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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by hakeemhakeem(m): 5:36pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Take him to boarding sch during holidays talk some friends who can allows him stay 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by jesmond3945: 5:40pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Op that boy is your son and blood. He is growing up with resentment and hatred in his heart. it is a matter of time it will come crashing down and he would never forgive you or his dad. Thank God you are footing the bill. The mistake you made was to remarry. it never ends well. Reach out to his father if you have his contact, if that fails. Plead with your husband one more time on bended knees with weeping, if that fails. Then go for your son, if it means leaving the house. This is because as long as he is away from you, happinesss and peace of mind eludes you. 42 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by cococandy(f): 5:43pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oh really? The man is not a jezebel in this case? Una hypocrisy study for havard. I salute you. Davash222: 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oriyomin25(m): 5:45pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
[quote author=24kmagic post=87382977]No one is talking about how a woman will av 2 kids for a man whose family and relatives she doesn't know, and not married to. E no tire u? How d fucck she doesn't av her baby daddy relative's contact or knw their place 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 5:45pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
cococandy:Tell me how he's a Jezebel here. I'm waiting 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by cococandy(f): 5:48pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
OP if not that you guys already have kids together I’d tell to divorce that man. It might be too much for your kids. However in all honestly (unless he has a change of heart) you’re better honestly of without that man. How you want to achieve that is up to you. I better be dead and rotten before a man comes between me and my child. 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by cococandy(f): 5:50pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Davash222: Oh simple. He’s not ready to treat the child she had with another man as his own flesh and blood. Isn’t that the very easy expectation y’all have when it comes to step moms? 47 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by lewis512(m): 5:53pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
In this case you have to choose out of becoming a good wife to your new husband or becoming a good mother to you kids ? Choose right if your New husband doesn’t allow him yet |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 5:55pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
cococandy:He's already treating the girl as his own flesh and blood. He's only being careful to protect the girls. The father of the boy is alive, isn't it wise for the woman to take the boy to his father?? 12 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by cococandy(f): 5:56pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Davash222: Would he let his own son be homeless because he steals out of starvation? 46 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 6:01pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
cococandy:Coco, he doesn't have any babymama, he's a responsible man. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 6:03pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
James289:You want me to take my child to the orphanage whyle I’m still alive and in good health? You must be joking . I rather be a single mother and suffer with my 4 children than rejecting my son. 51 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 6:04pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Pusyiter:I cannot do it I rather become a single mother with 4 children than abandoning him 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 6:06pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
cococandy:Thanks I will rather be alone with my children . I’m thinking of going there on Sunday to pick him up from my brother and I will let him do his worst. If he denied him access to the house then I’m ready to quit 34 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 6:08pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Don't give this kind of advice to a married woman who is clearly in distress. Where is your sympathy! From the post, it's clear she wants to be there for her son and the people she hoped will stand by her aren't. A divorce isn't what she needs, rather a talk with her husband and maybe the people he confides in most can help bridge the situation and bring harmony. Op, talk to people your husband is close with and beg them to help you convince him. Since he accepted the girl, I believe he'll accept the boy if he understands he doesn't have to shoulder much responsibility. Perhaps, you act more favorable to your daughter than his and he fears another step child will uneven the love scale the more. Perhaps, he accepted the girl for selfish interests? which may shed more light on why he doesn't want the boy around. Whatever the reason, discuss it in detail with him and understand his reasons and stand. A divorce should only be reached in the dire of situations. 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by cococandy(f): 6:08pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 6:12pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 6:16pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
yvelchstores: I love how you made that thought incapital letters. It's like you're reading my mind. I mean, why accept the daughter and reject the son? It looks fishy. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 6:17pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 6:25pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:What silly sympathy? Unlike you, some of us are able to detect a writer's mindset just from a few sentences. And this one, right from the first page already showed she deserves no sympathy or pity. A woman who takes care of 70% of the bills in her home and does not want the man to be financially responsible for the boy, should be living on her own as a single mother. Meanwhile, look at who you're trying to defend... Lmao ![]() Vyvyanvyvy: Vyvyanvyvy: 12 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 6:26pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
martowskin1: If it's your child, you won't make this statement. No child deserves their parent treating them like a baggage. That is how resentment breed in people, leading some to be mentally unbalanced. On the man's part, I'd say he's a coward. He knew there were two kids before the marriage, and he accepted one but rejected the other. Why? Why did he accept the girl? Did he have ulterior motives for her? Is that why he doesn't want the boy around? His actions looks fishy. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 6:28pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Yes he's a paedophile and she should divorce him. Has the matter not been resolved? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 6:31pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
crackkhaus: She's a mother. What were you expecting? Even you can't send your love child to an orphanage just to protect your marriage. I still stand by what I said. The husband should be asked his reasons for rejecting the boy home in his house. Otherwise, he shouldn't grant any of the kids accommodation in his house and send them to their real father. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 6:32pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Go and force him. 15 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 6:35pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
crackkhaus: You reached that conclusion all by yourself. And you know quite well, divorce was not my solution to this case. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:36pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
No matter what you do, please keep your children with you. Children should be with their parents as long as the parents are alive. I sorely wish you didn't marry this husband of yours. It's clearly a marriage of convenience for him. Please, please, don't let your son grow with hate and resentment. Get him and raise him. Don't make worse decisions than you've made in the past. 20 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 6:42pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 6:43pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:You're a funny one, ain't you? You basically agreed with someone who stated clearly that the OP should watch her husband around the daughter so he doesn't molest her...yet here you are less than 30mins later eating your words and backpedaling with the explanation that I reached that conclusion by myself. ![]() WONDERMENT! 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 6:47pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
crackkhaus: If you read my post clearly, you'd see I never out rightly said anything. I made insinuations. And yes, I agreed with someone who made a similar statement to my insinuation but I never specifically gave him a name. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 6:49pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
martowskin1:Oga na wa for u ohh?? How can u be a happy, healthy & Productive human Trolling her like this.No u can't. ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 6:51pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
martowskin1: I'm not debating the man taking care of someone else's kids. I even applaud him for doing so. Men rarely do that. The problem here is that he initially agreed to accept the two and then changed his mind and accepted only one. Why? Do you see where people's opinion about this issue lies? It reeks of suspicion. See, the case would be better judged if he didn't accept either then everyone will be telling the woman to find where to send both kids and leave the marriage if the kids were her priority. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 6:54pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Sorry, you can't take that one back. Just making insinuations is equally as valid as explicitly stating what you think, especially when you typed out these insinuations instead of just leaving it buried in your thoughts. Claim your prize, don't be shy... ![]() 22 Likes 1 Share |
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