| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by HenryThegreat1(m): 10:23am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.
I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.
There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.
I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.
The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.
On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.
My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.
Pls no insults, just advice. . here both of u are working class, if I may ask u how much can u vow here that u have spent on this guy? 3 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by proclinician: 10:24am On Apr 02, 2020 |
i read this post hoping to see where you will say you bought him an iphone for his birthday and he did not reciprocate by getting u a similar device too.
You feel you are entitled to his 10N becasue u cooked food that both of you ate is that correct? Other times he did not visit your house do u starve and only get to cook when he is around?
It takes a lot o begging to decipher stinginess and u seem like a begger. pls aside from cooking food in your house which both of you get to eat what other reasonable thing have u done for this guy and he did not reciprocate just leave the stupidity outside and write a proper post.
What exactly makes u entitled to his 10N aside from you are his girlfriend (I consider this very stupid) who gets to cook food for u both when he visits ?
WHy are you surprised after u said he should transfer 5k u will give him back then u asked for his aza and he gave u and u transfered his 5k back and then u came to NL to say you are surprised.
Aside from cooking food that both of u ate what else?
Most of You ladies suck a great deal 28 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by luvmijeje(f): 10:24am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Vega100:
It is because of people like you I now pay every lady I f*uck, and now see all like sex workers, na still because of people like you to see wife done hard me, despite how hard I try!!!
E no go better for all the women like you when don make every girl look like common prostitutes, e no go better for all of una one bit, the God i serve go punish all of una finish and make it also hard for you to see any good thing in this life.
Amen!!! On top wetin? You don craze finish o 2 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by propsvilla3: 10:24am On Apr 02, 2020 |
More reason why You should go for Anambra guys. We know how to take care of Ladies, You will see an Anambra man wearing a sanda of 700 while the wife is wearing a shoe worth 50k all the expense on him. Any man who can't tske care of a Lady is not worth getting married to. |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Yinkwamo(m): 10:24am On Apr 02, 2020 |
If he is not your type of man, dump him already. I am not trying to be judgemental but what is love without giving, huh? Though, giving should not be gender based, after all, the relationship in an ideal situation, should be symbiotic and not parasitic. Meanwhile, when I say give, I don't mean giving what you will eventually regret if the relationship packs up. Whatever you would regret giving or would not be able to let go or forget if a relationship packs up, please and please do not give it all in the name of Love. At the end of it all, the choice remains yours. But what do I know? 1 Like |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by shekauvsbuhari: 10:24am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.
I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.
There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.
I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.
The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.
On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.
My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.
Pls no insults, just advice. . IF ALL YOU SAID IS TRUE, PLEASE LEAVE HIM. HE WILL JUST BE WATCHING YOU PICK ALL THE BILLS. I'M A MAN BUT I WOULDN'T DO THAT. LEAVE HIM. 3 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by pricklewane: 10:25am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:
I really don’t lyk going out..But I don’t know how some1 will travel from Lagos to Osun without buying common bread I might travel further but I will definitely not allow u ask me for money to feed while we are together.. It is the least any sensible man can do. |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by ElasticStone(m): 10:25am On Apr 02, 2020 |
The guy is really stingy sha! This is one of those things I may have to side with the feminists.
But I will like to hear his own side of the story first before concluding 4 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:26am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Humility017:
please Dear...that guy is not a husband material.
a man should be willing to take care of his woman needs to an extent and giving shouldn't be a problem at all.
please use your head...marriage is a life time thing that guy don't fits it for you from what you said up there.
Are they married?? Why should he be playing a husband or Fatherly role now?? 10 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Seun360(m): 10:26am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Petyprincess:
I can't cope at all!!
With that ur small yansh? 7 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Rocboy112: 10:26am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.
I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.
There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.
I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.
The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.
On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.
My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.
Pls no insults, just advice. Someone like him will never contribute when you marry to him,cause for instance you spent the 5000 naira on the food you both ate,and he still collected back his money,my advice for you is to play safe with him 2 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by KevinDein: 10:26am On Apr 02, 2020 |
passionberry:
my dear this happened to me ooh..as my brain come reset ,I come grow thick skin..noI man fit fool me again..ooh..if you know support me I go just dey flow with you like dat ,nothng from my side evn if u wan die.die alone with ur broke and stingy ass You mean if you are dating a stingy dude and you are uncomfortable with that instead of breaking up you rather stick around and wish him ill? How do some of you reason  4 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Lexusgs430: 10:26am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Humility017:
bro let me tell you...this
a man must take the lead...he should give first prior expecting a lady to reciprocate
You can't be in a relationship with a woman and don't give her money or gifts...
woman often reciprocate when she genuinely loves you, so first give to her and watch how she foolishly fall for you.... So in essence, you want to buy her love? 6 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by habakukjss3: 10:26am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.
