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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:21am On Mar 08, 2020
Dande55:

Abeg, carry your sagged balls deh go.

settling with an irresponsible night news paper with a sagged balls who will soon be suffering from andropause.



U r ignored henceforth. Pained fellow

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:21am On Mar 08, 2020
KevinDein:
Op, you really have nothing to prove to folks here. The longer this thread persist the more likely they'll have you convinced you are the problem. Notice how one poster called you a narcissist because you (a 36 year old) prefers not to engage a teenager and also notice how they keep insisting you are 40 despite you making it clear you are 36.

They are not here for the truth or to help you out. They are here to manipulate you into thinking you are the problem.

Don't bother engaging them.

Thanks boss

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Dande55: 8:21am On Mar 08, 2020
ProfDview1:


Pained
Pained about what? That over 200 ladies will recognise you with just a picture of your shrinked balls? I don't do street urchins and old news paper.

And this one mama go deh pray every night and day for her son to have some sense of responsibility. grin

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Dande55: 8:22am On Mar 08, 2020
ProfDview1:




U r ignored henceforth. Pained fellow
Pained cos your balls are already sagged or cos you will soon join your mates that are suffering from andropause. grin

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:22am On Mar 08, 2020
proclinician:
Na me go be the last king to bother myself like this because of a girl when there are millions out there and all I need do is to keep being a king. Oga why u De disturb urself creating lots of topics so ppl will be insulting u. I tell u eeh I fitnt.

Had to cox she made me look like a devil

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:23am On Mar 08, 2020
Dande55:

Pained cos your balls are already sagged or cos you will soon join your mates that are suffering from andropause. grin

gringringringrin

Pained grin

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Dande55: 8:24am On Mar 08, 2020
ProfDview1:


gringringringrin

Pained grin
Okay, granny. grin

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:27am On Mar 08, 2020
ProfDview1:


OK ma but ain't getting any police shit okay


Abt sex, no matter how much I try to reject it, she always have her way... Even when I don't want to, she will have to make sure we end up having sex even when I told her clearly dt I wasn't ready for marriage...

She was even forcing me to cum. Inside her but I av always forced my way out... Even when I cum, I force her to use drugs in my presence coz I wasn't ready for any.. I told her clearly
She has to be held accountable for her stupidity. angry angry angry angry angry


That's clearly rape. She raping you to be in the relationship. She should not come near your house, change your padlock. Tell your gateman to reject her.

My Gosh!! Your condition is critical

RisenPhoenix KevinDein
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:27am On Mar 08, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
you seem to have a narcissistic personality

And how did you arrive at that diagnosis? By his refusal to argue with a teenage girl who is punching above her weight with dumb comments? He might have had daughters her age had things gone differently.

@op. Don't mind this your ex girlfriend. Women create issues and are quick to play victim, relying on the sympathetic media to make them feel justified for their misbehaviour. Tell her frankly that if she continues to come, you will continue to knack; for free; but no marriage ever. Then sit back and enjoy. When you find a really marriageable one, dump her finally.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:29am On Mar 08, 2020
KevinDein:
Op, you really have nothing to prove to folks here. The longer this thread persist the more likely they'll have you convinced you are the problem. Notice how one poster called you a narcissist because you (a 36 year old) prefers not to engage a teenager and also notice how they keep insisting you are 40 despite you making it clear you are 36.

They are not here for the truth or to help you out. They are here to manipulate you into thinking you are the problem.

Don't bother engaging them.
Uncle, we clearly helped him out. I have given him tips to cut off the babe, and all I see are objections.

Learn to be logical and reasonable

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by KevinDein: 8:31am On Mar 08, 2020
RisenPhoenix:


[b]And how did you arrive at that diagnosis By his refusal to argue with a teenage girl[/b]who is punching above her weight with dumb comments? He might have had daughters her age had things gone differently.
I made mention of that in my first comment on this thread. It's just the ladies trying to manipulate the op into thinking he's the problem. Hopefully he doesn't fall for it.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by KevinDein: 8:34am On Mar 08, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
Uncle, we clearly helped him out. I have given him tips to cut off the babe, and all I see are objections.

Learn to be logical and reasonable
How is a 36 year old not engaging a teenager (who, let's be honest here, is a troll) a narcissistic trait?

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:35am On Mar 08, 2020
RisenPhoenix:


And how did you arrive at that diagnosis? By his refusal to argue with a teenage girl who is punching above her weight with dumb comments? He might have had daughters her age had things gone differently.
Google the characteristics of a narcissistic personality.

He has this habit of shifting the focus to the stupid parasite of a girlfriend, when asked a direct question.

