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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 10:37am On Apr 02, 2020 |
tabithababy: @bolded, What do you mean by that - is he supposed to be paying for sex, ain't they both enjoying it? Nonsense & buratai ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by BluntTheApostle(m): 10:37am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: That he works doesn't mean that he is a millionaire who can afford to let 5k go just like that. Have you bothered to check how much he earns per month, and how much he spends on transport fare, house rents, and miscellaneous items? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by ChiefRocker(m): 10:38am On Apr 02, 2020 |
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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by stanisbaratheon: 10:38am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Nature is not fair at all on the male folks. A guy can date a lady and spend on her on a regular without complaining even for a day. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by nairalanduseles: 10:38am On Apr 02, 2020 |
0taPiaPia: Nope it is his It's not right to have that mentality If my girl ask for 20 dollars and I give her She will pay back It's just the way it should be 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by ussy09(m): 10:38am On Apr 02, 2020 |
tabithababy:My brother love is blind ![]() ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:39am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:My dear Sister discuss the issue with him. Tell him about the things you feel uncomfortable with about the relationship. We are from different homes you know, he might be the type that does not like carrying too much loads. His response should guide you to your next step of action. And such attitude is typical of women. Did he travel from Lagos to Osun via his personal car or commercial vehicle? 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Mccullum: 10:39am On Apr 02, 2020 |
I think you systematically made the guy who he is to you, you failed to apply the training of letting him to know that man must be responsible for the needs of a woman by asking him money as if you you are in insufficient fund situation, he may be stingy though, it is should be noted that you encourage that greediness in him. SUGGESTION Before making decisive action, adjust your attitude with him by asking for assistance - financially and morally, that is by requesting for money in a systemic way, morally by pretending as you are ill and needs his attention and financial support in a pleasant manner, by counting like five cases of the drama, his response will expose his true picture to you either it's your way of relating with him causes his greediness or not, after discovering his character according to your own sense of justification, you can arrived at your final decision either to continue with as your permanent partner or part ways. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Austineva(m): 10:39am On Apr 02, 2020 |
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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Idzitari1(m): 10:39am On Apr 02, 2020 |
The earlier the better, run for dear life or else u will end up regretting |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by cr7lomo: 10:39am On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: Please how is he stingy?? I don't know the kind of mentality and re.tartded brains most of u naija girls portray... U asked for him to borrow u money, and u give him bk and u get angry... Has he ever demanded for money from her?? That is the question... We men have been doing this from time memorial and we don't complain.. she earns and he earns, what is her business with his funds when she is not his wife... Was she expecting him to provide for his visits ...OK , will she b the one to provide for drinks and food if she visits him?? The problem is that most if u Nigerian girls have never visited abroad...it's easy to know una type... Visit me, I pay...visit u,u pay...that is the he way foreigners do...unless ur partner decides to pay... Foreigners hardly buy gifts for their partners... companionship and loyalty is all they need ... Not weather u spend money or not... 6 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by James4bright(m): 10:39am On Apr 02, 2020 |
tabithababy: So to you sex should be purchased with money? Prostitutes sha. 4 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by pocohantas(f): 10:39am On Apr 02, 2020 |
nairalanduseles: Awww. Some of you are just human dildos. I have a friend with this same mindset. She was housing one fckboy in PH the last time I checked. God forbid I fall for that mind-game from men. Same men that expect you to cook, be submissive, have a womb, birth healthy babies, respect his whole family, take them as yours, maybe before yours sef, tend to him when he eventually begins to pack up- they always pack up first...etc Companionship kill you there! You be puppy? 5 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by psalmuelwater(m): 10:40am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:I don't really like buying stuffs on the road while travelling, so i can travel from lagos to borno and not buy anything. My parents and everyone around me know this. That shouldn't be a standard to know if he is stingy. How many years have you been together? How come he has never given you 10naira, is that even possible? 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Junkelie: 10:40am On Apr 02, 2020 |
It could be a test. Meanwhile you promised to transfer back the money, thank God you kept to it. If stingyness is the only problem he has, he doesn't cheat on you, then you got nothing to worry about. He will take good care of you when he eventually marries you 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by pmoye(m): 10:40am On Apr 02, 2020 |
