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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 2:16pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:What about his family or friends? That boy needs your care that's why he's misbehaving(stealing) 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Richy4(m): 2:22pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: I can just imagine what that boy will be thinking and going through at the moment psychologically ... he might be thinking that his mother is alive yet he was living as if she was dead... She prefer the other siblings and no one loves him --- that might even be the reason why he was acting out the way he was doing. ---Try and sit your husband down and explain things to him in a cordial and rational way. if not, you gonna have a 'damaged Adult Young Man" in future with excess baggage.. Who might become a threat to the society. This is the right time to shape him.. he might be the pillar of your household some day.. tell your man not to right him off.. It is still early.. If your man was being unreasonable, then swallow your pride and send him to his own biological dad... Make out time and visit him every fortnight.. It's better instead of him being homeless or a street kid 60 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Saintmary(f): 2:25pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Very simple, travel to your brother's place, pick up your son, bring him home. If your husband is a sensible man, he will only leave your child's upkeep to you without raising hell. Good luck. 34 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Richy4(m): 2:32pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Davash222: Oh God!! How do I explain the difference between rusty and Rustic ![]() 37 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:34pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Saintmary:Thanks am thinking of going there this Sunday 15 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:34pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Richy4:Did read the post at all?? She's an Ophan.The child in question steals.The dad has absconded. One(1) in 10 parents have a favourite child amongst their children and there are even more who have a fave but are too embarrassed to accept it.No Biggie 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by James289(f): 2:37pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Take him to the orphanage 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by movement2020: 2:46pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: From this, it is understandable why your husband is not accepting the boy. He might have learnt some attitude which may affect your litltle daughter putting into consideration the present incest and all sorts all around. However, I would advise two options. Try and get the contact of your ex or any of their siblings to hand over the boy to them. Use your woman power to plead and assure your husband to accept the boy. You can also use his friends, relatives and parents to drive home your plea. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Richy4(m): 2:47pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
culturedboss: I read it perfectly... Typically, what you were looking at was the immediate cause of action (Stealing).. Have you tried to understand the root/ remote cause of why he was stealing? what if it was to gain attention from his parent? 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 3:00pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
James289:I'll rather leave that Godforsaken marriage. My son stays with me or I leave that man 47 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by 24kmagic: 3:00pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by 24kmagic: 3:10pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Saintmary: Wait, what? What did you just type? 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 3:15pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: This is really difficult to believe. Even his family refused to have anything to do with you with two children/grandchildren? Wonderful. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by 24kmagic: 3:23pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
No one is talking about how a woman will have two kids for a man whose family and relatives she doesn't know, and who she's not married to. I no pity your condition one bit. That your husband sef... How were you able to convince him to marry you? You said somewhere that you foot 70% of the bills, I think that's why he married you. I mean, wtf? You foot 70% of the bills and you can't get your husband to accept your 12years old boy into his house. Asin, e get wetin you never tell us. Because something is not adding up. 120 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by davidpeace99: 3:31pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Pusyiter(m): 3:35pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Put him in a boarding school Where to stay during holidays will not be a problem He can stay with a priest/pastor during hols My cent. Vyvyanvyvy: 59 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Dexlomo: 3:58pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Davash222: He knew she had the son before marriage and accepted her with the baggage so your reasoning is shallow. He would get peace if he mans up and act like the man he should be. 48 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Dexlomo: 4:06pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oyindidi: And perhaps, a father figure which the husband should be willing to step up to. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Dexlomo: 4:09pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
movement2020: I understand the fear in bold however, as a man who was once a boy, who knows what the love of one's family means, I think he can help rejuvenate the young chap. All he needs is be close to him and become his best buddy. Trust me, he will be happy for it but I have a feeling that his fears are limiting him. 12 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Dexlomo: 4:11pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Pusyiter: That boy needs some real love first to outgrow his bad habits as a boarding school could have worse influence on him at the moment. 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by yvelchstores(f): 4:15pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:sorry for all you are going through. I don't think it's fair on your part. Your husband is making babies through you, why do i say this? Because you already have a son and a daughter. This would not have been an issue if he accepted them as you both agreed! Now your son is about to be homeless! You were deceived by that man because I know no mother will accept this current situation. Since you foot70% of the bills, you would have been better off with your son and daughter alone. You chose marriage cos you don't want to be alone, now your son is almost homeless. You are bearing even more children for him, my own is this, PUT A CLOSE EYE ON YOUR DAUGHTER SO HE DOESNT EVER MOLEST HER. If her elder brother was in same house, she would have been protected. Madam, do something! 58 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 4:40pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Then divorce the man and handle your shít by yourself since he wants none of it, it's not by force. 45 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sotland: 4:41pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
You said you had two children for the first man, yet you don't know or have link to any of his family or siblings that you could send the boy to right?.. this is so absurd!! I reserve my further comments.. 21 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by rain21(f): 4:42pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
you were doing very well for yourself with two kids to cater for, and you still went ahead to remarry. what for?? and you are having two extra kids now, making a total of four, worse still with the kind of man you have as husband it's complicated already 40 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by davidpeace99: 5:06pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Saintmary(f): 5:18pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
24kmagic:What you saw. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Saintmary(f): 5:21pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:No problem |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 5:22pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
We need your objective mind and decision making skills on this post. Cc: Risenphoenix |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by samfuntua: 5:24pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
am not supporting your husband but i think he has his fears because of your son attitude 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 5:26pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Davash222: ![]() 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 5:27pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Another tales by moonlight. Fake stories now the order of the day on this forum 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 5:33pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Davash222:Get out! ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
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