I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.
There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.
I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.
The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.
On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.
My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.
Pls no insults, just advice. some people are just like that.. both males and females . I have seen worst. Also, he may not be earning enough, but that not an excuse. At least he should drop the little he has from time to time |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by ericuzor(m): 10:26am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.
I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.
There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.
I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.
The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.
On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.
My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.
Pls no insults, just advice. you don't demand anything from him that's why,I don't think he is stingy just sit him down and talk to him. |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 10:27am On Apr 02, 2020 |
olaniyilukman:
My dear lady, I will humbly advice you to exercise alot of patience with him. In my own view, the guy is watching all what you are doing for him and he decided to keep mute about the development, he might have been discussing your issue with his friends as well and might even be proud of you in proxy. Such guy do take care of girls walahi, I swear you will enjoy him to the fullest if you exercise alot patience... TRICKY |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Yomit71(m): 10:27am On Apr 02, 2020 |
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| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by chigoizie7(m): 10:27am On Apr 02, 2020 |
This should be a case of, how to get a job, work, earn money and stop being a leach to a hard working young man.
Nonsense 9 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by 989900: 10:27am On Apr 02, 2020 |
jayson87:
[s]This is pure arrant nonsense.
You go single till christ comes with this yeye assertion[/s] |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by mixter(m): 10:27am On Apr 02, 2020 |
He giving you his account for you to transfer back to him isn’t tha bad cos you said you would. However, the idea of your bf not getting you stuffs or gifts is not a good indicator considering the fact you guys have been dating for years. Except you are just exaggerating the issue . How about your birthdays? Or maybe you guys dating anniversary or something? Well, what do I know sef  1 Like |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by 0taPiaPia(m): 10:28am On Apr 02, 2020 |
tabithababy:
Op, I beg you , forget the guy
Or prepare to feed him, his kids, his family and side chicks from your own money
He keeps seeing you as a fo'ool.... Am very sure you are giving him free sex, money, food and even calling him with your money
Loove ooooo Please what is free sex  |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by RaptObserver: 10:28am On Apr 02, 2020 |
No big deal here. For a man to travel from Lagos to Osun state to see you often is enough sacrifice. Sex can be obtained almost freely in Lagos with more sweet babes but he travels to see you in Osun, what else do you need to be convinced he loves you? Don't allow people mislead you. 22 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by SammyChi1988: 10:28am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Please, leave him... His just using you. His stingy and wicked. I think his keeping another lady... |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by nairalanduseles: 10:28am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:
I really don’t lyk going out..But I don’t know how some1 will travel from Lagos to Osun without buying common bread Always expecting ... It cost money to travel The gesture alone is enough But greedy lazy girl always expecting 16 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by timmybabyface: 10:28am On Apr 02, 2020 |
You better ruin ! You will never enjoy any relationship with such man lol 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:28am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.
I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.
There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.
I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.
The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.
On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.
My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.
Pls no insults, just advice. You are dating a dusty. Dusty loves independent women. My sister, run it will end in tears |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by luvmijeje(f): 10:28am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Op, you have to sit and discuss it with him. He may not even know what he is doing is wrong. Talk with him. Tell him about your doubt and fears. If you don't trash it out now, you are about to build your marriage on a sand. Cheers. 1 Like |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Humility017(m): 10:29am On Apr 02, 2020 |
eni4real:
Are they married??
Why should he be playing a husband or Fatherly role now?? if he can't give her a penny now when married he won't do either. what you can't tolerate in marriage don't take it in your relationship. don't understand why you guys are defending this...dude is stingy and it is not for marriage. 3 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by 0taPiaPia(m): 10:29am On Apr 02, 2020 |
chigoizie7:
This should be a case of, how to get a job, work, earn money and stop being a leach to a hard working young man.
Nonsense Did you read the story by the op ? 2 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by bonnyhope: 10:29am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.
I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.
There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.
I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.
The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.
On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.
My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.
Pls no insults, just advice. You are a very unique girl I have never come across a lady like you. A lady who doesn't demand and the same time is also ready to spend her own even on her guy You are entirely different from other naija girls 4 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by nairalanduseles: 10:29am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Auntyesther:
If he isn't spending on you now be calm he is saving money to come marry you... This is what the egocentric alpha males and the wife materials on social media are going to tell you. But ma, if you can cope with that character in future then keep up with him if not, give him the marching order! U need to travel Only gold diggers think like u 8 Likes |
| Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by timmybabyface: 10:30am On Apr 02, 2020 |
nairalanduseles:
Always expecting ...
It cost money to travel
The gesture alone is enough
But greedy lazy girl always expecting You sound like a broke nigga ! Is there anything bad in buying stuff when visiting your partner or take good care of her when needed !! 3 Likes |
