Michellekabod2:

Insults or guilt-tripping will not make him put a ring overnight. Words don't have as much effect on men like ladies but actions do. So no amount of calling him a Fool will change a thing. Let him just leave her alone

Is she chained to his bed post? Why can't women accept the fact that she is the one who cannot let go? How is he forcing her to stay? This is irritating.

sisisioge:


Well, I hope she leaves you alone too...I wonder what she fancies so much in you! Anyways, she would probably look back in two years and wondered the same thing too. Whew?

Someone on here will see you doing a very good job of being a Chief Judge and would think you have a perfect life. Better work on yourself.

Michellekabod2:

Haunt me? A hogwart can't chase a lion out of his pride.
Your pitiable self quoted a post mentioning me and calling me names .
Your actions are a reaction to gynocentrism,at least you are honest enough to admit you aren't pro-truth but pro man. I applaud you for that honesty unlike some gender bigots that insist they are always saying the truth. So why get pained and call pro-woman monikers like funmisticqueen2 names when they are speaking for their gender the same way you are speaking for yours?

because you lots were hell bent on proving /convincing the op that he's a nutjob and an arsehole. Two adults in a relationship, the woman claims she's not happy, why should it be the man's job to call off the relationship? What's stopping the girl from quitting the relationship? I never blamed or attacked the lady when I saw her thread but I had to wade in on the guy's story because all the girls were already convinced and was bent on convincing the guy that he's the problem
Lastly, haunt does not really mean chasing as in hunting, haunt as in you can't get over our first encounter

AfroKnight:


A confirmed narcissist wrongly labelling another person a narcissist.

The irony.


It appears you cannot handle the fact that the guy is the victim here and that the woman you supported was actually a hœ.

ProfDview1, give her red card abeg. I fit swear for you if you do am. How can you be entertaining a manipulator in your life? Cut her off so she can go on with her hœing. Make she no bring HIV come give person.

they are both victims actually. You think I didn't tell the girl to leave him to. That was what everyone told her in her thread.

omophunky:
Op this girl is a threat to ur life hope u know that ?

exactly. But he still wants to collect something from her. He isn't thinking ahead at all

Michellekabod2:

Lilbe.st3 is a dysfunctional gender bigot. We had an ugly encounter last year that made me write him off,the dude is a dumb fellow from medieval times

I don't know him/her but if I am to assume by what he/she wrote when he/she quote me I will agreed the moniker and the person behind it need medical help and some mental well-being cross-check.

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J111333:
From my experience so far, I've noticed that whoever brings a case to the social media first is always the most guilty.

true

ProfDview1:
Sorry my previous account was banned.. I don't know if the mod are biased. I am creating this thread to clarify things.. Ineedtoheal is lying, she is lying I repeat myself, she is just lying to gain attention...
Do you think a 40 years old man will be living his life like this? Ineedtoheal, u need to stop this victim mentality.. Even ladies on nairaland are not helping the matter at all.. They support their wrongs, just imagine.

https://www.nairaland.com/5721583/been-him-5-years-no/16#87234266

1. Our relationship isn't up to 5 years like she claimed....

2. I will be 36 around this year not 40... She is already 30. If u think I am lying, I challenge her to post her date of birth cert and I will do mine too

3. She claims I have different ladies pictures on my phone. But she forget to say she chat with random guys online, sharing phone numbers to guys as if she is sharing business card. I have told her about her chat with different guys but she doesn't take me serious. Seen so many things this lady did but I over look it. Thinking she wud change but I was wrong.

4. Well she is also searching too coz I remember seeing some her chat claiming that she is single.. Tell most guys that she isn't dating any one, imagine my babe of 3 years then claiming she is seeing anyone.

5. 3 girlfriends? Two are my Exs and they expressed interest in coming. Not that I forced them to come.

6. All these burial money is fake.. Cmon I am comfortable enough to take care of my father burial.. My siblings are comfortable enough.. Why wud I confront u, how much do u Wana give me?

7. Rejected my suitor? By claiming u ain't single to guys u flirting with.. Even to my friends dt u slept with, had one night with.. Imagine, u never stopped flirting and u think I shud quickly marry you with all the red flags.

8. Am Gentle but pls ask her how many times she has hit me coz of simple issues... Imagine, u want me to marry you.. She takes my gentleness for stupidity, take my nice personality for dumbness and she wants me to wife her.




