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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Goldcoen(m): 7:49am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Erediauwa:gbam atleast finale |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by phelog(m): 7:51am On Apr 08, 2020 |
It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.[/color][/b] I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint. A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him. Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford. I completely agree with you on this, giving should be voluntarily done without expectating nothing 1 Like |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 7:52am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Meeyankee:I can feed you and all your family members put together for life. Smally. I know you are so hungry and broke in this lockdown period, if you can humble yourself and beg, I can be of assistance. Pele |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Emjace(m): 7:52am On Apr 08, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:After the better caring guy, she will start aiming for a more better caring guy... Women with high demand never gets satisfied and once a man starts using money to secure a relationship with that lady, he will also use money (married) to keep her from divorcing him 3 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Aystarz: 7:53am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Uphand: This sex and money angle all the time. Is she a prostitute and you a customer? Some people need to sit down and define their yeye relationships to see how it sucks. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Victornezzar: 7:53am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Tpave:This is just the fact For the sanity of your health avoid female students |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Aystarz: 7:54am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Uphand: This sex and money angle all the time. Is she a prostitute and you a customer? Why have a girlfriend when half the time all you do with her is transactional sex? I thought we had prostitutes for that. Some people need to sit down and define their yeye relationship to see how it sucks. 1 Like |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by PapaAdanna: 7:55am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Toks2008: Well said I blame some guys that fall to the hungry Nigerian girls with their foolish sense of entitlement. You will see a girl from a very poor family making demands that even his father and all his uncle's put together can not provide it for her I blame the guys sha Trying hard to impress these bitches!(not all anyways, some work hard for their money) 2 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Cammo: 7:55am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Money begets love and sex. Take money away and the rest two will cease to exist. This is a global philosophy. |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Aystarz: 8:04am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Meeyankee: LOL This is like Daddy Freeze Vs Pastorpreneurs and sheeples. Don't expect the ladies to like this thread. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by DaddyGngeess(m): 8:08am On Apr 08, 2020 |
jaxxy: Yes I do that also 1 Like |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Ibrahiimo(m): 8:12am On Apr 08, 2020 |
wetin concern ME with WOMEN I can't remember giving any WOMAN money and why SHOULD I give a WOMAN money, for WHAT, ka gini mekwenu the only PERSON I can give MONEY is only my WIFE if YOU ain't my WIFE, I don't think I HAVE any BUSINESS to do with you Wetin Concern Me!!! 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 8:12am On Apr 08, 2020 |
yanabasee:Idiot dats not wat d writer Is trying to say, don't take it out of normal perception, he's simply advising pussy niggas like u not to impress ladies with money...Oponu. 1 Like |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by MadeMan01(m): 8:17am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Aystarz: The sad case is most Nigerian girls have nothing to offer in a relationship other than sex.that is why when argument like these happen, it's only sex they can bring up. Their peers in other countries will be arguing about what they countribute to the union like shared rent, upkeep,. sometimes I just disgusted 5 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Toseenlove: 8:17am On Apr 08, 2020 |
olamidarsenal: Someone needs to be extremely rigid and rugged when dealing with Nigerian Females. Their OT Is out of this world. Most Nigerian Males & Females are too stupid and backward In thinking for my liking....The way I Ignore ladies these days no be here. Too many blue, green, purple lights here and there but me I no send. If you can't be bold enough to come closer or walk up to me, You can go to hell with your useless fake lights. Ever since I've had a Classified Insights Into what Nigeria Relationships entails. My OT changed straight, That's about 8 years ago or something. Recently there Is this beautiful lady In my neighborhood who had to ask a close female friend of mine, How she got so close to me, That I like to Ignore a lot. She told me she just smiled and told her, I'm a simple person but I hate shakara and nonsense..... She told me the girl wants to have my digits, Perhaps If she should give It to her, I told her not yet, I will think about It.... 7 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Sermwell(m): 8:18am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Erediauwa:mumu!! so you have to sell your fathers land to pay for abortion?? |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by 2FlowZ(m): 8:18am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Bro, like olamide said.. No matter how much or the expensive gifts you gif a woman they will still Bleep her.... Giving her money on every demand makes her vulnerable to Bleep boys, but a woman who works for her money is less vulnerable 4 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by BluntTheApostle(m): 8:21am On Apr 08, 2020 |
