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Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by nautybride: 1:39pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Ellipsoid: Bless you for that. @ Op, Let your fiancee excuse you for the moment. You can't, you enjoy free boot y. Anyways, I have no advise to give you but I need to talk sense into that lady of yours. She should back off you. You are bad market from the beginning. She has not married you and she is being stressed already. From one wahala to another is what she will experience because your mother is not in support. Before you know it, the whole of your family will gang up against her. It's better for her to stay on her own and rely on her creator if truly she has no one like you say. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:41pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Betakeshi: Doesn't mean you should be a foøl and let others run your life. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by nautybride: 1:42pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
dominique:Well said. She should run. |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by SweetCunt97(f): 1:48pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
If you dating a guy who's family hates you, kindly bad out o. I doubt this Op's fiancee will enjoy her marriage to d Op 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by SweetCunt97(f): 1:52pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Betakeshi:You honor parents who actually honor themselves. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by cococandy(f): 1:53pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
I hope your fiancé finds someone else. Marrying you will be a bad idea. Your mom is practicing self hate. Typical brainwashed self-hating african who exalts lighter skin over darker skin. Pitiable 11 Likes |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by ImaIma1(f): 2:11pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
The choice of a wife is yours and not your mum's. Off course advice can be taken from her but not when it is obviously irrelevant and flimsy. Your mum prefers fair ladies...is she the one marrying her? About the living arrangement, let your fiancee go somewhere else for now if she can. When your mum is tired and there's no one(your fiancee) to assist with housework, she will go. Know that whoever you marry...fair, dark, from the same village or not, your mother will still trying to cause trouble. So don't give her room to interfere |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by yvelchstores(f): 2:11pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
1) you should marry the girl before living permanently with her. 2) if your mother gave a valid reason for not liking your fiancee, I would have said, consider her opinion but to say she doesn't like your fiancee because she is dark skinned and "ugly", then your mother is shallow. Personally shallow people really annoy me. In conclusion, your mother's control will eventually frustrate you. Even if you don't end up marrying this girl, the next girl will face same challenges. If your mothers only reason of being against your marriage is because the girl is dark skinned and "won't birth beautiful children", then pls that is not a valid reason. I am not saying marry the girl, who am I to choose for you. Make up your mind and draw some lines. If you marry her, she becomes a legal occupant in the house, for now, she is illegal and you are sinning. All the best. |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by DBestDoc(f): 2:27pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
amanda2013: Hehehe, the girl get mind sha. Op eeh, you want to cause a very big problem for your lady. Asking your mum to leave NOW because of a girlfriend will be a very very bad idea and a grave mistake, please don’t. If you do, you’ll be starting a war for your fiancée that’ll eventually leave her burnt out in the end. The irony is that you’ll be exonerated while the babe will take the fall for it and everybody in your household will join in the operation kick the bi.tch out of our brother’s house campaign . If somehow they fail to succeed, she’ll still not be at peace with your family and no woman wants to go through that. Babe should go find some other place to stay ASAP. You need to let her go for the good of everyone in the picture. She can go back to her sister’s, I’m almost positive she won’t be kicked out, siblings fight and make up after all, but if this is far-fetched, she can go put up with her friends until the coast is clear. Your mum is there to chase the girl away and you must give her the illusion that she has succeeded for peace to return. Only when babe leaves will your mum leave that house and you should stop making things more complicated. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by bukatyne(f): 2:37pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Francis609: How your lady let your mother come to meet her in the house is puzzling. What does she mean by she has nowhere to stay? No family? Friends? Relatives? Nothing? See, one needs to give him/herself a great deal of self-respect to avoid certain issues. You better let her go where she wants to go. You need to draw boundaries for your family anyways. Until that lady becomes your Mrs., your mother is fine in your house. It is the lady that will find her cube root. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by properties4sale: 3:41pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
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Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by crackkhaus: 4:38pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Lol, girlfriend fighting mother of boyfriend for space. What insolence... |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by adedayoa2(f): 6:26pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Your fiance should leave, not your mum. And whenever you're ready to settle down, take her straight to your dad. I'm sure he'll approve. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by Nobody: 6:52pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
