@ Primesoccer, Chai dude, your relationship has been audio all along.

You are not alone. 80% of relationships are audio. Men take relationships more serious than women these days.
Girls are constantly scoping for a "better" guy until wedding day. At times even while married.

Girls easily juggle 5 men these days. No sweat.
About 35% of firstborn kids belong to a man outside.
About 30% of all kids belong to a guy outside.

Not to count those aborted that hubby never hears about.

Pele, ndo, koyo. Na normal thing.

But at least you know your type of babe now.

primesoccer:
You are very correct. Me trying to chat her more is just to get more evidence. She might spill more than she has done already. I don't think it's an act of weakness. I have the picture of the guy she said they're trying to work things out. I saved it immediately she sent it to me (the stranger) knowing fully well that she will do "Delete for All"

lol....you get time....If you have job on your hands you will not be doing private investigators job....Go hustle

wizkidblogger:
you don marry her? if not, na still open market abeg

am sure you will say that to your daughters in few years time.

Bro that's a red flag. If u marry her and something like this happens in the marriage or she cheats on you don't be surprised but you shld be prepared for something of this nature should you decide to go on with the relationship. My 2 cents.

If you're gonna go around trying to spoof ladies to see if they're faithful, you're on to a long thing.

No girl is gonna be absolutely faithful to you. It's as factual as anything.

So enjoy the ride and stop wasting time chasing shadows.

That's women for you. They can either make you or destroy you.

My last told an American boy she's single but have some boys disturbing her. She told the guy to give her time to clear those boys. While I was thinking I was in a relationship giving my all. How stupid and foolish could I have been?

I've forgiven her, but I can never forget. Each time I remember what she did... I feel so pained.

So sorry guy. Guys like you are really hard to come by. She will just end up using a good husband material to do boyfriend and use ordinary boyfriend to do husband,then she will say it's her village people. She doesn't love you simple.she is using you to fulfill righteousness that she has a Bobo. I am a woman o,but I hate the way women treat guys at times honestly. Just move on.meanwhile that 20k passive income still dey available?. Anything for this lockdown period

she aint proud of you
if you smart u should break up with her b4 she dumps u for someone she really fancies

24kmagic:
As a man, once you're able to fvck any girl you approached, you already won. All the calls, the efforts, the outings and the shoppings are all aiming towards sex. Shey you don fvck her? Oya breakup.

It's either you're damaging her kpekus or breaking her heart. If you're not doing any of these two things, you're the woman in the relationship.

For God's sake which man leaves his phone with a b!tch just because he wants to prove that he's faithful? What rubbish is that? It's a sign of "weakness." She should be the one doing that to prove that she's a wife material. Even if you don't have any side chick, you dare not let her know. In fact, you'll need to pretend that you have many girls disturbing you, if not she'll just rubbish you. Girls? Hmm

Finally, I can bet my left ball that money was the key factor you used in getting her. The way you kept stressing how you buy her this and that, shopping for this and that, I can say money was a major factor in getting her. Shey you don fvck her? Oya, leave her.

She's in for the cash, she doesn't like you like you think. Reason why I don't always succum to the make "make money and girls will follow you notion." Money will get you girls but it won't get you their loyalty. No girl turns down the idea of a man coming to meet her people except she doesn't love him, which is the case here.

Finally, I want you all reading this to know that "NO GIRL DESERVES A GOOD THING" and the earlier guys realise that, the better. That good thing you think she deserves, she doesn't deserve it because she doesn't want it.

What she wants and deserves are pain, cry, games, cheating, lies, manipulations, STDs, and every form of one discomfort or the other.

If you can do all these without laying a finger on her, you're EVERY GIRL'S DREAM MAN.

Forget what they say online

No girl deserves a good thing, what do you mean mate ?

Guy there is nothing to explain or see here and dont ever blame yourself for anything the girl did. A girl that will stay will stay, also give a hoe the entire paradise she will stray if she wants to stray.

Dump her ass and move on ,she doesnt love you and she has moved on long ago. Youve just been dating yourself for a while without knowing. Move on,bro. Even though its hard give it time, you will get over the heartbreak.

