MrBrownJay1:


you are entitled to your opinion, and so am i.

calling someone MENTALLY DAMAGED is an insult
if u have any self respect, u will apologize

by spreading the rich ladies legs..

DZTech:
calling someone MENTALLY DAMAGED is an insult
if u have any self respect, u will apologize

anybody who believes that having money is the solution to them getting laid with proper women, is indeed MENTALLY DAMAGED... and if you believe that the truth is an insult then so be it. why should i apologize for my opinion. this is my opinion, take it or leave it.

proclinician:
These things are unnecessary u and person no de fight or are u at war with yourself man?

sometimes the undiluted truth is the best/only solution...

Russo35:
Funny enough even if you make the billions that one don't guarantee you will see a stable babe, All you will be able to buy is sex with high class prostitutes and escorts(But still make the money). Just work on yourself, Go out often, meet new people.. Be the realest you can be when meeting people most especially the opposite sex.. Then u gon be fine lad...

me I just to myself throughout university I did not make females friends, just surrounded myself with 1 or two good friends, my nysc the same thing iam just on my own just focus on becoming a well achieved young man, Athough I round my education on time I am 23 now, going for master I dot know if I am messing out, I have never have sex before, most time I focus more on updating and grading myself I am introvat dot mind any wrong spelling

You said u live with your parents(that's a plus financially), Work on a bugdet it won't hurt to hangout twice a month(weekends)..Look fresh and approachable..Don't stay glue to your phone the whole time, observe and strike, don't be scared of the NO you might get at first,with time it will get better

Russo35:
Funny enough even if you make the billions that one don't guarantee you will see a stable babe, All you will be able to buy is sex with high class prostitutes and escorts(But still make the money). Just work on yourself, Go out often, meet new people.. Be the realest you can be when meeting people most especially the opposite sex.. Then u gon be fine lad...

myself throughout university I did not make females friends, just surrounded myself with 1 or two good friends, my nysc the same thing iam just on my own just focus on becoming a well achieved young man, Athough I round my education on time I am 23 now, going for master I dot know if I am messing out, I have never have sex before, most time I focus more on updating and grading myself I am introvat dot mind any wrong spelling

idoms:
I guess I'll try and go out more. I'm an introvert and like to keep to myself most of the time. But I make 50k per month and 60% of that goes into savings. Don't have much money for flexing and Abuja is expensive

if u keep to urself under the guise of being an introvert how will u get laid .being broke is not the issue here i think maybe u too shy to interact with ladies and since u hid urself indoors then this could be the reason u dont get laid.it has nothing to do with money.there dead broke dudes who change ladies the way u change ur boxers.if u want to get laid go out and interract with the opposite sex.everything isnt about money.

Randy100:
Get a low budget girlfriend.

funny enough some of those ladies we call high class chicks give it to some guys for free.if u dey pay money to sleep with a girl u don become maga to dat girl

Russo35:
Funny enough even if you make the billions that one don't guarantee you will see a stable babe, All you will be able to buy is sex with high class prostitutes and escorts(But still make the money). Just work on yourself, Go out often, meet new people.. Be the realest you can be when meeting people most especially the opposite sex.. Then u gon be fine lad...

u have said it all.money does not get u a faithful partner.u can only buy sex with it.

MrBrownJay1:


the reason why you dont/cant get a decent woman in your life is because you are suffering from low self esteem and insecurity... nothing is stopping you from chatting up women while being broke, but you are so MENTALLY DAMAGED that you believe that you cant approach women because you are broke. lol!

...and rightfully so, due to your insecurities, you will never meet women.

