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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by executive12: 11:48am On Apr 02, 2020 |
donstan18: Did you read the whole post, or you just picked up on that one incident? They have dated for years. In all those years, the only thing the guy has brought her is a loaf of bread, which he ended up eating up. The guy doesn't seem normal. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Millenniumlady(f): 11:48am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Freelane33:leave me alone |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Zinny25(f): 11:49am On Apr 02, 2020 |
j 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Glink2018(m): 11:49am On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: US and co. Have a lot of single ladies who have good exposure and are responsible. Not like Naija ladies who are just like a lion, looking for guys to devour. You asked about my foreign wife. My foreign girl will chat or call you if you can drop your contact. Local breed! 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by edoboy74(m): 11:50am On Apr 02, 2020 |
SammyChi1988: Na girls like you dey become spinster for life, I guess you are 40+ and still single 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by dominique(f): 11:50am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Don't worry he's testing you. He's testing how well you will be able to cope when he starts spending on frivolities and you'll be the one bearing all the family expenses. So far you're doing well, 250 yards of wife material. You think it's only him you're feeding now? You will soon start feeding his extended family and even girlfriends by the time he starts taking small loans from you to spend on them and won't repay you one Kobo. Don't ever make the mistake of thinking he will change after marriage, he will only get worse. Adorablemeee: This could be you in a few years time |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by duchaB(m): 11:51am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Ishilove: Tit for tat.. I am ashamed of you Ishi.. Is that how I trained you my wicked Child.. Smh.. All hope isn't lost... Its Well.. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by anonimi: 11:52am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Petyprincess: www.nairaland.com/attachments/4273539_fbimg1472991509128_jpega41416663f46d9694b9293059e01401c 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Freelane33(m): 11:52am On Apr 02, 2020 |
I’m not leaving you alone ![]() ![]() Millenniumlady: |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Amaefuleteddy: 11:53am On Apr 02, 2020 |
My dear find ur way o! You're dealing with a shameless man For you to demand for his Acc, he he gave it to you, means the fellow is foolish!!! Tufiakwa!!!! |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by princepalace: 11:53am On Apr 02, 2020 |
from what u said, you did not say the guy was cheating on you or he smokes or drinks alcohol. u didnt say the guy was a lazy person or he engages in shady business or act. u didnt say the guy is an atheist or he goes out with bad company. the only problem you are having with him is his failure to spend on, which makes u different from the stories u hear from your friends how their b/f spend on them. My dear, dont leave him, thank God u said u r gainfully employed. May be God is preparing you for the future when u eventually get married to him. mark my words, this experience of urs is a blessing in disguise. the guy has no choice, he will change or rather will improve as time goes on even when u pple get married. dont stop, keep doing what is best from u to him. every lady has her own story to tell. this is yours, manage it. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Clinghton: 11:53am On Apr 02, 2020 |
It's bad as a guy visiting bae without buying anything, you just come empty handed , eat and go continuously. If you can talk to him about it do and make your decision. If you eventually marry him and he loses his job, his type won't bother looking for job, because he has someone who doesn't mind if he brings anything to the table. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Millenniumlady(f): 11:53am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Freelane33:Note.... i didn't snatch anyone's husband |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by kokomilala(m): 11:54am On Apr 02, 2020 |
I was going to say this is a typical Naija girl's phrase. But having read ur story, I understand you and position. Your boyfriend is ,for me,irresponsible and doesn't seem to know certain things.Giving in a relationship is a two-way thing,not one-sided.Talk to him about it.In short,tell him. bluntly that he's stingy.Then ,study him whether he changes. If he doesn't ,dump him like a worn out coat. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by cr7lomo: 11:54am On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: So Na naija girls de love?? Boys are becoming wiser now... Most girls are like soccer players...the moment they see interest from a bigger club...they Japa...then all money spent on her will go down the drains ... Wise men save money for future wives and not girlfriends... A lot of men destroyed their future cos they decided to show love to their gfs at one time only for the gf to dump him afterwards...men are wiser now... Y should I kill myself for one fool when ladies are littered everywhere like pure water... It's easier for a man to get a woman than for a woman to get a man ... 6 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by ochos121(m): 11:54am On Apr 02, 2020 |