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

never trust a ladie

So people still get time for all those orchins out there that called themselves woman. Guy you better think of what to do with your precious life before they will send you to jump inside lagoon. With all these signs you still they pamper her. If I must say, you are the most stupid.d person I've ever seen. You better dump that beast before she will send you to your ancestors. Wise up guy.

wizkidblogger:
you don marry her? if not, na still open market abeg

someone dat denied him so he will marry her to prove ownership of her?
@ op
if you marry the girl cos of pressure that u want to prove that u own her then u be mumu

Only God knows where y'all are meeting these she-devils

Well sometimes people get bored,especially when all you both do is repetitions,you have said all that is to be said,there is no sparkle anymore. Apart from that she is just trying to have an option but ghosting you isn't the proper way, that is why the english man invented the following
Open Relationship
Exclusive Relationship
Close Relationship
No Relationship
But then you need to really define the relationship,that you are there for her doesn't mean you are in a relationship you just might be in the red yellow zone, which means you are still under consideration or probation.

Bro abeg , what types of business did you show her to be earning 20k per month , can you tell a bro here ?

Cloud007:
am sure you will say that to your daughters in few years time.

lol

24kmagic:
As a man, once you're able to fvck any girl you approached, you already won. All the calls, the efforts, the outings and the shoppings are all aiming towards sex. Shey you don fvck her? Oya breakup.

It's either you're damaging her kpekus or breaking her heart. If you're not doing any of these two things, you're the woman in the relationship.

For God's sake which man leaves his phone with a b!tch just because he wants to prove that he's faithful? What rubbish is that? It's a sign of "weakness." She should be the one doing that to prove that she's a wife material. Even if you don't have any side chick, you dare not let her know. In fact, you'll need to pretend that you have many girls disturbing you, if not she'll just rubbish you. Girls? Hmm

Finally, I can bet my left ball that money was the key factor you used in getting her. The way you kept stressing how you buy her this and that, shopping for this and that, I can say money was a major factor in getting her. Shey you don fvck her? Oya, leave her.

She's in for the cash, she doesn't like you like you think. Reason why I don't always succum to the make "make money and girls will follow you notion." Money will get you girls but it won't get you their loyalty. No girl turns down the idea of a man coming to meet her people except she doesn't love him, which is the case here.

Finally, I want you all reading this to know that "NO GIRL DESERVES A GOOD THING" and the earlier guys realise that, the better. That good thing you think she deserves, she doesn't deserve it because she doesn't want it.

What she wants and deserves are pain, cry, games, cheating, lies, manipulations, STDs, and every form of one discomfort or the other.

If you can do all these without laying a finger on her, you're EVERY GIRL'S DREAM MAN.

Forget what they say online

Bros chuale sir

luminouz:



Jesus...cant you see how you sound

You sound weak....

She doesn't respect you...your will is weak

the girl no even respect am
iyam surprised he still refer to such a girl as his girlfriend when she deny am

guy before u open up to her, please try Bleep her very well without condom. release all the sperm into her. try Bleep her three times daily for seven days without condom and if possible let her suck your dick all time you Bleep her and release the sperm inside her mouth. on the seventh day of the Bleep make sure she suck your dick and in the process urinate inside her mouth. hold her head strong to your dick so that your dick remain in her mouth and urinate hot urine inside her mouth before you open up to her. after the seventh day Bleep and release of sperm and urine in her mouth then show her the chat with the stranger and call it a quit. pls call it a quit after you've opened up and never look back.

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

Bruh! It has happened to the best of us..

Dump her quick quick..

I can assure you, karma will play her tape accordingly and you'll be left better off.

It will hurt but better woman go come your way.