He fails to hold himself accountable for the decisions that has led him to the mess he is in.

When given suggestions to help his dispose of his unnecessary load, all he keeps doing is trying to shift the focus back to the girl and trying to downplay his role in the matter

He doesn't clearly state whether he loves her or not.

He has admitted to still having intercourse with her, although I believe she is raping him to try and get herself pregnant.
KevinDein

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Ay04z(m): 8:36am On Mar 08, 2020
Life drama I read the woman own. grin

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:37am On Mar 08, 2020
KevinDein:

I made mention of that in my first comment on this thread. It's just the ladies trying to manipulate the op into thinking he's the problem. Hopefully he doesn't fall for it.

It is their way. The one with the 'diagnosis' is actually a medical officer and should have known better, because there was no indication of a Narcissistic personality in anything the op said. But womanly habits of conflation and false accusation die hard.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by cyprus000: 8:42am On Mar 08, 2020
One can not completely diagnose the veracity of your claims, but if she is guilty of half of your claim, then you had be compound fool to wife her.
Conversely, you seem susceptible to every sneer thrown at you by all those inconsequential little piece of shîts inebriated by a sense of gender camaraderie, and it speaks very low of your emotional intelligence.

It's not every dog that bark you throw stone(afford a response) at.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by AfroKnight: 8:48am On Mar 08, 2020
You should have given her red card long ago.

This kind of babe go lie on top your head for family meeting. Delete her sharp sharp.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:50am On Mar 08, 2020
RisenPhoenix:


And how did you arrive at that diagnosis? By his refusal to argue with a teenage girl who is punching above her weight with dumb comments? He might have had daughters her age had things gone differently.

@op. Don't mind this your ex girlfriend. Women create issues and are quick to play victim, relying on the sympathetic media to make them feel justified for their misbehaviour. Tell her frankly that if she continues to come, you will continue to knack; for free; but no marriage ever. Then sit back and enjoy. When you find a really marriageable one, dump her finally.


Thanks.. Told her many times that I am not ready for any with her.
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 8:50am On Mar 08, 2020
ProfDview1:


Lemme make it clear.. 2 were my ex and they offered to come pay respect to m dead father..shud I av said no?

She begged me in the name of seeking comfort... Slept with my frnd but w av gone too long, just forgave her like I use too, so many times...

do u realise u are conversing wt a 16tears old girl who has neva been in a relationship? U takin advice frm a teen who doesn’t kw anythin about life/relationships. Dis is y u ppu need 2 take ur relationship off internet else u wil be gettin advice/insults frm kids

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:51am On Mar 08, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
Google the characteristics of a narcissistic personality.

I have read widely on the subject...REAL textbooks, not wikipedia.

funmisticqueen2:

He has this habit of shifting the focus to the stupid parasite of a girlfriend, when asked a direct question.

He is correcting a number of misconceptions spread by the woman in question. His response is natural and completely normal.

funmisticqueen2:

He fails to hold himself accountable for the decisions that has led him to the mess he is in.


What decisions are those? He has clearly stated that he has indicated disinterest several times. He has not once indicated that he promised to marry her... past, present or future. He is merely making use of her body since she has refused to go, despite seeing the clear writing on the wall.

funmisticqueen2:

When given suggestions to help his dispose of his unnecessary load, all he keeps doing is trying to shift the focus back to the girl and trying to downplay his role in the matter.

He has no role in the matter. To him, she is a FWB. Her series of lies and her desperation to get him to marry her while still engaging in bad behaviour is what should be discussed.

funmisticqueen2:

He doesn't clearly state whether he loves her or not.

Funny that you, a woman, could not discern that part while I, a man should find it so obvious. Come on, you women read encyclopaedias on "how to know if your man loves you", "signs to know how much your man is attracted to you", and there is little else in girly magazines. I have seen my wife's reading material. In any case, not saying "I love you" at the drop of every hat is not a sign of Narcissist personality.

funmisticqueen2:

He has admitted to still having intercourse with her, although I believe she is raping him to try and get herself pregnant.

Yes. To him, she is a willing FWB. They are mutual adults. He is not at fault there. As long as he is careful to always use protection and to ensure its diposal PERSONALLY, that her agenda and plans do not sync with his is not his fault.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:51am On Mar 08, 2020
AfroKnight:
You should have given her red card long ago.

This kind of babe go lie on top your head for family meeting. Delete her sharp sharp.


I will even with the way she is painting me here.

