Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by lawrsmith(m): 11:15pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
miclef86: I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.
I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.
I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.
However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.
The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.
She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.
Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.
I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.
Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.
Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?
wow! The girl was right after all by calling you a confused human being. Is obvious that you don't really know what you want. Now you are asking if you can swallow your pride and go back to her in the expense of the other girl. Boy you are under her spell. 1 Like |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by degamemaster(m): 11:18pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
OP, did you just read my situation this night and know exactly what I'm going through? I met this girl in church and we became friends and after a short while I told her plainly how I feel about her, of which she concurred. She has a boyfriend but doesn't love him, and she wants us together but some level of pride will not let her. All the time that I have asked her to give me a definite answer to my request, she still either say wait or she will brush it aside. At a time, she told me wants to gradually withdraw from the guy and form a life of her own. I am ready to wait for her but the fear that she haven't been open to me gave me serious concerns and I decided to be hunting again, just this afternoon, a white girl I got recently came to visit me, even though we 're still in friendship stage, this my African queen called in the midst of our discussion that if I can help her look up something in the supermarket and I was still on the call with her when she asked me whom I was with. I told her that I have a visitor and she concluded that she's my girlfriend and boom, the whole story changed to war as she came so angry even as I type right now, she have refused to talk to me. I mean a girl who told me she's not yet ready yet and who has a boyfriend but not in love. I am yet to figure this out right now, should I take it that she still wants to know how serious I am or she's just feeding her feminine ego ? Maybe I should let her go and concentrate on the one who wants me... just confused about the whole thing. 1 Like |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Exodora: 11:18pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Austineperez: Just wait a little longer she will come for you Like seriously you read this and yet you didn't read where he mentioned she has gone to him and asked him to bet if he won't leave the other girl and come to her. You are justing rushing to accopy space next time try and comprehend for commenting |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Amdoyin(m): 11:19pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
I will be blunt with you.. Just as the said, you are more than confused and don't really know what you want. You must be the '' na we dey there type'' you per adventure wants to have a feel of all the girls in your unit and beyond. Change your way. 2 Likes |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Brown2012: 11:21pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
[b][/b]its funny how we say we love someone without knowing that love isnt catching feelings nd having doubts tomorrow, i don't think you love her, i believe you love having her around you. Let the sleeping dog lie nd find yourself someone that will reciprocate thier feelings for u without making u feel like ur happiness depends on them. One love dawg miclef86: I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.
I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.
I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.
However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.
The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.
She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.
Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.
I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.
Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.
Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?
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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Exodora: 11:24pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
She loves and has indirectly profess her love to you so if you the same grab the opportunity before the both of you end up making a mistake that you will end up not forgiving yourself of in near future .
You guys should try and kill that pride. Everybody have told how compatable you both are yet you try to ignore , don't come here some years later to sake for marriage advice if you ignore all this signs . |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Paganizonda: 11:26pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
degamemaster: OP, did you just read my situation this night and know exactly what I'm going through? I met this girl in church and we became friends and after a short while I told her plainly how I feel about her, of which she concurred. She has a boyfriend but doesn't love him, and she wants us together but some level of pride will not let her. All the time that I have asked her to give me a definite answer to my request, she still either say wait or she will brush it aside. At a time, she told me wants to gradually withdraw from the guy and form a life of her own. I am ready to wait for her but the fear that she haven't been open to me gave me serious concerns and I decided to be hunting again, just this afternoon, a white girl I got recently came to visit me, even though we 're still in friendship stage, this my African queen called in the midst of our discussion that if I can help her look up something in the supermarket and I was still on the call with her when she asked me whom I was with. I told her that I have a visitor and she concluded that she's my girlfriend and boom, the whole story changed to war as she came so angry even as I type right now, she have refused to talk to me. I mean a girl who told me she's not yet ready yet and who has a boyfriend but not in love. I am yet to figure this out right now, should I take it that she still wants to know how serious I am or she's just feeding her feminine ego ? Maybe I should let her go and concentrate on the one who wants me... just confused about the whole thing. you don't need to be confused. you are her spare in case her main guy doesn't work out. if her main guy works out or a better guy than even you comes along she go blank you and even you go shock & ask if this isn't the same African queen that use to be jealous & stuff. remove her from your heart & face front. women are not as naive as we think,they are very calculative,they always think ten steps ahead & are very brutal when going for what they want. it's your choice anyways but if I were you,I would look ahead. she's keeping you as an option in case all fails,she doesn't love you. 9 Likes |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by fortunechy(m): 11:26pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
The lady was right after all..... U don't really know what you want |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Manuel91(m): 11:27pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
miclef86: I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.
