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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 11:18am On Apr 02, 2020 |
stanisbaratheon: Most of these girls are fvckn stingy...I mean self-centred. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by frankputer: 11:18am On Apr 02, 2020 |
kazeeyoung: OP This is a sensible advice to take if you really like him and want things to turn around and work out for good. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Peterpanny: 11:19am On Apr 02, 2020 |
OrestesDante:both her back and her nyach don touch ground proper proper.
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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by atheistandproud(m): 11:20am On Apr 02, 2020 |
omooba969: Oh what a wicked world my brother. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Freelane33(m): 11:20am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Hmmmmm LAMBA . How many girls have you married within 3 months since you’ve been asking babes out on here ? Bros no one is marrying anyone we are all assholes . Our girl friends or wife to be are somewhere doing their masters . Let’s keep telling this girls the real truth that we just wanna get under dia pants ,I can’t marry anyone online , we can only Bleep and get the best of ourselves yommen: |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:20am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Arsenate:. You are not sound enough to know what my girl stand for.Dear of all the beauty queen I have ever dated, I will choose Funmisticqueen a million times. Then again I like you to post picture of your girl, Bring her to discussion here on nairaland, let see how beautiful and high value your woman is. We will gladly introduce any topic of discussion then let see her inputs. Let Nairalandler be the judge. If you can't take this challenge then know you are a dog and you are not fit to Grace the ground my girl walk. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Evercurious(f): 11:20am On Apr 02, 2020 |
omooba969: My dear anyhow you see it, for me I have come to realize this BITTER TRUTH.. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by tabithaola(f): 11:21am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: Babe, run for your dear life. That's a good digger there. You'll curse the day you met him if you mistakenly settle for such a guy. They don't give and they are always all out to milk you dry. He'll get worse after marriage and you may need to play the financial role of both parents to your children. The part that'll pain you the most is when your mum comes for omugwo and he fails to see the need to appreciate the innocent woman who left her all to do omugwo. Run from any man that hardly give to people. Run ooooo coz its better imagined than experienced. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by pocohantas(f): 11:21am On Apr 02, 2020 |
cr7lomo: Odiegwu. Na people wey no know una dey follow una mouth. Naija guy dey love? Toor! |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Millenniumlady(f): 11:21am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Even if you have a well paying job he needs to be giving you monthly income to take care of your needs and he should at least buy you some wears or shoes when coming it's the responsibility of a man to do this things i love and respect a guy that spend on me and pamper me.......The truth is....i can never take a guy who don't spend on me serious and I'll block his every access to me.......I'm just saying my mind 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by lahizak: 11:22am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:I saw the topic and i was ready to attack u, when i read the part that u said u are working, i wanted to tear u apart, naturally, I hate girls laying claim to their guy's money when they can afford theirs. However, after reading all the story, i realized, if truly wat u said is true, den u dating one selfish son of a bitch and u should run. A man that cannot take care of his lady when he can afford it is a bitch ass man. My advice to u is to run, if he is not taking care of you now that he is trying hard to win ur love and affection, he wont bother to do it when yall are married. My dear, japa 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by stanisbaratheon: 11:22am On Apr 02, 2020 |
omooba969: They think the world owe them. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:22am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Humility017:Financial responsibility because they are legally married?? My younger sister will not be foolish enough to narrate such story to me!! I will scold her!!! What is she doing with her Salary... How many times has she bought a gift for his guy , I am not talking about Boxers o !! You have to be generous too.. That will leave your partner with no option than to reciprocate!! Yes, anyone can set the example. It is an act!!! Bride price loading tho.... 4 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Kingininge(m): 11:22am On Apr 02, 2020 |
nairalanduseles: A man's presence is more expensive than gifts.... Some women are begging their partners to come and spend time with them ..... On so many occasion, my female friend's virtually beg to have me spend a weekend with them,......That alone is more important to them than gifts! 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Brunicekid(m): 11:22am On Apr 02, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:Waowwww 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:22am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Lol he might not be stingy,may be you caused it... he brought Agege bread you left it for him to eat alone...so he might have felt you dont need his money nah...so learn to appreciate the gift wheather big or small. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Mckandre(m): 11:23am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Vega100:they re already getting punished with their monthly cramps 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Bewiseedet(m): 11:23am On Apr 02, 2020 |
