prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out, I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me. What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

PrimadonnaO:
Please, just move on with your life.
If he wanted you, he'd have made his intentions known a long time ago.If you're not careful you'll end up in a friends-with-benefit situation, deceiving yourself that it's become a relationship.

Open your heart to someone else, and let that other one continue doing his thing.

prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out, I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me. What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

Jozzy4:


Too many kids

cRobo:



since you are an old man(soon to die) why don't you make your comment thereby ignoring mine

your empty brain can't think for itself that why you rely on my comment

Sixfeetbelle:


I'm surprised you said a word today

Jozzy4:


Eeyah, smiles ...

I was actually supporting your point. I said " Too many kids " because there are too many guys thinking like what you described as kid attitude

Jozzy4:


Eeyah, smiles ...

I was actually supporting your point. I said " Too many kids " because there are too many guys thinking like what you described as kid attitude

WoundedLamb:


The issue with this is that if something goes wrong in future and she comes here to share her story, the same people that gave her this advice will be the ones to call her olosho who threw herself at a man. It's never really easy for the women folks to express such desires.

cRobo:


individual difference, I will forever respect any woman who is bold enough to state clear her desire about me

well it all depends on the maturity of the guy

only kids will take such for granted

such ladies are rare and so special its not an act of desperation but going for what you want

guys pleads with girl and also ladies pleads with guys

unless the are kids

cRobo:


individual difference, I will forever respect any woman who is bold enough to state clear her desire about me

well it all depends on the maturity of the guy

only kids will take such for granted

such ladies are rare and so special its not an act of desperation but going for what you want

guys pleads with girl and also ladies pleads with guys

unless the are kids

Mobi47:
go and read the story of Ruth In the Bible. if u love him, tell him how u feel and tell him u would love to b his wife. let him take it up from there. its not bad for a Lady to say this to a man she loves. A guy might love u but would b shy to say it just as Boaz was shy to propose to Ruth. But she summoned courage and told him the koko and he married her without wasting any time. Don't give him sex before marriage, if not he may taste u and run....some guys are mad. If he really loves u, he won't b boarded.

Tallesty1:
Shut up sir

prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out, I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me. What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

cRobo:

Are you referring to me?

prepresh:
[Oga, I like him because he is a born again, a brother in my church and very God fearing, I'm only trying to let people know things he is doing that made me think he has feelings for me, I don't like long story that's why I summarized, why people ask for advice if u have one give and if u don't just pass and stop looking forward to criticism. quote author=merit455 post=87390744]huh.....,you like him because he does everything you need. If he was just a friend,you will not come and asekd for advice,stingy and greedy African girls

Tallesty1:
I quoted you directly

cRobo:



So you are not afraid of me abi?

PrimadonnaO:
Please, just move on with your life.
If he wanted you, he'd have made his intentions known a long time ago.If you're not careful you'll end up in a friends-with-benefit situation, deceiving yourself that it's become a relationship.

Open your heart to someone else, and let that other one continue doing his thing.

Tallesty1:
Laughable.




You've no experience when it comes dating a woman that asked you out so I told you to shut up because you were beginning to sound foolish.



How's that fear?


Abi I need to say yes to your question before you know that?

PrimadonnaO:
Please, just move on with your life.
If he wanted you, he'd have made his intentions known a long time ago.If you're not careful you'll end up in a friends-with-benefit situation, deceiving yourself that it's become a relationship.

Open your heart to someone else, and let that other one continue doing his thing.

Naughtysite:


She can't express her desire, but she is busy collecting money.

merit455:
Move on,him no like you. He is just helping you bcs you are poor. You are not his type, seeking useless advise

prepresh:

Thanks a lot, this sounds good but the fact that he has not said anything at all I don't know how to go about it, we only see in church or home cell, he is always busy and so am i

PrimadonnaO:
Please, just move on with your life.
If he wanted you, he'd have made his intentions known a long time ago.If you're not careful you'll end up in a friends-with-benefit situation, deceiving yourself that it's become a relationship.

Open your heart to someone else, and let that other one continue doing his thing.

prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.

I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.

What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

2dice01:
Baba is taking his Time

Acting Mysterious is Golden Your Heart will be yearning for the person