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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 1:11pm On Mar 08, 2020
Lilbest3:
because you lots were hell bent on proving /convincing the op that he's a nutjob and an arsehole. Two adults in a relationship, the woman claims she's not happy, [/b]why should it be the man's job to call off the relationship? What's stopping the girl from quitting the relationship[b]? I never blamed or attacked the lady when I saw her thread but I had to wade in on the guy's story because all the girls were already convinced and was bent on convincing the guy that he's the problem
Lastly, haunt does not really mean chasing as in hunting, haunt as in you can't get over our first encounter


i taya 4 all dìs evening newspaper , taking panadol 4 pesin headache.

she said he works in a federal university , probably a lecturer there. but Ineedtoheal didn't tell us her occupation. perhaps she's jobless.

all things being equal , i suspect she won't leave him.
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 1:12pm On Mar 08, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


I apologise if I judged you.

The only part I supported in her story is that she had always wanted to leave you, but yet you'd always find a way to convince her to get back together with you. For me, that is wrong. Two of you are not meant to be together, not in this lifetime at least.

Break up with her clean and clear cut. Block her on social medias, delete her number, if possible, tell your gate man not to allow her entry into your house again. Let everybody find their square root.

Once again, my apologies.
Gbam
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Riele(f): 1:12pm On Mar 08, 2020
Iceyjay:
Just ignore the silly kid riele, you can give birth to her type.

Don't be deceived . He can't birth my type in the next 5 years. He's still enjoying his midnight newspaper life .By the time he's back to his senses , I'll be with my second child.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Martinez39s(m): 1:12pm On Mar 08, 2020
planetx13:
Of course, we all know how women love to play victim , even when they are killing you.... my advice is that you owe no one anything but yourself...... just do whatever makes you happy.... don't listen to all these old rags here ..... most of them are hopeless and will want you to be in their shoes...... Never accept a cheating girlfriend.....it will always end in tears...... and please remember this .... for guys only.." life begins at 40" .......enjoy your day bro and be happy


Ciao
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by makydebbie(f): 1:13pm On Mar 08, 2020
Drama no dey move me.
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Iceyjay(m): 1:14pm On Mar 08, 2020
Dande55:
They are begging a night news paper for marriage and he's proud of saying such.

A very irresponsible man. Your mates are grandfathers now. cry
A man can never be a night newspaper only females, get that on your fish brain.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Iceyjay(m): 1:16pm On Mar 08, 2020
Dande55:

Abeg, carry your sagged balls deh go.
The lady has a very low self esteem. Check my comment there, I called her a mumu, for settling with an irresponsible night news paper with a sagged balls who will soon be suffering from andropause. cry
It's a pity, but then, I think you guys deserve each.
This clearly shows that you are highly rétarded!
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 1:16pm On Mar 08, 2020
Ttrrffyyghuuh:



I’m sure many guys would want to settle down earlier but for financial reasons, most guys are only able to put their finances in order by their late twenties to early thirties.

(Of course there are exceptions whereby some guys make it early and just want to keep on with the bachelor lifestyle till they are older)

Besides you women have made it clear that you can’t settle with a struggling guy and it’s fine.
Once you’re married it’s expenses left right and center

I personally dread a scenario where my child would be kicked out of school due to non-payment of school fees, or simply lacking some basic luxuries that his/her peers have which could make the child feel inferior.

So don’t blame the guys, it is what it is. If you’re you’re lucky to find a young guy your age range that you like and is financially prepared for marriage (and I’m sure you will), just enjoy your blessings and move on.
A man can marry if he want to.
Look for somebody that is understanding and not materialistic. So many of them out there.
This should never be a reason unless you want to show off our self too.
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Phenomenal16(f): 1:16pm On Mar 08, 2020
Iceyjay:
Respect your womanhood or pussy
..werey...u even replied me......mitcheew
I tot u r a man
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Ishilove: 1:17pm On Mar 08, 2020
Which kind of rubbish is this?? So that ineedtoheal story is another attention seeking story??
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Iceyjay(m): 1:17pm On Mar 08, 2020
Riele:


Don't be deceived . He can't birth my type in the next 5 years. He's still enjoying his midnight newspaper life .By the time he's back to his senses , I'll be with my second child.
Shut up there he can give birth to you, learn to respect your elders on this forum.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Iceyjay(m): 1:18pm On Mar 08, 2020
Phenomenal16:
..werey...u even replied me......mitcheew
I tot u r a man
Nope am a woman, dumbass! grin

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 1:19pm On Mar 08, 2020
Michellekabod2:

[s][/s]You will like to point out where I supported the man or the lady. Where did I take a side? Where did I blame him for not marrying her? I never take sides in cases like this .
I just claimed it is morally sound that you should be vocal of your intentions with any lady you are dealing with yet you accuse me of calling him names[s][/s]



you called him a "jerk"
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Adgideon(m): 1:24pm On Mar 08, 2020
No 7 is a case study run for ur life
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 1:25pm On Mar 08, 2020
sassysure:
[/b]A man hardly say no to free ride girls!

He don't have to say it for you to know he don't have interest to go further with you.
His actions will tell u.

