Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by luminouz(m): 11:11pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
ekwerendi:
I'm not good... I need someone that can hack.... I can but its 10k..non negotiable!! ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by hammerT: 11:12pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
luminouz:
Stop all this judgy attitude abeg...its revenge and its more than y'all been doing on this thread. She managed to hurt the guy, mission accomplished. abi O... The guys body suffer. 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by ekwerendi(m): 11:12pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
luminouz:
I can but its 10k..non negotiable!! ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Seriously?? Send me your WhatsApp number |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by luminouz(m): 11:12pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
ekwerendi:
Seriously?? Send me your WhatsApp number Jesus.. U that serious? I'm just joking!!! ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) 3 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by ekwerendi(m): 11:13pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
luminouz:
Jesus.. U that serious?
I'm just joking!!! ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) Not for me but someone..... But incase u have... Let me know 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by id911(m): 11:14pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
marianays: Hello guys, please no insult.am just so confused on what to do. I had this strong crush on a guy I met some months ago,we exchange numbers,I thought he was going to ask me out of,he just used to say hello,hi, how you doing bla bla bla. After like 2months,I voice out o say guy I like you,I just can't keep it anymore to myself,when I told him,he told me I should give him some time that if he should jump into the relationship for now,he will just be fucking me with no feeling,but I should give him time to understand what's really going on. I could notice in our conversation too on WhatsApp saying that girls has really bleeped him up big time well and he no dey love again,but he just did not want to take advantage of my feelings.
It's been going to 2weeks now that have told him o,still no response,if I call him,he go respond well, sometimes he go shout at times,he go even tell me say he get girl for house wey he dey Bleep make I call later,(whichwas true), etc.Hes not showing like he's going to say yes and am so crazily in love with him,I tried to forget him but am finding it difficult.please what should I do ??
Thanks.
I would advise you limit calls and messages you send to him. Just give him sometime and don't appear too desperate to have him or else you will lose him. Get in touch once in awhile and ask about how hes faring and if he's doing well in biz or job and put relationship talk on hold for now until you begin to see signs from his side. Good luck 20 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by AngelJennifer: 11:16pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
codedlee: I had to be reading her WhatsApp messages on web. Sometimes I even reply without her knowing. Lol. Omo girls bad oo. Fear them. They talk a lot among themselves.. She was even talking about my big tractor lol. And how a guy with small stuff she touched just went wet. Lol. Well we are still dating and I am still reading. But her time wasting Please let her go, this life is vanity. Forget about payback, you gain nothing in wasting her time |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by richmindx: 11:16pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Jesus wept ouzo1: I have never been cheated on.. Rather I am the mess in the relationship. |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Legitz: Through her Facebook and WhatsApp chats
She act very perfect & loving ,giving me attention and we see often, i spy on how she draw her phone lock pattern, unlock her phone when she was sleeping, read her chats and was shocked that my holy holy babe is getting drilled by another dick, even sending money to that guy and recharging his line, probably from the money i used to give her, when i showed her what i saw on her phone, she started crying saying she can explain... Well I'm still chopping her nunu till today ,i won't dumped her until i expand her pussy Wicked master, why drilling pussy you will end up not getting married to? 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by luminouz(m): 11:18pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
ekwerendi:
Not for me but someone..... But incase u have... Let me know Where u based? |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by luminouz(m): 11:19pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
AngelJennifer:
Please let her go, this life is vanity. Forget about payback, you gain nothing in wasting her time Its vanity abi? Nawa o |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by marianays(f): 11:20pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Hello guys, please no insult.am just so confused on what to do. I had this strong crush on a guy I met some months ago,we exchange numbers,I thought he was going to ask me out of,he just used to say hello,hi, how you doing bla bla bla. After like 2months,I voice out o say guy I like you,I just can't keep it anymore to myself,when I told him,he told me I should give him some time that if he should jump into the relationship for now,he will just be fucking me with no feeling,but I should give him time to understand what's really going on. I could notice in our conversation too on WhatsApp saying that girls has really bleeped him up big time well and he no dey love again,but he just did not want to take advantage of my feelings.
It's been going to 2weeks now that have told him o,still no response,if I call him,he go respond well, sometimes he go shout at times,he go even tell me say he get girl for house wey he dey Bleep make I call later,(whichwas true), etc.Hes not showing like he's going to say yes and am so crazily in love with him,I tried to forget him but am finding it difficult.please what should I do ??
Thanks. 3 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by marianays(f): 11:21pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Okay,thanks. id911:
I would advise you limit calls and messages you send to him. Just give him sometime and don't appear too desperate to have him or else you will lose him. Get in touch once in awhile and ask about how hes faring and if he's doing well in biz or job and put relationship talk on hold for now until you begin to see signs from his side. Good luck |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by richmindx: 11:23pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
She must be a dirty girl. She can't even keep herself clean after play. Jaeis:
Too damning , can't post it
I've changed my mind.
I went 'down' to take off her panties to give her head and she smelt of gold circle condom lubricant down there. ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
WTF. I'm still angry about it 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Goalnaldo(m): 11:31pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Honeydenz:
We both cheated on each other.
Most Guys are fund of one bad thing, and that is sharing their partners bedroom matters with their fellow guys. I had this guy in school, lives in same hostel. He had a fancy room, I was watching "Merlin" on his plasma TV not knowing its already 12 midnight. He came touching, romance followed then d real thing. It continued for a months until his friend came around to visit him. He narrated all our sex escapades to his friend, describing me as a LovePeddler and worst, his friend seek his permission to have his share and he granted it, unknown to him I was drying my washed clothes closed to his window so I heard all their discussion loud and clear. I was really hurt. But I decided to make him feel the pains I felt. Before days the foolish friend came to my room, acting friendly, I played along. First, I stopped my boyfriend from having access to my body totally, when he noticed I now more closer to his friend he even became jealous. I allowed the friend sex me, and make sure he inform his friend as well, this shattered his ego and before long nigga became so thin. One day he came asking me what he did wrong that I no longer pay attention to him, then I narrated all that he said to his friend about our sex life, nigga was shocked! And defenseless, he was just stammering. He started to beg me but already I have started to love his friend more than him, until the said friend traveled to California, USA.
Note: all these while I was still cooking his meals, I could have decided to poison him if I wanted to, most guys think they are smart, but they aren't. you are beautiful my dear. Will you marry me?? 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by specialbobby(m): 11:32pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Oblitz: I hacked everything. Received her mails, Facebook messages and WhatsApp chats. What I saw enhhhhh! Till today I cannot look at some messages.
Devil dey learn from some naija girls Bro i beg i need your help i wan hack my babe |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by SavageResponse(m): 11:32pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
babyfaceafrica: how is ur partner another person The fact that you're in a relationship with someone does not give you the right to be snooping through that person's phone! 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by SavageResponse(m): 11:38pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
Smithwilliams826: gerraout! Why don't you go and face you $5 money doubling business. What we're discussing here is too much for your brain! 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by MayorOlohLo1(m): 11:45pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by flexindino(m): 11:53pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
marianays: Hello guys, please no insult.am just so confused on what to do. I had this strong crush on a guy I met some months ago,we exchange numbers,I thought he was going to ask me out of,he just used to say hello,hi, how you doing bla bla bla. After like 2months,I voice out o say guy I like you,I just can't keep it anymore to myself,when I told him,he told me I should give him some time that if he should jump into the relationship for now,he will just be fucking me with no feeling,but I should give him time to understand what's really going on. I could notice in our conversation too on WhatsApp saying that girls has really bleeped him up big time well and he no dey love again,but he just did not want to take advantage of my feelings.
It's been going to 2weeks now that have told him o,still no response,if I call him,he go respond well, sometimes he go shout at times,he go even tell me say he get girl for house wey he dey Bleep make I call later,(whichwas true), etc.Hes not showing like he's going to say yes and am so crazily in love with him,I tried to forget him but am finding it difficult.please what should I do ??
Thanks.
PM me and I'll tell u wat to do.....no insults |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Goalnaldo(m): 11:59pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
I successfully read to the end of a thread without a nairalander reigning insults on another. I think this is only the second time I've experienced such in this 2020. We need more of this kind of topics. ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by engineoil: 12:06am On Mar 23, 2020 |
marianays: Hello guys, please no insult.am just so confused on what to do. I had this strong crush on a guy I met some months ago,we exchange numbers,I thought he was going to ask me out of,he just used to say hello,hi, how you doing bla bla bla.
Thanks. You had to post this twice ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) . It shows how urgent you'd like it treated. But, you know what?- you need to calm down!!!!. First, what you have is a crush, nothing more!. Crushes of this nature cloud one's sense of reasoning and more often than not, a wrong decision is often taken at such a critical period. This explains why you expressly rushed to tell him your feelings....and why you're so anxious to get a response. You need to know that love, true one, comes with tranquillity not ecstasy; tranquility, because you know the person well enough, you know his strength and you can cope with his weaknesses-as such you deeply appreciate his fallibility and you've realistic expectations of him. However, ecstasy is often associated with fantasy and illusion, hence the strong feelings one experiences which usually die in the twinkle of an eye. Back to the guy, how well do you know him?. How well do you love and know yourself?. Arent you seeking in him what you lack?- if that's the case, you'd be disappointed and end up worse off. A guy who sleeps around for whatever reason, shows low self esteem...and his audacity to tell you, should be seen as a red flag and not a virtue of sincerity. So, my advice; don't pester him for a response, else he runs away or stays and treats you like trash. Continue relating normally with him. Don't sacrifice your integrity or values on the alter of a crush-ladden POTENTIAL relationship. Above all, love yourself (I can't emphasise this enough)....If he is sincere, your values would attract and keep him....and if he is not for real, your values would keep him at bay..... 12 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Jefferyhi86(m): 12:07am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Bros Infact d day a lady wore a native attire came to hook up with my brother from Inmessage, body weak me.. Funny enough a certain guy saw his female classmates on that platform poweredcom: Never trust any young naija lady their way is too bad and just a few of them are good I know nobody is perfect even we guys also are cheat but the average naija gal cheats a lot
The age of social media have exposed Dem the one wey be codes olosho de inmessage and tinder ..infact I first check her fone if those two app de her fone after dat I know how to judge her
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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by gozie112(m): 12:10am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Oblitz: I hacked everything. Received her mails, Facebook messages and WhatsApp chats. What I saw enhhhhh! Till today I cannot look at some messages.
Devil dey learn from some naija girls which app did u use sir |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Nobody: 12:19am On Mar 23, 2020 |
positivevibez: I used a spy app called mobile tracker omo I nearly faint see pictures see call logs confronted her the usual tears followed then she told me she's fatherless mom can't sustain her .... Abeg I need am. I get feelings like that |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by gozie112(m): 12:19am On Mar 23, 2020 |
benjanny: I was in Owerri then and she reside in Lagos.She always complain that the distance is much she can no longer cope with it.Recently she got a new boyfriend who reside in Canada and was even posting on his timeline that the distance will never separate them from each other. I now understand that there is a difference between international and local distance. mad oo ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by mank1234(m): 12:45am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Honeydenz:
We both cheated on each other.
Most Guys are fund of one bad thing, and that is sharing their partners bedroom matters with their fellow guys. I had this guy in school, lives in same hostel. He had a fancy room, I was watching "Merlin" on his plasma TV not knowing its already 12 midnight. He came touching, romance followed then d real thing. It continued for a months until his friend came around to visit him. He narrated all our sex escapades to his friend, describing me as a LovePeddler and worst, his friend seek his permission to have his share and he granted it, unknown to him I was drying my washed clothes closed to his window so I heard all their discussion loud and clear. I was really hurt. But I decided to make him feel the pains I felt. Before days the foolish friend came to my room, acting friendly, I played along. First, I stopped my boyfriend from having access to my body totally, when he noticed I now more closer to his friend he even became jealous. I allowed the friend sex me, and make sure he inform his friend as well, this shattered his ego and before long nigga became so thin. One day he came asking me what he did wrong that I no longer pay attention to him, then I narrated all that he said to his friend about our sex life, nigga was shocked! And defenseless, he was just stammering. He started to beg me but already I have started to love his friend more than him, until the said friend traveled to California, USA.
Note: all these while I was still cooking his meals, I could have decided to poison him if I wanted to, most guys think they are smart, but they aren't. At bolded, that's not the claim in your thread. https://www.nairaland.com/5678413/boyfriend-gives-bestfriend-go-ahead-sleep#86523449You can lie for Africa. Everything about you is fake - from face to story. 13 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by DexterousOne(m): 12:45am On Mar 23, 2020 |
ednut1: Facebook o during nysc. Holy holy gal wey deny me sex. She traveled for her church runs as usual as her state was nearby. At night i go charge my lappy at the village king house. I saw her email still on facebook as i begin use my airtel modem m. I once collected her phone password so i go fit repair am during cds. I used same password and it worked. Chats with 3 guys and a fellow corper. Her travel self na hotel she be dey go. I nearly fainted that day o. Since then i no dey check woman phone. 2013 Even you ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Jonathan39: 12:51am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Ogun state is No1 followed by Abia state. Facts don't lie UMUAHIA1stson:
Abia state is the worst state in Nigeria, how does this change it? ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Nobody: 1:15am On Mar 23, 2020 |
I confirmed or found out when her brother phoned to inform me that she's getting married soon. We broke up in Nov because she seemed not to be straightforward. In Dec 2019, I got info that she's getting married in Mar, 2020. She asked her brother to tell me before I hear from outsiders. The news weakened me ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) . She got married abt 9-10 days ago 14 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Opiletool(m): 1:18am On Mar 23, 2020 |
marianays: Hello guys, please no insult.am just so confused on what to do. I had this strong crush on a guy I met some months ago,we exchange numbers,I thought he was going to ask me out of,he just used to say hello,hi, how you doing bla bla bla. After like 2months,I voice out o say guy I like you,I just can't keep it anymore to myself,when I told him,he told me I should give him some time that if he should jump into the relationship for now,he will just be fucking me with no feeling,but I should give him time to understand what's really going on. I could notice in our conversation too on WhatsApp saying that girls has really bleeped him up big time well and he no dey love again,but he just did not want to take advantage of my feelings.
It's been going to 2weeks now that have told him o,still no response,if I call him,he go respond well, sometimes he go shout at times,he go even tell me say he get girl for house wey he dey Bleep make I call later,(whichwas true), etc.Hes not showing like he's going to say yes and am so crazily in love with him,I tried to forget him but am finding it difficult.please what should I do ??
Thanks.
Forget him. Some guys can be honest, and I believe he is one of them. I once did same to a girl, even declined when she offered me her virginity. I noticed that she wasn't my type of girl (not that she wasn't pretty. Of course she was. Young and beautiful), but she's the type that demands attention, and I wasnt the type that gives that. Also, she was moving with girls older than her, as she was fortunate to gain admission at a tender age of 17. Those her friends were already bleeping and keeping numerous boyfriends, and the pressure was on her to get hers. I discerned this and pitied her instead of taking advantage of her innocence. At first, I tried to shield her, but when I saw that she was getting so in love, I had to leave her to learn the hard way. She cried for days, but I knew she would get over it. We still chat once in a while today, and I never regret my decision, because I knew we wouldn't last long together. So, free the dude. Set your mind on something else. Give it time, and the feeling will die naturally. Don't hate him, rather appreciate him for his honesty. That's what we guys face with girls. If you force it too long, he will never appreciate you, and that would be heavy cross you would have to carry in the relationship. And that shi.t ain't easy to carry, because your case will be OYO. 10 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by SlayerForever: 1:28am On Mar 23, 2020 |
Honeydenz:
We both cheated on each other.
Most Guys are fund of one bad thing, and that is sharing their partners bedroom matters with their fellow guys. I had this guy in school, lives in same hostel. He had a fancy room, I was watching "Merlin" on his plasma TV not knowing its already 12 midnight. He came touching, romance followed then d real thing. It continued for a months until his friend came around to visit him. He narrated all our sex escapades to his friend, describing me as a LovePeddler and worst, his friend seek his permission to have his share and he granted it, unknown to him I was drying my washed clothes closed to his window so I heard all their discussion loud and clear. I was really hurt. But I decided to make him feel the pains I felt. Before days the foolish friend came to my room, acting friendly, I played along. First, I stopped my boyfriend from having access to my body totally, when he noticed I now more closer to his friend he even became jealous. I allowed the friend sex me, and make sure he inform his friend as well, this shattered his ego and before long nigga became so thin. One day he came asking me what he did wrong that I no longer pay attention to him, then I narrated all that he said to his friend about our sex life, nigga was shocked! And defenseless, he was just stammering. He started to beg me but already I have started to love his friend more than him, until the said friend traveled to California, USA.
Note: all these while I was still cooking his meals, I could have decided to poison him if I wanted to, most guys think they are smart, but they aren't. Next time don't give your pussy that easy to another guy, notwithstanding what you heard. The friend you gave it to and began to love will not still value you in the long run. 10 Likes |