Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,199,137 members, 7,970,495 topics. Date: Wednesday, 09 October 2024 at 10:15 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us (96558 Views)
My Husband Doesn’t Love Me / My Husband doesn’t give me sexual satisfaction because he uses condom / My Husband Doesn’t Satisfy Me Sexually, Our Kids Not His – Wife (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (22) (23) (24) (25) (26) (27) (28) ... (59) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Amumaigwe: 4:01pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Try harder. Your weak argument has not been able to create a hole big enough to wriggle your bulky self out. Next time you want to comment on a public forum, remember that not everyone is tolerant of dumb comments. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Pemivy01(f): 4:03pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Dear OP when you get your son apologize to him for neglecting him all this while, show him love and let him know that he is very important to you, But please l beg you train him well with the fear of God and with God on your side you will be proud of him. For your husband, don't resent him plead with him still . But please in everything your children comes first. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ejanla077: 4:04pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: Na dis type go dey beg man for recharge card like dis. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 4:06pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Amumaigwe: If you're fond of projecting your unhappy self on others just to provoke them, I'd like to let you know, it won't work on me. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Miarose: 4:06pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
No he didn't. By being dishonest about his intentions and separating she and her son with false promises, he has done her no good cos apparently, she will choose her son over the fake marriage. . BoboKush: 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Dexlomo: 4:08pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Psoul: I guess I am a bit different because I do not see much difference except he as the head of the home wants to let them know they are. I have friends whose one parent had kids outside of wedlock and the only indicator in most cases are the different surnames. More so, growing up, we had different relatives who lived with us and I have neighbors in same situation and we do not see ourselves different. For most of my brothers and sisters, people find it hard to understand we are not related but my community was tight and knit. We never learned segregation and I would do all to ensure I do not segregate as well. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 4:08pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
ejanla077:Lol, i beg you? |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 4:10pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Pemivy01: So how will this your input work considering everything the poster told us? |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by BoboKush(m): 4:10pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: Lol |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 4:11pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: Let me shock u a bit young man. I am 22yrs in marriage. I have 3kids 1st child will graduate dis yr. 2nd is 3rd yr Architecture Student 3rd is just gained admission to study Law. Then my wife has a younger sister. Unfortunately she got pregnant. Everyone from the family was angry with her cos the parents are staunch members of Assemblies of God Church. The girl ran away from the house. I mandated my wife that they must trace where the girl is before anything bad happens to her. The parents(my Inlaws) were not interested and even preferred her not bn around. I insisted that they must trace where she was. With my help, my wife was was able to locate her in another town living with the young boy that impregnated her. The boy was struggling to live. I and my wife was providing for them till the girl delivered her child. The boy abandoned them and ran away. When I noticed this I told my wife that we must bring her sister back. She told me that her parents will never allow her to come near the house. I told her that I will take them to my house. We brought them back to my house. We got job for the young mother. The baby is now 9years. So many ppl don't know she is not my biological child. She calls me daddy, my wife mommy and her mom, Aunty. I have long reconciled her with her parents and all is happy now. So when we all come here to exchange ideas or to while away time, don't think that all you see here are idle and useless youths. Most of us are responsible fathers. So park very well. 11 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ghettochild4u(m): 4:13pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
All of una wey dey talk say d guy na superstar for marrying a woman with two kids... Thunder faya una blokos n toto... Did they force him to marry her Abi she paid him to marry her?? Abi e no get wetin e see for d woman body before e marry am.. Now u hear her say she does pay 70% of the bill.. Aunty OP, make I ask u... Ehn, na who tell u say if u no marry.. U cant be successful?? Abi since when has marriage bcom a part of d measurement for success Make I tell u OP, if ur hubby no gree make ur son come leave with u.. It's time u set ur priorities right even if it would mean ending d marriage... Is love not suppose to look beyond flaws how much more u have no flaws here... If u don't take care of ur son... No one will ooo.. Ojo oloju ko le dabi oju Eni.... Na ur son.. And na u must I repeat na you must to take care of am ooo 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 4:13pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Psoul:Oga, what if the boy na your son, you go throway am? I no read your story |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by BoboKush(m): 4:15pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
elladara: God will bless u for the advice 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sarang(f): 4:15pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222: Spoken like a true selfish and backward headed Nigerian man Would you leave your own son outside your home to be maltreated?! Tueh!!!! 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 4:15pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
jesmond3945:I support |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 4:16pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Psoul: Don't mention me if you didn't read my initial comment on this thread. This particular response here is to reply a guy who was trying to be one-sided about the issue. One guy even suggested divorce and I shut him down. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sarang(f): 4:16pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222: She pays it..doesn’t she? You guys taya me aswear with your stupid desires to be served like a god! 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CsRockefeller(m): 4:17pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Psoul: Tears in my eyes right now. God bless you Sir. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by dvine2020: 4:18pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