The problem with girls is when they start dating you, they feel very relaxed and assume the role of fiancee expecting it will roll their way.
When the guy refuses to propose, they will try using emotional blackmail or pregnancy to hock him by all means.
Use your tongue to count your teeth and know when to exit gracefully when u are not getting the signal u want.
A man u hoodwinked into marriage will treat u bad.

When a man want to settle dawn with you, he will be restless until he makes you his[b]
.


Bros, these days, except with drugs, most of u guys no dey get it up again o.
Make hay while the sun shines.

Your kids shouldn't be in college when u are about to retire na

evening newspapers are always desperate , they will not listen to the voice of wisdom.

he can decide to adopt you know
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 1:29pm On Mar 08, 2020
OkpaNsukkaisBae:





you mean you cum inside the natural african pvssy & watch ìt flow like a boss?....
aro1 go everly be your teacher!

shebi she sabi giv Mouth Gig?
damn!
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by allandutch: 1:31pm On Mar 08, 2020
Riele:


1. I also don't know why you carry my matter for head .

2 . Lol . No one is disputing that. He's free to let go of her . Simple.
He can decide to get married at 55 to a 25 .His problem ! .
*******
All I'm saying is that his mates have kids in secondary school with the way he's going , I don't see him getting married in the next 3 years . He's nothing but a midnight newspaper tongue
You must know this guy personally for you to make that comment.

And what do you mean by me carrying your matter for head? I don't understand
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Nobody: 1:33pm On Mar 08, 2020
OkpaNsukkaisBae:


evening newspapers are always desperate , they will not listen to the voice of wisdom.

he can decide to adopt you know
In Nigeria, I haven't seen a man who decided to opt for adoption yet.
Babymama, yes but adoption?
Will his ego accept that even if he is sterile?
He will marry and the wife will bear the blunt of his inability to father a child while he claim innocent.
Baby factories comes to mind.
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Riele(f): 1:34pm On Mar 08, 2020
Iceyjay:
Shut up there he can give birth to you, learn to respect your elders on this forum.

You shut up ! .

He can't give birth to me at least not with his already fermented semen .

I only respect elders who Respect themselves .

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Pearl05(f): 1:35pm On Mar 08, 2020
At forty you are still doing girlfriends . Please both of you should go for deliverance afterwards break up . Life is too short for drama.
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Riele(f): 1:36pm On Mar 08, 2020
allandutch:

You must know this guy personally for you to make that comment.

And what do you mean by me carrying your matter for head? I don't understand

Lol . At 36 , he doesn't know his left from his right with Women . What makes you think he'll be settling down in the next 3 years .

For the second question , you should answer that yourself . You brought it up first .
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by KINGreignn: 1:46pm On Mar 08, 2020
Phenomenal16:
...bia my frnd m not a feminist..... Respect ur manhood
That's what you're all about. Mundane things, what has manhood got to do with this?
Oh well, out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh Hand typeth.

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 1:50pm On Mar 08, 2020
sassysure:

[/b]In Nigeria, I haven't seen a man who decided to opt for adoption yet[b].
Babymama, yes but adoption?
Will his ego accept that even if he is sterile?
He will marry and the wife will bear the blunt of his inability to father a child while he claim innocent.
Baby factories comes to mind.



if women can adopt , i don't see any reason why man cannot adopt.

margaret idahosa has 3 adopted children


nope , op is not impotent.
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by egopersonified(f): 1:53pm On Mar 08, 2020
After una don take us shine for nairaland, una go settle for our back, begin read our comment dey laugh us, I no blame una, na se.un wey form nairaland I blame.
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 1:54pm On Mar 08, 2020
osuntokuntimmy:
The female account was created on 6th of March and the male on 8th. grin smileyThe op actually operates the two accounts. Idleness is bad



oops!
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by nelklyn(m): 1:57pm On Mar 08, 2020
Op why stress yourself over peoples opinion? You need to learn to live your life as it pleases you...
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Phenomenal16(f): 2:06pm On Mar 08, 2020
KINGreignn:

That's what you're all about. Mundane things, what has manhood got to do with this?
Oh well, out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh Hand typeth.
..born again criminal...
U wanted to sound holy...but u missed it...

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Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by Phenomenal16(f): 2:07pm On Mar 08, 2020
Iceyjay:
Nope am a woman, dumbass! grin
...keyboard warrior
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by makydebbie(f): 2:07pm On Mar 08, 2020
Ishilove:
Which kind of rubbish is this?? So that ineedtoheal story is another attention seeking story??

I can imagine how vexed you are. grin
Re: Like I Said, She Is Lying. I Am Not What She Painted Me To Be by fergie001: 2:15pm On Mar 08, 2020
ProfdView1....I commented on that thread by advising her to leave.

There is something both of you aren't saying. You don't want to marry her and you haven't be firm on it.

She knows you don't want to marry her but there is something she likes..perhaps the number of years you too have been OR something that she loves about you..She also doesn't want to leave. I think she just hasn't seen someone that is better.

I will advise you. Let her go....Don't scream it on NL...call her over the phone and TELL her. I have been in your shoes even though I didn't scream out....

You are enjoying the free f*ck, but awoof deh purge. In your best interests leave.

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