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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by LTRAVIS(m): 10:09am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Lol...you got married to someone and you don't know their family house....are you sure you even married that person 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sterope(f): 10:09am On Mar 13, 2020 |
You don't have anything to say. She is the mother. The man knew what he was getting into. Davash222: 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by SenecaTheYonger: 10:10am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: How do 0you beat someone then they start stealing or were they stealing and because of that they started beating him? because it is not easy to live with a thief. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Ukodo1123: 10:10am On Mar 13, 2020 |
I just log in because of u Naturally the man is correct But there is a way out Get the issue to ur church for them to intervene, if he refuse to listen to them one member can just help u by taking d child up 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ladykolly(f): 10:11am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Madam please take that your son out of that house, put him in a boarding school... to save your present home 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Hedonisst: 10:11am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Nigerian women and their limitless troubles. Women. Woe(to)men indeed. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by taurusmena1(m): 10:12am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Recipe of a home breaker janvier27: |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:12am On Mar 13, 2020 |
uote author=Vyvyanvyvy post=87379664]I had 2 children. When I got married, my husband had none and accepted them like his own children. Before marriage, we had discussed about the children living with us after marriage but that couldn’t be possible anymore because we were having financial problem so we couldn’t afford to move to a bigger apartment. We were staying in a room self contain with my daughter while my son was staying with my elder brother and his wife. Now three years after we had moved to a bigger house still my husband doesn’t want my son to come and live with us. At the moment my son is going through hard times. My sister in law has been maltreating him to an extent that he has been stealing, he was caught and beaten like an animal. My brother said he doesn’t want him in his house again. He wants me to come and collect him. I pleaded with my husband for me to bring him with us but he said no, he should stay there because he doesn't want him to damage our children. I’m angry at him I stopped talking to him and I don’t know where my son will go because I have no mother no father it’s only my elder brother and kid sister even my sister who is married doesn’t want him. I’m pained and in tears seeing my only son suffering while I’m still alive and I’m helpless to protect him. [/quote] Send your son to a boarding school |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by chrisxxx(m): 10:12am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Where is the father? U born for osho free? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:12am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Richy4: Yes it's a favor... Can u marry such? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Lifecanbeamazin: 10:12am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: My sister! Who do you see being there for you many years down the line? This man or your son? A man who does not love my child does not love me. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by evil1: 10:12am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:I can imagine how u feel. Sorry to ask though, how old re u? Talk to your husband if he doesn't my dear your happiness, future of u and safety of u n ur kids are Paramount. You can also put him in a boarding school but I bet you he won't still have the love or grow up with one. I say this because I was a boarder. I'm not married but take the bold step either stay married an allow your son suffer or leave the marriage 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:12am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: My dear, just take it easy on your husband. Whether or not you foot 70 or 100% of bills is not the issue. When that boy comes to live under the same roof with your husband, he is indirectly taking the responsibility of being his parent or guardian, which is not an easy task. This is not about money because when he lives with you guys, the neighbours would notice someone new, questions will arise, his friends will ask questions... So it's a big mental battle for him as well, try not to see things from your own perspective alone. Can you put the boy in a good boarding school? That way he only needs to come home during holidays... At least if you tell your husband that, he should be willing to consider. All the best dear. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by eyinjuege: 10:13am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Tallesty1: There is no difference really. You cannot shout about evil step mums and how they should allow their step children stay in peace with their father, while asking a step father not to rise up and be supportive of his wife's children from a previous relationship. You can't speak with both sides of the mouth. This child in question doesn't have his father around, and yet a man wants him to be homeless and not stay with the only other parent he has around. We have wickedness embedded in our DNA. Real wickedness. This is worse than witchcraft. When will the needs of a child starts superseding the ego of an adult, my people? Where is our humanity as a people? My 1st cousin married a woman with a child , and they have 2 children together now. That boy from a previous union looks after his younger ones like a hawk. Nobody from my part of the family (the step dad's side) treats him as an outsider. He comes to their grandma's (my aunt) place with his younger ones, and lives like the prince he is. Grandma is everyone's grandma to him. He's just a child for God's sake. Secondly, don't see children as possessions to be taken away at will by anybody. When we start seeing them as human beings, you will stop being afraid that a man he never grew up with will just come and take him from nowhere to claim him. Can't you render help to a stranger, talkmore of a child from your wife. I'm sure you know people who are sending the children of poor people to school, and those children are living with them. I know those raising their house helps, and sending them to good schools. Are they planning to claim those househelps as their possession? Has that stopped them from rendering help, despite knowing the househlep will leave at some point and be 'claimed' by her people? 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by toprealman: 10:13am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Why not take him to his father |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by chloedogie(m): 10:13am On Mar 13, 2020 |