yanabasee: No, it is not. If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her..... The OP never said you shouldn't give your girl money. She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy... No, she is not your woman. She is just your girlfriend. Even if she upgrades to fiancee, she is still not yours yet. It's always mutual..... It should be. Relationship is give and take. Women should not see their own "give" as sex alone, since they enjoy it too. They should be able to bail their boyfriends sometimes without making a big deal out of it. Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive... I don't see how these paragraph relates with what the OP discussed. When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS... If you like spend on a woman simply because you don't want her to fend for herself, if she wants to dump you, she will dump you. There are men who sponsored their girlfriends through university including giving her pocket money, and changing her wardrobe at will, and yet, they were still dumped. I personally know of one. An uncle who is at least 10 years older than me. He sponsored a girl through university, and even through law school. And she dumped his ass for a psychiatrist. Her silly excuse was that she has always wanted to marry a doctor. Why didn't she wait for a doctor to sponsor her? 5 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by kemi51405: 8:22am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Aystarz: 8:26am On Apr 08, 2020 |
MadeMan01: True. I for one am beginning to buy into this 'girls can only offer sex' theory. Cause if that wasn't the case, why are they mad that some guys want to keep their own money and give only what they can afford? Who needs transactional sex from a gf when one can get that from a prostitute with no strings attached? 3 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by cyrilamx(m): 8:26am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Erediauwa:How will the entitled lady survive without the money from the dude. A lady once admitted that most ladies will die of hunger without the "rescue mission" of (married)men. Don't tell me about her giving her body, cos in sex both the dude and lady enjoy it. But the cash is only enjoyed by the lady. 4 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by MNDY(m): 8:27am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Nigerian girls/women carry themselves like merchandise. They feel h.orny and want d.ick too but want to be spent on for allowing you f.uck them (when they enjoyed it too, even more perhaps). They will say they need to be maintained (pads, make-ups etc), don't you have hands to work with as a lady? Or you are just being lazy? There is no difference between dating a Nigerian girl and patronizing a pros.titute (if you will not even be spending more on your said girlfriend sef) Naija girls mentality ehnn....senseless and unlike their counterparts elsewhere. 4 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by lanreHeda: 8:31am On Apr 08, 2020 |
slimmyfunke:Then u understand......what the OP is saying men should avoid ladies with the same baehaviour as the guy in your post.........people that keep taking and never give |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by HornyTave: 8:33am On Apr 08, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: The root is 10k, it all boils down to efficiency and your costumers. |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by MNDY(m): 8:33am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Your girl will f.uck a dude she likes for free. So, guy, look for the girl who really likes you too and is willing to allow you both knack for free, instead of wasting your money on a girl trying to keep her and let you knack even when she is enjoying the knacking too. 6 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 8:36am On Apr 08, 2020 |
jaxxy: like seriously, show me a gurl that does not need a man's money and i will show you her fathers name on forbe list. As a man in a 21st abi naa 22nd century never believe the lives yu see gurls put up on social media naa scam ... the rare gems don't even comment. 7 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by fof1: 8:36am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Toks2008: OP YOU ARE VERY CORRECT. THIS IS ON TRULY POINT. ANY BODY MAN OR WOMAN WHO FAULTS THIS PIECE OF ADVISE IS STILL IN D WOODS. GOD BLESS US ALL. LOVE IS LOVE AND WHEN U SEE OR EXPERIENCE IT U KNOW IT. |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Toseenlove: 8:47am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Toks2008: See as far as I am concerned. Nigerian Men most especially married men are the real problem of this Shiiithole, I'm not a hypocrite and I love to speak the fact. Most of them are even on this thread viewing and probably laughing or whatsoever. Statistic shows 85% to 90% of Nigerian Men worship Pussies and they can't do without It and their life and activities revolves around It, I'm an exemption though. I see this thing happening around me most of the time. If Just 40% of Nigerian Men can be strong and hold their dick, Worst Is when the urge comes, Soapy to the rescue, Just do It moderately and u will be fine In no time. Watch how the Females Orientation will gradually start changing by force by fire. Females are very cunny, wise, and deceptive humans while men are powerful, wise & stupid, cunny as well. But No, Some of them will even Rape Goat when the Urge show face. I personally know someone who lost a whole piece of land worth N12Million just because of Pvssy, There are other people who I personally know who have met their Waterloo because of this Pvssy of thing. Religious people are not an exemption In this my assertion. Don't let anyone deceive you. 6 Likes |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by back2sender: 8:47am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Erediauwa:Ya mama!!! N ya fada!!!!! are in the same love-vendor and olosho club. |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by slimmyfunke: 8:47am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Well, my advice is that if a man thinks it's a bad idea to give his gf money, let him stay on his lane, no be by force to have gf, an d to the ladies, don't allow men insults you because of the peanut they give you, find something doing, double ur hustle, invest in your life and family, and u will see men that knows and value your worth will get n after you. God bless us all. lanreHeda: |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by fof1: 8:50am On Apr 08, 2020 |
yanabasee: Shut up ur Dirty Mouth and Troubled Heart and Confused Mind. Settle Down and Stop Ranting in d Public Space. What do U have, emptiness. Every Relationships should be a Symbiotic. That's how God has Designed it. Any Relationship that is Lopesided or one sided is AN ERROR except it is a Mutual agreement, Pls. The OP is Very Correct and has exceptions to that Rule, where u are Definitely in d Plan to Marry. Pls. Most Ladies like most Men who are Freelancers will DATE More than one,two... So u can't be Wasting ur Resources either way Continually. COVETOUSNESS ( Lack of Contentment) IS A BAD LIFESTYLE AND A SIN. Be Guided,Pls. 1 Like |
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by 2dice01: 8:52am On Apr 08, 2020 |
KenModi:Yeah am trying to see where her sure stats came from |
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