I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.
I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.
However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.
The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.
She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.
Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.
I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.
Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.
Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?
Dude, truth be told!! You are confused and you don't know what you want. I think your last sentence has answered your question. Swallow your pride and do the needful. You love someone and you don't want to fight for what you want. It's normal for a woman to do everything this lady does. She even picks a fight with you at every opportunity.(she likes you too obviously, but the day e go fade ehn. You go understand say the other ladies gaan get agenda) |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Nobody: 11:30pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Exactly.... cRobo: Na their life be that
She is dying for you but because of pride she won't accept
I won't say a word |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Nobody: 11:33pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
She was right. You are a confused human. 1 Like |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Budline1(m): 11:34pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
degamemaster: OP, did you just read my situation this night and know exactly what I'm going through? I met this girl in church and we became friends and after a short while I told her plainly how I feel about her, of which she concurred. She has a boyfriend but doesn't love him, and she wants us together but some level of pride will not let her. All the time that I have asked her to give me a definite answer to my request, she still either say wait or she will brush it aside. At a time, she told me wants to gradually withdraw from the guy and form a life of her own. I am ready to wait for her but the fear that she haven't been open to me gave me serious concerns and I decided to be hunting again, just this afternoon, a white girl I got recently came to visit me, even though we 're still in friendship stage, this my African queen called in the midst of our discussion that if I can help her look up something in the supermarket and I was still on the call with her when she asked me whom I was with. I told her that I have a visitor and she concluded that she's my girlfriend and boom, the whole story changed to war as she came so angry even as I type right now, she have refused to talk to me. I mean a girl who told me she's not yet ready yet and who has a boyfriend but not in love. I am yet to figure this out right now, should I take it that she still wants to know how serious I am or she's just feeding her feminine ego ? Maybe I should let her go and concentrate on the one who wants me... just confused about the whole thing. |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Nobody: 11:36pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
degamemaster: OP, did you just read my situation this night and know exactly what I'm going through? I met this girl in church and we became friends and after a short while I told her plainly how I feel about her, of which she concurred. She has a boyfriend but doesn't love him, and she wants us together but some level of pride will not let her. All the time that I have asked her to give me a definite answer to my request, she still either say wait or she will brush it aside. At a time, she told me wants to gradually withdraw from the guy and form a life of her own. I am ready to wait for her but the fear that she haven't been open to me gave me serious concerns and I decided to be hunting again, just this afternoon, a white girl I got recently came to visit me, even though we 're still in friendship stage, this my African queen called in the midst of our discussion that if I can help her look up something in the supermarket and I was still on the call with her when she asked me whom I was with. I told her that I have a visitor and she concluded that she's my girlfriend and boom, the whole story changed to war as she came so angry even as I type right now, she have refused to talk to me. I mean a girl who told me she's not yet ready yet and who has a boyfriend but not in love. I am yet to figure this out right now, should I take it that she still wants to know how serious I am or she's just feeding her feminine ego ? Maybe I should let her go and concentrate on the one who wants me... just confused about the whole thing. She's not putting all her eggs in one basket, obviously. Don't know what to tell you than to say she will marry either of you. 1 Like |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by kiddkash(m): 11:36pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
miclef86: I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.
I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.
I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.
However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.
The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.
She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.
Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.
I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.
Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.
Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?
the highlighted place. you sound like a b!tch 1 Like |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by StarFist(m): 11:43pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by ronyman(m): 11:43pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
You be mugu sorry to say.. The following reasons justify that assertion 1. People saying you're compatible shld nt be a basis for your choice. 2 She asked you to bet and you bet? Guy nawaoo nawaooo.. who does that.. Baba pray and follow your instincts not your prreeek.. miclef86: I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.
I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.
I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.
However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.
The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.
She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.
Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.
I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.
Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.
Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?
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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Nobody: 11:46pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
More of the Nigerian girl mentality like make I chop this guy money small b4 u know am she don turn olosho
It is not as if she has any interest in you she just wants to show herself since you like her and asked her out
That Innate characteristic of being like I have the keys to his heart just because you liked her and asked her out but she declined because of pride or let’s just say she didn’t really like you ...move on with your life I bet you she will come back to you but don’t give her the chance for you guys to date or anything ,with that aside you have to be more responsible and sincere to your new girl so as to take the relationship to the next level
This is the same way our politicians steal and amass even what they completely have no need for out of sheer wickedness |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Nobody: 11:47pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
kiddkash:
the highlighted place. you sound like a b!tch lmao |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by franconian: 11:48pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
kiddkash:
the highlighted place. you sound like a b!tch The guy is riding his way to friend zone, and he will understand when all the single female colleagues no longer want to Bleep him when he finally gets friend zoned. They are all watching him. |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by sweetsell: 11:53pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
I hate giving unwise men relationship advice. Common sense should tell if a girl use you do yanga u abandon her for those that find you more worthy. miclef86: I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.