dominique:U beat me to it. I will thank my stars and run leaving my shoes behind. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by Nobody: 7:04pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Nothing insolence about this at all. Mum will torture that guy because of the sins of his father. She is overly possessive cos when she lost her husband, her first son automatically became her husband excluding the other side that's why she can manipulate the guy easily. If this woman has a capable man handling her after her divorce and is so deep into her, she will have no time for this and not be like this. Fiance already want to go and stay with friends. Look at all her excuses, she simply want her out and nobody will be ok except one she handpicked and can easily control. Another mum will be checking her out if she don carry belle and here she is trying to drive her away. She can open let her son enter so she can be happy. If u missed out in emotional happiness,don't be a stumbling block to others. Or better,Go and get yours. Parents or not. Na only she be mother? I know u guys love una mama so well but some mothers, oh heaven. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by Mizwisdom(f): 7:10pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Why are you camping a girl, having sex, committing abortion, and turning her to expired goods when you haven't married her? inside one room you still camp your mother, nephew and sexx mate together. Smh |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by crackkhaus: 9:10pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
sassysure:This is not even about the mother or the guy, they have their own problems. I'm only trying to figure out exactly what is going on inside the mind of the girl... Like, how is she even comfortable dragging space with the mother of a man she's not married to? If the guy's mother did not like her because of her complexion before, then this stupidity will definitely take it up a notch to hatred because she's claiming right in a place where she has absolutely none. |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by Nobody: 9:24pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Haba She is not dragging space na. Remember the mother was supposed to leave since. And she has accommodation problem. Besides bobo don't want her to go anywhere. She is his fiance for heaven's sake. Mother don't like her. Period. That's why she can't tolerate her. If that babe had a better choice since, she for don bolt cos she knew mum hates her. And I'm sure she is trying to woo her. As e no work, las las na to leave so peace go rain. If she leaves, she will weigh her option to continue or not. She didn't do wrong as her situation was dire. We Nigerian mothers take this motherhood as some special thing that accords us special rights. If na oyibo, she will inform her child before coming to visit and if him and his fiance didnt agree on her coming, that's the end of the matter o. Unnecessary interference in the lives of your children because u born them. Shuuu. Why can't u be happy for your child because he found happiness? I just hate that. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by crackkhaus: 9:25pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
sassysure:Ok oo, I hear you... |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by APCNig: 9:31pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Betakeshi: The Bible also said parents should not anger their children |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by Nobody: 9:34pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Better o Me, I no dey waste time, I don run be that Ben Johnson. I dey fear this type of mothers wella If the guy eventually marry me tomorrow, any misfortune the guy experience is my fault She need better man to handle her and she will never remember her son and fiance again |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by andyanders: 9:50pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Op, with your mother, you will never have a settled home even if she matchemakes you, you will find no peace of mind in any relationship. Her choice of a wife is not yours, and yours is not hers hence there will be problem for any lady that walks into your family as a wife. Your kind of mother is a contradiction to human history. She is the type that has ended up giving good and loving mothers out there, bad name. There are lots of loving good mother inlaws. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by crackkhaus: 9:55pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
sassysure:They will tell the man he was warned. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by Nobody: 5:44pm On Apr 07, 2020 |
crackkhaus: We told you syndrome. Chai Naija and In-Laws matter. I tire i swear. Me i no get time. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by Ishilove: 5:51pm On Apr 07, 2020 |
amanda2013:Francis609, listen to this advice. As long as you are not legally married to your girlfriend your mother has more right to be in your house than her. Kindly let her go and squat with her friend temporarily and afterwards can return after your mum has left the house. Don't ask your mum to leave. I REPEAT, don't ask your mum to leave because of your girlfriend otherwise there will never be peace between them. You stoop to conquer. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by Ishilove: 5:55pm On Apr 07, 2020 |
missimelda01:Were your eyes also blinded to where he wrote that she said she has friends she can squat with? |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by Nobody: 12:13am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Your mom might have seen something you don't know when we youngsters cut a tree in the bush those elders know where it's going to fall down to Just leave the girl Challenges may come up between you both during marriage your mom won't fill shit for you Because she will tell you about being warned from the start |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by nams77: 7:44am On Apr 08, 2020 |
amanda2013:Too much wisdom no go kill you my girl |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by frozen70(f): 4:28pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Francis609: At this stage, you have to be very careful about your mum She is seriously serious and you must e careful Pls allow your fiance to go and squat with her friends When she goes, reduce your spending at home to the extent that I'd she ask for money, tell her that your salary isn't enough for your transportation to work that since your girlfriend started dating you she has been the one assisting you and you saw her as a God sent and that the money you gave your sister for school fees she was the one that brought half of it, that she should endure and manage with you Don't allow her to manipulate your happiness |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by lilyheaven: 5:22pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
You know the reason your mom is still around is because she is still there ( fiancée) Allow her to go squat with friends for now. Until your mom leaves. In another note, why are you living with her? Next thing na, you two will start making babies, be careful ooo, go and pay her bride price. |
Re: How To Tell My Mum To Go Back To Her House Without Hurting Her Feelings by cooooooks(m): 5:31pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
If your mom loves in the same city and if you're not working due to the shutdown, you and your fiance could move to your mom's house. Since she has decided to take over your own house. Francis609: |
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