Bizibi:
That man don't know what he have.... some of us are tired of dating then one see this topic and begin to wonder where some unfortunate men meet such cool ladies.

Sh is cool cuz sh works..? Wait till u date her den sh unleased hell

The guy is not doing well...haba...see the rule is simple in a relationship if u are giving u shud be receiving too...And it is both ways...if you work and he works and u give him gifts then he should endeavor to give you gifts too...when visiting he should atleast buy something along even if no be your babe...even if na ordinary frd this is important...As for hosting him...u need not have the mindset that he has to pay for what he eats when u host him, that is a bad mindset...cos he isnt staying for ever...on your own part do the little u can to make the weekend fun...some smart women go even stick his best brand of drinks.....u need not tax him for that

He's not being stingy the way you see it !is just that you're not worth spending his money on that's what he believes !my dear you're the one in the relationship n as such know where it hot u most plz if u know u can't bear again my dear run coz even when u married you'll be the one feeding family coz thats his thinking

My dear this has bin my case o..the last guy i dated,didn't even make the mistake of buying even #100 recharge card for two years..I dont have a problem with that.
If u like something or someone,u mustn't give huge sums to prove it,at least on ur way to see the person,and u see something the person likes,say oranges as is my case, biko buy even #50
At some point I felt cos he was the last born,maybe he was used to receiving and not giving. So I started giving and even ask if he needed anything whenever am going to see him and becos will shamelessly write a long list of things amounting to huge sums and never reciprocated.
Omo I dumbed his ass... sorry for the long post.

mharyamikeola92:


I really don’t lyk going out..But I don’t know how some1 will travel from Lagos to Osun without buying common bread

He really travelled all the way from Lagos to osun state?

What's your take on gender equality

Hello! dear,

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pocohantas:


No be stingy boyfriend dey turn horseband?
More reason he should be dumped. Let him be together with his shadow.

Brother wey mumu.

hanty wey mumu.

u think say na every relationshp dey turn to marriage?

well , as a nairaland resident evening newspaper that you're , you lack the logical mind to differentiate between a husband & a boyfriend.

what a desperate cheap old cunt!

My dear run for your life ooo I wonder what your still waiting for, he won't change even if you marry him..

Its could be that he doesn't have enough, or he has but you are not worth spending on. But the truth be told, a man can not be so stingy to his love that he can't even afford bread while visiting. Men get it straight spending on your woman is part of showing love. I have spends on women I dated in the past dey just love me for dat even when we are not longer together. My immediate ex was a money bag, she refuse me spending on her..... me sef shock. She wan use money finish me (her father is loaded though), every outing we went she insist she is paying. we didn't dating long cos I was feeling less of a man.
If I'm not spending on you i don't think I can control u.....

Peterpanny:
both her back and her nyach don touch ground proper proper.

lets confirm from the OP!

colyx1:
Its could be that he doesn't have enough, or he has but you are not worth spending on. But the truth be told, a man can not be so stingy to his love that he can't even afford bread while visiting. Men get it straight spending on your woman is part of showing love. I have spends on women I dated in the past dey just love me for dat even when we are not longer together. My immediate ex was a money bag, she refuse me spending on her..... me sef shock. She wan use money finish me (her father is loaded though), every outing we went she insist she is paying. we didn't dating long cos I was feeling less of a man.
If I'm not spending on you i don't think I can control u.....

Looks like you change women like knickers...

You must be a striker - an OG!

I tell you, he is up to no good. And as long as he hovers around you, no well meaning man will come around you.

Simply tell him you don't see a future in this relationship and call it quits.

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

Millenniumlady:
[/b] Even if you have a well paying job he needs to be giving you monthly income to take care of your needs and he should at least buy you some wears or shoes when coming it's the responsibility of a man to do this things [b] i love and respect a guy that spend on me and pamper me.......The truth is....i can never take a guy who don't spend on me serious and I'll block his every access to me.......I'm just saying my mind

relationship is now a poverty alleviation scheme.


some broke lazy naija girls are showing their true self.


apart from the hoe between your legs , what else are you offering him?

bigpicture001:


Sh is cool cuz sh works..? Wait till u date her den sh unleased hell

and how did you know

I have dated real leeches so I know the terrible ones but I have seen cool and wonderful ladies who were friends with me but married now.

