ProfDview1:


Madam, I av told her.... Read my post na... I av told her that I am nt ready for marriage..

After all she has many suitors, let her pick one na..

I will insult you very very well, if you keep replying that GIRL's mentions.

Can't you see she's just playing with your feelings?
You're kinda naive sef.

ProfDview1:


Can't be arguing with a 16 yrs old lady. Pls not an insult okay

Hmm . LMAO .

At 40 , you still don't know when to pick the message and leave the messagenser .

Not an insult .

Dande55:

Abeg, what's there to hate on an irrèsponsible night news paper like You? A community crayon.
Please, face your already dilapidated life shiiooor.

The thing pain you pass the said lady oh!
Women and forcing their marital goals on men sha...

Fragility6:

N how is he judging based on his post? Nawa for some pple o

He wants us to believe him base on his post .

How are we so sure his post is the truth ? .

I'm not saying the girl's side of the story is true but so far , he hasn't denied any of her claims .

From my experience so far, I've noticed that whoever brings a case to the social media first is always the most guilty.

funmisticqueen2:
I said ACTIONS, in capital letters. They speak more than words. You're not committed to letting her go. Deep down you like the fact that she is available as backup and at your beck and call

lol,.like I made it clear in my comment on the ladies thread which she didn't reply.

the guy is saying he made his intentions known and sticking to that (clearly he wants a Bleep mate relationship meaning is fair for him to Bleep any lady once he makes it clear and she keeps coming) while the lady wants marriage and not ready to look for it elsewhere

if she keeps coming the sex starved fellow will keep enjoying.if she stops and he try his luck and she comes back it's a win for him.

same way we say every lady can not marry because she is close to 40,no one should also pressure a man.

he has a target she dsnt. allow him to enjoy his 100 shades of grey your efforts should be focused on the mumu girl if she truly want what people here are offering her

ProfDview1:


Honestly I wud nt have brought this here but she did. I had no options than to do this

Brother,

Let talk as guys.

I don't support forced marriage and I also do not support being a relationship for the sex for 5 years.

You enjoyed having sex with her that's why you haven't stop it and she also want it to continue if she keep agreeing to it. No matter who initial or make the sex move.

I wouldn't allowed any guy treat my sister this way likewise you. So free the girl totally.

Stop having sex with her, start avoiding her, change your route, change your apartment keys if she had spare key, if possible change apartment and start your life afresh.

Your excuse of her fucking 3 of your buddies when you're not together as reason not to marry her is not acceptable. If that's the only reason why you can't marry her, something is wrong.

I am being objective with you as guys, stop wasting your time, effort, dick and resources on her if she doesn't deserved it.

She fucking 3 of your buddies haven't stop you from having sex with her, why would you now use it as excuse for refusing to take the relationship to the next stage. (I am not asking you to marry her, but if the thought couldn't stop you from having an erection to the extent of having it raw with her without cuming inside her, so it shouldn't be the major reason here).

You don't trust her, yet you are having unprotected sex with her, don't you love your life?

Riele:


He wants us to believe him base on his post .

How are we so sure his post is the truth ? .

I'm not saying the girl's side of the story is true but so far , he hasn't denied any of her claims .

Hasn't denied any of her claim? He stated earlier he isn't 40 as she said and other stuffs e denied up dere... Abeg las las na dier two headache. Two immatured adults cant be giving me headache diz morning

ProfDview1:


She can go but I can't be pressured into marriage... I know what I need, if she wants to marry, let her go and marry but for me, it's a no.. Told her several times without numbers

Let her go bro. Women are always playing the victim card. To h$ll with them.

BestAccessories:


Brother,

Let talk as guys.

I don't support forced marriage and I also do not support being a relationship for the sex for 5 years.

You enjoyed having sex with her that's why you haven't stop it and she also want it to continue if she keep agreeing to it. No matter who initial or make the sex move.

I wouldn't allowed any guy treat my sister this way likewise you. So free the girl totally.

Stop having sex with her, start avoiding her, change your route, change your apartment keys if she had spare key, if possible change apartment and start your life afresh.

Your excuse of her fucking 3 of your buddies when you're not together as reason not to marry her is not acceptable. If that's the only reason why you can't marry her, something is wrong.

I am being objective with you as guys, stop wasting your time, effort, dick and resources on her if she doesn't deserved it.

