I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy
Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.

When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

You're just punishing yourself

You know all her gimmicks and you're still falling for such. She still wants you wrapped around her fingers,probably for financial gains or backup who knows

@op... She wan begin to press ur mumu button... Give her red card because na backup she wan take u to be incase the main guy fuckup..

vizkiz:
Tell her to stop calling you for a while. Let her see reasons why you are making this decision

I have ever done that, but she will still call

Since she is on and off, block her and delete her number ASAP! So move on

My guys don advice you

As pikin wey you be, woman go still control you again

she is emotionally playing...

instead of you to block her number and move on with your life u wasted good three years hoping and waiting on someone who is already probably married.she is just using you to trip her own ego.Is it the size of her ass or boobs dat cant make u move on? move on and get a girl who is sexier than her.do that and u will forget she even exist.stop allowing a girl to use u trip her ego.

Am feeling sick. Need to rest my head

She calling you does not stop you from loving someone else. I really don't see the problem here

she should have been blocked the minute she said she had a bf...

Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Pussy asss niggarrrs everywhere
I dey shame for you Bros op....

As she dey use you do spare tyre incase the main tyre bust

Why not be a real niggarrr and bang her asss shaperly and move on
Bros op if you nor fit bang her ass now then just pretend to love her and wait and pray make her main tyre bust immediately the main tire bust then she will be vulnerable..take advantage and bang her asss then move on and block her.
Nonsense..all these small small girls go dey form smart.. imagine dey use our niggarrr take dey do spare tyre

If you want my honest advice,then you should dump her.

She is most likely keeping you as an option. To clarify, she probably has another boyfriend elsewhere but wants you as a backup plan.

The fact that you did this for three years baffles me

@OP you should ask yourself if you want to be her second option instead of asking us. If your answer is no, then you should message her and tell her you're done with the relationship. But if you want you can still be her option in Case she changes her mind.

Hope this helped

No, just blank her in terms of emotion and whenever she calls dont go beyond the hello, how are you doing line.

@OP this ur matter is just like someone who is addicted to smoking that wants to stop the act but Once he or she sees rizzla,the urge to smoke go come

Hmmmmm...

The immaturity of the guy who created this thread is astounding. You want to block her because she's calling to check on you. Probably, To avoid bad blood between both of you after she turned you down.

I actually feel you're pained and just looking for a way to cowardly fight it by avoiding her. You have feelings for her but you're just vengeful and think blocking her is the best way to go about your predicament.

Fam, step up. Keep the line of communication free from bad vibes. She isn't your enemy. She clinging to her guy but checking up on you after hurting you shows the kind lady she is... Sensible...

And one more thing: Move the Bleep on. Life isn't static. You shouldn't be.

You need to attend a SIMPosium, this SIMPle act will stop you from being such a SIMP in this life.

Wisdom is profitable to direct

I don't know why some guys in this our generation are something else. How could allow a girl to control you like this. And people like u are the boostful type onto woman matter. U are just a weakling simple. And I'm sorry for u bcs u people like u always end up with the bad partner. I have somebody like op, all he does is dancing to the girl's tune.

Hmm

The demon inside her is tormenting you bro

Better let her go now, to avoid entanglement in the future..
She has some dude that she don't want to let go off yet..

the speed at which i discard such people ehn....e pass plague.
they can be very manipulative.

OP, just consciously annoy her......do it continuously until she gets the message.

Guys who ask another guy's woman out are just so disgusting

For God's sake, there are millions of girls out there

What does she have or can do that other girls can't?

Bro,,, because you guys did not date,does not mean you should be enemies.No be fight ..The earlier guys realise that it's not every female you must date,some can be just friends..Just my opinion tho

BLACKlist is an understatement. "ROYGBIV list" her.

Most of them don't know what they want. She is just keeping you "just in case" menopause wants to call.