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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by candidphils(m): 10:16am On Mar 13, 2020 |
sit ur husband down and let him see reasons with u, plead with him and let him know that its only u who can train the boy and bring him up in a Godly way, ur son cant be suffering in d hands of other people while u r still alive... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by omoharry(f): 10:17am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:Nor mind am..na die ee dey! If woman depend on them ,they will complain and let the world know what a reliability she is in the home. Ok, she kon dey independent, them go almost get BP and insecurity go almost kill them..only a few confident men do not allow their wives success to get to them. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:17am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: He say him masquerade go dance and later he say him masquerade no go dance again. Who da hell Wana hold him responsible 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by akaahs(m): 10:18am On Mar 13, 2020 |
eyefordetails:u guyz are talking as if the man force her to marry him. she have every reason not to marry and stay put in taken care of her children. now that she got married to him, she have to keep begging him to consider her position on her son. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Xisnin(m): 10:18am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Belafonte:Not every sperm donor is a father. You are probably too young to understand that. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by wink2015(m): 10:18am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Acidosis: Your contribution is quite helpful. The man or husband feel insecure especially when he is traumatised with words from the wife such as my former husband, my ex etc |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by eyinjuege: 10:18am On Mar 13, 2020 |
dozzybreezy: Do you also excuse step moms who are wicked to the children of their husbands from another woman? That is also very painful , you know. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Miky91: 10:18am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Take him to his fathers relatives. He has tried for you oooo. Discuss with his father and tell him the challenges then you guys should reach a consensus 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by SecretSpy666: 10:19am On Mar 13, 2020 |
24kmagic: God bless you sir/ma. That is the point. The woman is a wayward woman who do not have regard for her family or the family of whoever sample her. If she has a good relationship with her family, at least one person will accommodate her child. I will never marry a woman who do not care about knowing my family members. This woman doesn't deserve a man. Highly irresponsible 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Kareemtoyin: 10:19am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Take your son to school to be living in school |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by anonymous1759(m): 10:20am On Mar 13, 2020 |
dozzybreezy: If she truly told him about the kids and he accept but change his mind later he's a puss* he'd every opportunity to reject her with the kids at the beginning by now she would remained single and care for her son herself. Right now things are complicated for her having another baby for him plus the pregnancy. If her story is complete I blame the man. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Reigning2020: 10:20am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 10:20am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Acidosis:He is very stingy man 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:20am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Richy4: Send him to go and die abi. Italy of all places 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by efeski(m): 10:21am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Mymynd4u:smh And you're supposed to be female? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 10:21am On Mar 13, 2020 |
omoharry:H lives in Italy |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by JuanDeDios: 10:21am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Your son can't live on the streets. He needs a home and he needs his mother. Your bother was only doing you a favour. Your husband should have refused to marry you if he doesn't want your kids. But what's done is done. Try to make your husband keep his promise to accept your son. If he does not, you have to decide between losing your marriage and letting your son be raised by the devil on the streets. Don't fail your son - he's innocent and a marriage is not worth that. 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by taurusmena1(m): 10:21am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Madam, you are in a very dicey situation and u need to apply wisdom, tolerance, patience and diplomacy. 1) Hiw did u come about your calculation of 70%? This is totally wrong as it puts you in a position of who has more rights in the house. Kindly relegate that thought as it will only complicate things 2) Your son is young and can still change for the better but u do not need to justify his actions like saying he's being starved which is why he is stealing. 3) Nigerian men are scared of taking in Male children from other marriages as it causes a whole lot in the family which I cannot explain now 4) Not talking to your husband will only make matters worse. Show him love and understanding. 5) If he eventually agrees to have your son in the house against his wish, he may end up not showing him the much needed love and will make your son despise him which will put u in a tight corner. 6) I will suggest you enrol your son in a boarding school so he can visit during holidays. That will be a win win situation for everyone at the moment. Lastly do not listen to all those saying they cant tolerate such nonsense cos most of them want what you already have. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Areaboy2(m): 10:21am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: then you technically dont need this man telling you not to bring your child home. My friend, go and take charge of your son who needs family love the most at this point in his life. Forget your need for a man for a second. Your current child with your husband will be fine (atleast his father is around and not "in the abroad" ![]() Go get your son. whatever it takes 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by daben1(m): 10:22am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222:una no suppose dey answer all these kind girls, that don't think before commenting 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:22am On Mar 13, 2020 |
movement2020: Which woman power, from an ex mother of two. No be even Virgin or babe wey still dey set with figure.. Woman power Don vanish after she don born jare 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Berankis: 10:22am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Be a wise woman and a humble one. Bring your son home, tell your husband he is just coming to greet, after 1 or 2days beg him like a woman, like his wife. He will never say no and he can stay with you all. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:22am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: The battle line is drawn 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Lambarry1: 10:22am On Mar 13, 2020 |
That's why a woman who has children from another man will never have children for me. Laye laye it cant happen. 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 10:23am On Mar 13, 2020 |
LTRAVIS:I know his people and his family house because I lived with them when he left the country 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 10:24am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Lifecanbeamazin:My son 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 10:24am On Mar 13, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Shebi it's you that wanted me to admit to sth I never said, now you don't understand it again. Smh ![]() And we are saying the same thing. Finally. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Ezalb: 10:25am On Mar 13, 2020 |
all these people forming savage and commenting rashly so,to what end ![]() madam the matter is critical, your son needs you and you can only be happy if hes back within your reach....plead with your husband again, and probably come to a compromise..your child will be better off for now in boarding school as the time he will be at home will be limited...that could be a perfect start, with time your husband might adjust... if you are a christian be on your knees everyday for your son and your husband..thats the way out... 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:25am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:you don't even need to foot any bills before he provide a home for your son in this situation. some family even raised children who are not related to them. I grew up with one in my family and he is all grown-up now and ended up being one of the most level headed kid I ever known. your husband is being childish. you should involve his parents 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by chinonso47: 10:25am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: Ode... Can u hear yourself ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Jaqenhghar: 10:26am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222:Then when the boy becomes a success tomorrow you will encourage the man to identify with the boy shey. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by otorks01: 10:26am On Mar 13, 2020 |
The best thing you can do for your kid is to find the relative of your forgotten husband and take the kids there or you sacrifice your existing marriage and go and take care of your kid, because if you look at the man angle also its not easy taking care of another man child when you are still struggling to take care of yours and you saying that since she pay 70% of the bill that she should leave, i believe you are not married because if you are you will know the woman has a big ego and gigantic pride, if you pay 70% why bring it here and i only pity the husband because there is always two sides to every story toprealman:, 4 Likes |
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