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He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by prepresh(f): 5:33pm On Mar 12, 2020
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.

I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.

What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by NextD18: 5:42pm On Mar 12, 2020
Be bold and ask him out if you have feelings for him before you loose him to another lady.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:44pm On Mar 12, 2020
if these things he is offering are not important then why dont you go with the new dude who will offer what you desire?!

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by cRobo: 5:47pm On Mar 12, 2020
inquire more about him if he is already in a serious relationship and let him define the purpose your friendship and how hr wishes both of you should end up

beside that if you really like him

what's wrong on asking him out and paying the bills

that will surely impress him the more for just a date

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by cRobo: 5:47pm On Mar 12, 2020
inquire more about him if he is already in a serious relationship and let him define the purpose your friendship and how he wishes both of you should end up

beside that if you really like him

what's wrong in asking him out and paying the bills on your first date

that will surely impress him the more

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by WoundedLamb: 5:49pm On Mar 12, 2020
cRobo:
inquire more about him if he is already in a serious relationship and let him define the purpose your friendship and how he wishes both of you should end up

beside that if you really like him

what's wrong in asking him out and paying the bills on your first date

that will surely impress him the more

The issue with this is that if something goes wrong in future and she comes here to share her story, the same people that gave her this advice will be the ones to call her olosho who threw herself at a man. It's never really easy for the women folks to express such desires.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by 2dice01: 5:50pm On Mar 12, 2020
Baba is taking his Time


Acting Mysterious is Golden
Your Heart will be yearning for the person

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by 2dice01: 5:55pm On Mar 12, 2020
WoundedLamb:


The issue with this is that if something goes wrong in future and she comes here to share her story, the same people that gave her this advice will be the ones to call her olosho who threw herself at a man. It's never really easy for the women folks to express such desires.
Blame it on the Continent we are

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by cRobo: 6:02pm On Mar 12, 2020
WoundedLamb:


The issue with this is that if something goes wrong in future and she comes here to share her story, the same people that gave her this advice will be the ones to call her olosho who threw herself at a man. It's never really easy for the women folks to express such desires.

individual difference, I will forever respect any woman who is bold enough to state clear her desire about me

well it all depends on the maturity of the guy

only kids will take such for granted

such ladies are rare and so special its not an act of desperation but going for what you want

guys pleads with girl and also ladies pleads with guys

unless the are kids

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by QwarkdFerengi(m): 6:11pm On Mar 12, 2020
2dice01:
Baba is taking his Time


Acting Mysterious is Golden
Your Heart will be yearning for the person
I tell you. Dude is waiting to go for the jugular. He don make the babe wetewete. Once it's time and he goes for the kill, if she's worth it, he will keep her or move on. Serious high jump naim that tail dey.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Nobody: 6:20pm On Mar 12, 2020
Just tell him to greet his girlfriend..don't ask him out....men like to hunt...we have pride like lions.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by TA4TA4: 6:25pm On Mar 12, 2020
prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out, I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me. What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2thHxKsu-LU

This is the answer you need

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by ValCon888: 6:36pm On Mar 12, 2020
You're like a cow he's fattening up for Christmas. The day he will lash you ehn, he will do 10 rounds in one visit. He will take more than enough from you including principal, collateral, and interest.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:43pm On Mar 12, 2020
Please, just move on with your life.
If he wanted you, he'd have made his intentions known a long time ago. If you're not careful you'll end up in a friends-with-benefit situation, deceiving yourself that it's become a relationship.

Open your heart to someone else, and let that other one continue living his life.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by fredopareto(m): 6:54pm On Mar 12, 2020
WoundedLamb:


The issue with this is that if something goes wrong in future and she comes here to share her story, the same people that gave her this advice will be the ones to call her olosho who threw herself at a man. It's never really easy for the women folks to express such desires.
brotherly DT is what we called life...advice is an option.u take it or u leave it..if it work..we salute her encouragement for chosen d option nd if not..we blame her for chosen d option BT most important tin in life is to count on God..choose wisely..life two ways of coin

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by SavageMaster: 7:05pm On Mar 12, 2020
prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out, I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me. What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

Set up a meeting with him in a public place, say a restaurant. Thank him for the attention, care and for providing for you.

Then tell him you need him to define what both of you are doing, and what he is up to. Tell him you need him to define his relationship with you. Go ahead to tell him you have suitors coming for your hand in marriage, and you don't want him to receive your wedding invitation unexpectedly.

I think you should be bit soft on him, since you really like him. If he is sensible, after your saying these, he'll take the hint and do the needful.

If he intends to marry you, he should give you a timeframe, and then you go back, think about it, and reply him later.

