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Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Nobody: 9:34pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Anyahuruagu:no be masturbation thread be this nw. if for xay your senior fvck your hard nyash wella . eh ehn. e dey legit to carry your matter come here 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Nobody: 9:38pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
one wanting I've been wanting to know or cab deduce from op's write up is. being gay isn't a gene thing or some hormones thing.. it's all boils down to mental abnormality.. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Kyom20(m): 10:08pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
I am glad when i see stories like this. Sexuality for a number of us isn't strictly defined, it covers a whole spectrum and even fluctuates from time to time. Despite trying to cover up our needs so as to meet up with societies standards, the body wants what it wants. I remember my first same sex experience, it happened when i was 5, i spoke out and my family got to know and i was beaten throughly. Afterwards i learnt to keep it secret. There were so many encounters but suprisingly i and the people i had them with dont even mention it when we see. I was molested a few times by the opposite sex when i was younger and i feel that was what made me seek solace in the same sex. Quite frankly i was scared of the opposite sex. Through all my encounters i had never actually climaxed till the last partner i had. I told the person that i had never climaxed because i am not gay but i just like to be with someone of the same sex for the comfort and excitement. The person was persistent and kept pushing till the day i came like i had never come in all my life. I became a slave to my partner, nothing had ever felt so good. That was when the realization of my sexuality dawned on me. However, life got in d way and we went to different schools. I was finally introduced to the wonders of the opposite sex. i enjoy it very much but every now and again i miss the good old days. I am happy when i see that i am not alone in this. 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Nobody: 10:22pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Dexlomo:Does your wife know? |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Yxxx: 11:01pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:Don't bring this? She should never know. We don't know her mental and emotional strength. Besides this is top secret. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 11:05pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: No she doesn't fully despite explaining some of my past to her. She feels it was an outcome of me being a boarder and I feel I shouldn't saddle her with information she isn't so interested in. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 11:09pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Yxxx: Mind sharing how you overcame? |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Lamanii22(f): 12:42am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Dexlomo: Woooow... I wanna hug you rn... I'm amazed really... 4 Likes |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Nobody: 12:56am On Feb 22, 2020 |
so there actually lots of nigerian men on the downlow no wonder bob risky some days ago said after his surgery in dubai many nigerian marriages will collapse 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by eseh1(f): 6:42am On Feb 22, 2020 |
I think most times we become who we are as a result of experience in our nominal age. Some were lucky cos they were never exposed to the risk while some weren't.. just like we didn't choose our family background either rich or poor but can work towards been rich. I went to a single sex school, I never had same sex encounter but I had friends who did cos they were pretty funky kids exposed to it at a tender age, some even got suspended...but I never judged them cos I felt d lucky ones where just not exposed... Alot are married now, I wudnt even call them bi-sexuals cos those happened in d past. My advice is for parents to always educate their children from a tender age, imbibe discipline in them ...fill their memory with good stuff...These things always ring in their head when you are not there..... I still believe in this saying " Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it "... @Op you are wonderful and thank you for sharing with us...know that there are pple out there who will never judge your past...All the best in this new phase and may God bless your marriage.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Nobody: 7:40am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Dexlomo:she's smart. Don't make your past, your present. Hope you continue to have the will to go on. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Nobody: 7:41am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Yxxx:she has a right to know, if your wife was a lesbian, wouldn't you want to know? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Specyano(m): 10:43am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Dexlomo: Oh!, Well you were introduced to it at a young age which you find difficult to say no or probably find fun it buh now you're a grown man just make d right decision coz that shit is disgusting. don't make that urge control u, you're stronger than it. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Yxxx: 11:12am On Feb 22, 2020 |
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Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Yxxx: 11:13am On Feb 22, 2020 |
[quote author=funmisticqueen2 post=86855330]she has a right to know, if your wife was a lesbian, wouldn't you want You won't understand. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 6:45pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: Thank you so much, God has been helping me and my way of staying away is keeping friends with my three older friends who also are no longer involved in it. We encourage ourselves whenever there is need to. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 6:48pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
eseh1: Thank you so much both for your words of encouragement and the prayers. Sincerely, marriage has been fun so far and I am happy I am meeting all my expectations by the grace of God. It took me a while to find someone who was willing to understand me and stay by me and like my friends and relatives know, she is my top priority after God. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by kingxsamz(m): 6:56pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
Palehair: Bro, same way he has the right to express his feelings on things, same way we're free to criticize it. Not everyone must like whatever is being dished out to them online. There are people who find this disgusting, and would always speak out when they see something they don't like. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Palehair: 7:02pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
kingxsamz:He's relaying his pain to all of us and he's not clamoring for it like did you even read his story to the end? He's trying to change and it's really hard, we are supposed to give him that moral support for even reaching out with it but instead most read halfway and started shaming him |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by kingxsamz(m): 8:15pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Palehair: I didn't read till the end. Seemed to me like this was more like a gay erotica, rather than someone seeking help. At first I thought it was a female narrating her story untill I had to check and realized it was a dude. Had to stop. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by lewis512(m): 1:11am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Lamanii22:You stopped using Twitter or you in for you Doctorate already? 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Lamanii22(f): 5:12am On Feb 24, 2020 |
lewis512: I uninstalled the app, but I'd be back on there real soon... 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Palehair: 9:07am On Feb 24, 2020 |
kingxsamz:Well, you shouldn't always judge a book by it's prologue... Lol, the epilogue may change your mind. But in your defense, it really sounded like s gay erotica though |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by lewis512(m): 11:47am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Lamanii22:when you back would you let me know or just add me , my username is on my Nairaland profile 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 3:57pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
kingxsamz: I am not asking for help from anyone. I am lucky I have overcome something I wanted to and only shared for those who might feel trapped and would want to move past their trap. |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 3:58pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Lamanii22: You planning on enrolling in a doctorate? This is nice to know. What is your field? Seems we have similar passion. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 4:00pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
lewis512: What did you use to learn Python? |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by lewis512(m): 5:01pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Dexlomo:I registered to a academy spent a while there but the udemy video tutorial helped me most and much practice |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Dexlomo: 7:15pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
lewis512: Thank you. Which of the udemy videos did you use? 1 Like |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by lewis512(m): 8:46am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Dexlomo:a lot of them I can only remember the last one which is for Flask application |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Nobody: 12:09am On Apr 04, 2020 |
lefulefu:hahahaha lol |
Re: My Experience (I Hope This Encourages Someone Out There) by Nobody: 12:10am On Apr 04, 2020 |
Yxxx:I like you already. YOU ARE MATURED 1 Like |
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