Now that she has painted me bad, it has gone viral here on nairaland, I hope many can come in and read this too.. I just wish but no wahala sha...


It's a woman's world like they say... Women get attention than men. Not surprised.


Ineedhelp pls goooo.. I don't need u again.. I av no intention of marrying you.... Go ur way lemme go mine..... U chose not to understand the writings on the wall after all I told u..


I hope u meet ur better man...... Thanks

Nairaland mods are sumtin else.. Imagine I wud nt have seen this if it didn't make front page..

Why post such on the fp ehnn? Just imagine

Wait,you were banned? For what exactly?at least you are not rude or vulgar. Write a mail to Seun to demand reasons why you were banned for stating your case.


Back to this post, you both should move on with your life. Nothing justifies the fact you didnt sternly cut her off. That is the problem with guys they never have the courage to cut off a lady bluntly. But is it not better to have let her go than waste her time? A truth with the worse intent is better than a lie with good intent

funmisticqueen2:
they are both victims actually. You think I didn't tell the girl to leave him to. That was what everyone told her in her thread.

I hope u guys can convince her to leave me alone.... Pls I don't want her again.... I'm fed up... I once loved her but I don't again.. I made it clear to her

funmisticqueen2:
exactly. But he still wants to collect something from her. He isn't thinking ahead at all

Truthfully, notin to collect from her

ProfDview1:


OK ma but ain't getting any police shit okay


Abt sex, no matter how much I try to reject it, she always have her way... Even when I don't want to, she will have to make sure we end up having sex even when I told her clearly dt I wasn't ready for marriage...

She was even forcing me to cum. Inside her but I av always forced my way out... Even when I cum, I force her to use drugs in my presence coz I wasn't ready for any.. I told her clearly

Cc: ineedtoheal how true is the bolded?

Lilbest3:
because you lots were hell bent on proving /convincing the op that he's a nutjob and an arsehole. Two adults in a relationship, the woman claims she's not happy, why should it be the man's job to call off the relationship? What's stopping the girl from quitting the relationship? I never blamed or attacked the lady when I saw her thread but I had to wade in on the guy's story because all the girls were already convinced and was bent on convincing the guy that he's the problem

You will like to point out where I supported the man or the lady. Where did I take a side? Where did I blame him for not marrying her? I never take sides in cases like this .
I just claimed it is morally sound that you should be vocal of your intentions with any lady you are dealing with yet you accuse me of calling him names

SensualMan1:
Cc: ineedtoheal how true is the bolded?

She created this thing and I am still waiting for her to come n defend herself

A man hardly say no to free ride girls!

He don't have to say it for you to know he don't have interest to go further with you.
His actions will tell u.

The problem with girls is when they start dating you, they feel very relaxed and assume the role of fiancee expecting it will roll their way.
When the guy refuses to propose, they will try using emotional blackmail or pregnancy to hock him by all means.
Use your tongue to count your teeth and know when to exit gracefully when u are not getting the signal u want.
A man u hoodwinked into marriage will treat u bad.

When a man want to settle dawn with you, he will be restless until he makes you his.


Bros, these days, except with drugs, most of u guys no dey get it up again o.
Make hay while the sun shines.

Your kids shouldn't be in college when u are about to retire na

It's well my brother.

RisenPhoenix:


It is their way. The one with the 'diagnosis' is actually a medical officer and should have known better, because there was no indication of a Narcissistic personality in anything the op said. But womanly habits of conflation and false accusation die hard.

I said, it seems, not that he is. I never said he was a narcissist.

The only reason he opened this thread is because of his image. Narcissists care a lot about their image. They never see themselves as wrong. They don't care about the feelings of others as long as they can gain from it. I never made a diagnosis.

I don't like the way you are attacking me. You are wrongly accusing me. I used to hold you in high regard. Especially from strungup79's thread.

The OP and his "girlfriend" are one and the same person using multiple accounts.

He is an attention-seeker creating fake stories just to trend.

Stop wasting your time advising trolls.

Michellekabod2:

You will like to point out where I supported the man or the lady. Where did I take a side? Where did I blame him for not marrying her? I never take sides in cases like this .
I just claimed it is morally sound that you should be vocal of your intentions with any lady you are dealing with yet you accuse me of calling him names

you called him a jerk.
Adults don't always communicate verbally. When you visit someone, you know when they want you gone by reading their body language that's what differentiate an adult from a child.

