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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by NoraPibowei(f): 11:31am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Pls break up with him,he's using u,he's similar to my cousin's ex,is that guy fair in complexion? |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by BluntBlunt: 11:32am On Apr 02, 2020 |
oblaak: It is men who attach importance to it bro. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:32am On Apr 02, 2020 |
tabithababy:hmmm there is imbalance here |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Princesscutes1(f): 11:33am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Better leave that guy. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Mozegee: 11:33am On Apr 02, 2020 |
My sister u better pick race,I am a man,any man who is stingy to the extent of what u wrote here is not a man. He is a kind of man who will not contribute anything when you guys get married.And come to think of it,any guy who do not spend as u guys are still dating, despite that he is working will be a night mere to u when you are married to him |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by babatee90(m): 11:34am On Apr 02, 2020 |
You need to dump him ASAP...love is putting someone else’s need before yours...and this you’ve done but you don’t get the same from him...he’s not the one for you love...your better off without him pls |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:34am On Apr 02, 2020 |
What if his stinginess is a by-product of circumstances? What if experience has taught him not to impress women with materials? What if... Not everybody understands feelings; some people only act when you make honest demand. It doesn't mean they are not caring - understanding matters. Not everyone believes in material gifts to strengthen friendship; if you can't find or feel deeper bound, it's better not to venture too deep. I personally don't appreciate materials most especially when it is done to fulfill culture rather than on impulse. Take note, the moment you begin to feel exploited when people don't reciprocate your assumed generosity is a sign that you aren't capable of giving yet. People give gifts for different reasons, not necessarily out of love. So, don't be deceived by your generosity or by his stinginess; you may end up being the stingy one trying to appear as if you aren't (I'm just assuming). It's all about interest which is not the same in individuals. If you don't like his stingy attitude don't try to cope. If you want to cope with the hope that he will change someday, you are on your own. I have no intention of judging in case you detect such in any of my assertions; we all are learning as far as life is concerned. Good luck 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Gkemz: 11:34am On Apr 02, 2020 |
The reason most men are being conservative in giving to their girlfriends is due to lack of commitment, satisfaction and infidelity. When a guy suspects that his gf is cheating on him, he develops a cold feet in his love and caring. Believe me, all things being equal most men want to give to their babes but they need an assurance that their babe is committed to building a lasting relationship with them. Last but not the least, is value. What value are you adding to yourself and also to your partner. Are you the type that believes that being in relationship is a lucrative venture for a woman whereby the guy pays all the bill while you offer just sex in return. Giving a man sex is not adding value to his life. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by AuroraB(f): 11:35am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Omar09: ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by abodundef: 11:36am On Apr 02, 2020 |
God demonstrated His love to us by giving us His only priceless Son Jesus Christ. You cannot love without giving but you can give without much love just to fulfil all righteousness. Hope you guys are in godly relationship devoid of premarital sex. Is he born again? And you, are you? 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by temmyseun321(m): 11:37am On Apr 02, 2020 |
I'm sure this guy definitely will live his life without iota of sentiments |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 11:37am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Helju: What's wrong with feeding him? |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Millenniumlady(f): 11:37am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Firstorderwizard:I'm also an awaiting master student.....Just in case you want to have a plan b you know the deal ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by BlackSwan: 11:38am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Don't make the mistake of marrying him because he will also display this stinginess in marriage He isn't testing you, forget what guys here are saying. Run, run from him because people like him can be stingy to even their children. I made the mistake of marrying one, since we started having kids he has never gone out and come back with biscuit or juice or a small gift for our kids. Not to mention me the wife, that one na mission impossible. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Ozil25: 11:38am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Do you guys normally talk very well? Have you help him before when he was broke. Relationship is about helping each other not one person around |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by edoboy74(m): 11:38am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Yungsym: I was dating a lady back in Abj but whenever am going visiting I get food stuff and even take her out on a date [/quote] You killed everything with I WAS. No tell me how smart are you? |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by adewale6588(m): 11:39am On Apr 02, 2020 |
[quote author=mharyamikeola92 post=86131151][/quote] your matter tire me iswear. ijebu people are not stingy anymore... dey do faaji now |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by zexy2030(m): 11:39am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:There is nothing so confusing for a woman than dating a stingy broke guy with a good dick. The fault is from you, u r the one chasing, braze up and have some principles for yourself. It's like u r the last born. Your esteem has been battered that u fear to start a new relationship, he is likely to be a woman beater. what you need is learn how to manipulate, if a man doesn't invest cash on you, the truth is that he CAN'T marry you, the money is his heart, as ur pussy is ur own heart, he is just using u, u know women would love to marry who fvcks them most.. the real wife is doing youth service right now, u will soon get invitation card. Anyways let me advice you on what works to change his attitude to giving his money to you: 1. Quietly financially embarrass him where they are other girls, let him pay, promise to refund. Take him out intentionally, like u did for the 5k, to a very large eatery, intentionally forget ur purse, then call uber. Tell him sorry dear I forgot my purse, he should pay, u will refund him, if he says u should go back, come down and tell him, how much is this that u can't pay, come down then don't pick his calls again, be mean, don't pick his call. till he begins to call ur relations to beg you, don't pick his calls. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 11:40am On Apr 02, 2020 |
BlackSwan: Have you tried to communicate how you feel to him? I expect him to listen to you and make amends if he loves you really. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Freelane33(m): 11:40am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Do you have a bf? NoraPibowei: |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by quinox947: 11:40am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:Don't dump him so fast. I think its just his upbringing. The aspect of the 5k was an agreement you SOLELY made with him to borrow to buy those items mentioned. You borrowed and should pay. Remove all pride and ask him for something he can afford to test him and when he fails, then he is really stingy as speculated. A few percentage of men don't give until you ask. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Ussycool: 11:41am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Just lika a lady I met some months back. She is Fulani by tribe and my first trial with Fulani girls. Damn it, this girl is too demanding. Send me recharge cards, buy me data, buy me this and that. And she too stingy. I pledge not to mingle with stingy girls again. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by NaijaPurely: 11:41am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Have you asked him what he is going through financially. Maybe he is saving for something big. You can never tell. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Freelane33(m): 11:43am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Husband snatcher ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Millenniumlady: |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by executive12: 11:44am On Apr 02, 2020 |
You've been dating him for years ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 11:44am On Apr 02, 2020 |
zexy2030: Seems you never jam craze man wey get options ehn... ![]() Yeye dey smell !D |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by edoboy74(m): 11:45am On Apr 02, 2020 |
ElasticStone: You sound gay bruv or probably you don’t work for the money you spend. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Ladycewhy(f): 11:45am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:Do you need a prophet to come and tell you the guy is a stingy guy? Dey use your money dey cook for am for your house then still add your toto ontop for am as jara. Na penis dey hungry you. A shameless akagum who will shamelessly come to your house camp and eat food for free . Will ask your mother to drop money for food when she comes for amugwuo. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Freelane33(m): 11:45am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Do you have a bf ? Princesscutes1: |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by edoboy74(m): 11:48am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Hmmm Rocboy112: Girl friend is different from wife bro, chop small sense now, do you know how many guys are paying your girl friend’s bill? The guy probably chose not to be a zombie �♀️ |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by libertyfather(m): 11:48am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: If this is it, please look else where , theres way we appreciate ladies for not asking anything from us and still she's loving.....There's something called suprise |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by opedaydydx9(m): 11:48am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:does he take you out? |
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