I don't just think she will stop... She is very stubborn
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:51am On Mar 08, 2020
cyprus000:
One can not completely diagnose the veracity of your claims, but if she is guilty of half of your claim, then you had be compound fool to wife her.
Conversely, you seem susceptible to every sneer thrown at you by all those inconsequential little piece shîts inebriated by a sense of gender camaraderie, and it speaks very low of your emotional intelligence.

It's not every dog that bark you throw stone(afford a response) at.

Even though I don't understand most of ur Grammars, thanks anyway

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by AfroKnight: 8:54am On Mar 08, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
[s]you seem to have a narcissistic personality[/s]

A confirmed narcissist wrongly labelling another person a narcissist.

The irony. grin


It appears you cannot handle the fact that the guy is the victim here and that the woman you supported was actually a hœ.

ProfDview1, give her red card abeg. I fit swear for you if you no do am. How can you be entertaining a manipulator in your life? Cut her off so she can go on with her hœing. Make she no bring HIV come give person.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Skmoda360(m): 8:55am On Mar 08, 2020
Phenomenal16:
See eh
If u can't marry her
Let her go
Tell her
U r 40
U r no longer a baby
The earlier d Berra
Start looking for someone asap
Likewise ur babe
Peace
yin yin yin yin.....trash upon trash undecided

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:56am On Mar 08, 2020
This is turning to a season film already.

I only want the lady to come make counter argument here but she has refused to engaged the OP.

The lady started all this brouhaha on Nairaland by sharing their relationship details here with a new moniker and she is yet to replied any of the claims made by the OP.

Please stop bullying the guy until the lady in question herself comes out of hiding to engaged him.

We don't really know who is lying or saying the truth, they are the ones in the relationship not us.

Call the lady to come engaged the OP here. We need facts not fictions.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by fattprince(m): 8:58am On Mar 08, 2020
ProfDview1:


I wud nt av brought this here but she made it public hence I need to come make this clear. She thinks I am nt on nairaland, just imagine
Bro I know. I would have done the same too. Don't just mind that girl. I can't just see someone thrashtalk me in my presence and not counter it back especially when they aren't true

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 8:59am On Mar 08, 2020
AfroKnight:


A confirmed narcissist wrongly labelling another person a narcissist.

The irony. grin


It appears you cannot handle the fact that the guy is the victim here and that the woman you supported was actually a hœ.

ProfDview1, give her red card abeg. I fit swear for you if you do am. How can you be entertaining a manipulator in your life? Cut her off so she can go on with her hœing. Make she no bring HIV come give person.


Told her but she is very stubborn.. Thank God she said it herself dt she is sturborn, she wunt let me be at all
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by FnbAutos(m): 9:00am On Mar 08, 2020
ProfDview1:


Lemme make it clear.. 2 were my ex and they offered to come pay respect to m dead father..shud I av said no?

She begged me in the name of seeking comfort... Slept with my frnd but w av gone too long, just forgave her like I use too, so many times...


Look, this is the mistake people make in relationship....
I can never make up with a girl that cheated on me with my “friends”.... that’s the highest form of disrespect. I live the friendship and relationship immediately.
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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 9:01am On Mar 08, 2020
BestAccessories:
This is turning to a season film already.

I only want the lady to come make counter argument here but she has refused to engaged the OP.

The lady started all this brouhaha on Nairaland by sharing their relationship details here with a new moniker and she is yet to replied any of the claims made by the OP.

Please stop bullying the guy until the lady in question herself comes out of hiding to engaged him.

We don't really know who is lying or saying the truth, they are the ones in the relationship not us.

Call the lady to come engaged the OP here. We need facts not fictions.

Honestly I wud nt have brought this here but she did. I had no options than to do this
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by OPTIMUSPRIME08: 9:01am On Mar 08, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
you seem to have a narcissistic personality
shut the hell up, I think say u get little sense.
ProfDview1 why explaining ur self, your giving people the power over you, cos people are gonna believe what they wan believe no matter your story. Block the babe and move on. Stop making ur self a subject of pity you're not a kid

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Riele(f): 9:05am On Mar 08, 2020
fattprince:

I saw you on the redpillers meme this morning but I was indifferent about what you said. But this right here on this thread all you saying is thrash. Thrash talk. Why can't you be like me that really don't want to believe either of them absolutely. And just learn one or two lessons from their half truth show of self righteousness

Why should I be like you ? .
Trash talk ? .

I would have considered your advice but not when it's mixed with an insult .

Kindly stop quoting me . Happy Sunday.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Riele(f): 9:06am On Mar 08, 2020
lefulefu:
its not compulsory he must marry her.the only fault i see here is him wasting her time and his own time.he can have a baby mama if he doesnt fancy marriage.

Exactly .

He keeps going back to her even with all the atrocities he says she has committed .

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