Your mistake was you laid all your cards on the table for her to play you with..

primesoccer:
Exactly what I plan on doing. I will definitely meet her and talk to her, then bring up the evidence. Thank you

I don't think that will be a good idea. For a lady to deny you the way you narrate it won't make sense to sit with her to discuss any issue she will just bring up excuses why she what she did and for your info she will play reverse psychology on you by saying you are cause of her behavior. Just be wise and make plans for alternative. Ensure to withdraw your system support she has been enjoying by do it in a unique way. She deserves an element of surprise for she has done. Bro use your head not your heart now. Shalom

my brother u are just deceiving ur self..by assuming u love and she loves u too....

the signs are there for u to run...while u can
1. putting her phone on airplane mode
2. saying she ain't ready for marriage yet
3. the fact that she is now changed

buh I pity u bro cos it will be very hard for u...cos u were lost in love...u didn't heed to the signs .....else u would have left long before now....I bet u she is ten step ahead of u

etrange:
She might really love you. She's just not putting all her eggs in one basket. If you both of you break up, you'd easily move to the next girl while she waits and hopes another man would reach out to her. So I think she may not be serious with that guy but doesn't want to strike him out at once as she doesn't know your stance yet...

Just saying o!

This ur opening suppose win awawrd, as the most stupid n awkward opening in nairaland

Obaman12:
Bro! You see?

You goofed up big time by showing her all your cards bro. Relationship these days are like card games. You don't display all your cards to your opponent to avoid being kicked off the game. You play it smartly with your head not with your heart.

Now, you're of no relevance to her again, and there's nothing that you'll do to gain that back from her. To her, she's just using u as a step up plan until she lands her target man.

In otherwords, you're on your own
All, I'll say now is, start searching for another girl that would keep ur hrt occupied at moment, after that dump her and move on. That's d only way to mk her feel d break up, don't let her break ur hrt, break hers first that's how you'll get to win on this bro. Outside it, it'll be an all-round win for her. So be smart and act fast.


Note: all these should be on code. Don't let her notice anysh*t as regarding ur intention towards her. Oya go win this bro

I made this same mistake bro, and now am a rebranded person.

Read on miseducation by Ubanja

O.P i beg ypu to listen to this guy..

what he is saying is 100% true...

i made the same mistake too

BiafranBushBoy:
Lol... Why crying...

Are you married to her?

Have you promised her marriage?

You time wasters...

What if she admits she has a guy to every toaster and you end up not marrying her?

Cry Cry baby... Lol

mumu. U didn't read it

primesoccer:
You are very correct. Me trying to chat her more is just to get more evidence. She might spill more than she has done already. I don't think it's an act of weakness. I have the picture of the guy she said they're trying to work things out. I saved it immediately she sent it to me (the stranger) knowing fully well that she will do "Delete for All"

You want to confront her so she can manipulate you by telling you that she knew you were the guy on the other end

TruthHurts100:
That's women for you. They can either make you or destroy you.

My last told an American boy she's single but have some boys disturbing her. She told the guy to give her time to clear those boys. While I was thinking I was in a relationship giving my all. How stupid and foolish could I have been?

I've forgiven her, but I can never forget. Each time I remember what she did... I feel so pained.

babe wan move to yankee sharp sharp with her american lover .most ladies in naija when their boyfriend is unambitious or nothing seems to work for him if a better guy with prospects comes along they will deny their guy sharp sharp.u can imagine a girl dating a guy who is a chronic gambler and addicted to nairabet and she comes across a medical doctor or prosperious lawyer who is interested in her wat do u expect she would do .or a girl dating a barber or an okada rider with no prspects of upgrading and a rich entertainer signifies interest to her she would deny her guy flat

raybestman:
guy before u open up to her, please try Bleep her very well without condom. release all the sperm into her. try Bleep her three times daily for seven days without condom and if possible let her suck your dick all time you Bleep her and release the sperm inside her mouth. on the seventh day of the Bleep make sure she suck your dick and in the process urinate inside her mouth. hold her head strong to your dick so that your dick remain in her mouth and urinate hot urine inside her mouth before you open up to her. after the seventh day Bleep and release of sperm and urine in her mouth then show her the chat with the stranger and call it a quit. pls call it a quit after you've opened up and never look back.

bros, u dey vex ooo wetin happen they don't break your heart before

Try to break up with her now (pretend) and stop giving her money.......... for 1 week..... to see her reaction.........but continue chatting her up on your new phone.....to know wats up with her

the signs are clear