If he's not yet ready to settle down, I think you should move on.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Sixfeetbelle: 7:53pm On Mar 12, 2020
cRobo:
inquire more about him if he is already in a serious relationship and let him define the purpose your friendship and how hr wishes both of you should end up

beside that if you really like him

what's wrong on asking him out and paying the bills

that will surely impress him the more for just a date

I'm surprised you said a word today cheesy grin

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Mobi47(m): 8:03pm On Mar 12, 2020
prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out, I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me. What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.
go and read the story of Ruth In the Bible. if u love him, tell him how u feel and tell him u would love to b his wife. let him take it up from there. its not bad for a Lady to say this to a man she loves. A guy might love u but would b shy to say it just as Boaz was shy to propose to Ruth. But she summoned courage and told him the koko and he married her without wasting any time. Don't give him sex before marriage, if not he may taste u and run....some guys are mad. If he really loves u, he won't b boarded.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by merit455(m): 8:05pm On Mar 12, 2020
ValCon888:
You're like a cow he's fattening up for Christmas. The day he will lash you ehn, he will do 10 rounds in one visit. He will take more than enough from you including principal, collateral, and interest.
Sex slave

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by merit455(m): 8:07pm On Mar 12, 2020
prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out, I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me. What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.
huh.....,you like him because he does everything you need. If he was just a friend,you will not come and asekd for advice,stingy and greedy African girls

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Skmoda(m): 8:07pm On Mar 12, 2020
NextD18:
Ask him out if you have feelings for him.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Mobi47(m): 8:18pm On Mar 12, 2020
SavageMaster:


Set up a meeting with him in a public place, say a restaurant. Thank him for the attention, care and for providing for you.

Then tell him you need him to define what both of you are doing, and what he is up to. Tell him you need him to define his relationship with you. Go ahead to tell him you have suitors coming for your hand in marriage, and you don't want him to receive your wedding invitation unexpectedly.

I think you should be bit soft on him, since you really like him. If he is sensible, after your saying these, he'll take the hint and do the needful.

If he intends to marry you, he should give you a timeframe, and then you go back, think about it, and reply him later.

If he's not yet ready to settle down, I think you should move on.
best

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by SweetCunt97(f): 8:20pm On Mar 12, 2020
prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out, I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me. What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.
He's married

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by prepresh(f): 8:44pm On Mar 12, 2020
[Oga, I like him because he is a born again, a brother in my church and very God fearing, I'm only trying to let people know things he is doing that made me think he has feelings for me, I don't like long story that's why I summarized, why people ask for advice if u have one give and if u don't just pass and stop looking forward to criticism. quote author=merit455 post=87390744]huh.....,you like him because he does everything you need. If he was just a friend,you will not come and asekd for advice,stingy and greedy African girls[/quote]

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by prepresh(f): 8:53pm On Mar 12, 2020
merit455:
huh.....,you like him because he does everything you need. If he was just a friend,you will not come and asekd for advice,stingy and greedy African girls

Oga, I like him because he is a born again and a brother in my church and very God fearing Christian, I'm only telling you people the things he does that made me think he has feelings for me, I don't like long story that's why I summarized. Please if you don't have advise to give people please read and pass and stop looking forward to criticism.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by prepresh(f): 8:57pm On Mar 12, 2020
SavageMaster:


Set up a meeting with him in a public place, say a restaurant. Thank him for the attention, care and for providing for you.

Then tell him you need him to define what both of you are doing, and what he is up to. Tell him you need him to define his relationship with you. Go ahead to tell him you have suitors coming for your hand in marriage, and you don't want him to receive your wedding invitation unexpectedly.

I think you should be bit soft on him, since you really like him. If he is sensible, after your saying these, he'll take the hint and do the needful.

If he intends to marry you, he should give you a timeframe, and then you go back, think about it, and reply him later.

If he's not yet ready to settle down, I think you should move on.
Thanks a lot, this sounds good but the fact that he has not said anything at all I don't know how to go about it, we only see in church or home cell, he is always busy and so am i

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Yahman1(m): 9:12pm On Mar 12, 2020
If u ask him Out would the Sun cease to Rise? He Might be a shy Dude or he is waiting for the right time besides na this kind scene Una dey like na, why are u complaining

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Nobody: 9:13pm On Mar 12, 2020
prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out, I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me. What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

Give him the greenlight, pronto!

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by TallPck1(m): 9:30pm On Mar 12, 2020
The OP is a winners member

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Nobody: 9:44pm On Mar 12, 2020
prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out, I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me. What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

Ask him of his intentions...
Secondly never disclose yours because guys feed
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by merit455(m): 10:07pm On Mar 12, 2020
prepresh:

Oga, I like him because he is a born again and a brother in my church and very God fearing Christian, I'm only telling you people the things he does that made me think he has feelings for me, I don't like long story that's why I summarized. Please if you don't have advise to give people please read and pass and stop looking forward to criticism.
Move on,him no like you. He is just helping you bcs you are poor. You are not his type, seeking useless advise

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Jozzy4: 10:09pm On Mar 12, 2020
cRobo:


individual difference, I will forever respect any woman who is bold enough to state clear her desire about me

well it all depends on the maturity of the guy

only kids will take such for granted

such ladies are rare and so special its not an act of desperation but going for what you want

guys pleads with girl and also ladies pleads with guys

unless the are kids

Too many kids

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