My heart bleeds for that young 12 year old boy. The part where u said he was beaten like an animal made me cry. Am sure u hardly visited these past three years. Please do all u can to have your son with u. Your husband now sees him as a thief forgetting that that boy moved out for his convenience. The heart of African man is black if I'm to judge from the comments I read Here today. If u show ur son adequate love and care and also PRAY for him, he will turn out fyn. But how did u sleep well these past three years? The issues with your husband should be handled with wisdom and maturity but don't back down on taking back your son. I have three children and I can do anything for them. Cheers 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 4:18pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Psoul: You're allowed to reach whatever conclusion you will. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by clefstone(m): 4:18pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
crackkhaus:classic |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sarang(f): 4:19pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
letskeeptalking: Aswear!! Imagine!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ghettochild4u(m): 4:19pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Very very very very beautiful decision..... God bless you... Just do that... If worse come to push.. We nairalander go contribute money for ur to rent a new apartment ooo... Ko ni si ewu 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ghettochild4u(m): 4:21pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
martowskin1:So d man that ran away, we shd blame a faceless person abi... Or where can we find him to reprimand him?? Abeg dat one no be talk ooo.. Lets help this woman keep her home and her son 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by MizTyna(f): 4:22pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
It is crazy that this is even up for discussion. What are you doing with a man that doesn't want your son with him? Are you sure that's your son truly? Isn't it better to raise your kids alone in peace and love? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ghettochild4u(m): 4:23pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
martowskin1:You are a fool 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 4:23pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Miarose: Isn’t that the reason for wanting a virgin..??.when all his life he has been meeting ladies with body counts above 15.... That’s why good, inexperienced geeks marry the prostitutess and the Yoruba demons get the virgins.... |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 4:26pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Dexlomo: Yes, all of us can't be d same or have same character. What u find acceptable might not be to the other man. So, we should also see things from other ppl's point of view in order to strike a good balance. My wife's younger sister had a baby out of wedlock. Everyone was angry with her and abandoned her. I told my wife that I cannot be part of that. I pressed it on her that we MUST take in the child and the baby. Though the girl ran away to stay wt the guy that got her pregnant. When the baby was delivered, the young boy ran away and left my wife's sister stranded in that city. I still pressed on my wife that we must go and get them before anything bad happens to them. The child has bn with me till date and I don't even have any plan of letting her leave my house. She is 9yrs now. Everyone think that she is my biological child. She calls me Daddy and sees my wife as her mom while her biological mother is an Auntie to her. She does not know her real story for now. I love her just the same way I love my own biological kids. The only difference is that she answers a surname different from my kids. So, all of us are different. That you can do it should not make u think that the other man that cannot readily do it is wicked. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sarang(f): 4:26pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
It is because Nigerian women keep wanting to answer MRS all the damn time! How can you let your son be suffering because of another human who doesn’t give a damn in the name of marriage. You already had two kids and doing well. You don’t wanna be single? Keep relationships! I swear to God that kid will hate you to pieces! And yes he will hate you more than even those maltreating him because you have ABANDONED HIM, his OWN MOTHER! You don’t have an idea what the feeling of abandonment can do. Make hay while there is still sun! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Amumaigwe: 4:26pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Why did you have to remarry and hope to aggregate your children from different men under one roof? How is that possible? From your comment, you can't even trust your baby daddy's relations with their own flesh and blood. This means that you must have contested fiercely for those children's custody and won. Oya na, perform the duty you fully signed for, you want to hear it on an unwilling man. Most men are lovers of children irrespective of peternity. But with the confrontational attitude and strong will you have exhibited here, i can understand why your husband is uncompromising. Go on your knees and beg your husband and see the magic embedded in meekness. It is worth your peace of mind. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sarang(f): 4:32pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
revolt: Because she is a single mom doesn’t make her an idiot And no one is asking anyone to carry responsibility.. She is gonna pay her son’s tuition and all From my point of view you are the idiot! 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by sharone21(f): 4:32pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
The man in the house should have no fears as ALL the kids are hers. It is only a foolish woman that will segregate her kids. The Op should help her son know God more and to fear God. All those guys bashing the Op that she is 70% financially okay ain't serious, if she said she had nothing doing and depending on her husband they will give her names like olosho and gold digger. Nairaland boys, get sense biko. 4 Likes 1 Share |
(1) (2) (3) ... (22) (23) (24) (25) (26) (27) (28) ... (59) (Reply)
Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter / Nigerian Girl Born With Blue Eyes In Delta Experiences Stigmatization (Photos) / Wife Sets Her Husband's House On Fire In Birnin-Kebbi For Wanting Another Wife
Viewing this topic: 1 guest(s)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 78 |