There are ladies that don't like asking for money but they just want that once in a while outing or some gifts even though they can foot the bill or buy one for themselves.though there are stingy ones but the good ones should not be taken for granted.

omooba969:


Looks like you change women like knickers...

You must be a striker - an OG!

Women problem too many, I nor dey like young girls...... na matured slim girls I dey like. Some dey find marriage and i never ready.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:



hanty wey mumu.

u think say na every relationshp dey turn to marriage?

Then stop crying when y’all get dumped.

Last last na to turn alfa males. Your cries will change nothing.

pocohantas:


Toor! The ones that attracted una, how far?

Nice girls like OP, forming non-materialistic. Naso una dey knack them heartbreak. Come call them fish brain.

Oga, we can’t o. Category that gives only companionship? Kuku turn to dog, make I put choker and chain dey drag you. Bingo!

Nkechi mouth nor go key u oohhhh ma Tommy wan burst like dis sooo! Banny your mouth sha! Na bazuka plus suicidal put 2gader.
Nor reason am, babe your moral high!

Real mata babe, if your mouth mind de like dis real life den u balm gonnn... dodorima 4 u dere... any niga wey nor like your vibe make him check the next door
nor be fight na relationship, las las who wan dey go dey

Bizibi:
and how did you know

Thats synanymous with young working ladies....unless sh is old...

Ladies only respects age...

Millenniumlady:
So you mean you can't take care of the needs of your girlfriend

pls how old are you?

i guess you are below 30

UA not modest in Ur analysis, how can U be in a relationship for years and d guy did not spend kobo on U? Simple put he spent meagre.

I CLASS coming to play in Ur relationship, perhaps u felt d guy is not meeting Ur financial obligation and UA in a CLASS of Ur own.

People define LOVE to suite them, if u truly love him tell him Ur observations, don't let ego enter Ur brains, something must make U fall in love with him then and who knows TOMORROW? What U earn today might be his tithe payment tomorrow.

I suspect d 5k u transferred back to him hurt U, Y can't U call his attention to his uncaring attitude and his responsibilities perhaps he might not know that he should care for U in spite of Ur status.

If he was a stingy guy, U won't date him for 2 months before U BEN JOHNSON but U dated for years.

My Opinion

pocohantas:


Then stop crying when y’all get dumped.

Last last na to turn alfa males. Your cries will change nothing.

who's crying? that should be the OP!
unless CRYING has another meaning

i dunno what you mean by alpha males!

mharyamikeola92:
.
Pls get serious

if I were you,I would marry him kiakia.a biRD in hand is worth 2 in the BUSh.as for me,I didnt waste time to make him mine at 24.im very SuBmissive and humble through God'sGRaCe.i like him perfectly with all his flaws.i think you have time to while away though.to each their own.if not you wont be here asking questions.

NoraPibowei:
Pls break up with him,he's using u,[/s]he's similar to my cousin's ex[s] HE'S SIMILAR TO MY EX ,is that guy fair in complexion?

FIXED

bigpicture001:


Thats synanymous with young working ladies....unless sh is old...

Ladies only respects age...

not all,there are some that can pay for a trip and foot the hotel bill.even buy an expensive gift....it doesn't matter the age.but you don't see those good type all the time.

Nn3muka:
You are dating an alfa male
Probably their leader on nairaland


Nne you are on your own

Please pardon my manners

There must be something good that this guy has done in the past that made you follow him but should incase you want to quit am available the love will be 50-50 do 4 me & I do for you

anonimi:




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Na kongified & pussified guys dey give them moral.

colyx1:


Women problem too many, I nor dey like young girls...... na matured slim girls I dey like. Some dey find marriage and i never ready.

@bolded,

I agree

MusaChukwudi:


Entitled lady, una go suffer en?

What makes me entitled? As for suffering, I send it back to sender.

mharyamikeola92:


I ave my own job and a well paying job..I don’t need a man to b dere financially but is there a big deal in a man buying gifts for some1 he claims to love not necessarily money

Stop contradicting yourself. You don’t need his money but you want his money to be used to buy gifts for you

edoboy74:


Guys have played ludo with your heart, eyah!

Dey run am beta street.

Bizibi:
not all,there are some that can pay for a trip and foot the hotel bill.even buy an expensive gift....it doesn't matter the age.but you don't see those good type all the time.

They do it as a one off...it it coms to twice nd more...u see thief color