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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Legendguru: 9:02pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
You have a son out of wedlock then you should marry a man who is divorce and has kids or whose wife is deceased 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 9:03pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 9:03pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 9:07pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Kiezodumah:All this long thesis not one single like. It must be filled with nonsense then. I jump and pass 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by movement2020: 9:11pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Purifiedsoul: Forcefully. That's insubordination and lack of respect for her husband. If he throws her out, she would blame him to be at fault. Rather, she was meant to reach a compromise, ask for his advise and let's see how it works. Force does not do any good. She might oose on both sides as you rightly said. Men detest Op's attitude. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 9:17pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
hohafrank:It seems your nagging wife has nagged out the remaining sense from your brain 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Jman06(m): 9:20pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by movement2020: 9:20pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
veykey: See where you got it wrong. Leave another man after 3kids and still expectant due to the fact that the husband is not ready to yeild to her demands? That's very wrong. If she does that because she's financially stable. Will the stability be forever? Would you assist if she comes begging for assistance? You don't solve a problem by creating another one. You are giving more problems to the woman and all the kids would continue to suffer. It is unfair to allow kids to suffer for what they know nothing about. Our society is filled with rogues, bastards, touts all because of these problem that could be resolved amicably. Tell her to go and beg her husband, send emissaries to plead and give conditions. Let her accept the terms. The man is not mad. He knows why he's standing on his word. He can be armtwisted when things go haywire. The woman has failed to accept she's at fault hence, her stance to forcefully bring the boy home. Arrant nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ableguy(m): 9:27pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Smile4mee01:True, complications like this will always arise. See the comment of the op and her fellow baby mamas, I already see what the man is going through. The major reason she is forcing the boy on the man is because according to her she pays her bills, such women always see the kids as their all and all hence depriving the man the love he deserves. Most baby mamas always put their kids first, she is even fortunate the man married her. Most men hardly marry them and will rather chop them and run away. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ableguy(m): 9:29pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Godsfavour78:You still asking? Na dem 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by WudBMother: 9:33pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
[quote author=Vyvyanvyvy post=87420448][/quote] Go and get your son, before its too late. He will be a teenager soon. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 9:36pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
MyChoice1:I shaded tears reading this. This generation is sick. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ThinkSmarter: 9:39pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:i am d last idiot to marry a woman that had already given birth b4. The new husband is a clown for stooping that low in d 1st place. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by chamber2(m): 9:40pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Madam, Listen! All this people advising you to forcefully bring your son to the house against your husband's decision are not helping your situation. Your husband is a human being like yourself and as well has his reservations. Yes, he may have promised you heaven and earth during courtship. Now, this is marriage and you must face the realities. You got pregnant for a stranger not once but twice. I blame you for not digging deeper about his root. You were naive. It's very easy to blame everyone other than yourself. You're blaming your son's behavior on those who opted to assist you in time of need. What of you? How often do you visit your son? How often do you buy gift items, take him out and bring him to your new home on visits? How often do you check on him? Is he in school and how often do you visit him at school and ensure his needs are met? You transferred the responsibility of caring for your teenage son to others and now you are crying and blaming your new husband? Isn't that sad! Let me advise you again. It doesn't matter whether you contribute 100% to the family upkeep. He is your husband and surely has a say on who lives in his house, including his mother. He promised you bla bla now he has a daughter too that should be protected from an overtly exposed teenager. Got that? Since you have failed abinitio to identify ties to your children's real father, you must act wisely and submissively. Plead with your husband and get him to suggest a way out. He is under no obligation to accept the responsibility you wish to bestow on him. So be humble. Don't allow those living in first world countries to deceive you. It is actually tough to raise children in African, not more a single parent. Be wise. If your husband is still adamant on bringing your son home. Register him in a Boarding school and ensure you visit him REGULARLY with gifts. Always tell him how much you love and care about him. If every other person fail him you shouldn't too. Show him love and care. Take to eatery,park and games etc. Gradually you will change his mindset about life and make him acceptable to all, including your husband. Say good things about him to your husband and always report his progress/success to him at intervals. Your husband only needs assurance that he won't be a bad influence to other of his kids and bring his name to disrepute. After all, he accepted your daughter. Good luck 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 9:44pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
eyinjuege: You are bn emotional. The man was bn rational. You can't solve this problem by bn emotional. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 9:49pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Legendguru:What are you saying? Didn't his husband knew about the children before he married her? |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 9:56pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Belafonte:Anufia who is eschewing stealing so the kid should die of hunger |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 9:57pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Psoul:So the poor boy should die? Even if hid biological father does not care, can't there be any man who can love his mother and also love him alitte? Nija guys. I greet una. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 9:58pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:There are only two choices, divorce the man and have your child wit you or be with the man without your child. You never know which child will be your pillar tomorrow. Your situation is a tough one but I think you made the first mistake. You shouldn't have gone into marriage with a formal agreement on the welfare of that child. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by milliondollas(m): 10:01pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
THIS IS A FINAL WARNING TO MEN DON'T EVER MARRY A WOMAN WHO HAD GIVEN BIRTH. NEVER TRY IT THEIR ARE WORST THAN EBOLA AND CORONA VIRUS COMBINED 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:16pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
dalass: Whatizdis? ![]() ![]() Sweet Lawd on a bicycle! |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:18pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
FaithfulGurl: Hehehehehehe Are you serious? We are really diverse in thoughts and thinking, human beings that is |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:21pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
confido2017: Better like this, no? Well to me my edit is better Cheers |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by achymmania: 10:21pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:you are a bad person oooo. Your words alone can move mountain. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by armyofone(m): 10:28pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Nor have many children. She should have been on birth control. If she leaves, she has 4 children to care for. Talk to him - maybe he is concerned because the boy steals and undisciplined. Send him to a boarding school with hope he can be reformed. You sef dey run business no fit instill the discipline needed at that age. jcmaiah: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:28pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Draining topic 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by jonadaft: 10:29pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:After 2 complaining... Your husband try sha ... Boarding house done finish for Nigeria? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Crochet: 10:33pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Hmmmm |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:33pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Jonathan:What if you happen to be the 12years old child? Would you still suggest boarding school because your mother is married to another man who don't want you in his house. Think carefully. What if it's you? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by jonadaft: 10:34pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
janvier27:In your face, marriage is liability and lack of peace of mind that should be embraced... Which kain BRAIN be dis? |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by jonadaft: 10:35pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:Oyindindinrin ![]() Get well bro |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by jonadaft: 10:36pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:I suspect two different fathers... Hmm... |
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