That guy is not stingy anty, he is that type of guy that will only give whenever u ask fa! ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by grandstar(m): 11:54am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: Your guy may be the natural stingy type. . He won't change. He probably boasts to his friends that he has this 1 girlfriend that does not ask him for money. Next time he's coming, ask him to buy you a meatpie. We are generous to people we love because it makes them happy. We want to see them happy. It also makes the giver happy. Stinginess isn't a good trait as it will make you miserable. One of the joys of a marriage is each party spoiling the other. You give him a meal treat whenever he comes, that makes him happy. It won't be bad if he brings a Shoprite loaf of bread or 2kg of turkey wings. Such thoughtfulness lights up a marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Freelane33(m): 11:55am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Yes but you’re about to snatch one ![]() Millenniumlady: |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Jim99: 11:56am On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: Lol u still dey sleep, wen u wake up e go don too late I have a clique of friends, all married to pretty young white ladies. All happily married. Not to mention of several others I've seen. Black men are like gold to white women. You know why? We know how to treat our women right. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by edoboy74(m): 11:56am On Apr 02, 2020 |
timmybabyface: Another spinster in the making if not a long time OG in the spinster game... she is a devil advocate, run away from such girl she is evil 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by zexy2030(m): 11:56am On Apr 02, 2020 |
omooba969:that's the problem, ladies, be confident about urself, let him go, it will hurt u, but can't forget you. Have some dignity girl. You are not valued that's the game. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:57am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:has he fvck u? If no, that's why is still doing that. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by emmansus(f): 11:58am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Madam you already have one piss off of why the relationship is not the type you want and intend spending the rest of you with,so why ask question before you quite.my dear am a lady too,it is obvious there is one side of the relationship you are still enjoying which you are not telling us.madam no dey manage relationship what you can not treat with your spouse during courtship and dealth with it,it as good as quit.shikena. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Millenniumlady(f): 11:58am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Freelane33:He is a man not a kid and can make decisions for himself sometimes you have get tried of eating egusi and try okra |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:58am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Humility017:why? |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Igbins14(m): 11:58am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: See James 5:16 if you're a Christian. Discuss it with him and help him learn it. He might not see it to be anything. At a point in everyone's life, we have to learn, re-learn and unlearn. And then take your decision from his willingness to change. Here's not the place for the advice you're seeking. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by nextlevel2020: 11:58am On Apr 02, 2020 |
The truth must be said here. The relationship that would lead to fruition must be open ended from the outset. I am a man, but I am not in support of such parasitic attitude. If he's not working, that is different, but you said he has a job too. However, if you love him, sit him down and say to his face everything he's doing that you don't like. He may not even know that he's doing wrong thing. But, in the event that he refuses to change, then you need to seek for God's direction on next step to take. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Timblaze(m): 11:59am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Hmmm, if he is not generous towards u now that you are dating, with all ur shapes and figure still intact.,my sister dump him, because he will not change when u marry him, ���, |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Pat081: 12:00pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Hmmmm next thing is how can we met but remb sit at home is still going on any way she base in osun state i knw her she is a good gal lol just kidding op he thinks ur pay is more than his own so anytime he cums back do it no money no food for a lazy man u are nt a fool too Vega100: |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Freelane33(m): 12:00pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Ahahahah so you’re okro. Hmmmm I rest my case . To the bro In questioned , okro is very dangerous oooo Millenniumlady: |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 12:00pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: What do you say when a mistress out there does it better, thereby making the man look in her direction instead of his wife's...? |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
omooba969: If I can’t understand sarcasm...Abeg shift |
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