Snapchat:


Someone on here will see you doing a very good job of being a Chief Judge and would think you have a perfect life. Better work on yourself.

Oga sympathizer... Dont you worry about my life. Cheers.

Dande55:

Abeg, what's there to hate on an irrèsponsible night news paper like You? A community crayon.
Please, face your already dilapidated life shiiooor.

You are very stupid for saying that to him.

ProfDview1:


OK ma but ain't getting any police shit okay


Abt sex, no matter how much I try to reject it, she always have her way... Even when I don't want to, she will have to make sure we end up having sex even when I told her clearly dt I wasn't ready for marriage...

[/b]She was even forcing me to cum. Inside her but I av always forced my way out... Even when I cum, I force her to use drugs in my presence coz I wasn't ready for any.. I told her clearly[b]

you mean you cum inside the natural african pvssy & watch ìt flow like a boss?....
aro1 go everly be your teacher!

shebi she sabi giv Mouth Gig?

Lilbest3:
lol, maybe you are new here but all those people you mentioned are bitter short black girls with small moustache and mouth odor. They're over 30 and frustrated they will only frustrate your efforts

Lol...see how you just succeeded in describing your entire female generation.

Where I stand in terms of beauty, height and IQ, your sisters, both older and younger can't dream it in ages to come.
You're Lucky I'm in a good mood. Would have taken you on this until you weary out.

Just piss off.

excessmon:
Life is so funny
When a 36 year old guy Dey fight for not being ready...... bros should I tell u the truth
You are so irresponsible?
The age you are fighting a woman many of ur mates have gone past women issues they are fighting to keep their names active in Nigeria
Hmmm..... what’s even my own, what’s d difference between Nigeria and Nairaland?

Oga go and stop fighting and focus on ur future..... I swear u no get money truly cos if you actually do all these cases won’t come up.....


Let people be deceiving you that man season no Dey end....... u wey don Dey play season 3 episode 24 already



Only a weakling at 36 cant decide for himself.... exes came to pay respect to ur dead father....
Did the respect wake him up

Olodo agbalagba

So were you come from marriage is an achievement and if you dnt marry before 40 you are a failure...... I believe you will look so much like your comment

Snapchat:


Someone on here will see you doing a very good job of being a Chief Judge and would think you have a perfect life. Better work on yourself.

I swear when most of the so called wise judges are even having it hot behind the scene. Life drama. As the lady no put OP pix he suppose just save the thread and allow the girl. Meanwhile how sure are we op is not the girl and the girl op. Either way, am learning some life lessons though. I better zip up higher than I do

SassyGem101:




Lol...see how you just succeeded in describing your entire female generation.

Where I stand in terms of beauty, height and IQ, your sisters, both older and younger can't dream it in ages to come.
You're Lucky I'm in a good mood. Would have taken you on this until you weary out.

Just piss off.

audio

U are scared of what the world will be without failures like you in it....
Oga I mean life is in stages...... no Dey delay

greatbrian:


So were you come from marriage is an achievement and if you dnt marry before 40 you are a failure...... I believe you will look so much like your comment

KevinDein:
Op, you really have nothing to prove to folks here. The longer this thread persist the more likely they'll have you convinced you are the problem. Notice how one poster called you a narcissist because you (a 36 year old) prefers not to engage a teenager and also notice how they keep insisting you are 40 despite you making it clear you are 36.

[/b]They are not here for the truth or to help you out. They are here to manipulate you into thinking you are the problem.
Don't bother engaging them[b].

gbam !!!


they're also PAINED , if they can punch him through nairaland . they won't hesitate to do so.

Michellekabod2:

Wait,you were banned? For what exactly?at least you are not rude or vulgar. Write a mail to Seun to demand reasons why you were banned for stating your case.


Back to this post, you both should move on with your life. Nothing justifies the fact you didnt sternly cut her off. That is the problem with guys they never have the courage to cut off a lady bluntly. But is it not better to have let her go than waste her time? A truth with the worse intent is better than a lie with good intent

So you meant the guy tied her to a bed post and the lady can't quit. Lemme ask you, won't you have a feeling if a guy is just catching cruise with you? I feel the girls is the one holding herself back though. The guy made all the signs crystal clear is not Into her the only issue is what u won't eat u dnt smell which the guy didn't respect. He can pay for that with a disease and the time spent here typing and trying to prove a name on a faceless forum.