"make money and women will flock" is the biggest fallacy in Nigeria, driven into the head of good men by deluded people.

sometimes some guys are affected by what they read on social media.they will see a writeup by a slayqueen saying she cant date a man unless he has six cars and five big flats in his village and this will affect their thinking .i think op is amongst such guys.social media is not the real world .there ladies married to barbers and okada riders..are they not nigerian women.i dont know how some guys reason sha .

lefulefu:
if u keep to urself under the guise of being an introvert how will u get laid .being broke is not the issue here i think maybe u too shy to interact with ladies and since u hid urself indoors then this could be the reason u dont get laid.it has nothing to do with money.there dead broke dudes who change ladies the way u change ur boxers.if u want to get laid go out and interract with the opposite sex.everything isnt about money.

Correct!!

Lefulefu please teach some of the guys here how to strike interesting convo with babes.

And I know of a rich fine calm guy who's so shy to woo a babe. He doesn't have any babe.

Sometimes I wonder if he's a virgin at 40. Honestly I just wonder most times.

E matter taya me, I swear.

victorian:







Correct!!

Lefulefu please teach some of the guys here how to strike interesting convo with babes.

And I know of a rich fine calm guy who's so shy to woo a babe. He doesn't have any babe.

Sometimes I wonder if he's a virgin at 40. Honestly I just wonder most times.

E matter taya me, I swear.

aghh u dont need to speak grammer to woe a girl nau..if there"s already a connection and the guy like the girl he can do small small talks with her.wich one be shyness .anyway for here in nl most guys believe for u to talk to a girl and the girl agrees u must have plenty money ..the same some dudes reason here makes me wonder if some are not just jambitos or secondary sch students .

lefulefu:
sometimes some guys are affected by what they read on social media.they will see a writeup by a slayqueen saying she cant date a man unless he has six cars and five big flats in his village and this will affect their thinking .i think op is amongst such guys.social media is not the real world .there ladies married to barbers and okada riders..are they not nigerian women.i dont know how some guys reason sha .

bro sadly there are many men out there who think like that...they are so damaged mentally that they really believe that they CANT approach OR get the attention of a woman unless they have money. they are so brainwashed that they believe that, without money, they can never get laid.... and sadly, with that kind of failed mindset, of course they will NEVER meet anyone nor get laid (unless they get money and pay for these undercover oloshos)

victorian:






And I know of a rich fine calm guy who's so shy to woo a babe. He doesn't have any babe.

Sometimes I wonder if he's a virgin at 40. Honestly I just wonder most times.

E matter taya me, I swear.

and again he might not be shy but could be a homosexual or he prefers being single and calms his konji by going to ashawo house.some guys are like dat o.since u say he is goodlooking and well off and has no girl then what i said could explain it .

MrBrownJay1:


bro sadly there are many men out there who think like that...they are so damaged mentally that they really believe that they CANT approach OT get the attention of a woman unless they have money. they are so brainwashed that they believe that, without money, they can never get laid.... and sadly, with that kind of failed mindset, of course they will NEVER meet anyone nor get laid (unless they get money and pay for these undercover oloshos)

when they eventually have money they still wont get a partner.that assumption that it is money that gives u a partner is a damaged assumption.mehn it sucks when a young guy has low self esteem

Benprass:
myself throughout university I did not make females friends, just surrounded myself with 1 or two good friends, my nysc the same thing iam just on my own just focus on becoming a well achieved young man, Athough I round my education on time I am 23 now, going for master I dot know if I am messing out, I have never have sex before, most time I focus more on updating and grading myself I am introvat dot mind any wrong spelling

You need to explore bro.. I am not criticizing your way of life but for you to avoid what's called "mid life crisis" you need to experience some certain things.. Thank God you still have time on your side(God willing)..Explore the wild, bad and the good side.. Travel more.... See things from different perspective..

Lastly, Be open minded and Approachable

lefulefu:
u have said it all.money does not get u a faithful partner.u can only buy sex with it.

Bros at times I wonder, Low self esteem is a major issue.. Most times, The best time a man can get a lady close to standards is when you are at the worst stages of your life, Not when u acquire the whole "earth"..

lefulefu:
aghh u dont need to speak grammer to woe a girl nau..if there"s already a connection and the guy like the girl he can do small small talks with her.wich one be shyness .anyway for here in nl most guys believe for u to talk to a girl and the girl agrees u must have plenty money ..the same some dudes reason here makes me wonder if some are not just jambitos or secondary sch students .