I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.
I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.
However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.
The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.
She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.
Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.
I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.
Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.
Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?
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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by greggng: 11:54pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
You stil have unfinished business with her. She was right to say you don't know what you want....because you have been flirting with other girls around. She might be of the opinion that you are not taking her feeling for you seriously by extention taking her love seriously . A lady use to love me back then. One day she wrote me a letter and gave it to her younger brother to deliver to me .unfortunately one of my friends receive the letter on my behalf ....they brother met my absence and gave it to my friend. The mumu read it and spread the news like corona viruse. When her love letter became the talk of the town, she hijacked me on my way back home and break my head with her shoe...I was rushed to the hospital ...why the nurse was treating the wound I heard her saying ....This will teach me never to joke with a woman's love. I won't be surprise if your head is broken someday for joking with a woman's love. If you want to hear the rest of my story then .you have to pay me handsomely .cos you no follow me enjoy the pain then . 1 Like |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by DNSPro: 11:55pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Joevics:
Invite her to your house, if you have one. Or take her on a date, and then talk. Ask her what she hates about you.
Women love to play hard to get. I have one playing the same ball game. Just make her feel special, and once you bleep her, the shakara go end. mumu talk 3 Likes |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by DNSPro: 11:57pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
miclef86:
Wow! I agree with you to some extent. I think she really want to see the seriousness in me because her best friend have talked to me about her. That if I'm really serious that I will have her. But that's killing me...what kind of seriousness again...I have tried Move on. U will regret it if u keep fooling yourself |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Adebowalay(m): 12:02am On Mar 19, 2020 |
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Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by bizhop01: 12:04am On Mar 19, 2020 |
You are a confuse man, I advise you to focus on your job. |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Blackicegold(m): 12:14am On Mar 19, 2020 |
Women are attention seeking beings She was actually enjoying the attention she was getting from you Op you should just move on 1 Like |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Waterlrd: 12:31am On Mar 19, 2020 |
byrron: Betting with her was very childish and as a matured mind which I presume you are, all you need to start doing henceforth is to be very diplomatic with her and keep everything that has to do with her on a very professional level.
Your love life should be your private business and henceforth, keep it away from the office.
Do not argue with her on anything rather keep it strictly professional and keep your space and now know your boundaries and eventually she will recognize that the days of playing is over and it is time for everyone to respect their various old age and move on with their private lives while still maintaining a professional relationship. l gave u one like bc of the the quality of ur advice. You could be far different from your peers. Btw, if a man is to work for 10 night without sleep. How can he achieve it? |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by jonadaft: 12:38am On Mar 19, 2020 |
[s] cRobo: Na their life be that
She is dying for you but because of pride she won't accept
I won't say a word [/s] Shut up |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by cRobo: 12:40am On Mar 19, 2020 |
Jonathan: [s][/s]
Shut up DAFT DAFT DAFT how many times did I call you I won't say a word |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by healthserve(m): 12:41am On Mar 19, 2020 |
greggng: You stil have unfinished business with her. She was right to say you don't know what you want....because you have been flirting with other girls around. She might be of the opinion that you are not taking her feeling for you seriously by extention taking her love seriously . A lady use to love me back then. One day she wrote me a letter and gave it to her younger brother to deliver to me .unfortunately one of my friends receive the letter on my behalf ....they brother met my absence and gave it to my friend. The mumu read it and spread the news like corona viruse. When her love letter became the talk of the town, she hijacked me on my way back home and break my head with her shoe...I was rushed to the hospital ...why the nurse was treating the wound I heard her saying ....This will teach me never to joke with a woman's love. I won't be surprise if your head is broken someday for joking with a woman's love. If you want to hear the rest of my story then .you have to pay me handsomely .cos you no follow me enjoy the pain then . Very very funny |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by jonadaft: 12:48am On Mar 19, 2020 |
cRobo:
DAFT
DAFT
DAFT
how many times did I call you
I won't say a word Even though it very difficult, I won't just call you stupîd DOLT! |
Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Ijaya123: 12:57am On Mar 19, 2020 |
Cock and bull story. |