ProfDview1:



I hope u guys can convince her to leave me alone.... Pls I don't want her again.... I'm fed up... I once loved her but I don't again.. I made it clear to her

then stop seeing her, or letting her come to your house, or sleeping with her.

If she cannot hear word. Get her arrested for disturbing your piece and get a restraining order, or talk to her people to let her stay away from you. Nothing sends a clearer message than a few nights in a cell. I have dealt with stalkers in the past so I know.
Use your head,

Sounds like someone is trying too hard to prove a point. We've seen your last thread, why create another one emphasising what you've already said?

You deserve another ban sef... Too childish for a 40-year old man (and yes I believe you're 40. This 36 sh*t no add up) Now get tha fu*k out of here man...

ProfDview1:
LilMissFavvy mjbolt placeofallure chinchonglee
sexylassie2 ineedtoheal hopeforcharles

Why wud she beg me to end it with her, can't she End it herself...

She has her own mind, I av never forced her to love me... Never and I wud never do that

GraGra247 sisisioge elitedude pocohantas crackkhaus @healthserve I am not a bad person as she painted me.

you are still acting like a fool even at 40 years old

see what you have written down, is this what a 40 years old will write down

arent you 40 and she 27, who needs guidance from so called older and experience man like you

you must be joking, you are 40 but i see what your game plan is, it is simple, you want to bang her till you want her no more

as old as you are you cant tell a woman you are not interested in the relationship nicely.

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I don't know him/her but if I am to assume by what he/she wrote when he/she quote me I will agreed the moniker and the person behind it need medical help and some mental well-being cross-check.

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I appreciate the Likes and Shares. You're awesome.

lmao. You couldn't hide your simphood for long

Lilbest3:
you called him a jerk.
Adults don't always communicate verbally. When you visit someone, you know when they want you gone by reading their body language that's what differentiate an adult from a child.

you didnt understand the sarcasm in the post I called him a jerk? Sorry but you are dumb

ProfDview1:


Truthfully, notin to collect from her

but you still allow her to rape you. Are you waiting for Belle to enter?

Desperate times call for desperate measures.

ivolt:
The OP and his "girlfriend" are one and the same person using multiple accounts.

He is an attention-seeker creating fake stories just to trend.

Stop wasting your time advising trolls.

or might be work of Seuun to bring a little spark through gender wars to the moribund forum

Lilbest3:
lmao. You couldn't hide your simphood for long

Like I said, a pig purpose is to drag people into the mud, because a pig lives in the mud.

Have a good life alpha brother/sister.

Is it your simphood?

Michellekabod2:
you didnt understand the sarcasm in the post I called him a jerk? Sorry but you are dumb

lmao. Look at the person calling someone dumb, you that can't even spell the most basic of words correctly, you that don't know the difference between "hunt" and "haunt".
Relax, lady

ProfDview1:



I hope u guys can convince her to leave me alone.... Pls I don't want her again.... I'm fed up... I once loved her but I don't again.. I made it clear to her

don't involve us o. It's up to you two.

We were minding the business that pays us before you and your girlfriend came with your drama this weekend.

Aunty!! @Op's girlfriend. Ineedtoheal, pls leave the oga alone. Ehn. Your are disgracing yourself as a senior. It painful we know. But eat icecream and cry off for a few weeks, you will be just fine. You even wonder what you saw in a loser like op in the first place. Better men are out there. You can even find some on nairaland.

funmisticqueen2:
they are both victims actually. You think I didn't tell the girl to leave him to. That was what everyone told her in her thread.

There is nothing narcissistic about the OP, but you labelled him so. You owe him an apology, but you are you. I’d be surprised if you called a spade a spade.

ProfDview1:


What can be so direct than telling a lady that I cant cum inside or use drug cox I Wasn't ready for it...... Pls tell mi

And u sef, u just dey chop her raw dey go. Guyman!



Cc: ineedtoheal so this man chopped u raw for 5 years? How deep is that area now?

My earlier advice on ur thread, please remain single.

AfroKnight:


There is nothing narcissistic about the OP, but you labelled him so. You owe him an apology, but you are you. I’d be surprised if you called a spade a spade.

I never called him a narcissist. Go back and learn

I said he seems. There's a difference

Ineedtoheal after 5 years of being chopped raw: