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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by emonis88: 6:47pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
pennywys:U r on point jare! 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 6:47pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Biglittlelois: It never was about love; which is a recent hollywood fabrication. People, men and women have always been cautious about who they end up with. Men have always sought for the values of fulfillment of sexual satisfaction, respect, humility and paternal certainty (marked by chastity and virginity in times past) in women. Women have always tended towards being attracted to good material providers as their end objective. The play is as old as time. The difference is that men are honest about what they want; modern women tend to think that admitting to materialism is base and distasteful (which it is actually) so they pretend to be searching for 'love' in a 'god-fearing', 'intelligent' etc man and end up more often than not; dissatisfied in their marriage. Biglittlelois: Actually human marital requirements have not changed at all. Even female animals always tend to choose for what they assess to be the best provider/protector; though in animals; this is usually the alpha male so there is no conflict there. What changed is that women are now unsuccessfully trying to deny their feminine nature and with this has come the undesirable external traits of aggressiveness, loudness, disrespect and denial of their depreciable sexual value while the internal desire for a good provider remains intact. The external behaviour in turn creates weaker men who believe that they must grovel for sexual favours and the beta thereby becomes the best provider while her ovaries yearn for an alpha. Conflicts conflicts conflicts. Like what the op is suffering from. As you can see, she is trying to deny her obvious materialism while her innate nature is not able to abandon it. 10 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by stormborn28(m): 6:52pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Stacyomolola: Hmmmmmmm... Flat and self contain dey give privacy in case of heavy hammering. 2 Likes
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by FuckAllTheMODs: 6:52pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
proclinician: I used to do that your last sentence for my woman because I love her so much but I don change am now, if I no get money for two we no dey eat be that except on rare occasions. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Stacyomolola(f): 6:54pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by vivalavida(m): 6:59pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Admissionclass: I have not made it But I am far more comfortable than that If u see your sister in my residence,u will be proud of her. Are u satisfied? |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by nan1: 7:08pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Aunty wey mumu pls leave this innocent guy alone let his true partner locate him. Yours is even better when i met my guy he was even squatting with friends he struggled to go to school i paid over 80% of his bills cos I saw great potentials in him and I loved him today he is a medical doctor i dont pay his bills anymore and he treats me as his first lady and gives me all full and due respect. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Admissionclass: 7:13pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
vivalavida: till i see you residence every i ever see on NL is audio and plus i have to be sure you earning legit cant give ma sister to a low-key criminal .anyways thanks but we aint poor so we not impressed with your change nurture it till it reaches at least million before you can say things like this. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 7:13pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
emonis88: Oh...OK. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Lightangel65: 7:14pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
seanwilliam: True that's why I gave that advise, I expirenced it first hand |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 7:31pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
kingjrofficial: It’s hungry leeches and parasites that men pay all their bills....I never chop babes.....and a man that wants a woman to do all these for him is not alright .... |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by STARGREEN(m): 7:46pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
prettyaura:You seems to be confused. Sorry |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by kjsun15: 7:47pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
See, i started from squatting to joint rented of a room true little assistance from my girl friend then and she is now my wife with two kids. Today, we are living in our own three bedroom flat. Intact this afternoon, she pleaded to me to build my next house on the name of our kids, imagine how we started though we are still hustling. I had nothing then, but we planned together, and everything worked excellently for us. Your guy is even richer than me then. God knows what i am saying, if he can rent an apartment now by himself ha, he has greater hope through prayer and hard work. 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by SweetCunt97(f): 7:53pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
emonis88:ooooin! How much did he spend? So u wanna tell me he spent upto 100k on her? What kinda person does that? |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by SweetCunt97(f): 7:55pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
kjsun15:Toh this is good. I definitely have to qualms with dirt broke men but the deceitful ones. That it worked for ur gf no mean say e go work for everyone wey decide to love a broke man |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by SweetCunt97(f): 7:58pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
seanwilliam:When you have nothing, be true to yourself, also get a love that supports and contented with ur status at that time. No be to carry ur eye go chook for where dem go frustrate ur life 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Rozaytee: 8:05pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee:am in ur shoes babe but I think I believe in him...nigga want to marry me but...he promises to make money first before that...cuz he doesn't want me to suffer |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by BarrElChapo(m): 8:06pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Nn3muka: If you're married or not pls pray your partner does not fall into hard times. He'd die before his time with your personality |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 8:06pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
jamesbridget13:u mean those ones in lagos? a gate man in lagos will be living in one room with his wife and 15 chuldren when he can easily locate to his hometown and rent a decent abode and get a good job.everybody wants to live in lagos ![]() 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Guynexttdoor: 8:08pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
So in other words, u love him but u hate the room. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nn3muka(f): 8:08pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
BarrElChapo:Bunch of lazy a*s holes Dont go and hustle for money, keep waiting for the woman that will pay your rent. shift biko |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Emmasnoop(m): 8:09pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Why telling us go find Yahoo Boys when he get money na when go destroy your toto without getting marry to, mumu girl. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 8:10pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Countersam:sometimes woman na distraction.the time u should improve urself u will be chasing after woman how u go wan progress nau ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 8:12pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
lefulefu:This would be the first time I will be experiencing and witnessing this. Maybe Nl madness is now upgraded. Anything for the grams. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by BarrElChapo(m): 8:13pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Nn3muka: Hahaha. The truth pains. Work on yourself slay queen. Cos your man is gonna be in shut if he ever falls into hard times. ![]() |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Beey(f): 8:20pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
I am no longer interested in the stories of supporting broke guys & am not arrogant.Was there & I got burned. Said to myself, I’ll never financially support a man that hasn’t paid my dowry.I rebuke that foolishness! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nn3muka(f): 8:25pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
BarrElChapo:Hahaha The truth hurts, go and work hard. A woman's duty in a home is to have and nurture children, look after the homefront and make sure things are in order. The one thing the man is suppose to do which is providing for the family he wants to also dump it on the woman because he has a dick abi nna fu*ck off and go meet the next dumb girl you will interest with marriage talks. Lazy a*s mofo always coming to the table with preek and marriage talks nothing else. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by ihedioramma: 8:25pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
[quote author=LadyBeee post=87880120]Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen. He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed. I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was . As you said you love him rent it by your self and never ask him to you pay back . |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by ArticleBeast: 8:29pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Jewessgratitudd:Yeah they should chilax for anything marriage or next level relationship stuff. At least she seem like she is in a better place, then she can lift up with capital or job connections. Dice still dey turn the guy fit get triple six |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by BarrElChapo(m): 8:34pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Nn3muka: Nne sorry I know I hit a sweet spot ![]() Everyday won't be Christmas in your marriage. If all hardworkers were billionaires' why is that barrow pusher not Bill Gates . BUT The man who ends up with you (if you don't change this your mindset) better stay up everyday if not he'll experience Chris Brown's "These hoes ain't loyal" in real time. Ciao ![]() ![]() |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by benji93: 8:36pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
For some of us, it's a sure thing. The problem is how can you identify some of us. ![]() Stacyomolola: |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Draught: 8:42pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
realokopi: My brother sense will not kill you, I swear ![]() |
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