I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

Na their life be that

She is dying for you but because of pride she won't accept

I won't say a word

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Just wait a little longer she will come for you

No kind lesson Sanusi no go learn from APC hand...

Oga face front... U can love another joor.

The trouble is not that she wants to marry you, the trouble is that women loves it when a man gives them attention.you gave her attention and withdrew it, now wants it back.she wants the attention till the day she gets married oh.
If i were you, i will just ignore her and move on with my life.

Jealousy and pride kill her dia......op rock on abeg.

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already have someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

bleep and go

Op are you truly a man or woman rapper When she boldly told you that she is with another man, definitely she is coming back to you to waste your time, resources and cash, she will now leave you to a her choice man A jealous man or woman can destroys things, they don't care what happens after, they will always want to be selfishly satisfied

Women re second in command to devil be careful. she can even visit her hometown becoz of u.

Anyways it goes, the company/firm suffers lack of concentration to work from both of you!
I see one of you or both getting sacked .

Don't complicate your life and risk getting sacked (I can't state the connection between this and your job, but I know there is), or being in the news for the wrong reasons. She has a fiancé, let her be. You love her, but a man can't always have what he wants, a man's gotta do what he gotta do. She's toying with your emotions, don't give her that attention.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl


Because even if she's not interested (which she really isn't, so the sooner you realise that the better for you) you are still useful to her as a beta orbiter. She needs you around to serve a wide variety of purposes; you get to do boyfriend duties without getting any girl friend benefits from her.

Of course I'd be pissed too if I were a girl and a beta orbiter wants to move on to another girl.

Ok

Don't complicate your life and risk getting sacked (I can't state the connection between this and your job, but I know there is), or being in the news for the wrong reasons. She has a fiancé, let her be. You love her, but a man can't always have what he wants, a man's gotta do what he gotta do. She's toying with your emotions, don't give her that attention.

Thanks bro

KevinDein:
Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl


Because even if she's not interested (which she really isn't, so the sooner you realise that the better for you) you are still useful to her as a beta orbiter. She needs you around to serve a wide variety of purposes; you get to do boyfriend duties without getting any girl friend benefits from her.

Of course I'd be pissed too if I were a girl and a beta orbiter wants to move on to another girl.

Thanks

The both of you don't have sense.......



You had to bet when you know deep down that you really love her....

Nwodosis:
Anyways it goes, the company/firm suffers lack of concentration to work from both of you!
I see one of you or both getting sacked .

Federal Government job

she is puting you in the friendzone,continue to communicated with her but don't act as if you care about her feelings

She already said she has a man,so don't get yourself involved in an avoidable uneccesary love triangle. Just stick to the one you are already dating

Austineperez:
Just wait a little longer she will come for you

I thought as much

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already have someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

Invite her to your house, if you have one. Or take her on a date, and then talk. Ask her what she hates about you.

Women love to play hard to get. I have one playing the same ball game. Just make her feel special, and once you bleep her, the shakara go end.

Wait,why is she so sure u cuming back? Hope Say.... Either let ur ego in & Neva go back to her,or call her & ask her wat she really wants

The gal no lie at all, you're REALLY CONFUSED

... you were never first choice...

...keep communication alive but cut short every feeling...

...don't be a tool . don't be a fool ...

... cheers to freedom ...

HMarshal:
Wait,why is she so sure u cuming back? Hope Say.... Either let ur ego in & Neva go back to her,or call her & ask her wat she really wants

Hmmm! Thanks

miclef86:


I thought as much

Wetin you thought as much? Or you just created a thread to scan through posts to see one that will validates your sisi reasoning? You are drunk!

It is a general knowledge that females loves attention as males are designed to approach and females to get the attention. So, their motives behind their cravings for the approach/attention is what you should discern like a man, not with your sisi-ness.

She wants your continuous attention back as she is posed to be bossy towards you as a colleague. If she wants you, she will be humbled and plan to move closer to the alter call with you if possible.

