we all learn to live our lives and make support groups grow instead of trying to demoralize people trying to find their path, the better for us all. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Yxxx: 9:18pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
The earlier we talk about issues like this, the better. I escaped been one and I must say it's God's intervention. My advice to you is to keep trying to remain straight. Decide that you won't go back to the past. Pray about it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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