In short, the lady should move on since she has better admirers she's not tied by a blood streams convenant

Lilbest3:
lol, maybe you are new here but all those people you mentioned are bitter short black girls with small moustache and mouth odor. They're over 30 and frustrated they will only frustrate your efforts

I made a mistake by replying first without checking your profile. What a sorry looking ass. Very tired and weak looking dude and you have the guts to be ranting trash.
I'm sure you're seeking attention but sorry none given cos fair guys repel me big time as I'm #teamdarkguys.

Get a life!

funmisticqueen2:
you seem to have a narcissistic personality

In recent times its not hard to label one a narcissist.
Once someone's opinion, belief and choice differs from yours...boom! They're narcissistic.

It's unfortunate that in recent times people only entertain Echo chambers in discussions.

SassyGem101:




I made a mistake by replying first without checking your profile. What a sorry looking ass. Very tired and weak looking dude and you have the guts to be ranting trash.
I'm sure you're seeking attention but sorry none given cos fair guys repel me big time as I'm #teamdarkguys.

Get a life!

short black girl with small moustache and mouth odor like short black boys who do concrete work

ProfDview1:
Sorry my previous account was banned.. I don't know if the mod are biased. I am creating this thread to clarify things.. Ineedtoheal is lying, she is lying I repeat myself, she is just lying to gain attention...
Do you think a 40 years old man will be living his life like this? Ineedtoheal, u need to stop this victim mentality.. Even ladies on nairaland are not helping the matter at all.. They support their wrongs, just imagine.

https://www.nairaland.com/5721583/been-him-5-years-no/16#87234266

1. Our relationship isn't up to 5 years like she claimed....

2. I will be 36 around this year not 40... She is already 30. If u think I am lying, I challenge her to post her date of birth cert and I will do mine too

3. She claims I have different ladies pictures on my phone. But she forget to say she chat with random guys online, sharing phone numbers to guys as if she is sharing business card. I have told her about her chat with different guys but she doesn't take me serious. Seen so many things this lady did but I over look it. Thinking she wud change but I was wrong.

4. Well she is also searching too coz I remember seeing some her chat claiming that she is single.. Tell most guys that she isn't dating any one, imagine my babe of 3 years then claiming she is seeing anyone.

5. 3 girlfriends? Two are my Exs and they expressed interest in coming. Not that I forced them to come.

6. All these burial money is fake.. Cmon I am comfortable enough to take care of my father burial.. My siblings are comfortable enough.. Why wud I confront u, how much do u Wana give me?

7. Rejected my suitor? By claiming u ain't single to guys u flirting with.. Even to my friends dt u slept with, had one night with.. Imagine, u never stopped flirting and u think I shud quickly marry you with all the red flags.

8. Am Gentle but pls ask her how many times she has hit me coz of simple issues... Imagine, u want me to marry you.. She takes my gentleness for stupidity, take my nice personality for dumbness and she wants me to wife her.




Now that she has painted me bad, it has gone viral here on nairaland, I hope many can come in and read this too.. I just wish but no wahala sha...


It's a woman's world like they say... Women get attention than men. Not surprised.


Ineedhelp pls goooo.. I don't need u again.. I av no intention of marrying you.... Go ur way lemme go mine..... U chose not to understand the writings on the wall after all I told u..


I hope u meet ur better man...... Thanks

Nairaland mods are sumtin else.. Imagine I wud nt have seen this if it didn't make front page..

Why post such on the fp ehnn? Just imagine

if all this u said are true then u trying still being in such a relationship.if na me i for don move on long ago

funmisticqueen2:
then stop seeing her, or letting her come to your house, or sleeping with her.

If she cannot hear word. Get her arrested for disturbing your piece and get a restraining order, or talk to her people to let her stay away from you. Nothing sends a clearer message than a few nights in a cell. I have dealt with stalkers in the past so I know.
Use your head,

When next you get a stalker arrested, pray the police don't snitch up on you ..for the safety to of your own life...

funmisticqueen2:
it's a pity but she asked for it. This is why we say no to premarital sex.

Yes, I support this strongly...

