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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by tevinsolt: 1:02pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
flyingdutchman: It's good you see it too bro. Good for you. Many are void of sound reasoning.....products of dysfunctional individuals, incapable of self evaluation. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 1:02pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: Have u seen that you have no answer to this. We always find it very easy to blame, castigate and crucify others and when in that same situation, we do worst that the person we were judging and sentencing to death. Be properly guided my dear. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Badgers14: 1:03pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Could you negotiate a truce with your husband.. bring your 12 years old son with you for a while, say 6 months.. give him a chance for a good life.. Then if he misbehaves then you know what to do... Then as soon as your son arrives, start working on him and also an exit plan just in case, like a friend, or relatives while praying to God to straighten your son's character.. I think your son needs some love... Aside: why does your son misbehave tho? Just curious.. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by eldest(m): 1:03pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Saintmary: You are wrong In this case now you might have to choose between your son and your husband which is an experience you might never want to have. I believe you should give your husband some time, treat him nice and beg him, he might consider |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by OLABOY8495(m): 1:03pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
MA THERE ARE SO MANY SCHOOL THAT HAS HOSTEL GET HIM ONE TILL WHEN YOU WILL FIGURE OUT WHERE HE WILL BE STAYING PARMANENTLY AND WHERE DO YOU STAY SELF. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by President2031: 1:05pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222: So she should rent house for the 12yrs old boy before you would agree she is independent?? This boy mumu get first class. Cow 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 1:05pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
shekauvsbuhari:I hear you ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 1:07pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Psoul:You no be papa yet so you fit come up with silly logic like that one. Weak men everywhere |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 1:07pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
President2031:Seems you don't have elders in your community. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by klenton(m): 1:08pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
cr7lomo: you epitomises foolishness, a replica of dundee for christ sake were do you people creep out from, is this the kind of people i share cyber space with, oh lawd... your such a pathetic object, like at your illustration with a car, so human being has become a car, and even if it is, does your illustration match the issue at hand, you are a typical ewu gambia |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by shekauvsbuhari: 1:08pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:madam, forget nairaland kids. Forget about U re footing 70% bills. U want ur son n ur marriage too? Am I right? Get back to talkin with ur husband. Dnt be combative but be persuasive. De man has his good reasons, but persuade him to give ur son a chance. Also work on ur son to see de situation n change for ur peace of mind n his own good. For the interim U can put him in a boarding school while U work on ur husband. Persuade him with good talk, good food, mind-blowing sex, good manners. Anything U can use to re-format his brain n make him change his mind. Give him fantastic blow-jobs. Use that too. This is how u win in this situation and get all U want. Thank me later. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Blackmiserable(m): 1:09pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Tallesty1: I really like your profile pics. A father's effort is looked down at. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Isaac1980(m): 1:09pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Something is not complete in this your story madam,,, you were married to your first husband without knowing his people, let me ask questions pls, when he got married to u didn't he come with his people to see your parents? U have two kids for him without know were he comes from, pls what I will advice u is that keep on praying and talking to your husband and God will touch his heart, pls stop saying u are 70% in charge and u even stop talking to him, that also show that u talk to him in an arogant way, pls talk to him in a loving way and he will see reason with u. God bless ur home 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 1:12pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 1:17pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Badgers14:He is misbehaving because they are threatening him bad, he misses me and want to be back with me. he wasn’t a bad boy when he used to stay with me that’s why I want him back with me so I can take care of him myself 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by nan1: 1:20pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Your husband is a very selfish man its not as if he doesn't know about the children before marrying you. still plead with him and talk to him politely you can discuss the options of boarding school with him he will only come back on holidays. if he refuses go and bring your son forcefully. fight it to finish the future of that boy is in your hands not in your relatives or husbands hands face your responsibilities. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 1:21pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Isaac1980:Thank you I know his people we weren’t married we only did introduction . I stayed with his people when he left for Italy I left the house when my daughter was 2 weeks old because his mother and sisters maltreated me |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 1:21pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: You read the post without understanding it's content. The woman said they agreed to bring his boy home when they are able to improve their standard of living and probably move into a bigger apartment. The 3yr old give was with the woman and she moved into the man's house together with the baby. I beliv the man would've still accepted to bring the boy in if not for the latest story he heard about the boy and also how everyone rejected him based on that criminal act. You girls should know how to handle serious issues. That's why most of you have problems in family. The woman should forget about who will provide for the boy and focus on letting her husband know the need to provide shelter to the boy. The need to save that boy from the hand of his tormentors and how to rehabilitate him. Tell her husband how her mind will be restless if his boy continue to stay with another woman that will prefer to kill him than train him. Rather she was flexing muscle that money will not be a problem and he should just let the boy come in. Sixfeetbelle, I was expecting you to reason above emotion and be more rational. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Badgers14: 1:21pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Ok, Then talk to your husband, reach a truce.. tell him to give your son a chance for 6 months... plead with him, and give him reason to believe.. The time frame will help shape his mind.. Good luck, and I hope everything works out well for you.. Cheers! |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by LadySarah: 1:21pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
franconian: The mother is the best person to put up with him. What is wrong with y'all? She is alive, fi ancially capable n willing to have him. Was it not in this same section y'all blamed a woman that absconded leaving her kids for her husband! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by LadySarah: 1:23pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Isaac1980: Read her post again. She knows them.she doesn't have their contact anymore. Kilode! 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sammarshall(f): 1:26pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
jesmond3945: Please read this twice, pick the point he or she has made above, i feel his or her reply is one of the best I have read so far. Here’s my own contribution in addition to that above: Motherhood is all about sacrifices, if your husband is not willing to help your son, please do what is right by your son. Please don’t send him to a boarding school yet, that boy needs love and attention. I believe your children should always come first before any man or marriage. When you finally settle down with your son, please let him know you’re very sorry for not being around much, promise him that things will change from then onwards, let him know the sacrifices you’re making for him. Get him closer to church and to God. I don’t know why I don’t believe he’s as bad as people are labeling him. But, with due respect, I don’t feel your husband is a good person and I don’t know if that environment is safe for you kids. Anyway, I wish you well. Continue to pray to God and ask him for his mercy and grace for your home. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by holicupp(m): 1:26pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: make I catch u |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 1:26pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
LadySarah:My dear I’m tired of explaining to them the same thing over and over again . It’s better I stop replying to comments lol 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by sniperr007(m): 1:31pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222: I will love to insult you and those who liked your comment. The man decided to marry a the woman. It was his choice. He knew her baggage before he married her so he should be ready to carry it with her. He also isn't doing her any favour for marrying her. She had her life before she came and if he decides to go, she will also have her own life. Yes it's a tough decision for the husband cos he is trying to protect his own children but he should understand that once his wife is sad. The tsunami in the family that's about to happen will ruin whatever joy or peace he has. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by sniperr007(m): 1:35pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Madam, I have an idea of how you feel, I will advise you talk to any elder or pastor to come and intervene in this matter cos your husband is just seeing it from his own point area He doesn't understand that once you are sad, the children will experience the ripple effect and that will ruin the joy he has in his house. Possibly, invite the boy to come spend days in your house so your husband can identify with him as his son not as your son alone. Also, oray... Pray well well Goodluck |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 1:35pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
rali123:You are right my dear I should have waited for my kids to grow. See when we first met he had all those sweets words that he loves them they are his he will treat them well etc etc and I taught it was God that send him to my life ooo if I knew it would be like this today i wouldn’t even wasted my time marrying him. Have a lots to say but Not everything is good to say on social media 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 1:37pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
gwama:Thanks my children come first too. I have a 2 years old daughter for him and am also pregnant 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by liverpool72(m): 1:39pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:Let dem come and stay with u and see how it feels, evening newspaper 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Gernny(f): 1:40pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
If you love your son and don’t want to have regrets for not taking care of him,rent a small apartment even if it’s one room look for a guy that can stay with him,or better still take him to a boarding school you know u only have to worry during when he is on vacation and make sure u show him love take him out always explain things to him.That boy might be the bread winner for your entire generations to come. Vyvyanvyvy: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by President2031: 1:40pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222: Your comments shows how childish you are so just Shut up your mouth and take correction. |
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