She fucking 3 of your buddies haven't stop you from having sex with her, why would you now use it as excuse for refusing to take the relationship to the next stage. (I am not asking you to marry her, but if the thought couldn't stop you from having an erection to the extent of having it raw with her without cuming inside her, so it shouldn't be the major reason here).

You don't trust her, yet you are having unprotected sex with her, don't you love your life?

I understand u.. I wud nt want any one treat my sis like that but if my sister refuse to have sense, then let her be treated like dt....


Only if u know how many times I tried breaking with her but mehnnnnnn she is damn stubborn.....


Thanks anyway

Both of you are doing yourselves. Both of you are of the manipulative ethical leanings, therefore, what exists between two of you isn't genuine love - even though you may love/lust/have feelings for each other - the kind of love that can sustain and maintain a healthy relationship. A relationship where both of you will have mutual inner peace and happiness individually and collectively. Genuine love for a healthy romantic relationship or marriage is one that emanates from mutual altruism in particular and conscientiousness in general.

She doesn't have what it takes to make you fall or stay in love with her and unfortunately she lacks willpower to extricate herself from you - stockholm syndrome is powerful. While you on the other hand don't have the grace to distance yourself from her/stop giving her attention to avoid raising her hope falsely and to enable her pitch her tent elsewhere - you should have done this since assuming that you're of the diplomatic ethical leanings, so you don't have genuine intention towards her as it stands so far.

Both of you are of the manipulative ethical leanings and should share the blame.

ProfDview1:



She can go... I have told her several times, sumtyms I run to her and she runs to me too dt we cant go separate ways but I av never changed my stand, I am. Not ready for marriage.. Let her decide herself.....

I smell lies. You weren't plain or direct enoug on telling her you won't marry her.
You sound revengeful. You are just using her due to her sleeping with ur friends.

Oga forgive her and let her go. And again "you are immature". Never put a woman's life on hold. "YOU FOOL"

It will always end in tears.

blackgold2018:
I smell lies. You weren't plain or direct enoug on telling her you won't marry her.
You sound revengeful. You are just using her due to her sleeping with ur friends.

Oga forgive her and let her go. And again "you are immature". Never put a woman's life on hold. "YOU FOOL"

OK... WISE MAN

Thanks

Fragility6:

Hasn't denied any of her claim? He stated earlier he isn't 40 as she said and other stuffs e denied up dere... Abeg las las na dier two headache. Two immatured adults cant be giving me headache diz morning

She Said he's 40 . He said he's 36 . You believe him , I believe her .

Why are you ranting ? .

ProfDview1:
Yes, she is pressuring me too much to marry her... I don't know why the pressure is too much but I av to be honest with her.. Too much.

U guys shud always learn the truth b4 u start pouring blames on me.... You can tell her to move on.. After all, she has her own mind too and I av never forced her to be with me eve after she broke up several times with me.. Even Slept with one of my friend when we had issues. Imagine?

I will be mentioning people dt gave comment on her thread and my first account.

Xhosanostra sassygem101 lefulefu
funmisticqueen2 riele ariza Michellekabod2

Hmmn,your concerns are valid but why did you not ever tell her you don't have intentions of marrying her when you observed she was concerned about marriage?
You admit fully that she is pressuring you into marriage,meaning you were aware about her wants and you yet left her hoping?


You don't owe anyone marriage,the worst thing that could happen to a lady is if she makes a man marry her against his wish. She will suffer in the marriage. Most guys are guilt-tripped into marrying ladies they don't love and the wife will be miserable whenever he makes mention of the other woman he ought to have married.

Please let her go,and any other woman you come across with once you sense she wants marriage and you aren't in for it,move on.

blackgold2018:
I smell lies. You weren't plain or direct enoug on telling her you won't marry her.
You sound revengeful. You are just using her due to her sleeping with ur friends.

Oga forgive her and let her go. And again "you are immature". Never put a woman's life on hold. "YOU FOOL"

What can be so direct than telling a lady that I cant cum inside or use drug cox I Wasn't ready for it...... Pls tell mi

LOGOBELT:
Nothing we no go see. Boyfriend is a Nairalander, Girlfriend is a Nairalander

They both brought their issues to Nairaland elders.....


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You dey mind them. As them old reach.. Its a pity..

Which one is all these... "SIMPLY LET HER GO" U LOTS ARE SAYING I'd she tied with a rope to the guy? Or is he forcing her to stay under duress? She should go na, abi what does it take to just break up? If he isn't willing to then she is also old enough to do it herself. Ah ah
Nothing wey Musa no go see for gate...