Michellekabod2:

[s][/s]You told her? The logical part of me is telling me she has herself to blame. The emotional part of me is telling me you are jerk.I can't reconcile those parts of me,so for today I choose to be pro-woman,and call you jerk. Jerk[s][/s]!

trash

ProfDview1:


U r even judging me base on her own post.

Ladies always defend their own even when it's wrong.. I am not surprised at all

Sixfeetbelle franchasng safarigirl

I apologise if I judged you.

The only part I supported in her story is that she had always wanted to leave you, but yet you'd always find a way to convince her to get back together with you. For me, that is wrong. Two of you are not meant to be together, not in this lifetime at least.

Break up with her clean and clear cut. Block her on social medias, delete her number, if possible, tell your gate man not to allow her entry into your house again. Let everybody find their square root.

Once again, my apologies.

Lilbest3:
he can decide to get married to an 18 years old girl when he clocks 65. Sperm doesn't have expiry date like your ovary. Take your frustration to mother nature

no go make that lady drink sniper biko!

ProfDview1:
LilMissFavvy mjbolt placeofallure chinchonglee
sexylassie2 ineedtoheal hopeforcharles

Why wud she beg me to end it with her, can't she End it herself...

She has her own mind, I av never forced her to love me... Never and I wud never do that

GraGra247 sisisioge elitedude pocohantas crackkhaus @healthserve I am not a bad person as she painted me.

Wow wow wow!!
Chimamanda Adiche was right after all, A Story always has two sides.

See, its not a crime that you both have a challenge in your relationship. You both have issues!
And every problem get solution, sometimes some issues would go unreconciled, that in itself would a solution, since it would mean both of you going your seperate ways.

A Lady approaching 30 or in her 30s most times is under pressure to get married, its both biological and societal! So if you dont have the intention, baba, free her!!!

Sixfeetbelle:


I apologise if I judged you.

The only part I supported in her story is that she had always wanted to leave you, but yet you'd always find a way to convince her to get back together with you. For me, that is wrong. Two of you are not meant to be together, not in this lifetime at least.

Break up with her clean and clear cut. Block her on social medias, delete her number, if possible, tell your gate man not to allow her entry into your house again. Let everybody find their square root.

Once again, my apologies.

I admire your maturity....wait for some ladies her to start accusing you of seeking male validation because you stood up for the truth

sassysure:
A man hardly say no to free ride girls!

He don't have to say it for you to know he don't have interest to go further with you.
His actions will tell u.

The problem with girls is when they start dating you, they feel very relaxed and assume the role of fiancee expecting it will roll their way.
When the guy refuses to propose, they will try using emotional blackmail or pregnancy to hock him by all means.
Use your tongue to count your teeth and know when to exit gracefully when u are not getting the signal u want.
A man u hoodwinked into marriage will treat u bad.

When a man want to settle dawn with you, he will be restless until he makes you his.


Bros, these days, except with drugs, most of u guys no dey get it up again o.
Make hay while the sun shines.

Your kids shouldn't be in college when u are about to retire na

I’m sure many guys would want to settle down earlier but for financial reasons, most guys are only able to put their finances in order by their late twenties to early thirties.

(Of course there are exceptions whereby some guys make it early and just want to keep on with the bachelor lifestyle till they are older)

Besides you women have made it clear that you can’t settle with a struggling guy and it’s fine.
Once you’re married it’s expenses left right and center

I personally dread a scenario where my child would be kicked out of school due to non-payment of school fees, or simply lacking some basic luxuries that his/her peers have which could make the child feel inferior.

So don’t blame the guys, it is what it is. If you’re you’re lucky to find a young guy your age range that you like and is financially prepared for marriage (and I’m sure you will), just enjoy your blessings and move on.

ProfDview1:
LilMissFavvy mjbolt placeofallure chinchonglee
sexylassie2 ineedtoheal hopeforcharles

Why wud she beg me to end it with her, can't she End it herself...

She has her own mind, I av never forced her to love me... Never and I wud never do that

GraGra247 sisisioge elitedude pocohantas crackkhaus @healthserve I am not a bad person as she painted me.

I saw your mention. What's up .


If any of my comments contradicts your reality i take responsibility for it and own my actions.