letskeeptalking: Very easy to conclude and write the word shame but you were sometimes ago here asking for opinions about your relationship with another married man. You people should be very calm and objective giving advice to people. And what is wrong with dialogue. That the man is not willing to accept her boy into the house today doesn't mean he wont accept him tomorrow. And also boys are always very difficult to handle especially when he is grown to the age of knowing that her mum's husband is not her father. Don't even pray for such,. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by 2sexycom(m): 10:13am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:not all men. ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by GreenArrow1(m): 10:14am On Mar 13, 2020 |
24kmagic: It will shock you the kind of homes some people come from and the lack of parental upbringing thereof. I am saying this confidently because right now, there's one seated beside me whose mentality would rhyme very well with the OP's. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sunnyb10(m): 10:14am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Madam i understand your worries, i think you should keep begging your husband, at thesame time put him in boarding school by so doing he won't be around much, only during holidays. I think your husband is scared of his stealing habit of which you have to assure him that he won't do such a thing in his house. may God help you. but don't break your marriage for your boy as some nairalanders are suggesting. Vyvyanvyvy: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by chrisxxx(m): 10:14am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:No keep leg closed. Just they open am anyhow to pass the responsibility to an innocent man. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ednut1(m): 10:14am On Mar 13, 2020 |
is this another fake story ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by JuanDeDios: 10:14am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222:Are you okay? Her brother should be responsible for her son when she's alive? Didn't the man know she had him when he agreed to marry her? Oh, he thought he could have her while her son is sent off to live on the streets. Yeah. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by vickydevoka(m): 10:15am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:Lol. I think men hate women who brags about paying for house bills. My elder sister does that. I always warn to stop it that de husband didn't marry her on credit neither did she bring any huge money from her parents house. If things go bad for your husband just try n maintain the tranquility in ur home by not broadcasting his condition 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by dozzybreezy(m): 10:15am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:What a dumb statement to make. Do you know the emotional troubles men face to know that their wives had children for other men not to talk of accommodating them? I hope you will have your own children out of wed luck and start looking for another man to house them. Only then you will understand. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Fash20: 10:15am On Mar 13, 2020 |
The plain truth is no one on earth will treat your children The same way you would. Stop sending your children to go leave with their uncles and aunts. They might b3 maltreated. Back to the topic What about his father? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by anonymous1759(m): 10:15am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Send him to a boarding school that's the option for. If your husband still don't accept him to stay with you guys during holidays he doesn't love you completely. if you don't take measures to settle your son it means you prefer Di*l over him that's simple. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by pentsystems(m): 10:15am On Mar 13, 2020 |
DozieInc: I support your comment I don’t know why most women don’t know how to handle men . Continue appealing to your husband and also be the best wife to your husband .. also put him in your prayers that is the only way you can convince him .. not talking to him will only make matter worse and push him to another woman ... the way you are going with the matter I see you losing your husband and being a single mother to 4 children but God forbids.. Better kneel down and make peace with your husband immediately 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by JuanDeDios: 10:15am On Mar 13, 2020 |
chrisxxx:He knew she had a son. He should have refused to marry her, not marry her and expect her son to go live on the streets. What is wrong with you people? 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sterope(f): 10:15am On Mar 13, 2020 |
I am sorry but your children are more important than your husband. Your boy is still young. He can still change for the better. Find someone who can talk to your husband and if he refuses, your children are still more important. They are the future and you are responsible for them. Vyvyanvyvy: 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by dayveed1(m): 10:16am On Mar 13, 2020 |
jesmond3945:I couldn't have said it better. Very sensible advice. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ifycoly: 10:16am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Madam, since you are a bit financially stable, why not find a Borden school, put your son there and try convince your husband for accommodating when school is on vacation. Vyvyanvyvy: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by silibaba: 10:16am On Mar 13, 2020 |
still cant phantom why women cant stay away from premarital sex. Just imagine marrying second hand woman ![]() 2 Likes |
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