Nope not really.

Most Guys on nairaland are just barks and no bite, claiming like they know it all with women.

They don't know Shii..t. they cant even figure us out correctly

I marvel at their thought process sha.

Russo35:




Bros at times I wonder, Low self esteem is a major issue.. Most times, The best time a man can get a lady close to standards is when you are at the worst stages of your life, Not when u acquire the whole "earth"..

gbam!

victorian:







Nope not really.

Most Guys on nairaland are just barks and no bite, claiming like they know it all with women.

They don't know Shii..t. they cant even figure us out correctly

I marvel at their thought process sha.

u mean like some guys here that attack ladies and bully ladies here in real life might be shy dudes who keep to themselves and cant approach girls?

victorian:







Correct!!

Lefulefu please teach some of the guys here how to strike interesting convo with babes.

And I know of a rich fine calm guy who's so shy to woo a babe. He doesn't have any babe.

Sometimes I wonder if he's a virgin at 40. Honestly I just wonder most times.

E matter taya me, I swear.

... shouldnt babes learn how to strike interesting combo with guys too

lefulefu:
and again he might not be shy but could be a homosexual or he prefers being single and calms his konji by going to ashawo house.some guys are like dat o.since u say he is goodlooking and well off and has no girl then what i said could explain it .

I don't think he's homo
He's inbetween being born again and smart dresser.

He's just off , boring and distant expecting a babe to fall Inlove wit his kind of character.
When he complained his ex left him for an igbo smoker, initially I wondered why a babe will breakup her engagement with him and marry an igbo smoking guy but as I got close to him. I then realised oh No wonder!

Babes will definitely drop him fast and be with a lively interesting guy even if the other guy smokes lol

Mehn the guy case taya me.. Lol

Except he changes that shy attitude, I doubt if any babe would want to marry him and even if he eventually gets a lady Las Las, she will cheat on him big time.

I'm surprised sha

lefulefu:
sometimes some guys are affected by what they read on social media.they will see a writeup by a slayqueen saying she cant date a man unless he has six cars and five big flats in his village and this will affect their thinking .i think op is amongst such guys.social media is not the real world .there ladies married to barbers and okada riders..are they not nigerian women.i dont know how some guys reason sha .

The Internet has indeed messed up a lot of people psyche.
Internet is not for thin skinned people. I wonder how male viewers of NL feel when posts of broke men are made. How about ladies when they see posts referring to them as used products or second hand goods?

People can never watch their words online unless they are victims of such words. That is how one told me the other day that every human being has the right to stigmatize others .

When people speak from ignorance they call it "truth"...it is sad though that freedom is speech knows no limit

biGDhAp:
... shouldnt babes learn how to strike interesting combo with guys too

Mehn I tried several times with him but he's just not getting it the flow of my conversation until one day he kept quiet and says he's shy , that's on phone o.

And in real life, if I were facing him, he won't be able to say anything concerning feelings and all . In my mind I say na WA o. This guy own Strong o.

Mehn I give up on his case. May God help him.

lefulefu:
when they eventually have money they still wont get a partner.that assumption that it is money that gives u a partner is a damaged assumption.mehn it sucks when a young guy has low self esteem

.. some guys hate to get rejected by girls.. say it hurts their ego. so they always would not want to approach females, instead flaunt money while the babes comes to them

lefulefu:
u mean like some guys here that attack ladies and bully ladies here in real life might be shy dudes who keep to themselves and cant approach girls?

Then I marvel at the height of their folly.
They are simply shooting themselves on their foreheads and burying themselves all by themselves.

Dey think they are doing the ladies here? I laugh.

Such thoughtless rants always bounce back at them in real. Life

victorian:





Mehn I tried several times with him but he's just not getting it the flow of my conversation until one day he kept quiet and says he's shy , that's on phone o.

