SensualMan1:
Ineedtoheal after 5 years of being chopped raw:

funmisticqueen2:
I never called him a narcissist. Go back and learn

I said he seems. There's a difference

funmisticqueen2:
I said, it seems, not that he is. I never said he was a narcissist.

The only reason he opened this thread is because of his image. Narcissistic care a lot about their image. They never see themselves as wrong. They don't care about the feelings of others as long as they can gain from it. I never made a diagnosis.

funmisticqueen2:

I don't like the way you are attacking me. You are wrongly accusing me. I used to hold you in high regard. Especially from strungup79's thread.

Michellekabod2:
so we still have neutral people like this who say the truth without bothering if its a male or female involved?you have my respect!

SensualMan1:
And u sef, u just dey chop her raw dey go. Guyman!



Cc: ineedtoheal so this man chopped u raw for 5 years? How deep is that area now?

My earlier advice on ur thread, please remain single.

Lilbest3:
lmao. Look at the person calling someone dumb, you that can't even spell the most basic of words correctly, you that don't know the difference between "hunt" and "haunt".
Relax, lady

Riele:


He wants us to believe him base on his post .

How are we so sure his post is the truth ? .

I'm not saying the girl's side of the story is true but so far , he hasn't denied any of her claims .

RisenPhoenix:


I have read widely on the subject...REAL textbooks, not wikipedia.



He is correcting a number of misconceptions spread by the woman in question. His response is natural and completely normal.



What decisions are those? He has clearly stated that he has indicated disinterest several times. He has not once indicated that he promised to marry her... past, present or future. He is merely making use of her body since she has refused to go, despite seeing the clear writing on the wall.



He has no role in the matter. To him, she is a FWB. Her series of lies and her desperation to get him to marry her while still engaging in bad behaviour is what should be discussed.



Funny that you, a woman, could not discern that part while I, a man should find it so obvious. Come on, you women read encyclopaedias on "how to know if your man loves you", "signs to know how much your man is attracted to you", and there is little else in girly magazines. I have seen my wife's reading material. In any case, not saying "I love you" at the drop of every hat is not a sign of Narcissist personality.



Yes. To him, she is a willing FWB. They are mutual adults. He is not at fault there. As long as he is careful to always use protection and to ensure its diposal PERSONALLY, that her agenda and plans do not sync with his is not his fault.

ProfDview1:


Bro sex ain't notin compared to my sacrifice for her in the past years.... I wunt boast oo but I no wat I av Done for her in the past few years.. She wud never mentioned them I guess

RisenPhoenix:


Everyone cares about their image, not only narcissists. And in this case, I do not see his having done anything wrong, even if we were to take her own account as true. She is obviously trying to coerce him into marrying her by playing on gullible people into giving her the media sympathy she needs to achieve her own ends.

He stated often enough that HE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT HER. A person does not have to care about everyone he mutually has sex with in order to not 'seem' narcissistic. I am of course, assuming that she is not a tree, so if she does not like her location, she should be able to move.



I do not as a rule care about the opinions people have of me; even my real life family, friends and acquaintances much less on an anonymous forum, but I do not ever verbally attack individual persons, and I am one of the few NLs who has maintained a respectful attitude towards you personally. However, I have no such compunctions about attacking inethical statements made by anyone; especially in a professional context. As a medical officer, the term 'narcissist' must have a special, scientific meaning for you. Yet you chose to throw it around falsely (and further defend your false diagnosis by directing us to google) in order to guilt trip the man into believing that he's in the wrong; in a bid to unrealistically 'balance things out'. That is not a proper thing to do. So yes, I feel you are out of line there.

Phenomenal16:
..Ineedto heal....u don hear am from d horses mouth..
Babe move on...
I can't imagine my boo being on naira land

funmisticqueen2:
where do I even start from with the fallacies in your post. I can't waste my energy on this

funmisticqueen2:
you have not made it clear enough.

Get the police involved if necessary. Get a restraining order that she must not come within 10feet of the air you breathe.

When last did you sleep with her? Reject her advances.

DrayZee:


"He hasn't denied any of her claims"

The title of the thread literally says "She is Lying"

ProfDview1:


She can go but I can't be pressured into marriage... I know what I need, if she wants to marry, let her go and marry but for me, it's a no.. Told her several times without numbers

Fragility6:

Where did i rant? Your mentions are sounding childish. Don't wanna fight dirty with a pig. Go your way

Riele:


Has he denied her accusations of him being a serial womanizer ? .

DrayZee:

And what is her business with that? She isn't his girl nor is she his wife. And he has told her clearly he doesn't want her.
What right does she have to question/accuse him of anything.

Riele:


SMH .

She isn't his girl . Fine ! . Why then is he bothered about her sleeping with his friends ?

DrayZee:

That's just him stating one of the reasons why she isn't his girl. If he was bothered, he wouldn't even be able to look at her without feeling disgust.

ProfDview1:


Hmm.. If a lady is sleeping with other men, ladies will say the guy never marry her na.. She can do whatever she want after all he never pay her bride price .. They will be like wife her first b4 u tell her not to sleep around.

ProfDview1:


Hmm.. If a lady is sleeping with other men, ladies will say the guy never marry her na.. She can do whatever she want after all he never pay her bride price .. They will be like wife her first b4 u tell her not to sleep around.

Lilbest3:
lol, maybe you are new here but all those people you mentioned are bitter short black girls with small moustache and mouth odor. They're over 30 and frustrated they will only frustrate your efforts

Riele:


[s][/s]He's a Community d*ck . His type deserves the best of Ho.es[s][/s] !

Riele:


He's bothered dear .

In his other thread , he didn't state it directly but he implied that he was bothered .

OkpaNsukkaisBae:





trash

DrayZee:

Well, that's for him to know, and for you to speculate.

KINGreignn:


Stop all these yeye feminist one sided judgement and wailing.

Riele:


You're the trash here ! .

Whether you like it or not , he's a community d*ck and deserves the best of Ho.es .