As long as I do not support ladies seeing guys as ATM, I also can't stand guys who take advantage of ladies who care for them. Relationship should be give-and-take, and by that I do not mean money. There must be something a babe is contributing to my life for me to spoil her silly. And the moment I see that the lady only wants to use me as her ATM, I will immediately lock up. And it doesn't matter if it is 1,000 naira or 1,000,000 naira she is asking me for. From experience, a man is only as good as being a source of cash. And the moment you stop don't that, the babe is leaving you for sure. So, I don't even start it in the first place. The same goes for a guy. If a guy only takes from a babe without giving back he is never going to change. You can quote me on this one. So it is better you spare yourself the needless investment and move on with your life. You are only as good as the things he benefits from you. And from the way you painted it it seems as if you're the one forcing the relationship. Don't force it, it will always end in tears. Money should not be the foundation of relationship or friendship, but it can be the end of it. I'm sorry about your experience. And I am sure the dude too will have a thing or two to say about it if we are able to ask him. mharyamikeola92: 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by iPOOPinURmouth: 10:40am On Apr 02, 2020 |
if he never asked you for cash why complain. when did boyfriend become atm. i give girls money not because i am compelled to do so, i just give because they need it. if i notice u dont need it why should i give u ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 10:40am On Apr 02, 2020 |
DonEd: Have you got another man for her or will you be prepared to marry her if she finds it difficult to get an ideal partner? I wonder if you guys think b4 y'all open your mouths for some nauseating opinions. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by jaxxy(m): 10:41am On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: I prefer a partner who can live perfectly without me bt choses not to. Doesn’t mean I’m useless tho ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by ojuu4u(m): 10:41am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:at least you yourself see the red flag clearly, its visible even to blind. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by BarrElChapo(m): 10:41am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by pocohantas(f): 10:41am On Apr 02, 2020 |
cr7lomo: Oya, go and marry from abroad na. Why are you people coming home to marry? C’mon shut up. Silly set of sex dolls They don’t give anything, but they want everything. Abroad kor, overseas ni. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by 0taPiaPia(m): 10:42am On Apr 02, 2020 |
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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by ifyy07(m): 10:42am On Apr 02, 2020 |
That guy is an og one create of beer for him wherever he is....op why in the first place will you try to deceive the guy into paying the bills when you told him you are going to return the money....you lot are so manipulative. You don't deserve him....next time be honest 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:42am On Apr 02, 2020 |
He thinks like I do. Why spend any money at all on a woman who can decide to leave you early tomorrow morning because one of her exes came back from his drug runs in Malaysia and she thinks he is a better prospect? Will I get a refund? The first cash outlay that any man should make on any woman not his mother is her bride price. It is only after that, that the man is duty bound to shoulder all the home expenses. 11 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Anubiri(m): 10:43am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by pocohantas(f): 10:43am On Apr 02, 2020 |
jaxxy: You probably missed the implicit meaning of that statement. It means, you should give value to your partner. If you don’t and they learn to do it themselves, maybe outsource it... You are useless. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Kayfowobaf(m): 10:43am On Apr 02, 2020 |
My sister the basic essence of love is to give, even the bible says it better. For God so loved the world that he gave... Emphasis on the word loved and gave. A relationship that claims there is love, and there is no giving between the two parties, it is joking relationship. If you don't give your time(attention etc), give respect, and giving(monetary, helping etc) in any relationship abeg japa!! He won't be able to change when you finally get married. Run for ya life, my two cent advice. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:43am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: I know these kind of men wella. Run for ur life. Or live wit him for the rest of ur life, but bear in mind that u will always take care of urself and possibly ur children for the rest of ur life. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Sammy011(m): 10:44am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Most people have spoken the truth here and I agree with few of them. Since this is not a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, I will ask these few questions: Do you guys communicate well? Do you think he loves you? Hope you are not desperate in getting married and you showing him your desperacy by being acting a nice lady? Have you visited him before? |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by nairalanduseles: 10:44am On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: You are so rude and disrespectful You can never attract any man You will only attract your kind You sound very bitter and frustrated Shoe get size Me and you can never be in the same category You stink 12 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by stello(f): 10:44am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Ishilove: You nailed it �� |
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