Michellekabod2:

Hmmn,your concerns are valid but why did you not ever tell her you don't have intentions of marrying her when you observed she was concerned about marriage?
You admit fully that she is pressuring you into marriage,meaning you were aware about her wants and you yet left her hoping?


You don't owe anyone marriage,the worst thing that could happen to a lady is if she makes a man marry her against his wish. She will suffer in the marriage. Most guys are guilt-tripped into marrying ladies they don't love and the wife will be miserable whenever he makes mention of the other woman he ought to have married.

Please let her go,and any other woman you come across with once you sense she wants marriage and you aren't in for it,move on.

Pls ma.. I told her.. Like I told her dt I wasn't interested in the marriage... I am not interested ineedhelp pls read this.


I am not

Riele:


Why should I be like you ? .
Trash talk ? .

I would have considered your advice but not when it's mixed with an insult .

Kindly stop quoting me . Happy Sunday.

Thrashtalk? It wasn't an insult it was simply a fact. Or what would you call when you insult someone and the person didn't take offense still trying to explain somethings to you but you just decided to block it out and still put the blames on him. I don't know what you call that but I call it thrashtalk.
Have a happy Sunday too

To be honest op is at fault here, don't get me wrong...

if the girl was h.i.v carrier will the op still be with the said girl by now ? he must have found one excuse or the other to make sure he doesn't come in physical contact with the girl again...

Op na free things dey kill u dey go soo.

blackgold2018:
I smell lies. You weren't plain or direct enoug on telling her you won't marry her.
You sound revengeful. You are just using her due to her sleeping with ur friends.

Oga forgive her and let her go. And again "you are immature". Never put a woman's life on hold. "YOU FOOL"

Insults or guilt-tripping will not make him put a ring overnight. Words don't have as much effect on men like ladies but actions do. So no amount of calling him a Fool will change a thing. Let him just leave her alone

fattprince:

Thrashtalk? It wasn't an insult it was simply a fact. Or what would you call when you insult someone and the person didn't take offense still trying to explain somethings to you but you just decided to block it out and still put the blames on him. I don't know what you call that but I call it thrashtalk.
Have a happy Sunday too

Really ? . So it isn't obvious that you're the one trash talking here ? .

Michellekabod2:

Insults or guilt-tripping will not make him put a ring overnight. Words don't have as much effect on men like ladies but actions do. So no amount of calling him a Fool will change a thing. Let him just leave her alone

Let him say whatever he wants to say

ProfDview1:


Pls ma.. I told her.. Like I told her dt I wasn't interested in the marriage... I am not interested ineedhelp pls read this.


I am not

You told her? The logical part of me is telling me she has herself to blame. The emotional part of me is telling me you are jerk.I can't reconcile those parts of me,so for today I choose to be pro-woman,and call you jerk. Jerk!

omophunky:
To be honest op is at fault here, don't get me wrong...

if the girl was h.i.v carrier will the op still be with the said girl by now ? he must have found one excuse or the other to make sure he doesn't come in physical contact with the girl again...

Op na free things dey kill u dey go soo.

Its nt abt free things, I do tkia of her whenever she needs my help... I don't really trust her and that's why I use condom anytime after she slept with my frnd in the name of seeking comfort.


Notin is free bro. I pay the price tooo

Michellekabod2:

You told her? The logical part of me is telling me she has herself to blame. The emotional part of me is telling me you are jerk.I can't reconcile those parts of me,so for today I choose to be pro-woman,and call you jerk. Jerk!

If u say I am a jerk

Then Jerk I am.... Are we cool now?

ProfDview1:


If u say I am a jerk

Then Jerk I am.... Are we cool now?

yea...we are. Good luck!

I won't believe these kind of stories till I hear from the other party.


I mean the ladies part

Phenomenal16:
See eh
If u can't marry her
Let her go
Tell her
U r 40
U r no longer a baby
The earlier d Berra
Start looking for someone asap
Likewise ur babe
Peace

is he holding her?
What's stopping her from leaving?

Guy you mumu oo. At 36 see the kind of shiit you're spilling on nairaland. No level.

ProfDview1:


OK ma but ain't getting any police shit okay


Abt sex, no matter how much I try to reject it, she always have her way... Even when I don't want to, she will have to make sure we end up having sex even when I told her clearly dt I wasn't ready for marriage...

She was even forcing me to cum. Inside her but I av always forced my way out... Even when I cum, I force her to use drugs in my presence coz I wasn't ready for any.. I told her clearly