Poor masses dating

What's this rubbish

Get a job?
No?

This is pure arrant nonsense.

You go single till christ comes with this yeye assertion

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

u will regret it move on i say, its sweeter if u tipping in n he is doing the same

Gluttony gf on the loose

Break up with him if you need someone who will pamper you.

demand things from whosoever I love. But the one you don't love ?

mharyamikeola92:


Thanks

Nne run! A guy that loves you will want to spend on you even though its little...working or not.pls dont settle for less your kids will suffer oooo

See this babe. Are you not a human being like other men who have been paying their girlfriends’ bills since time immemorial?

You too take up the responsibility of this man. Or are you a lesser being?

Nonsense. You no get talk.

This guy has only stepped aside and allowed you to be responsible for your own bills. Why does that scare you? Cover your face in shame.

Op I think you caused it by giving him the impression that you're a mother hen.

I couldn't help laughing out loud @ "The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself"
Like seriously? That would have been the end of our relationship.

I once courted a very rich pastor. But I left him for this same stingy character.

I remember one incidence that made me zero my mind. I was not working then ( was searching for a job.) and it was a December Holy Ghost Congress. So he asked if I would be going, I said no cos im not buoyant. So he said he'll drop something for me later Ill go and pick it ( you know as a Pastor we are not meant to go to each others house.). So on my way to the camp, I stopped at the supermart and the guy there gave me 1k. huh? As in, he'll calculate every dime hes giving you to the point you won't have extra in case you're stranded.

I got to the Camp, by the time I was done, money done zap. My phone was off. I suffered that day.
Only for him to call me and say he tried calling me at the camp so he could drive me home I was like, really?
Other times too he exhibited that stinginess. I just texed him that I can't cope. He should move on to the next sister.

So if you can't cope now, back out cos it will continue. He can't stop. Its his nature.
I won't say more than that.

Op no lie o there must be sth u r getting from him, maybe correct knacking, or one quality u c in him dt won't make u ditch him. Cos it seems u r at crossroad here.

Awaiting ur response.

Watin the op wan use the advice do now Since January fa.

My dear lady, I will humbly advice you to exercise alot of patience with him. In my own view, the guy is watching all what you are doing for him and he decided to keep mute about the development, he might have been discussing your issue with his friends as well and might even be proud of you in proxy. Such guy do take care of girls walahi, I swear you will enjoy him to the fullest if you exercise alot patience...

mharyamikeola92:


I ave my own job and a well paying job..I don’t need a man to b dere financially but is there a big deal in a man buying gifts for some1 he claims to love not necessarily money

i understand u, totally true

Make your own money.

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

Does he get u gifts for Val, birthdays and co?.
He might not be stingy, there r people that don't offer unless u ask, it's just their nature. And u seem like the type that don't ask unless u want.
Don't over think it

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

Do you give him money too?....

mharyamikeola92:
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Pls get serious

please Dear...that guy is not a husband material.
a man should be willing to take care of his woman needs to an extent and giving shouldn't be a problem at all.

please use your head...marriage is a life time thing that guy don't fits it for you from what you said up there.

This Guy has no pride, 5K? Please run, not ahusband material.

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

tabithababy:
Op, I beg you , forget the guy

Or prepare to feed him, his kids, his family and side chicks from your own money

He keeps seeing you as a fo'ool.... Am very sure you are giving him free sex, money, food and even calling him with your money

Loove ooooo

The likes of u end up marrying a disaster!! Mrs special adviser.

Lexusgs430:


Do you give him money too?....

bro to be honest will you approve your sister marry this kind of a person?

You better run for your life lest you end up marrying yourself and solely financing your children and home. He lacks the provider instincts. Edeoots like him are many, just bounce before its too late.

How to cope with a stingy Father

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

Can you leave the guy to us and back off darling. Leave our man's alone
He gay and he don't want ya. Preach

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

As far as ur story is concerned he hasn’t done anything really wrong. U asked for money and said u will return it back and it is what shud be expected unless u don’t mean to keep ur word which is a bad sign on its own.

If u ask me to borrow u 2naira I expect it back unless u bring it up and I say don’t bother because u used the word “borrow me”. Doesn’t mean I can’t dash u 10naira just like that. If u act like u never borrowed anything I might forget it bt it’s a concern for me in keeping ur word. Thats how I am. I also get disturbed if i borrow and don’t return.

If u want to ask for Smtn to test if he cares or is stingy like u said then ask him directly and see how he may react. Don’t assume pls.

I intentionally fake stinginess to enable me weed out fake girls with fake love.
95% of girls failed the test but my current babe
passed and she is reaping her rewards bountifully.

I have my rules for spending on her though

1. I only give when it is necessary not when she wants
2. I give to reward her when she does something impressive.

For example, through her efforts, I got a contract that fetched me a huge sum of money and juicy business connections.
I rewarded her by sponsoring her master's program (not by giving her cash).