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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Olatara(f): 6:44pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
innobarca:You are right Sha. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by howmarket2: 6:45pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
you spent close to six or more yrs with the first man, and you dont no anything about him.be it his village or good frinds or brother or sister. madam u are hiding something.are you sure the 12 yr old boy and the 6 yr old girl are from same father? women and there useless life.now you want me to advice you to let the one who kept a wild animal at home to go.oooh that your husband have suffered. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 6:45pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Ukodo1123: ![]() Please just log out Sir, okay? Thanks 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 6:46pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
ladykolly: Had to do this This is a very wrong way to think Save which home? Where is the home? What is home? ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 6:48pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
silibaba: I struck out the nonsense fathoming and leave you with your imagination ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Folade2020: 6:58pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
@ poster, how has ur relationship with your husband been before this issue came up? it's obvious there might be some underlying unresolved issues hence the reason why your husband is refusing to let your son in. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by romenna: 7:01pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
All dis kind wahala na e dey make men run from single mothers. That man is a fool. Let him carry his cross. Him must accept u n ur son. Him no get choice. Him tink say na him wise, d rest of us wey dey run from single mothers na fool abi? Very foolish and wicked man 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by apatheticme(f): 7:02pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
[quote author=Vyvyanvyvy post=87410315][/quote] Take pains to find out, u're a mother! A mother goes the extra mile to do whatever is necessary for her children All these you should do on your own, then you will go and be visiting him during the holidays |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 7:18pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
merahki:It took me almost 3 weeks because I was trying to compromise with my husband but he made up his mind that he doesn’t want to see him here so I also made up my mind to go and bring him this Sunday. Sunday it’s the best day because I don’t go to work and my brother and his family will also be at home and I want to thank and appreciate both of them for everything they did for him and leave with my son in peace 13 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 7:19pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
veykey:Thank you 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 7:27pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
At the end of the day the son would still ask about his father don't be surprise the father is here nairalanding too.... Just send his details to the Italian embassy they might have an idea how to locate him. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ppogba: 7:39pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
uruba23: Which italy? Is that not what the woman has fed us with? It is only an impotent man that has his child very far away.........African proverb. Somebody has 2 kids for a man that cannot be traced and with no single family whatsoever. Haba! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Jephyard(m): 7:44pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
At OP first of all keep your marriage and also bring in your son to your new family. Divorce won't help you one bit, it will ruin the life of your kids trust me it always does even with the money. Your kids deserve a better life by giving them what a real/proper family is like denying them such will result to a guesswork result, you can't do it all alone. Kids formative years both need male or female figure no matter what. This shit is just complex stuff. Single mom with 4 kids! You do be death in no distance time. Let me guess you also lives in Lagos. The slum will corrupt your kids faster than you know it and good neighborhood are beyond your reach, it just hard madam. And why do people keep saying your kids are your future! That shit is archaic and selfish. They are human and will grow old and forget you, that the hard fact but it is your duty to take care of them not because you birth them or you love them it a responsible every parent must shoulder, you don't have to like it though. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Purifiedsoul: 7:51pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Madam unless your son is a bastard or illegitimate child, then you should trace his father where ever he is and send the child to him. The child deserve a better life. But if u insist on bringing the child to your new matrimonial home after your husband CLEARLY told you he doesn't want the child in his household, then believe me you'll ruin your marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Purifiedsoul: 7:54pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Be rest assured that bringing that child to your husband house will bring you no good. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by opusingi: 8:04pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
This lady is being highly economical with the truth and unnecessarily emotional. The man is under no moral obligation to father the 12 year old son of an AUDIO HUSBAND with even your own blood vehemently rejecting the boy simply because he got married to you. All you can do now is plead, pray and understand things from ur husband's logical and rational point of view. Italiano can come any time and people like you will show ur present husband pepper and even start beding Italiano. BTW you seem vindictive, arrogant, stupidly proud and prolly still deeply in love with ur Absconded Italiano. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ashantitope: 8:11pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: But have u explain this to him and secondly can't you be giving him pocket money every week? Another one have u called his father to explain this to him? Is the boy still in school? If yes let him stay in school and come around on holiday and if he's not get him a better school and rent him apartment or school hostel 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Ladyvin(f): 8:12pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
. He knew you had children before he married you. Does he think that marriage is all about having sex and producing children. It goes beyond that and extend to helping your partner to ensure everyone is happy. And you as a mother you should have ensured your Children's safety and security before jumping into another marriage. You better go and take care of that boy if you know that the father can not cater for him. But still beg your husband to accommodate your son Note: If after thinking you can not not come up with any solution. Please put him in a school and pay his hostel fees. So that before school closes, you would have come up with a plan. And if school closes and you still can't come up with any plan, then take him to his father's family to live with anyone around knowing that he will only spend the holiday there. Once school opens, he will return to hostel. Just make sure you don't leave him on the street. He will grow up to hate you and I can you that you won't be happy. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 8:16pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Thats what u want to hear ![]() Sharpely u shout thank u. Divorce and turn to a baby factory. Beg your husband and let him assist 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 8:17pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
opusingi:God bless u |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by egopersonified(f): 8:31pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Imagine being rejected at 12 by every single family member you know. I feel pity for the boy. This damage may never heal. I wish I could accommodate him. I can never trade the safety, love and peace of my kids for anything. 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 8:32pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
uruba23: Asiere, my lineage doesn’t have to be the holiest to eschew stealing |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ozonechrome: 8:32pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: A man that's comfortable to see my own child being unhappy is not for me. Personally I would have left him because no one comes between I and my kids. Or worse still bring my child home without his consent and let heaven fall after all you are contributing 70% to the running of the home. Best still take him to a boarding school. He'll be happier there. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ozonechrome: 8:35pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
obakovich: God will continue to bless him until something bad happens to you and your wife has to marry someone else that treats your kids as less than humans. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 8:37pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
romenna: Not only did he marry her knowing her situation, he already promised to live with both kids. He has to make good his words or leave the union. However, I understand his apprehension in housing a child his wife’s siblings hastily sent packing. Any reasonable human would be cautious. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 8:38pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
egopersonified: This is the fault of his parents, not his stepfather. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Happyjollie: 8:39pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Y not take the child to his father's relative's? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Buchman1(m): 8:39pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:How about giving your brother some sort of feeding allowance specifically for your son since the contention here is food? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 8:47pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
[quote author=Purifiedsoul post=87419139] Be rest assured that bringing that child to your husband house will bring you no good. [/quot At the moment I don’t even care if he want to leave he is free and like I said earlier my son is more important than my marriage. My children will always be there for me and I will choose my son forever 12 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by eyinjuege: 8:50pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Psoul: We're talking of a child here. Not an 18 year old boy, but a child who has probably just entered JSS 1. Come on. He's just 12 years old, and already facing so much tribulations. His mother should have never allowed him away from her in the first place. He should have stayed with them even in the one room apartment, but I'm sure because of f^ck OP asked him to move so he won't be peeping at them. Nonsense. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 8:54pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
liverpool72:Men are talking, this idïøt with carrot dîck is also putting mouth. You don increase your dick size? Oponu 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by melaninpop: 8:56pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Richy4: He's a child ![]() |
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