I hope you've automatically terminated your tango and you both won't reconcile. As much as i depicted you as a bad person and absolved her of any wrong doing, i still have a few ish about you bro that ticks me off. This is it, why are you with a woman of marriageable amd you don't have a defined context for your involvement together. What's worse, it stretches into years


Don't go for ineedtoheal. She's melodramatic but use the opportunity to work on your downsides. I'm 50% sire that while she's dramatic you have issues that needs to be addressed an its better to work on what edifies than what's unprofitable

By allowing a lady of marriate age be with you without clear terms on what you're doing you opened the door for this. Why would you tolerate a lady chatting men up with you?



One of the advantages of getting older is that, we all become smarter knowing what we want from the get go. In this case your involvement with her hibgers around the same word i ised in dissing you on her thread which i like to hupothesize as a big problek for you. Indecision



Allow me make you a tick list of what you should watch about yourself and fix


1. Indecision


2. Being involved in drama that has no profit


3. Procastination


4. Bad company ( friends and associates )


5. Lack of time/purpose consciousness




Where indecision is found, the above issues flocks alongside with it. So forget the issue about being a victim here and start fizong yoursepf up bro. You need it.

Michellekabod2:
I admire your maturity....wait for some ladies her to start accusing you of seeking male validation because you stood up for the truth

That one is their cup of tea.

I don't support women based on their gender but on their words and actions. If she's horrible, I'd state it unequivocally, but if she's not, I'd defend her against trolling male species.

And thank you for the compliment. Much appreciated.

dingbang:
bro, you dont need to give explanations to anyone here. Just forge ahead with your life

He needs to ignore that mannerless kid riele

Riele:


She slept with your friends when you guys had issue ? . Hmm . Did you or did you not invite 3 different girls to your father' burial ? .
Is it also true that you're serial womanizer ? .

She's pressuring a 40 year old man to get married and you're not happy about it ? .

Your mates have children in secondary schools Oga ! .

She have slept with one of your friends but you still went back to the relationship . Why ? .

1. I don't get why you carry their matter for head
2. You think a 40 year old man should be happy because he's being pressured to get married? Like if he doesn't get married now he'll never be able to. See, depending on his status, even if he's 55 and wants a fresh 25 year old woman, he will still get it.

ProfDview1:


Can't be arguing with a 16 yrs old lady. Pls not an insult okay

Just ignore the silly kid riele, you can give birth to her type.

Mykel51:


When next you get a stalker arrested, pray the police don't snitch up on you ..for the safety to of your own life...

lol

AngryIgboMan:
Profdview1, put yourself in this girls position. She is already 30. U self reason am na. Age is no longer on her side.

This gal may truly love u even though she still flirts. What else do you expect? Have you showed any signs of commitment? Oga common! You are 37 for heavens sake. She is 30! Where you expecting her to tell every guy that comes her way she is commited when you have not given her the clear signs you will take her home?

Oga let me tell you, only you can heal this gal. Give her life some meaning by wifing her. She has been with you for 3 whole years! Do you know how many people she has rejected since then?

Even my woman I have been dating is no longer beautiful like she used to be. Nagging is setting in. But will I abandon her to another? Never! She has been there for me and deserves to be wifed.

Women have a lot of emotional and testosterone issues. If you give her the impression she matters, watch her behave!

Its unfair to abandon her like that my dear. If I may even remind you;

One of the greatest fear of the average Nigerian woman is to be unmarried at a certain age.

One of the greatest fear of the average Nigerian Guy is to be unsuccessful at a certain age.

Be wise Sir. This lady may be your peace and life partner. Be sure before you close that door.

Thanks.

SO ITS A MUST FOR HIM TO MARRY THE GIRL BECAUSE SHE IS 30 AND HE IS 37, WHETHER HE IS HAPPY OR NOT? SMH

Phenomenal16:
...bia my frnd m not a feminist..... Respect ur manhood

Respect your womanhood or pussy

allandutch:

1. I don't get why you carry their matter for head
2. You think a 40 year old man should be happy because he's being pressured to get married? Like if he doesn't get married now he'll never be able to. See, depending on his status, even if he's 55 and wants a fresh 25 year old woman, he will still get it.

1. I also don't know why you carry my matter for head .

2 . Lol . No one is disputing that. He's free to let go of her . Simple.
He can decide to get married at 55 to a 25 .His problem ! .
*******
All I'm saying is that his mates have kids in secondary school with the way he's going , I don't see him getting married in the next 3 years . He's nothing but a midnight newspaper