Stats: 3,186,885 members, 7,931,086 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 August 2024 at 04:02 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? (65803 Views)
Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend / Dating A Stingy Boyfriend/miser / My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (14) (15) (16) (17) (18) (19) (20) ... (22) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Ishilove: 1:21pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
ornicus:Kponkwem! ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by webizone(m): 1:22pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
See eh, I want to lay it pomp and plain. Just the same way a married lady laid it pomp and plain for me the day she asked me if I was ready to date. She first started by listing everything I could be buying for my would be girlfriend that I intend to marry, even though I knew she added some things to cheat for her female folk. But I listened carefully and I asked her, "what about her? What do I gain from being with her?" She said, "You must dey collect" as she opened her legs and pointed to her....betweens. Even, there I still knew she was cheating because, there should be more. I understood and thanked her. Me bah, I won't ask for your genitals when we're dating but touching touching and sometimes spend on me, you must do it if you want to enjoy dating me. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Ibechris2: 1:23pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
ElasticStone: Stingy indeed. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:23pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Jaubdu: Tips? So in your mind your gf is a prostitute who works to provide you with 'benefits' for tips? I thought you feminist types believed in equality, so why is it only the man that tips? And what is that benefit which the man derives from a relationship that the woman does not? She did not even give him his interstate tfare for God's sake. So who is stingy here? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
edoboy74:Chai if u be lawyer u go wicked o 1 Like
|
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Beey(f): 1:24pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:My sister, I don’t understand why you are here asking for advice.The handwriting is on the wall, only that you are turning a blind eye.Love & giving go hand in hand.The two are inseparable.Even when God loved the world, He gave His son. With that said , any relationship where one only takes & gives nothing in return, lacks commitment because the receiver has nothing to lose.Your job is not babying a grown man.If he stingy now, he’ll be stingy when married.If I were you, I’d run when I still have the chance. Run from every parasitic relationship.Stop playing host to human parasites.Otjerwise, foot the bills now & marriage will only give him the license to continue with his stinginess. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by OgogoroFreak(m): 1:26pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Jaruma! That's if that sh1t works thou |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by edoboy74(m): 1:26pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
LadySarah: You are still a bitter old spinster otherwise what is an old woman searching for in a topic like this ? |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Evercurious(f): 1:29pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
edoboy74: Small pikin dey really worry you.. Just go back to bed. Okay? |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 1:29pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: Lol ![]() ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by edoboy74(m): 1:31pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
ElasticStone: I don’t even know what to say to you anymore but sorry man. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by loshybab(m): 1:31pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
The stinginess of a guy should be measured in relation to his paycheck,financial commitment. He may not be as stingy as you claim. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by webizone(m): 1:32pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
edoboy74: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by elexjojo745(m): 1:33pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
You need a real guy like me Inbox me your number |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by edoboy74(m): 1:33pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Evercurious: Lols that’s how losers conclude. Go get a job my dear and take responsibility for once |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by scala101(m): 1:34pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: Why not discuss your relationship issue with him,ask him about his monthly pay,budgets and plan his responces will give you direction. i doubt if you'll get solution to your issues because here on nairaland, we have children operating surfisticated phones with empty brain. Ishilove:I beleive you are below age 22....Get sence and know that a good relationship cannot be built on revenge. what happened to communication |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by ecksplizit(m): 1:38pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
get a job. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by EmekaBlue(m): 1:39pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
omooba969:I swear |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Ishilove: 1:39pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
scala101:Sence? What's that? ![]() ![]() I'm actually 21 and a half, thank you very much! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Pearl05(f): 1:41pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
His kind of stinginess will leave rent, children sch fees, family feeding, car maintenance, utility Bill's for you to pay while he does God knows what with his money. You not just turn the bread winner but the bakery owner with him. First have a talk with him and give time if you see no changes, leave the relationship and move on. I once had such stingy fellow in my 3rd and final yr then. He will visit me in sch without even a packet of cabin biscuits and won't give me money to get for myself. I will tell him that I needed to make new hair and his response would be "alright". As I was travelling for NYSC, I cancelled that relationship for my mind and said to myself that am yet to find a boyfriend. He later called and told me that I should keep good account of my corper allowance because I will do account to him. I was beyond furious because my big brother that sponsored my schooling didn't say that to me but this fellow that can't send 200 card in peace without you calling him with at least 100 out of it. I just told him to face front as I had already done so long time ago. He was begging that I was the one that adviced him to be cautious in spending on irreverent things and grow his stock. I was not moved with his pleadings because once I close me mind on something that's the end. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
lol |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Olayetan(m): 1:43pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
OrestesDante: You still dey ask? |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by CeeManCollins(m): 1:43pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
You have a good job, ok I understand that. But you have to look out for the other things that compliments a man, find out what makes other ladies fail in their relationships and don’t forget communication is key in your case. If he has other qualities that most women admire then try and communicate with your man on the importance of gifts and spending no matter how little it is. Do not let people deceive you but in the real world relationships that truly lasts are those where the man truly don’t get to spend too much on their women unnecessarily, but him not spending at all is also a problem, so talk things out with him on the need to take up some responsibilities no matter how small. Do not be deceived. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by DJjayboy: 1:44pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
My sister, it's better you do a total lockdown on your relationship with him. Some guys are natural stingy. Someone that can not take care of his woman will never take care of his children. Relationship should be mutual. Be wise |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by bizhop01: 1:45pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
If you too give them they will name you MUGU, If you no too give they see you as stingy type, I dong tire for this life sef. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Olayetan(m): 1:46pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: You can't conclude yet, Some guys may not know what to do unless you ask them, maybe you should try put some responsibility on him and see if he will oblige. Start demanding for money for something important and not for lame things and see if he will do, then you can decide if he's stingy or not.. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Ademine1(m): 1:59pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Me I don't know why I dont meet people like you .... see if you break up am available oh . You dont need to bother. Am ready to know you and mingle |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 2:04pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Ademine1: Another fvck boy spotted. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by DonEd(m): 2:06pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
omooba969: Listen to urself speak. Would u rather she stays unhappy for the rest of her life? Cheap data dey cause serious problems for this country 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 2:06pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
bizhop01: ![]() It's their way - they always want MORE. ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Orlaoluwayimika(m): 2:08pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
olaniyilukman: That is one of the problems with rlships fear of what would happen. That was why I advised her to ve a heart to heart talk with him then watch him if he changes but if he doesn't, then the decision is her's if she would be able to cope. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 2:09pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
DonEd: Op didn't state that she's unhappy - she only expressed her concerns about not getting enough. Comprehension is your problem breh. ![]() |
(1) (2) (3) ... (14) (15) (16) (17) (18) (19) (20) ... (22) (Reply)
Please Is Such A Girl Worth Taking Serious "Snapshots Included" / Lady Sheds Tears On Facebook Over Her Inability To Land A Husband Before Dec. 4 / At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 60 |