tabithababy:gerad da here. No cum spoil business give us oo |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by King44(m): 11:24am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:I agree he might be a lil bit stingy, talk to him about it and let him know you can't settle down with him if he persist, tell him to ease up a bit. But come o u asked him to lend you some money not give, he is meant to collect it back if na me be the guy I go ask fa I am sorry that is not stinginess |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:24am On Apr 02, 2020 |
[quote author=mharyamikeola92 post=86131151][/quote] I hope you have plan B dating already? |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Tuncole0012(m): 11:26am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Hmmmm Baby, you have been dating him for years ? Have you ever tried to ask him something directly before, you are his Girlfriend, try to ask him maybe 6k or 8k, dont ask him for 5k because he might think, you want to collect your money back, try to ask him and let know his reply first then from there you can know which path to take. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Bamz(m): 11:27am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Firstorderwizard: mharyamikeola92, jaxxy and miketayo made very important contributions. You should sit down and understand your man, and most of all communicate. Just like the comment above, I come from a background where I have to be disciplined with spending so I only get things for my girl when absolutely necessary, during occasions or when she requests (which isn't often because she's not like the lot). Does that make me stingy? You should have 100% responsibility mentality when it comes to relationships. Think about it this way, am I doing my best to make my relationship thrive without expecting anything in return? Or at the sight of any slight inconvenience, am I quick to put the blame on the other person? The 100% responsibility mentality ensures that you're doing the best to ensure your relationship thrives unconditionally. There's a reason you brought this to social media and everyone wants you to dump him already. That's very convenient if you ask me but in life each challenge that we have is a gift and it makes us better. I'm a millenial, but sometimes I like to think like an elder. This experience should teach you a lot about yourself. Do you feel entitled? Do you keep to your word (of paying back your debt)? Not buying something for you when he came to visit may have been for some reason and you could have jokingly found out about that, he's your man for goodness sakes, or better still encourage him to get you stuff when he comes around. He's your man, that won't hurt. If nothing I typed up there makes any sense to you and you don't think you have the patience to work things out, by all means, do whatever that makes you happy. I believe everyone deserves happiness, whether it's based on material things or otherwise. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by kingsmaila(m): 11:28am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Do not settle for a stingy man or else you will for ever regret marrying him. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by King44(m): 11:29am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:monthly income ko concoction ni, guys if you have a girl with this mentality japa she is not worth the stress |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by YouareaBITCH(f): 11:29am On Apr 02, 2020 |
A man doesn’t need to spend too much on u to show he loves you. But any man who doesn’t at least try to do basic things for u without asking won’t make a good father. Walk away from that relationship not cuz of u but for ur children 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 11:30am On Apr 02, 2020 |
atheistandproud: A girl I once dated gave me boxers on a valentine's day while I bought her an expensive Swarovski bracelet adorned with precious stones + Rose flowers (her favourite) + Belgian chocolate. I had a rethink about her that night but I didn't let it hinder the flow(night out). I bounced the following month bro...No time! |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by oblaak(m): 11:30am On Apr 02, 2020 |
tabithababy:Just look at your mouth. What do you mean by ‘giving him free sex’? Is sex now something people pay for or don’t they both enjoy the sex? I wonder why you ladies attach such importance to sex. What is in it that he should beg for it? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:31am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Humility017:if this is the only advice you pick then congrats otherwise sorry |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Millenniumlady(f): 11:31am On Apr 02, 2020 |
King44:So you mean you can't take care of the needs of your girlfriend 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by BluntBlunt: 11:31am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: My advice is for you to dump him. Quietly distance yourself. It's in a mans nature to care for his woman. He is probably spending his money elsewhere. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Counselor123: 11:31am On Apr 02, 2020 |
When a lady tries to give an impression that they are independent and the guy takes it to the next level...frustration is the end result. Discuss with your man and never give an impression that you are miss independent. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:31am On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: All I was saying is that the OP should be patient with the boyfriend. He is saving up for Bride price and real responsibilities that lie ahead as a would-be Husband!! Brothel?? God forbid!!! My point is that people change a lot after Marriage .. You, of all people, should know that some guys can do everything during dating phase but change as soon as Marriage is settled!! That he is spending now, does not automatically mean that he will be responsible in Marriage!! As long as the guy is loyal and good in other aspects of the relationship, the spending aspect will fix itself!! Bride Price loading tho..... |
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