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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by class0247: 12:19pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
[size=12pt]My Dear to get a man now is very difficult oh. Especially if you live in Lagos. Most men now see every girl in Lagos as runs girl. There are girls approaching menopause without a serious man in their life and are very lonely especially the working class one. Issue like this are not discussed and girls are shy to come out and talk about it. A lot in their mid 30s are really facing this problem. Back to your question. If you dump him be rest assure that in less than 2 months, he will find another girl. Communication is very important, you should be able to tell him things you feel he is not doing right and when he refuse to change then you can decide Don’t just focus only on the financial side, does he have other good side? Be wise and treat this issue with sense [12pt size] 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas:queen poco how you doing today ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by pocohantas(f): 12:20pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
foleskay: Na you go tell me not to marry me? We would marry and he must bring the money. EOD. BLUELemon: I am fine. Giving alfa males heart attack. BLUELemon: No vex, but my own done finish. Someone else can see this and come through. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by XshegzzyeeiX: 12:20pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by mechanics(m): 12:20pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Nothing to worry about, he's trying to be careful not to show that money is everything in a relationship. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Vicktomaniaa(m): 12:21pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Better still pick out time and tell him you've been fired from wrk see how he comes in.. Let it that time you'll invite him over hopefully see how things wrk if he'll come out or change |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by webizone(m): 12:21pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
I have just been reading this and I understand the feelings of the OP even say I be guy. But, the thing wey dey pain me pass is that this is the same feeling guys get from girls they are supposedly dating. After all the shawarma, beer, nkwobi, isi ewu. Common kiss, no way. Allow make guy at least dey handle breast nah, never. You go think say na till marriage she dey wait. When you don marry finally, somebody dey wey no fit Bleep him very beautiful wife two times per year. Some ma na only honeymoon Bleep produce the children wey dey the marriage. And yet many women go about the relationship without seeing anything wrong with it. Me bah, I can't do pass myself. If I no dey feel you physically and emotionally, I no fit marry you. Even dating sef, na audio alert you go dey get. I don talk my own finish. Meanwhile, there are so many simp guys on nairaland. Chineke meee. 4 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by pocohantas(f): 12:25pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
dominique: Lmao. She is really doing well. ![]() ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by foleskay(m): 12:25pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Lol.. If he's offering his dick, what can you offer? Only your pvssy I guess |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by AkolagTech: 12:25pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:Chai!! Inside life! See this life eh... I think there should be a kind of configuration oo. God should do something about matching people. More often than not, the good/guys girls aren't very lucky with partners. Here I am begging my girlfriend to accept stuff from me, money inclusive. Infact... Life is not fair at all!! 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Evercurious(f): 12:26pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: And there goes one of your weaknesses.. 'I REALY DONT LIKE GOING OUT'.. My dear you have to LOVE going out.. He is capitalizing on that. Just get another admirer that comes visiting and you ll see a Horgan wrestling out his lungs just to keep you , 'HIS FARMLAND' glued to him. I speak from experience ooh |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by karnap(m): 12:27pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
"the last time he brought bread and he ended up eating it up by himself " that guy no get shame.such guys loves taking advantage of good lady,just be careful,forget those people telling you that he is saving money, be straight up with him,give him a demand, if he doesn't meet up let.him.out of your life. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Iziq(m): 12:27pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by LadySarah: 12:27pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Yungsym: ALOT of guys here dish out advice like they have no female relation. Visiting someone from faraway without coming with even 50 naira cashew nuts is somehow. Wo, leave everything they are forming here. Sometimes we get so calculatinv we loose genuine partners. Love is equal to giving. If you don't give who you love then your rshp is useless. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by water0101(m): 12:28pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
The man cannot change is already in his blood,so u re one to face ur music and continue to be hardworking for urself and the unborn if finally u settle down with him....what about if he is not stingy and always not available from one business trip to another.....so be wise and take a good decision...... Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by deeva1: 12:28pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Run for ur life ooo..The guy is a chronic stingy man 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Rozaytee: 12:28pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:no man is stingy its either he doesn't have or u aren't worth spending on at all... 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by wany(f): 12:28pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:God grant you more wisdom.loud it brother. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas:hahahhaha I don't want heart attack.. I bin miss your give away... Find something for me too my sister poco ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
DonEd:Flee to where? |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Torie8(f): 12:28pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Ishilove:Kai ur head dey there. Ororo dey ur head |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by edoboy74(m): 12:29pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Amaefuleteddy: I haven’t come across any lady so far that sided this guy at all, this shows how dependent and irresponsible you ladies are. No lady here can stand when her husband can no longer stand, I mean to say they can’t take responsibility of the family if the man is monetarily unstable, this is what they will go about mocking and casting their husbands around. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by LordShiva97(m): 12:29pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Humility017: story! |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by water0101(m): 12:31pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Take a good decision urself |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by LadySarah: 12:32pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
eni4real: You sound stupid. Stop exposing it. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 12:32pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
EmekaBlue: @bolded, It's their way - they can lie for Africa. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by edoboy74(m): 12:34pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
cr7lomo: Brov send your account details ASAP |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:Get a second job. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Sokosuji: 12:35pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Men are scarce .. And time is running out (if u get d drift).. Does he have any other known defects ? Like excessive drinking/smoking/womanising? Is he violent? Is he lazy and unambitious? These are the things u shd consider... Even if he is,and ur threshold tells u u can cope,my dear go ahead,marry your man,..settle down and contribute your best best to humanity.. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Bluntemperor: 12:38pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: my dear,i love your sincerity of purpose. pls,follow the rhythm like this: -May be he was not tutored in Marriage issues. -May be he wants you to react before he acts. Now sit him down and demand that he seems to be playing on you that with your relationship so far you doubts his sincerity and commitment to the relationship and that he is stingy.Tell him three times- times.let nobody appease you that he doesn't know what he is doing.ones a stingy man it will take Grace to change him.They only appear good when you are on bed!.Wait for his reaction for months to come . |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Munzy14(m): 12:38pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:Communicate with him, make him understand u are worried, Discuss this with him and get his opinion before u come to nairaland. I pity the advise u will get from here, especially from aging feminists here and single mothers, or confused f**k boys/men. They will confuse ur confusion, And majke u think they are in a perfect place, u are in a wrong place. Since u are planning future, talk to him. Go and visit him.
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