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Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by good4all40: 11:31pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Talk to her and let her realize that life is full of disappointments and in the future, never raise her hope for uncertainties, especially visas to first world countries. You can take her to Togo or Ghana for one week vacation it is less expensive and better way to familiarize her with our neighboring countries. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 11:45pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
If u couldn't go to ur sister, ur sister can't come to u too? Coming to Nigeria is Visa free. Are u Donald Trump determining granting of a Visa? I got a Son, before telling him we wld travel, the basic requirement is clear such as a visa. Please ma, unpromise ur daughter. U are not a visa officer. 3 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 12:36am On Feb 21, 2020 |
AllforJesus7: Nigerians and their mentality Give your child the best you can Theres nothing like over pampering With all the acclaimed morals what is Africa today. Nothing but a shithole with backwardness, poverty, corruption and lack. Who defines what is good or bad, you? Show your child the best and he will never settle for less. 2 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 12:38am On Feb 21, 2020 |
good4all40: Then do giveaway on nairaland right? Togo? |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 12:40am On Feb 21, 2020 |
timagentms: Take her to Dubai I think the most important thing to her. Is that she travels abroad this season. USA is an astronomical dream thanks to our bad leadership. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 4:17am On Feb 21, 2020 |
timagentms:I WILL TAKE her along when I visit. To Calm her down, Tell her an UNCLE on NAIRALAND platform will file for her. Yours was what time on Wednesday..? 6am, 6:30, 6:45am..? What was their reason..? Have you been to the US, before..? Wasn't your statement of account rich enough...? Are you a single Mum or married..? If married, where does your husband reside..? |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Bonjovi13: 5:59am On Feb 21, 2020 |
God bless you my brother for this comment. Alot of these young parents have transferred their competitive spirit to their children whether consciously or unconsciously. The need to feel among or be part of the trendy group has put additional pressures on parents and now on their children. It is ok for the little kid to feel disappointed and sad that she ain't going for vacation in the US since she has been looking up to it and must have told all her friends in school.That is understandable. She will get over it. My issue is that the parent thinks it would make her feel inferior. Like seriously? My dear,please talk to your child.Build her up mentally and psychologically.Tell her to be emotionally secure. The opinion of her peers of her should determine how she feels and reacts to issues. Tell het that what people think or say of her should not have a strong impact on her mind. She should be her own person.Have a mind of her own. It is this crowd bonding that is leading our youths astray and causing them to indulge in all manner of vices because of peer pressure. Tell her that going to US or not going will not reduce her in any way even if the whole of the school goes for vacation there. Dont be weak yourself.It is not the end of life.disappointment happen. Move beyond it.Life is still ahead get her ready. Sometimes we over pamper our children not knowing that we are poorly preparing them for the harsh reality of adulthood. Teach your daughter to be strong. Teach her that life is full of disappointments (because this will not be the only disappointments that she will have to face growing up) but that you will try again and you will succeed. It is your responsibility to nurture her into a strong woman and build up a strong mentality in her to help her overcome future challenges. Don't underestimate the impact of a consistent 5 minutes session of parental pep talk in the life of a young mind. Take her out for fun, make her happy and let her understand that these things happen. Good luck. [/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by timagentms: 8:22am On Feb 21, 2020 |
OlakunmiSMELTD:Rwanda or Uganda will be OK. Thank you. |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by OlakunmiSMELTD: 11:37am On Feb 21, 2020 |
timagentms:So apply to Rwanda online like 50usd Or travel with visa on arrival, U can also enter Kenya from Rwanda by bus. It wouldn't cost more than 30usd for visa 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by timagentms: 12:23pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
OlakunmiSMELTD:pls I have sent you an email, pls check us mail sir. Thank u |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by OlakunmiSMELTD: 1:16pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
timagentms:Replied 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by timagentms: 10:33pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
[quote author=EVILFOREST post=86826235]
I WILL TAKE her along when I visit.
To Calm her down, Tell her an UNCLE on NAIRALAND platform will file for her.
Yours was what time on Wednesday..?
6am, 6:30, 6:45am..?
What was their reason..?
Have you been to the US, before..?
Wasn't your statement of account rich enough...?
Are you a single Mum or married..?
If married, where does your husband reside..?
[s][quote author=EVILFOREST post=86826235]
I WILL TAKE her along when I visit.
To Calm her down, Tell her an UNCLE on NAIRALAND platform will file for her.
Yours was what time on Wednesday..?
6am, 6:30, 6:45am..?
What was their reason..?
Have you been to the US, before..?
Wasn't your statement of account rich enough...?
Are you a single Mum or married..?
If married, where does your husband reside..?
[/s][quote author=EVILFOREST post=86826235]
I WILL TAKE her along when I visit.
To Calm her down, Tell her an UNCLE on NAIRALAND platform will file for her.
Yours was what time on Wednesday..?
6am, 6:30, 6:45am..?
What was their reason..?
Have you been to the US, before..?
Wasn't your statement of account rich enough...?
Are you a single Mum or married..?
If married, where does your husband reside..? |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by timagentms: 10:35pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
OlakunmiSMELTD:seen. Thank u |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Greystone: 9:27am On Feb 22, 2020 |
It’s unfortunate for her to start experiencing disappointments at that age. I wish you guys better luck next time. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by gnykelly(m): 9:35am On Feb 22, 2020 |
timagentms: bros if you have the means...take her to Kenya make she go see Safari.... let her snap with those exotic animals... give her a bragging privilege...those things will shape her personality by not making her feel others are superior to her. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by travelland(f): 12:33pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
Smh just one of many dissapointments she will have to face in life 2 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by timagentms: 2:43pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
gnykelly:Thanks for your suggestion. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Originalsly: 8:11pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
salford1: See solution?..... the daughter can't tell the difference between the US and Lagos if she doesn't live in Lagos. Two things are required..... that she travels on a plane.... and she meets her cousins. Then she will live with any explanations. But why would the parent even think of making such a promise before getting a Visa? Never make a promise to young children that you can't keep. Explanations do not work and they may hold it against you.... for life. 2 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by timagentms: 11:48am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Originalsly:Thanks for suggestion sir |
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