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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Ivebeenbanned(f): 3:27pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:As they should. That's how we feed. Cheers 1 Like
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by revolt(m): 3:27pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Richy4:the problem isnt walking out of the marriage. If she did that nobody would blame her. Let her walk out shekina... |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by BoboKush(m): 3:27pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 3:27pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: He probably didn't lie when he said he loved them All this you wrote probably made him have a change of views about you and your children 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by BoboKush(m): 3:28pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: What abt feeding..... What abt him corrupting other children 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 3:28pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Ivebeenbanned:My paddy ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 3:29pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
BoboKush:Is he Nigerian politicians? Free the boy joor |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by revolt(m): 3:29pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
rali123:ofcos ..so says an ediotic single mum. You bang bring out a child and suddenly expect someone else to carry responsibility. Damaged thinkers. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 3:30pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
deathmen12: Theif or no theif.... he never wanted the boy in the first place cos he’s already grown.. Remember he took in the younger girl child with the mother....that’s the thing people consider when taking up single mothers... that girl could t have been more than 1...remember the woman said they moved to a new apartment, now they’ve stayed 3years in the new house...meaning the younger female child from the OP was brought in with at a very young age probably 2 or 1 year old....or even lesser.comsidering she never told us how long they stayed in the old house..... The girl is practically his own own if they don’t tell such a child this is not ur father she won’t know....the man probably doesn’t want that grown boy that will come and cause segregation among the children...choice is why he ddnt allow him in the first place... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by BoboKush(m): 3:32pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: See mumu talk..... E suppose park ha whole family dey feed n take care of..... because e love the woman na..... The man no suppose get life he's meant to live for her n ha all 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by revolt(m): 3:33pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
elladara:that's the only sensible advise a chic has given here. The other dumbos keep saying the man is obliged to carry another mans pikin on his head. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nwaelohim: 3:33pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Madam, you don't fight authority, you appeal to authority. your present husband is the authority as long as you have decided to remain his wife for now, men naturally becomes hard when their ego is in a threat mode by this I mean, when you make a man feel less of himself he will make decisions to affect your pride, simply humble your self and talk and have a conversation Forget the 70% bills you pay, negotiate your son into your house. Most of people advising here are singles, they are using emotions to advise you. You are in real life situations that needs real solutions. Humble your self and talk it over and don't expect it to end in just one conversation. The conspiracy of the universe will help you 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by tiredoflife(m): 3:33pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: Is it by force to want the son Hanty lover ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by BoboKush(m): 3:33pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Richy4: Didn't he...? |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by krucifix(m): 3:34pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:but it still shock me when u said u don't have any contact of any of the relatives of ur first son's father. How come? All those times u guys were dating, he didn't introduce u to any of his siblings?. Secondly, do what u have to do to better ur son's life because if things gets out of hand at this stage and he turns something else, the world will blame u in the future that u didn't fight hard enough for him.If u really foot 70percent of the bills in the house, then ur husband shouldn't complain much about u bringing ur first son in because u will still be the one to foot his bills. Like I told u, do what u have to do to better his life 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Miarose: 3:35pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Good Question. He has slept with over 200 girls but wants to meet a virgin. HEHEHEHEHE lepasharon: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Joevics(m): 3:36pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Marriage is all about communication. Continue talking to your husband and pray about it. Don't let it result into a fight, else he will hate the boy. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Longman180(m): 3:40pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:how are you sure,the family or friend will be reliable to take care of boy like there own son.Yoruba will say?oju oloju koledabi oju eni?the best tin is for her to plead wit husband so dat she will be able to take care of him in a normal way. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CsRockefeller(m): 3:40pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
I don't think I have the stomach to take any man's kids as mine in the name of marrying a wife. I just can't, I'm sorry. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Yankee101: 3:43pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Send him to a boarding school |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 3:44pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
BoboKush:Drop it here
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by BoboKush(m): 3:44pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: Were u dere ni ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by dayorich: 3:45pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
You're mad Oyindidi: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by WeRblessed(f): 3:46pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222: Such a chauvinistic pig. How dare you? Do you know this woman personally? What favor did you think her husband did in marrying her? Do you know if this woman is the bread winner of her family? So, you want this woman to allow her son suffer because her relatives rejected him? Do you even have a soul? Where is the Agape love in you? I shame for you 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 3:46pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
dayorich:And your balls are getting smaller cos you're crying right now. Drop your tears here 2 Likes
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Amumaigwe: 3:46pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: The suspicion you brought up is mischievous. Nothing points to that in the OP's entire narration. Your type is the one guilty of that immaginary act of child abuse because it is what you would have done if you were in his position. Hate manipulative and frustrated ladies. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Longman180(m): 3:50pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Saintmary:yea,i like dis your advice, if he is sensible man like what you said.he will not do anything he might not go along wit the boy immediately but wit time they will get along together |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Amumaigwe: 3:50pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: See warped logic. The second husband is a coward, while uiu did not qualify the father of the abandoned child nor his relatives. Your reasoning is abysmally poor. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Longman180(m): 3:55pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:when you are still alive? no no no no 1 Like
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 3:55pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: I wonder why she is still with the very wicked man? And I am reading the posts from guys on here who are supporting evil just because, gender ![]() ![]() Dear OP, he married you (that is not doing you a favour) and you guys talked about those kids who you didn’t try to hide from him. He accepted to marry you in your entirety and now he is being really selfish and mean. He does not love you Leave him (I wish you can leave him shaa) I really really dislike that man! 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 4:00pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Also dear poster, don’t be having too many children, you hear? I hope you find a solution to this horror, in a way that you can tell your 90plus self, lying on her death bed, “I made the decision regarding my children that was best for them, I wrapped them in love and care because they didn’t ask to be born, I took decisions that empowered my soul and which were not wrapped in selfishness and desperation” God bless 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 4:01pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:you reason with emotions, a man reason with facts and figures. Thinking both positive and negative perspective of life. Your man might be stingy like you said, he probably might have supported you increase the items you sell or rather the services you render. If you tell me he didn't do anything for you, then what makes you accept him? I've been reading your comments as being independent, being independent takes a lot of factors as a woman. I'm not try to protect the man here, the truth is. On a faceless forum, one can say whosoever he/she wish abt their partner. If you're independent, I'd advice you take your two children from your elder brother who has done his best, take them to borden school, and make sure you don't quarry with your brother. It not easy for another woman to care for another man's child in her matrimonial home, while her own kids are still in the same roof. I don't know you in person, but I'm sure you gotta work on your character. 1 Like |
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