Brother, ladies have extra eyes that guys don't. It's a fact! She might have scanned and spot your sisi-ful characters as her baits and rope for drawing your attention like a dog. Dog is so friendly but full of sisi characters, lolzz.

You dey learn for where cunning and deceptive girls dey!

Wolgrace:



Wetin you thought as much? Or you just created a thread to scan through posts to see one that will validates your sisi reasoning? You are drunk!

It is a general knowledge that females loves attention as males are designed to approach and females to get the attention. So, their motives behind their cravings for the approach/attention is what you should discern like a man, not with your sisi-ness.

She wants your continuous attention back as she is posed to be bossy towards you as a colleague. If she wants you, she will be humbled and plan to move closer to the alter call with you if possible.

Brother, ladies have extra eyes that guys don't. It's a fact! She might have scanned and spot your sisi-ful characters as her baits and rope for drawing your attention like a dog. Dog is so friendly but full of sisi characters, lolzz.

You dey learn for where cunning and deceptive girls dey!

Wow! I agree with you to some extent.
I think she really want to see the seriousness in me because her best friend have talked to me about her. That if I'm really serious that I will have her. But that's killing me...what kind of seriousness again...I have tried

If it's a mild irritation, 1–3 on a scale of 10, that's why she is your girlfriend and not friend. Btw don't you feel the same if she talks to other male friends? Love comes with pros and cons Buddy.
If it's 4–7/10 , you got to watch out your actions too. Are you flirtatious?
If it's on an alarming rate of 8–10/10 either you are surely too much flirtatious or you are dating a self obsessed narcissistic women, who btw is trying to possess you.
If the scale is 8–10/10 and you have no Playboy's instincts, run! Save your life!

If any other reasons imply, talk her through it.

Will you like if she hugs an another guy and say he is my best friend and nothing else!!!!

I guess NO.

Than why hypocrisy

Things and situations can differ but the attitude and level of intimacy/love of a person can’t. If it is not okay for you that she holds someone else or hug someone else or be it she gives more attention to him than anything that doesn’t make her happy isn’t right.

She might be jealous kinda but what’s wrong in that until it doesn’t affect your relationship and life!!! Jealousy is a part of love and no-one can deny it.

As simple as that this situation is; She feels jealous because she maybe a less than that another girl you are talking about in terms of anything like looks, money, lifestyle,etc. Insecurities are good up-to some level but when it is created for someone then you need to be ready to bear the repercussions.

Talk about other girls but don’t make her feel she is less than those girls. Make her feel the Queen of your Kingdom and she will be there for you in the crime you do.

miclef86:


Wow! I agree with you to some extent.
I think she really want to see the seriousness in me because her best friend have talked to me about her. That if I'm really serious that I will have her. But that's killing me...what kind of seriousness again...I have tried

She wants to see your seriousness the more in the same fold you flock together?

I remember reading a story of a guy of how he and other successful employee selected for bank job were taken round the prison before commencing work so as to make them "more serious in a serious" bank business.

Is she serious with a serious guy like you after going round about each other? Discern that first. If NOT, she wants you not but to be her sisi pet for attention to feed her feminine structure.

She has a man right? Let her eat the fruit of her word peacefully because it's her weapon to haunt you tomorrow "IF". She might remind you in the nearest future that "no be you i for marry, i regret leaving him for you."

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already have someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

Let sleeping dogs lie and don't be her stooge

Wolgrace:



She wants to see your seriousness the more in the same fold you flock together?

I remember reading a story of a guy of how he and other successful employee selected for bank job were taken round the prison before commencing work so as to make them "more serious in a serious" bank business.

Is she serious with a serious guy like you after going round about each other? Discern that first. If NOT, she wants you not but to be her sisi pet for attention to feed her feminine structure.

She has a man right? Let her eat the fruit of her word peacefully because it's her weapon to haunt you tomorrow "IF". She might remind you in the nearest future that "no be you i for marry, i regret leaving him for you."

Noted! That you very much. No matter what happened, I'm not gonna do the chasing anymore