And in real life, if I were facing him, he won't be able to say anything concerning feelings and all . In my mind I say na WA o. This guy own Strong o.

Mehn I give up on his case. May God help him.

.. how close are you guys? .. does he find you intimidating?? .. he's a chronic introvert. I get like that sometimes too . give him time and get more closer to him. he'd eventually open up

victorian:





I don't think he's homo
He's inbetween being born again and smart dresser.

He's just off , boring and distant expecting a babe to fall Inlove wit his kind of character.
When he complained his ex left him for an igbo smoker, initially I wondered why a babe will breakup her engagement with him and marry an igbo smoking guy but as I got close to him. I then realised oh No wonder!

Babes will definitely drop him fast and be with a lively interesting guy even if the other guy smokes lol

Mehn the guy case taya me.. Lol

Except he changes that shy attitude, I doubt if any babe would want to marry him and even if he eventually gets a lady Las Las, she will cheat on him big time.

I'm surprised sha

so cos he is born again he cant get girlfriend .ok what of those sharp pastors that have up to 3 or 5 sidechics .abegi

Michellekabod2:

The Internet has indeed messed up a lot of people psyche.
Internet is not for thin skinned people. I wonder how male viewers of NL feel when posts of broke men are made. How about ladies when they see posts referring to them as used products or second hand goods?

People can never watch their words online unless they are victims of such words. That is how one told me the other day that every human being has the right to stigmatize others .

When people speak from ignorance they call it "truth"...it is sad though that freedom is speech knows no limit

why will a guy or lady be traumatised if he saw a post by a lady saying he cant date a broke guy or one about evening newspaper .in the real world dont we see broke guys with ladies? its like here on nairaland where i see some posts tagging ladies as evening newspapers and saying for such ladies its over for them cos no man will ask them out..but in the real world we see ladies well into their 40s some guys still toasting them .and when i say guys i dont mean old men but young and single dudes.anita joseph just got married abi? in nairaland terms she go be evening newspaper but the see the young goodlooking guy wey marry her .most things we read here we dont need to take them at heart.

biGDhAp:
.. how close are you guys? .. does he find you intimidating?? .. he's a chronic introvert. I get like that sometimes too . give him time and get more closer to him. he'd eventually open up

A considerable number of men feels intimidated around me, cos I look flashy.
So I think his own is over board.

And he looks all tus..h o but he's scared being around me, I don't even understand sef

Ok see o, on Vals day he sent a text to woo me and ask me to be his Val. And I was like can't he come over to my place and read the poem he typed and say it face to face, that can I be his Val? And be part of his future like the poem he typed said.

But he kept quiet and mumbled that he's held up somewhere but will send a gift across. Which he did through someone. A Lovely gift
Then he didn't show up, he then called later at night and said he will. Make it up To me by taking me out.

I then said will u be ready to ask me officially to be your gf face to face Orelse I won't date u. From then, this guy has been forming busy o :DLol
He will chat quickly every day and disappear
Oh jeez! Guys dey o

I was forced to ask him, guy is anyone forcing u to woo me?

Cause I don't understand what's going on. Seems u are dodging me, and u were the one who came to look. For me. But Since I said u will ask me out facially and not through text uv become Professor of busy

He then mumbled and said oh not like that and he's very busy and with time I will understand his busy schedules. I just laughed within me


Abeg the guy na huge case! Lol.

Damn!

lefulefu:
so cos he is born again he cant get girlfriend .ok what of those sharp pastors that have up to 3 or 5 sidechics .abegi

Read what I said to bigDhap.

Mehn I give up on his case. But it's amusing and strange .

First time ever to. Experience such in my life time

biGDhAp:
.. some guys hate to get rejected by girls.. say it hurts their ego. so they always would not want to approach females, instead flaunt money while the babes comes to them

ok they will flaunt the money and the girl will chop all their money and they will come to nairaland to wail that nigerian women are golddiggers wich one better? babe reject u or u flaunt money and she chop the money run